Skyview01:
I always have a back up plan and expect the worst and plan accordingly.

At this stage in my life, its hard to surprise me.

You cannot plan for all scenarios, they one that will hit you is the one you never expected.
Just take like as it comes, knowing there is a way out of everything

Why all the noise. Nigerian women have been enduring cheating, side chicks, second wife, concubine for centuries. You talk, you will be shown the door and replaced immediately. Family members will even support the man.

flokii:
King Charles should please do something about the annoying female centric laws in the UK to save men from extinction.. these wicked laws are capable of making grown men think of suicide which we do not want in the UK.

Men rights should be protected too.. men are humans too not some pets to be treated shabbily in order to please cheating women.

The Anti-Men laws is too extreme. Imagine even Cats and dogs are treated with preference than us

He hasn't told us what he did to his wife, matcheww. Would a woman leave a good husband just like that? Besides, Nigerian men have been jilting their wives for a side chick, so....we move.

NaBanga:
Nothing bad is happening here. The woman does not want the relationship and she followed the legal protocol. The man needs to follow legal protocol and file to stay. Most likely he will be able to stay, because he is not at fault for what took place.

In America he'll file for VAWA and claim she traumatised and emotionally abused him with her cheating.

Their brain are wired like a train. Just moving forward no need to look and rethink their action..

Yugoslavia247:
Women are merciless and ruthless if they want to act.

That is why when their heart is broken.

I care less.

They don't even care.

The sweet marriage go clear for her eyes after some years.

layzie:
The painful part of this will be that this man may have borne all the financial obligations to make this trip happen...flights, visa/application fees, sch fees, etc and may probably have left a good job/business to join her.
Japa is very capital intensive, to lose it all this way....I can't even begin to imagine it

ALOT Even Sell all their Assets (even Rental Apartments that had owned)

spiritedtete:
This is laughable... the man obviously gave the woman the mantle eheheheh. Dear Men, show care, show love , but never go soft for a woman.

NB: I am not saying you should be abusive. But please be the giant you are meant to be even if she is richer.. Do not go soft. Please!

Make sure you are always two steps ahead.

I don't think this is even a matter of going hard or strong,you have to know when to be firm and when to back off with women,I just finished reading a historical account of genhgis Khan the warlord killer that conquered and ruled almost 50% of the known world at that time ,ruling over millions but he was killed by his Chinese mistress,if a woman that knows your secrets,weak points and backups wants to destroy you, it is finished,

RikudoSennin:


Here I am thinking East African women are at least different.

So Kenyan women are the worst?

This is bcoz most Kenyan men are useless and don't treat their women nicely.... Kenyan men are not particularly generous with their resources.

omooba969:


This is bcoz most Kenyan men are useless and don't treat their women nicely.... Kenyan men are not particularly generous with their resources.

So Kenyan women are bad cos of their men? Or am I missing something?

Sorry, I am currently talking to a Kenyan girl and need some more insights.

RikudoSennin:


So Kenyan women are bad cos of their men? Or am I missing something?

Sorry, I am currently talking to a Kenyan girl and need some more insights.

Enquire from her about Kenyan men so you can get first hand testimony.

Yorkedwight:
I know of one goat through his wife. He’s the one sponsoring the lady to school in the United Kingdom while being the dependent. They both traveling upper week to the UK. The other day I was on call with the wife who happens to be my friend, she was crying bitterly saying the guy had cheating recklessly on her and vow to divorce him once they get to the UK. In the real sense, the man ought to have being the main applicant not the dependent and that’s one mistake I wouldn’t advise my enemy to make.

Men need to be 10 steps ahead of their wives.

Mahone05:


7 weeks is enough time for him to get a UK girl convinced to marry him, and activate his citizenship

Should we tell him?

Goodlady:

Wicked Mr Abdulfayeed, no few thousand ll be sent home. You guys at home are also leaches. When there's separation in relationships, everyone should go separate in peace and the man should settle alimony to avoid dragging.
Know this and know peace.

Donpenny:
That's hw my ex then wanted to use me as dependent to this country, here is someone that's so full of pride including her family. I jejely told her i like my job here in 9ja. I dnt want to hear i made you this or that. Na so one desperate lazy guy go jump enter relationship with her so he can become dependent. Baba is bck now to 9ja fustrated

Wow! U dodge Bullet

ahiboilandgas:
apply for admission and come in again to pepper her ! She doesn't hold the exclusive right to UK visa .

I'm sure that Man is Already Penniless. Travelling is a Capital Project: People Sell Everything that they Had blindly including Asset.

abidem4real:

UK's laws were obviously made by "the fish brains". Women often go scot-free even when they do shit while men on the other hand get senselessly punished for little or nothing.

men who are the primary applicants too can cancel dependent visa of their wife. Goes both ways

kaymart:

He won't be listened to.
He is just a dependant for the wife so he has no case.
His dependency status has been withdrawn, he will be deported.
He has succeeded in using his resources to get the wife to a better place. He was just a place holder....
A tool used to get from point A to point B and how he's no longer useful. He has served his purpose and to be discarded like thrash

Do they have kids together? If yes, let him explore that route. He can’t stay away from his kids due to divorce. He will have same visa dependent visa status as his kids

osothermal:
The Anti-Men laws is too extreme. Imagine even Cats and dogs are treated with preference than us

Imagine being jealous of a cat and dog.

