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Re: My Married Jobless Elder Brother Is Sucking My Mum Financially. Help! by cooltola(m): 5:37am On Apr 24, 2019 |
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Re: My Married Jobless Elder Brother Is Sucking My Mum Financially. Help! by cooltola(m): 5:46am On Apr 24, 2019 |
Eze2000: My bro time has changed sha. The culture is changing, what if the younger siblings are not happy with the tradition. Well like you said, life is unfair |
Re: My Married Jobless Elder Brother Is Sucking My Mum Financially. Help! by 420active: 5:55am On Apr 24, 2019 |
my eldest brother also milked my mum till she died. That's plus the fact that he is abroad ooo. When the woman died he still didn't have shishi to donate for burial... E come dey write big grammar to show how much he missed the woman. God bless doc my other brother and 4 q jido u are a cunt. |
Re: My Married Jobless Elder Brother Is Sucking My Mum Financially. Help! by engrkaz(m): 6:47am On Apr 24, 2019 |
Use him for MR.... Ogu ego!!! |
Re: My Married Jobless Elder Brother Is Sucking My Mum Financially. Help! by Seniormanfeyyie(m): 6:51am On Apr 24, 2019 |
I wonder why someone will have the guts to get married or even impregnate a lady without a stable source of income |
Re: My Married Jobless Elder Brother Is Sucking My Mum Financially. Help! by Mizwisdom(f): 6:58am On Apr 24, 2019 |
Eze2000: I think you just like stroking your ego, that's what this first son thing is for you, a way to validate your importance in your mind as well as others. Well, it's unfortunate that there seems to be a complex in you that requires this validation. As for first son taking care of parents automatically that's false, sometimes he can die, some times he can be irresponsible as in this case, sometimes he may be more focused on his own immediate family which is his responsibility as well, sometimes he may not be doing as well as others financially especially in homes where all are educated This is why the idea of focusing on just one child is primitive and stupid. You don't need to assume anything because I'm not from your tribe and by God's grace I'll never be neither will my kids, good luck on your search 1 Like |
Re: My Married Jobless Elder Brother Is Sucking My Mum Financially. Help! by Isoduwa(m): 7:29am On Apr 24, 2019 |
Dull boi Why not thief he wife pants � and make money with it � anytime he come for money you Will now be the one giving him |
Re: My Married Jobless Elder Brother Is Sucking My Mum Financially. Help! by boroskyuyo: 7:35am On Apr 24, 2019 |
Hanty, leave them alone |
Re: My Married Jobless Elder Brother Is Sucking My Mum Financially. Help! by Dshocker(m): 7:57am On Apr 24, 2019 |
Khemhyte: Why are you asking cross question...Didn't you read before commenting? |
Re: My Married Jobless Elder Brother Is Sucking My Mum Financially. Help! by Khemhyte(f): 9:23am On Apr 24, 2019 |
Dshocker:And when did "elder brother" means "first born/son"? The question was not directed to you. Learn how to comment! |
Re: My Married Jobless Elder Brother Is Sucking My Mum Financially. Help! by Eze2000(m): 9:36am On Apr 24, 2019 |
Mizwisdom: If you read very well, you'll notice that I added the following to my statement.... (this is life, there will always be exceptions to any case, mind you)... What that means was there might be exceptions to my statement, this being life which has no constant. I guees you did not see that at all. You see, you go to concerts and parties to watch the performers, I go to watch audience! It's what i do mostly here on niairland. I study psychological make up of people just like you watch films with pleasure. Its part of what i do for a living and a hubby. If i tell you that i have not watched a full movie this year aside from WWE and Dog Dynasy you will not believe me. Let me tell you 3 other things you will not believe. 1. 99% of the people that love you so much will most likely turn out to be your worst enemies. 2. A violent husband always shows signs of what he will be during courtship -- The man who give you an ordinary slap as a girlfriend, in 9 out of 10 cases, always upgrade with time. 3. Of all your children, the two that will most likely love you without condition is the first and the last one *(Until the day you catch them at it, you will never know they will kill for you). 