Light78:
I have a sister schooling in the East.

I send her 300k every month.

If she squanders it before the 7th of the new months, that's her business.


I won't take her calls till the ending of the month.

lies

captainzee4life:
I'm so confused now as I pen down this.

Each time I call my brother to please send me money for upkeep in school, he won't give me. I asked him why but he will tell me he doesn't have it.

But whenever they tell him I'm sick in school by the sick bay head, he will rush and send money into the account for drugs.

During the long strike, I worked at a bread factory to raise money for my upkeep in school in school.

Now, my department has a compulsory excursion and it way expensive. I called him and told him and he said, "He doesn't have the money."

I used the money I saved to pay for the compulsory excursion. I will be down with nothing for upkeep.

I don't want to lie or keep lying about my health to get money from him.

Please senior and mature sirs/ma in the house what should I do? I have run out of options.

If he made a promise to you that he will sponsor your education and all these sate happening, then that's unfair

But if he is assisting to train you while your parents are the one that is supposed to train you, then don't blame him because you don't know the situation he is financially

Whatever, keep managing and don't expect much from him

You may not be part of his budget

Then find another lie that looks genuine and blow before you look like the chicken below in school...

Back in 2009, I drove a taxi on hire purchase from my year one, kept a desk editing job with NTA at the state level as a contract staff while training myself in school and still sending money to family members when necessary.

I am the last of four sons.

Fvck outta here with your repulsive entitlement mentality! It's no wonder Buhari labelled us lazy, cause some of you just wear laziness and idleness as a daily garment.

Someone said today is Nlanders family issue

Davidave:
NOBODY OWES YOU ANYTHING,LIFE IS WHAT YOU MAKE OFF IT

Fact 101

Repent! Say the truth it will set u free!!

captainzee4life:
I'm so confused now as I pen down this.

Each time I call my brother to please send me money for upkeep in school, he won't give me. I asked him why but he will tell me he doesn't have it.

But whenever they tell him I'm sick in school by the sick bay head, he will rush and send money into the account for drugs.

During the long strike, I worked at a bread factory to raise money for my upkeep in school in school.

Now, my department has a compulsory excursion and it way expensive. I called him and told him and he said, "He doesn't have the money."

I used the money I saved to pay for the compulsory excursion. I will be down with nothing for upkeep.

I don't want to lie or keep lying about my health to get money from him.

Please senior and mature sirs/ma in the house what should I do? I have run out of options.

Light78:
I have a sister schooling in the East.

I send her 300k every month.

If she squanders it before the 7th of the new months, that's her business.


I won't take her calls till the ending of the month.

oga your lie is legendary

Light78:
I have a sister schooling in the East.

I send her 300k every month.

If she squanders it before the 7th of the new months, that's her business.


I won't take her calls till the ending of the month.

300K every month.

Are you working with NNPC, FIRS or CBN?
Are you a family man with a home to run and kids to fend for?
Do you have a successful business with a minimum of 15 staff?

Na like this Lai Muhammed start! Be careful!

Light78:
I have a sister schooling in the East.

I send her 300k every month.

If she squanders it before the 7th of the new months, that's her business.


I won't take her calls till the ending of the month.

300k per month for naija? Your father na politician?

Naxo my broda be oo... But my own be say i dey gader the money until the money reach certain amount before i will go meet him for abroad. Becox he kno say i dey work for nigeria here on my own. If i reach that side i go just call ham say bros i dey verona..

u don't know that some people no wan hear truth Omo dey give d guy Wetin dey move am. He probably feels it's not his responsibility to take care of u. U sef no full in as much as u should hustle tell am Wetin dey move am so dat he go drop. What about your parents?

Just like me, nobody sent me money for the excursion, not like they didn't have, they just didn't give me for no reason. I ended up having 2 carryovers in those courses.

Davidave:
NOBODY OWES YOU ANYTHING,LIFE IS WHAT YOU MAKE OFF IT

See moronic reasoning .. Its no wonder y’all can’t hold your leaders accountable.

Light78:
I have a sister schooling in the East.

I send her 300k every month.

If she squanders it before the 7th of the new months, that's her business.


I won't take her calls till the ending of the month.

Odi egwu

That's a good brother if you ask me.

Davidave:
NOBODY OWES YOU ANYTHING, LIFE IS WHAT YOU MAKE OFF IT

While not disputing that fact, we still need each other support.

Nobody owes you anything. Not even your blood.

