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Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by cornerstonee: 8:48pm On Mar 01, 2022 |
Because it's a total lack of respect for you as a person. It's just kinda "like you are not worth my time to even explain". As harsh as it may sound.. Iit's a complete way of devaluing and it's very hurtfull..in my own view ghosting Is actually a way of the dominant taking an easy way out and i'sint a good relationship material anyway.. What do you think! 54 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by danietohbadt(m): 8:49pm On Mar 01, 2022 |
Lol Ghosting dey always sweet the Ghoster But you see the Ghostee Na chest pain go kill am 340 Likes 20 Shares |
Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by doggedfighter(f): 9:05pm On Mar 01, 2022 |
it's a new word for treating people like trash. This is because people are becoming colder and meaner. They're and always have been better ways of parting with people. But because our humanity is gone hence the new lingo 'ghosting'. 94 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by Double0h7(f): 9:09pm On Mar 01, 2022 |
That's why I don't take people seriously anymore. I'm now the responder, I don't approach anyone, if you hit me up then I respond, and if you don't then I stay in my lane. People nowadays have some issues, they just want to disturb your peace because they lack peace. 242 Likes 25 Shares |
Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by Kobojunkie: 9:11pm On Mar 01, 2022 |
cornerstonee:It is called Rejection, and no one enjoys the experience. 47 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by MAGG0T(m): 9:13pm On Mar 01, 2022 |
Ghosting is part of me, especially on WhatsApp,..people no longer text me because they think I'm a snub. To reply messages just tire me, nothing fun in doing that unless you wan bring up deal/business 174 Likes 9 Shares |
Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by cornerstonee: 9:22pm On Mar 01, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: Sure 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by Nobody: 9:24pm On Mar 01, 2022 |
I do that alot.. sadly. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by goshikid: 9:35pm On Mar 01, 2022 |
E get this Ex of mine where the always ghost me for school back then, i go come her house, she go the press phone forget say human being dy inside with am. Na so one day i come vex, i zero up my mind comot from her crib, e come reach 2weeks plus, we no talk, She go send me message i no go reply, even for school, when i see am, e dy be as if na shiit she be for my mind. The one where come break camel's back na when i wakka with one babe where fine pass am 100% when she been dy buy suya with her friend Omo this babe come sight me from far, as i reach she come greet me thinking say i go notice am, na so i throway face as if no be person dy talk o As i go drop the babe come back, this girl come dy cry the ask me why i dy do am like that say i dy break her heart o, say 3 weeks i no even talk to am ... Omo na so i reason am say so to ghost person dy sweet ladies but them no want make dem d ghost them.. Since then she come loyal pass servant guard, na she come dy ask me watin i want make she do o Anybody where ghost you, infact ghost am add pepper ontop make them sabi say you no be mumu. 297 Likes 18 Shares |
Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by lolu2019: 9:53pm On Mar 01, 2022 |
I blocked one today.if I tell the stupid girl to send her account number she will respond quickly.I knack am blocking.I can't be addicted to gold diggers. 96 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by worldclass68(m): 10:05pm On Mar 01, 2022 |
Ghosting sweet hen... She talk tire for her status, I no react, She explained everything that happened to the relationship, who's fault, whatever,... I no react She even mentioned my name , pim I no talk Or react through my status. 133 Likes 15 Shares |
Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by marsman: 10:06pm On Mar 01, 2022 |
cornerstonee:If dem no give you value give your self value. Its a choice to be valueless actually. 67 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by MissBKsouI(f): 10:15pm On Mar 01, 2022 |
MAGG0T:you this jobless troll always commenting rubbish 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by Vinnie2000(m): 10:21pm On Mar 01, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:Ghosting is quite different from rejection. When a girl turns down a guy who woos her and keeps away, dats rejection. When a guy gets rich and when d girl trys to come back. If d guy avoids or blocks her, dats ghosting! 43 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by Kobojunkie: 10:30pm On Mar 01, 2022 |