Most men no dey love with common sense, the dull thing should come back and start afresh.

No matter what if you are going to UK always make sure ur wife is the dependent.

A woman doesn't love they are only loyal if they are benefiting from you.

Rule 1 - Never put your woman ahead of you, she will lose attraction for you n dump ur mumu ass

You remind me of those students who answer questions that the examiner never asked.

But what's so silly of them is their smugness after the exam as they gleefully recount how many extra sheets they used.

When the results come out they blame village people

Brandiebird:
Let’s take a minute to remember the 1000s of white women who were duped by Nigerian men who left them the minute they got their right to remain documents.

Very sad story, however he can still remain in the U.K. on another visa route as he can clearly claim domestic violence case against his wife as she was cheating which may have caused him emotional distress. He only need a good attorney. We may help you my brother if you can contact us. You have a good case against her and Home Office

Please i have a question, my husband wants to apply for me as a bristish citizen, what documents do i need to make ready for the embassy?

BigDawsNet:
He should apologise

Maria96:


https://www.instagram.com/p/CwqlI-7ohca/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==
Wahala

Tell your friend that he needs to act fast and secure sponsorship.

In this era of more females, I wonder how grown men lust after other men's wives. She will still destroy the new guy. Such women do not understand loyalty or love.

Very earthless woman



Mynd44 come and see chomtin

The problem the man has in the first place isn’t taking charge over his family before leaving Nigeria. Women think in the same way both old and young ones. That’s how Fod create them, God created man to be a dominion over woman but the reverse is the case cos! We have a clueless weak men that are very weak in their emotions.

What about Finland 🇫🇮? Hope they are not anti family o.

Ps: pls I sent you a mail since, but I haven’t received your reply. Let me kuku ask the thing here. It’s about the newsletter LAB UAS sent to you. I was hoping you could forward it to me. Thanks.

pansophist:
I blame the man.

It's easy to blame women or others, but if he did the right thing, this thing won't happen to him.

I live in the West myself, and almost all the marriages I see between Nigerians is the women on top and the man under. The system is designed to emasculate men.

Why will one want to be a husband and a father in such climate? A place where you can't father your kids well, and the state has influence and control over your children and marriage than you?

Feel free to move abroad with your wife, I'm not discouraging that, but make sure your immigration status is not at the mercy of someone. Just as most Nigerians won't move to Burundi, it should be the same with the western world.

Not all western countries should appeal to you if you're a married man. Look for those without anti family laws, where they won't teach your kids how to masturbaate in class, and that your son may be a girl.

Lots of Western countries do not support the misogynistic laws, try live in those ones. But you see the US, Canada, Netherlands, Germany, UK, Ireland, Belgium, just avoid those ones.

The man now foolishly go and put himself in a dependent position. I don't care if you promise you won't shoot me, you should not have a gun in the first place. I don't care if you won't cancel my visa status, I won't depend on you.

If I even marry a billionaire women, it's under my roof she will come and live. Her wealth means nothing to me. She will have to follow my directive.

Men should start being men. Real masculine men won't put themselves in a position where a woman can flip the rug under their feet.

ItisWell22:


God bless you for this! 🙏🤲

Not all women want to depend on men as they make it look or sound like.
But if myself as a woman is struggling to be up there, my husband should be my leader!
He should be twice as ambitious as myself.

Not a man coming to tell a woman he wants to marry, he loves the money doctors abroad earn, and would love to enjoy such.

The lady in question is a nurse, who’s sponsoring herself for medicine and surgery oh.
She never enter house, you don dey tell her sey na she go dey foot recurring expenses, while you only foot capital expenses! 😩

Wetin differentiate her from single mothers wey get one sugar daddy wey dey foot capital expenses, while their businesses foot the recurring ones? 😢

Ashewo.

Any man that marries your type, na Satan him dey marry.

Spit.

maak400:
What about Finland 🇫🇮? Hope they are not anti family o.

Ps: pls I sent you a mail since, but I haven’t received your reply. Let me kuku ask the thing here. It’s about the newsletter LAB UAS sent to you. I was hoping you could forward it to me. Thanks.

I'll check my email and respond

Emaprince:
Many men will always fall into the trap because they believe they are in love.

Same way many men are still getting married to girls in UNI or even marrying and sending a woman to UNI when we clearly know how these married students get plundered by their fellow male students. It's better to Marry a woman that is already done schooling and serving.

In this case, it's possible the man sponsored the woman's move to abroad but look at how he got his pay back. I always wonder how some men will be here and send their wives abroad to school...that's not your daughter or sister. Your wife!!!

Bro I wonder too o.

pansophist:


I don stop to pity people wey dey suffer tay tay. Before I go pity or even assist, I go first make sure say you're not the architect of your own suffering.

I no de like to interfere when people dey reap the fruit of what they sow. Either good or bad.

When Cain said to God that "my punishment is too much to bear", God reminded him that he is the cause of his suffering. He killed his brother.

Now a manchii wey him wife dey change am for am for naija, wan carry her go UK. And you say make I pity am? Lol

Lool..