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Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by cococandy(f): 9:20pm On Oct 21, 2019 |
Fuckthamods: 3 Likes
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Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by spiritedtete: 9:28pm On Oct 21, 2019 |
1Sharon: Call it whatever you want it... nobody is killing anyone... it's their life and it is their choice... don't force a donkey to be a horse... If my son want to marry 13 women... it is his choice his consequence... If my daughter want to be the 55th wife ... it is also her choice. However i will not fail as a father to make sure they are strong enough to know what is choice and what is independence... you can't force people to live the life you want. No way! |
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by JamesBond008(m): 9:30pm On Oct 21, 2019 |
24kmagic: Exactly....They'd always say that the plain transparent guy is "Borin" !!!! |
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by Draught: 9:39pm On Oct 21, 2019 |
Men have at least 8 times more testosterone levels than women..Need I say more Deal with it or fight it! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by meobizy(f): 9:41pm On Oct 21, 2019 |
Who makes excuses? I know I don’t. |
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by UnknownQueen(f): 10:03pm On Oct 21, 2019 |
1Sharon: Intuition and observation shows that In addition to that, there's no trail whatsoever to even suspect such.... Besides, his self control is top notch as in, he does some things so effortlessly that if tables were turned I fit Bleep up |
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by Mrlola: 10:06pm On Oct 21, 2019 |
unbitchable: imitateMe: I swear to God, you no get joy all��� 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by UnknownQueen(f): 10:07pm On Oct 21, 2019 |
BlackfireX: If them like make them dey stay beside my house, he no fit leave me and his 2 children for dem. If I tell u say I dey lucky, believe me I true true get luck oo with regards to man wey I marry. |
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by armyofone(m): 10:18pm On Oct 21, 2019 |
It is even worst when a lady is willing to be second wife or accept to be the other wife/sidechick/concubine etc! About time ladies stop accepting shit! It's one thing to live in sh@ithole and another thing to accept s@hit!! Parents, have smaller number of children!! ifyalways: 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by 1Sharon(f): 10:37pm On Oct 21, 2019 |
spiritedtete: Force a donkey to be a horse? What do you mean by that? So why can't these men marry 1 woman from the start? You can marry more than 1 wife you know? Who forced them to marry 1 woman? |
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by AmazonTopaz(f): 10:39pm On Oct 21, 2019 |
unbitchable:I have a good self esteem so I cannot be insecure of frightened about rubbish and how irrespinsible dickheads choose to live their lives. I just needed their respinse and I got it Not that I thought it wise to answer you. I opened this topic to spell out the hypocrisy some of you lots like to propagate. Nothing you have stated would change my view of beliefs neither would it change my opinion on this issue. You can continue to be hypocrital I brought it out on the other thread you had nothing tangible to spell out in your response. Feel free to believe rubbish since it makes you sleep well at night. Bye |
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by spiritedtete: 10:49pm On Oct 21, 2019 |
1Sharon: The society forced them to marry 1.. then they grow and realise they are trapped..that they are not really a 1 woman's man. Don't get me wrong... "there for better for worse men" These are the people that know the meaning of Sacrifice.. and they stand by a woman.. by a vow and by a promise.... Also note that when it comes to love... a man can love multiple... but! Can't Sacrifice for multiple. So the word "I love you"... is Just a word.. the real word and the meaning of Love lives inside a man (man or woman). Where no one can see. This issue is very broad... i wish i can touch all individual (psychological) reasons to this. |
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by 1Sharon(f): 10:55pm On Oct 21, 2019 |
spiritedtete: Society forced them to marry one? What are you talking about?? You can legally marry more than one wife in Nigeria, so come up with a better excuse. Abegiii |
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by spiritedtete: 10:59pm On Oct 21, 2019 |
1Sharon: Wrong again... They are forced to conform to church doctrines... society rules and thereby can't come out free to Express what or who they really are. Reason they sneak to cheat. Only the ones who understand that society has no influence on them goes out to marry however they like. |
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by 1Sharon(f): 11:01pm On Oct 21, 2019 |