Vinnie2000:Oh I see...what the OP instead described seems a lot more like rejection than ignoring someone who is up to no good. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by MAGG0T(m): 10:33pm On Mar 01, 2022 |
MissBKsouI: you can have my hairy balls to lick, punk!! 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by 9182736455O1999(m): 12:05am On Mar 02, 2022 |
danietohbadt:LOL. if na person like me you wan dey ghost, you dey waste your time because e no commot shi shi from my body 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by Polynek(m): 2:24am On Mar 02, 2022 |
Block me instead of ghosting me 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by cornerstonee: 4:08am On Mar 02, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: Was actually talking about ghosting not rejection 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by MoneyGoDrop: 5:02am On Mar 02, 2022 |
Yes i agree with you that ghosting is bad but some people will only get the message when you ghost them. I once dated a girl who began a torn in my flesh that i had no option than to ghost her completely though I'm more matured now but I'll still probably ghost her again if we ever meet again. 44 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by bigcee(m): 6:27am On Mar 02, 2022 |
Double0h7:Bros, you just spoke my mind. Exactly how I do my shit nowadays. My peace of mind no be here oh. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by Totiemide: 6:40am On Mar 02, 2022 |
Ghosting, hmmmm it's something I do. If I ghost you, it means I'm at my limit with you. It's human that teaches you what you don't know consciously or unconsciously, but as soon as you learn OH! You go turn expert for the field. 27 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by motionarena: 7:53am On Mar 02, 2022 |
Hmmm So this girl just Ghost me sha 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by cornerstonee: 8:20am On Mar 02, 2022 |
MoneyGoDrop: ghosting for life |
Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by Sammy101111(m): 11:34am On Mar 02, 2022 |
Ghosting Is when you give someone attention and they dont give you as requested you ghost them and let them be . Normally if i call you 3 times a day and you are doing any how with me be lucky to see my call once or even flashing 28 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by Karleb(m): 12:14pm On Mar 02, 2022 |
goshikid: You make sense! I don't even understand how some people do that shitt! If e get anything wey dey bother your mind, as a mature person, you gats open your mouth talk am. But if you dey form ghost untop issue wey no be issue then na game of two o and first to do no dey pain. 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by Davidganna10: 1:30pm On Mar 02, 2022 |
The thing dey sweet eh if you be the ghoster. I do it a lot but it is not my fault I lose interest in ladies easily. It is a disease I'm trying to cure, I just can help it, it is like drugs. 20 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by MrLondonder: 1:37pm On Mar 02, 2022 |
cornerstonee: so u a Ghost now?..corect?... bros are u ok sir?(no ofeinse) |
Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by valdes00(m): 1:45pm On Mar 02, 2022 |
Babe dey form busy anytime i chat her, she go come online, she no go msg me.. When i ask her why, she go drop xcuse... I no stress again, Naso i ghost her since last week, na xtady i notice say she don block me Funny girl 41 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by cornerstonee: 2:45pm On Mar 02, 2022 |
MrLondonder: It's you that's not okay 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by Tallesty1(m): 2:51pm On Mar 02, 2022 |
Karleb:Is this ghosting thing same as locking out? Like, when your partner is angry with you s/he will start acting like you ain't there and be giving you one word answer? Someone use that thing on me eeh! Very lovely somebody fah but once she's angry, she will lock me out. I told her how I hated that, nah then she come weaponize am. Every small thing she go lock out for days Me that adapts easily. It happened one time and I asked her what the problem was and the usual response came "NOTHING" Haba, person wey I don explain give say if I offend her make she kuku tell me and I go apologize but nah, she won't. Omoh nah so me sef lock her out. First day, second day, 3rd and she got tired but I was just starting. I locked her out for one month and three weeks. Our conversation that period was useless. Hi, good morning, how are you? How was your night, alright just called to know how you're doing. Same for afternoon and night. When things got back to normal, she started sniffing around to know if I was seeing someone else. Kept telling me that I am wicked and heartless. That was the last time she locked me out until the relationship got to where it was destined to stop. 61 Likes 4 Shares |
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