She's just threatening you she did not mean it, anytime she start parking just ignore her she will come to her sense but should must not provoke her too

Valoromega:
I've been married for 2 years now with a new born baby. the issue now is that anytime we have issues my wife always threatens to leave.
she will arrange and bag and say she's leaving. this has happened more tha 4 times, basically anytime we have issues as a couple.

She will say she's still young and she can't take any nonsense in marriage, Mind u i have never hit her before so this isnt a case of domestic violence, just normal couples issue.

I'm tired of this and i'm thinking about my options right now, I want to tell her to leave but she should drop my child for me. she can't use our marriage as a threat everytime we have issues

Looks like she is doing a favor for you. Next time. Help am pack her load arrange everything, ask am if anything dey miss. Give am t-fare or call Uber to take am go her mama house. Inform her mumc, no talk to much with am. Make pikin self go hin mama house.


Place your energy to yourself, she go carry load com meet u when she ready.

thesicilian:

Next time once she packs her bag over trivial issues call an Uber for her and help her move her stuff into the car. Even let her go with the baby. Then call her parents and inform them she's on her way. As long as you keep begging her not to leave, as long as she knows that she can always use the threat of leaving to gain advantage over you, you'll never hear the last of it.

Attack is the best form of defense my brother

Valoromega:
I've been married for 2 years now with a new born baby. the issue now is that anytime we have issues my wife always threatens to leave.
she will arrange and bag and say she's leaving. this has happened more tha 4 times, basically anytime we have issues as a couple.

She will say she's still young and she can't take any nonsense in marriage, Mind u i have never hit her before so this isnt a case of domestic violence, just normal couples issue.

I'm tired of this and i'm thinking about my options right now, I want to tell her to leave but she should drop my child for me. she can't use our marriage as a threat everytime we have issues

There are two things involved. If you married her a virgin, you are safe. If you didn't marry her a virgin, there are two things involved. She either loves you more than her ex(s) or she doesn't. If she really loves you more than her ex(s), you are safe. If she loves her ex(s) more than you, there are two things involved. It's either someone else (could be her ex) is wooing her or no one is wooing her. If no one is wooing her, you are safe. If someone else is wooing her, there are two things involved. It's either she likes the person or she doesn't like the person. If she doesn't like the person, you are safe. If she likes the person. There are two things involved, she would either cheat on you or not cheat on you. If she doesn't cheat on you, you are safe. If she cheats on you. There are two things involved, it's either you find out or you don't find out. Either way, you are screwed.

immaculatengang:
Anytime she repeats that nonsense please don't try to stop her and don't bother calling her parents.
If they are worried why their daughter is with them let them do the calling. Please act like man and take charge. Stop believing like a kid.

No,he should call her parent Incase she did not go to them.
If they r bad they will pretend like they did not know her whereabout and ask him to find their daughter.

Yelight:


Because he did not say so and he's the best person to answer if he has or hasn't.

It's a common sense thing to do because it affects him. It is reasonable to assume he has done that. But these days, girls are too emotional, most times it's irrational emotions, sometimes they are not even ready to marry, they just marry for the sake of it.

Stop begging whenever she threatens she will stop, Kachifo.



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bemeruca:


People get tired and numb to a particular problem from their spouse if it keeps occurring.

if a problem is reoccurring in marriage u find a solution by 1st knowing why it reoccurs then help each other deal with the issue especially if they are willing but if u choose to go numb that means u have choosen to accept issue and find away to live with it and shouldn't complain anymore.

however if ur partner is uncooperative then escalate.

heysquare:
I had the same issue sometimes ago. The union was not even up to a year when my wife started the the threat at any slightest arguments. Eventually, I served her right when she was not expecting it.

Na man you be.

If it's not meant to work, it's not going to work.
Marriage is what both sides work hard to make sure it works and if she's not ready to do that then the sooner the better. Just that there's going to be a little girl raised by a single mother.

jaxxy:


if a problem is reoccurring in marriage u find a solution by 1st knowing why it reoccurs then help each other deal with the issue especially if they are willing but if u choose to go numb that means u have choosen to accept issue and find away to live with it and shouldn't complain anymore.

however if ur partner is uncooperative then escalate.