4. Of all your children the two that will start taking responsibility automatically, right from childhood, is the first daughter and the first son. This information i have given you above is the backbone on which i stand to write superb novels that appear all too real in life. I'm an author and all my books drive people nuts emotionally. Don't take my word for it. see for yourself. https://www.nairaland.com/2941054/ruthless-betrayals-story-love-betrayals I've been a best seller for 5 years. This is why the idea of focusing on just one child is primitive and stupid. Forget my tribe. You need to tell the op this, that's his mother is doing right there and she is not alone. I advised him to call in elders to talk to her against it rather than confront his elder brother, what is your advice to me again? The only things you got right is that I have a complex in me and the stroking my ago part . You just sound like my sister. But then I use such illustrations often to teach people and it always works when they can relate directly. Always it gives a good feeling and i do it again and again. Any more complaints? 1 Like |
Re: My Married Jobless Elder Brother Is Sucking My Mum Financially. Help! by Eze2000(m): 9:53am On Apr 24, 2019 |
cooltola: Make them carry me go election tribunal ni. But you are correct, things are changing and many are surprising me. Never knew things like that OSU stigma could be worked around but it is actually happening in places today. Not all traditions will go away though. Tradition and culture are what makes us different from the white man who is certainly not adapting our own traditions as much as we are his. On a serious note. My siblings are not pushovers, my father trained us so. They are all leaders in their fields. If they are dissatisfied, they will make that known to me clearly in a polite but firm manner particularly my immediate younger one, a Ph.D. holder. The thing is, a real man does not boast with that which belongs to another man even if it was an inheritance, he creates his own. I live in Lagos but not in my father's house and I allow my stepmom to collect all the rent. 1 Like |
Re: My Married Jobless Elder Brother Is Sucking My Mum Financially. Help! by Olufemiolaolu(m): 10:07am On Apr 24, 2019 |
Aplaudez:The earlier your mum makes him to be responsible the better for her. A man that is sensible enough to impregnate a woman, should reasonable to stand as a man. Your mum is the problem here. |
Re: My Married Jobless Elder Brother Is Sucking My Mum Financially. Help! by MrFly(m): 12:22pm On Apr 24, 2019 |
StarUp:specialized church or prayer mountain... Nigerians and gullibility.. 1 Like |
Re: My Married Jobless Elder Brother Is Sucking My Mum Financially. Help! by Emma1Oj(m): 12:31pm On Apr 24, 2019 |
MiaB:well, You should know Nigerians mentality by now. If they are doing job outside their field or not earning an expected fat salary, they will term themselves jobless. |
Re: My Married Jobless Elder Brother Is Sucking My Mum Financially. Help! by Mizwisdom(f): 1:04pm On Apr 24, 2019 |
Eze2000: You're turning this into another playground for your ego and I think it's wrong. Your theories about first and last loving most just makes me laugh, I don't think many mothers will fall into the numbers that will see any kid of theirs regardless of birth order suffering and will turn a blind eye or favor one above another. I don't have an example of that because my mum & grand mum will give an eye and arm to make any of their offsprings comfortable if they had to so I don't understand where you're coming from. I'm determined not to favor any of my kids above another, it's something I'll take very great care to avoid doing. 1 Like |
Re: My Married Jobless Elder Brother Is Sucking My Mum Financially. Help! by Eze2000(m): 3:16pm On Apr 24, 2019 |
Mizwisdom: Your theories about first and last loving most just makes me laugh When Albert Einstein put forth the theories of Electricity many laughed just like you now. That's what people do when they don't believe or Understand some unusual facts of nature. If you think that God just gifts people children randomly without thought to time and position, think again. You need to have a heart to heart talk with the mother of this pained gentleman, the OP, and leave me to my playground as you so cleverly put it. Don't fight me for what you women are doing all over the place. |
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