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Soooooooooo Confusing by Rajjah(f): 10:51am On Mar 15, 2016 |
A friend of mine has been dating this guy she met in school for 2months now. The relationship has been ok and smooth but she found out recently that she is 2yrs older than this guy. This guy is well built n physically ok. its hard to believe not until she showed me an evidence. Its really bothering her but I have tried to talk to her that if she loves him, age is nothing, moreover, this guy is matured, loving, caring, simple n physically good (with packs...lol). Now how more can I convince her. I notice that her show of affection has decline a bit. I want them togeda cos I kno d guy loves her so much. How more do I talk to her? Its just 2yrs. |
Re: Soooooooooo Confusing by Nobody: 10:55am On Mar 15, 2016 |
mtcheeeew! she is not serious 1 Like |
Re: Soooooooooo Confusing by funkyglitz: 10:59am On Mar 15, 2016 |
simply talk to the guy about the age prblm because from your post it seems it's just the girl that hv prblm with it or perhaps the guy doesn't knw yet but I believe the guy will handle it in a mature way than d way d grl is going abt it. |
Re: Soooooooooo Confusing by ifeajikap(m): 11:00am On Mar 15, 2016 |
Av always dated gals older dan me and it was nice. Age no be barrier |
Re: Soooooooooo Confusing by teadrake(m): 11:02am On Mar 15, 2016 |
I use to think love supersede everything (age inclusive),if my assertion is correct,then I think the relationship is not yet well established. 1 Like |
Re: Soooooooooo Confusing by Monalisa185(f): 11:05am On Mar 15, 2016 |
very simple... follow these easy steps.. * go to the market, like ASAP. * look for the oldest coconut in the market, as in that one that's always very difficult to break. * rush back to her place with the coconut. * write 'YOU BE MUMU' on a piece of paper and sellotape it on the coconut * target her bald head from a-5 storey building * then use all your energy to break the coconut on her head... in 2, 3 to 5 seconds, her brain go reset with immediate effect... you welcome in advance 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Soooooooooo Confusing by Rajjah(f): 11:07am On Mar 15, 2016 |
funkyglitz:the guy doesn't but even if he does, he doesn't care abt that. He is evn a yr more than my friend in schl. |
Re: Soooooooooo Confusing by Nobody: 11:14am On Mar 15, 2016 |
Tell your friend to break up with him and watch another take her place Confused lady 1 Like |
Re: Soooooooooo Confusing by Majesticniyi(m): 11:16am On Mar 15, 2016 |
Don't try convincing her to be with anyone. Relationship is a choice. If she thinks she can't cope with dating someone younger than her, she shouldn't be made to. In the real sense, women age faster than men and in a few years time, she would mostly likely look like his mum (not in all cases tho). Anyways, the fact that you want them together doesn't mean they should be together...talk to her once more and if she still insists on opting out then let her be. |
Re: Soooooooooo Confusing by Rajjah(f): 11:24am On Mar 15, 2016 |
Majesticniyi:She doesn't really want out. She is just confused. |
Re: Soooooooooo Confusing by Smartguy001(m): 11:30am On Mar 15, 2016 |
Monalisa185: Lolz u no well 1 Like |
Re: Soooooooooo Confusing by Monalisa185(f): 11:50am On Mar 15, 2016 |
Smartguy001:lol... you should be hailing me sf 1 Like |
Re: Soooooooooo Confusing by Monalisa185(f): 11:50am On Mar 15, 2016 |
Smartguy001:lol... you should be hailing me sf 1 Like |
Re: Soooooooooo Confusing by Smartguy001(m): 11:58am On Mar 15, 2016 |
Monalisa185: Oya double gbosa 4u... 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Soooooooooo Confusing by Smartguy001(m): 11:58am On Mar 15, 2016 |
Monalisa185: Oya double gbosa 4u... [b][/b] |
Re: Soooooooooo Confusing by Majesticniyi(m): 11:59am On Mar 15, 2016 |
[quote author=Rajjah post=43787935]She doesn't really want out. She is just confused. I can relate with that. I was in a similar case once when I had to decide if I should continue a relationship or get out. What I did was I had a reasoning session...listed out all the positives and the negatives. I then give weighs to both sides and listed out my priorities. I think she should do same on her own. Advice her to list out her priorities...what are the great things about the guy? Is she ready to lose all that because of the age? What's the reason for her counting the age thing as important...bad experience? And let's not forget the relationship is just two months old. I hope this won't be the excuse she would use in opting out when the real issues in. Relationship starts popping up! |
Re: Soooooooooo Confusing by torqque7(m): 12:09pm On Mar 15, 2016 |
Rajjah:Stop taking panadol for someones headache..Abi u de eye the guy ni? 1 Like |
Re: Soooooooooo Confusing by Danfuster(m): 12:49pm On Mar 15, 2016 |
I recently just got out a relationship like this... She was 3yrs older than me but we had to call it off cos her needs ain't in line with my plan...it was a hard decision to make but it had to be done, she was under pressure and time is of the essence to her. Like someone said earlier...its all about the priorities. OP... This is not to ridicule you nor your post. Never use the word matured for humans. Humans never stop maturing, but use mature. #IComeInPeace |
Re: Soooooooooo Confusing by Nobody: 12:52pm On Mar 15, 2016 |
So, how this one now take concern U? You no get your own problem to mind abi, Oya come make I give u belle for free |
Re: Soooooooooo Confusing by DanielGb(m): 10:18pm On Mar 16, 2016 |
Monalisa185:You are wicked. This is an ambush. She no go gree |
Re: Soooooooooo Confusing by Nobody: 11:17pm On Mar 16, 2016 |
There is nothing you can she do She doesn't love him enough to go on because of the age gap So if she wanna leave, she is free. ....something tells me you are the lady in question. |
Re: Soooooooooo Confusing by chibuike65: 6:56am On Nov 27, 2016 |
I guess this is for you op |
Re: Soooooooooo Confusing by SirKriz(m): 12:45pm On Nov 27, 2016 |
Loooool . See evil. LMAO Monalisa185: 1 Like |
Re: Soooooooooo Confusing by torres89: 1:13pm On Nov 27, 2016 |
the guy doesn't have money the bae is impatient... small age difference is never an issue in a relationship especially when it doesn't show physically. |
Re: Soooooooooo Confusing by Nobody: 2:38pm On Nov 27, 2016 |
the last 2 girls i been with were older...maybe a year or two...surely they knew bout it but we buzzed on! WICKED! P.S - me moms older than me dad hahaha |
Re: Soooooooooo Confusing by Free101(m): 6:31pm On Nov 27, 2016 |
Lol, this sh!t made me remembered last year to the middle of the year; He, Op, Av, Gt were all feeling me even though they knew they were older than me! |
Re: Soooooooooo Confusing by Monalisa185(f): 12:26pm On Dec 23, 2016 |
SirKriz: |
Re: Soooooooooo Confusing by Bluezy13(m): 1:50pm On Dec 23, 2016 |
Rajjah: Hmmm... And this crap is sooooooooo confusing |
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