It is easy for you to say it. You did not call me honey today I am going to my mothers house. You start calling her honey and she shift the goal post.

I know women are very emotional... But when its too much it's bad for a marriage.

thesicilian:

Next time once she packs her bag over trivial issues call an Uber for her and help her move her stuff into the car. Even let her go with the baby. Then call her parents and inform them she's on her way. As long as you keep begging her not to leave, as long as she knows that she can always use the threat of leaving to gain advantage over you, you'll never hear the last of it.

Solve this and she’ll be put in her place…

Sorry you got married to a person who takes marriage like a joke. Sadly she will leave one day, I advice you let her go now, your family is too young.

Funny advice but very true from a woman's view oo, help her pack her things carefully into Uber or bolt and inform her parents that she is on her way.Hahahah

thesicilian:

Next time once she packs her bag over trivial issues call an Uber for her and help her move her stuff into the car. Even let her go with the baby. Then call her parents and inform them she's on her way. As long as you keep begging her not to leave, as long as she knows that she can always use the threat of leaving to gain advantage over you, you'll never hear the last of it.

Let her go.... WTF

Funny man child

1:Your wife is one leg in , one leg out

2: "She get eye for outside"(find the interpretation in Yoruba)

3:Tired of you .

4:All of the above

5:Either 1,2 or 3

Good luck.

shiwex:
If you like call baba God to come and give the training, Woman will still find problem somewhere with you. Na their nature.

I can’t argue with someone that doubts his chi

It is very normal for the first 3 Years of Marriage. Mine did exactly same and was worse because she often became violent even when she was pregnant. The only Solution that later Solved the Problem was that I downloaded many Marriage Messages of Apostle Arome Osayi, Michael Orokpo, Derek Prince, Joshua Selman, Pastor EA Adeboye, Bishop Oyedepo, etc. I searched YouTube for them and pasted their copied links into MP3 Coverting sites before I download. As she cooking or we are doing other things, I leave the Messages playing loud. Both of us were so Relieved to hear Apostle Arome Osayi (even his wife) and other Apostle talked of how Satan used Misunderstanding to Fight their Marriages as the first few Years. Now my wife is my Best Friend!

Valoromega:
I've been married for 2 years now with a new born baby. the issue now is that anytime we have issues my wife always threatens to leave.
she will arrange and bag and say she's leaving. this has happened more tha 4 times, basically anytime we have issues as a couple.

She will say she's still young and she can't take any nonsense in marriage, Mind u i have never hit her before so this isnt a case of domestic violence, just normal couples issue.

I'm tired of this and i'm thinking about my options right now, I want to tell her to leave but she should drop my child for me. she can't use our marriage as a threat everytime we have issues

Valoromega:
I've been married for 2 years now with a new born baby. the issue now is that anytime we have issues my wife always threatens to leave.
she will arrange and bag and say she's leaving. this has happened more tha 4 times, basically anytime we have issues as a couple.

She will say she's still young and she can't take any nonsense in marriage, Mind u i have never hit her before so this isnt a case of domestic violence, just normal couples issue.

I'm tired of this and i'm thinking about my options right now, I want to tell her to leave but she should drop my child for me. she can't use our marriage as a threat everytime we have issues

she will leave you eventually.

She is still weighing her options, the moment she thinks it's right she will pack and leave, not even your begging will keep her anymore.

Better start preparing yourself for that fateful day, Your commitments and spendings should be very limited otherwise you will regret everything. Start taking your mind off her.

Sorry to say this, your wife does not believe in your marriage with her, she will never commit to that marriage. Her body is still there with you, but her mind and heart is gone.

Any woman who threatens her husband about leaving him after marriage, will eventually leave, it's just a matter of time.

Prepare yourself!

Let her leave if she wants to leave. Don't patch it, don't pamper her, else, you'd regret it on the long run..

Valoromega:
I've been married for 2 years now with a new born baby. the issue now is that anytime we have issues my wife always threatens to leave.
she will arrange and bag and say she's leaving. this has happened more tha 4 times, basically anytime we have issues as a couple.