Hear me now and hear me good, in a situation to tell lie and you start telling the truth what ever you see you take it.... lie can as well save life and save situation. It will be a lie if truth is discovered if not its still a facts. Know this and have peace. Save situation with ever you can come up with ... its nothing yes he is your immediate elder brother, no reasonam

Davidave:
NOBODY OWES YOU ANYTHING,LIFE IS WHAT YOU MAKE OFF IT

I hate it when folks like you drop this line,

"Nobody owes you nothing" etc.

True, it's not respectable to depend on anybody or your siblings all your life but, we all need a little help and a little guidance on the street of Life.

Moreso, coming off the African society with its economic toll on the lives of our younger ones:

This OP could be a young female student.
And, if she's from some poor home...and too young to hustle off any legit enterprise on the streets; she could fall prey to the advances of older sex perverts, or lest the worst happens, she succumbs to the charms of the fast lives of her peers and becomes a runs girl.

If you have a younger female sibling, try and help her whenever she's truly in need.

I feel for young Nigerian girls, honestly.

captainzee4life:
I'm so confused now as I pen down this.

Each time I call my brother to please send me money for upkeep in school, he won't give me. I asked him why but he will tell me he doesn't have it.

But whenever they tell him I'm sick in school by the sick bay head, he will rush and send money into the account for drugs.

During the long strike, I worked at a bread factory to raise money for my upkeep in school in school.

Now, my department has a compulsory excursion and it way expensive. I called him and told him and he said, "He doesn't have the money."

I used the money I saved to pay for the compulsory excursion. I will be down with nothing for upkeep.

I don't want to lie or keep lying about my health to get money from him.

Please senior and mature sirs/ma in the house what should I do? I have run out of options.

There's Teespring/MerchbyAmazon/redbubble, there's YouTube content to be made, there's stock photos and videos to sell, there are virtual assistant jobs to take on, you can start retailing to friends and colleagues...

If you like.

oluwaseyi0:
Lie to him if that's what he like to hear

But remember the golden rule: never get caught

This is just wicked.

Glue:
Even some parents are like that. They don't believe you need money

What a moniker

When you don't have enough, try to prioritize your needs and strike some off.
Maybe your brother feels you are always asking for everything, even those you can do without.

Try to speak with him, things might not be easy for him too.

This excursion at hand, is it compulsory? Will you be graded for attendance? Why not ask someone that'll be going to snap and possibly take videos for you if you won't be graded.

captainzee4life:
I'm so confused now as I pen down this.

Each time I call my brother to please send me money for upkeep in school, he won't give me. I asked him why but he will tell me he doesn't have it.

But whenever they tell him I'm sick in school by the sick bay head, he will rush and send money into the account for drugs.

During the long strike, I worked at a bread factory to raise money for my upkeep in school in school.

Now, my department has a compulsory excursion and it way expensive. I called him and told him and he said, "He doesn't have the money."

I used the money I saved to pay for the compulsory excursion. I will be down with nothing for upkeep.

I don't want to lie or keep lying about my health to get money from him.

Please senior and mature sirs/ma in the house what should I do? I have run out of options.

Do you know the amount of businesses owned by students studying in school that thrive? So you’ve been saving money you used for what initial purpose? You couldn’t think of what to do with the money to bring in income? Some businesses you don’t even need capital. You could help people with assignments or final year students with parts of their projects for a fee but no. You want to come here and report to Nairalanders for us to do what?

Light78:
I have a sister schooling in the East.

I send her 300k every month.

If she squanders it before the 7th of the new months, that's her business.


I won't take her calls till the ending of the month.

Even if she is sick?

captainzee4life:
I'm so confused now as I pen down this.

Each time I call my brother to please send me money for upkeep in school, he won't give me. I asked him why but he will tell me he doesn't have it.

But whenever they tell him I'm sick in school by the sick bay head, he will rush and send money into the account for drugs.

During the long strike, I worked at a bread factory to raise money for my upkeep in school in school.

Now, my department has a compulsory excursion and it way expensive. I called him and told him and he said, "He doesn't have the money."

I used the money I saved to pay for the compulsory excursion. I will be down with nothing for upkeep.

I don't want to lie or keep lying about my health to get money from him.

Please senior and mature sirs/ma in the house what should I do? I have run out of options.

At least he is trying his best not to make you die.

More lies to your tongue ...

Hahahaha
Your bro believes in the adage that says "health is wealth" ������

Stop lying at ur own risk.

My elder sis is the bread winner of my family, it's just my mum, sis and i, I know my sis has up to 30m but she can never dash me 50k, she hasn't done it before except I run her street (which I regretted my actions) but if I lie to her she'll give me but she'll still make enquiry to know if I'm really saying the truth