BabyGeneral: I got pregnant when i was in js3 but after giving birth i continued my education. My child is 12and am 28yrs but nobody has asked my hand in marriage rather want to take me to bed. What will i do?

$ugardaddy:
You certainly will get married again, all you need is self-confidence.
I know of a tea-lady where I work who had two children earlier as a teenager and still had a colleague who later became an internationla staff marry her. But the lady in question was always cheerful and self-confident. She never joked with her looks and was neater than most of the single ladies around at that time. She related freely with everyone and never felt inferior to anyone to the point that when we eventually learnt she had two kids earlier, it was very shocking to most of us.
So, just have the right attitude and be yourslef. Natuarlly, things will fall in place.
Best of luck.

PrettyCindy: My dear please stop being negative. Why won't you get married? The only reason you are not married is because you haven't met your husband. Don't let anyone make you feel its because you have a child that you are not married. You will get married sooner than you think! ............and please its high time you start seeing your daughter as a plus rather than a hindrance.

$ugardaddy:
You certainly will get married again, all you need is self-confidence.
I know of a tea-lady where I work who had two children earlier as a teenager and still had a colleague who later became an internationla staff marry her. But the lady in question was always cheerful and self-confident. She never joked with her looks and was neater than most of the single ladies around at that time. She related freely with everyone and never felt inferior to anyone to the point that when we eventually learnt she had two kids earlier, it was very shocking to most of us.
So, just have the right attitude and be yourslef.

Ivynwa: Yes dearie, you will get married for sure---some men even prefer women that already have a kid or two.



Thanks for enlightening her.

fellis:

Why do you mix different colours in your posts?

Ivynwa:

Spice Baby, Spice. Spice up your life!

chidyhels: Look inwardly_is dia any tin abt u dat scares d men away?_hv u added enuf value 2 ursf so dat pple may actualy value u?_y do dy al wana slp wit u?..dos ds hv anytin 2 do wit u n hw u presnt ursf?_dia ar lots of qstn 2 ask ursf dear_d rst is 4 God

davidylan:

Text speak Bad. Makes you out as lazy.

chidyhels:
provided d msg is snt

davidylan:

you are quite a pretty girl so comments duly reserved.

fellis:

David david. So you sef can do this type of thing?

obowunmi: Don't let anyone marry you out of pity. Bring something to the table...ur education and business. All is not lost. Take heart. : )