She will say she's still young and she can't take any nonsense in marriage, Mind u i have never hit her before so this isnt a case of domestic violence, just normal couples issue.

I'm tired of this and i'm thinking about my options right now, I want to tell her to leave but she should drop my child for me. she can't use our marriage as a threat everytime we have issues

What you beg to have, you struggle to keep.
That's just what is playing out.
Pray to God about it.

Valoromega:
I've been married for 2 years now with a new born baby. the issue now is that anytime we have issues my wife always threatens to leave.
she will arrange and bag and say she's leaving. this has happened more tha 4 times, basically anytime we have issues as a couple.

She will say she's still young and she can't take any nonsense in marriage, Mind u i have never hit her before so this isnt a case of domestic violence, just normal couples issue.

I'm tired of this and i'm thinking about my options right now, I want to tell her to leave but she should drop my child for me. she can't use our marriage as a threat everytime we have issues

Mehn call her bluff...

My prayer for you is your wife and her mother will not kill you one day

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Valoromega:
I've been married for 2 years now with a new born baby. the issue now is that anytime we have issues my wife always threatens to leave.
she will arrange and bag and say she's leaving. this has happened more tha 4 times, basically anytime we have issues as a couple.

She will say she's still young and she can't take any nonsense in marriage, Mind u i have never hit her before so this isnt a case of domestic violence, just normal couples issue.

I'm tired of this and i'm thinking about my options right now, I want to tell her to leave but she should drop my child for me. she can't use our marriage as a threat everytime we have issues

she has a proposition outside. And it is not a threat

Valoromega:
I've been married for 2 years now with a new born baby. the issue now is that anytime we have issues my wife always threatens to leave.
she will arrange and bag and say she's leaving. this has happened more tha 4 times, basically anytime we have issues as a couple.

She will say she's still young and she can't take any nonsense in marriage, Mind u i have never hit her before so this isnt a case of domestic violence, just normal couples issue.

I'm tired of this and i'm thinking about my options right now, I want to tell her to leave but she should drop my child for me. she can't use our marriage as a threat everytime we have issues

she has a proposition outside or you were not the type of person she wanted to marry. And it is not a threat

bemeruca:


It's a common sense thing to do because it affects him. It is reasonable to assume he has done that. But these days, girls are too emotional, most times it's irrational emotions, sometimes they are not even ready to marry, they just marry for the sake of it.

You're quite on point on this bro.

bemeruca:


It is easy for you to say it. You did not call me honey today I am going to my mothers house. You start calling her honey and she shift the goal post.

I know women are very emotional... But when its too much it's bad for a marriage.

The example u gave are elementary level issues u should have known how to sort out from ure dating period. Abi una no dey date?


A couple isn't ready for marriage if they don't know how to resolve basic issues and conflicts.

They must also not not mandatory depending on the dating experience and level of each partner know how to resolve major conflicts in record time.

A simp is a danger to himself and people around him..how can your wife be acting this way and you have let it linger this long?more than 4 times over little issues?you don't need anyone to tell you that your wife doesn't love you and value the marriage and commitment,one day she can just decide to jump out. Now you have to go back to the start,na money you use marry am come snatch am from her bf or what?

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Valoromega:
I've been married for 2 years now with a new born baby. the issue now is that anytime we have issues my wife always threatens to leave.
she will arrange and bag and say she's leaving. this has happened more tha 4 times, basically anytime we have issues as a couple.

She will say she's still young and she can't take any nonsense in marriage, Mind u i have never hit her before so this isnt a case of domestic violence, just normal couples issue.

I'm tired of this and i'm thinking about my options right now, I want to tell her to leave but she should drop my child for me. she can't use our marriage as a threat everytime we have issues

She will surely go one day. Am telling you from my experience I thought it was a joke but it happened. So don't rely on her.

JayEdm:
Op,those pple telling you to allow her leave r not married o. If u like goan take yeye advice. Sit her down and let her know there r better ways to handle your conflicts. If she insists on leaving,follow her go. Dnt mind all these kids yarning dust

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