spiritedtete: Does church doctrine support extra-marital relations? |
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by spiritedtete: 11:02pm On Oct 21, 2019 |
1Sharon: Absolutely no.. one of the things that trapped them in the first place. "Church" |
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by 1Sharon(f): 11:06pm On Oct 21, 2019 |
spiritedtete: But the church doesn't trap them to stay faithful ? |
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by RealTreas(f): 11:08pm On Oct 21, 2019 |
imitateMe: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by spiritedtete: 11:35pm On Oct 21, 2019 |
1Sharon: Let me use myself as an example... I grew up in what you call every right way... Christian background .. family values .. and conformation to society rules... i don't go below the line because of what people will say... However i want to do many things... but because there will be raised eyebrows... i couldn't.. So when i finally became independent.. i understand manythings about life ... i was glad i didnt do somethings, however i realised there is also hypocrisy in everyman...they want to come out but they rather not.. because of what people will say. I understood the meaning and the concept of marriage... going by my experience.. I realised the individual difference will also be above the unison once in a while. The more also i understood the feminine brain how it is wired... looking out everything from thounsand years ago... A woman want to be with a man she is very confidence of, a man who at every giving opportunity leads the show the way, while she also want to control things herself. Because she wired like every human, who seek for success, power and riches. Now this is my point... one thing that is key in marriage is helping each climb that ladder... to get to that place you want to be.. (even though there isnno place anybody want to be.. but just to want more). For me... i can decides to take two wives... it is my house our rules.... my major vision for them to be happy by being part of their success story. happiness doesn't end with just being her husband... But will i marry two wives for real? No! Am i going to be faithful to her.. Yes and (maybe No, the future is a long road) Will I disrespect her No... when i start making her valueless.. and flunting another to her face... then I have forever lost it... it will not happen. For I have grown out of pressure and influences... i am living in my world. I won't break constitutional laws... but i will break human beliefs and rules... if i want. But there are so many out there... Take the gay guys for example... they can't come out even where their law support it... same for people who can't maintain 1 woman... many can't come out due to fear of condemnation. |
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by unbitchable(m): 11:37pm On Oct 21, 2019 |
AmazonTopaz:That's your own problem. Come and hold our D if you can. Like i told you face your kids and allow man enjoy nature. sleep on that. |
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by Brookinfo(m): 12:21am On Oct 22, 2019 |
This is absolutely the best article I have read this year. Thumbs up! |
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by Toks2008(m): 12:39am On Oct 22, 2019 |
AmazonTopaz: I pity you. I dey tell you truth you dey attack me ..is this about me or the reality? No level of beauty can stop a man who wants to cheat from.ding so. My advise for you is to remain single if you know you don't have the nerves to withstand infidelity. A word is enough for the reasonable. I will stop here so believe whatever you like if it will make you sleep well at night. |
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by King44(m): 12:50am On Oct 22, 2019 |
crackhaus:they are always looking for excuses to cheat one of the excuse is this thread plus when men cheat they cheat for fun when women cheat they cheat with affection and in most cases becomes a threat to their husband existence make I run for my dear life before them break bottle for my head 1 Like |
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by Eze2Odds(m): 12:58am On Oct 22, 2019 |
solmusdesigns: You are the real MVP 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by Nobody: 1:03am On Oct 22, 2019 |
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by Nobody: 1:03am On Oct 22, 2019 |
AmazonTopaz: I don't know lil sis... You are the hope and the dream that will change this narrative Thank you for being you 1 Like |
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by Nobody: 1:08am On Oct 22, 2019 |
Toks2008: All your thinking is to the left to the left. How do you liv with yourself? 1 Like |
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by Nobody: 1:13am On Oct 22, 2019 |
Toks2008: Can you just shut up? That you come from a generation of cheats doesn't mean other men share the same bloodline. |
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by Nobody: 1:13am On Oct 22, 2019 |
MrBrownJay1: C is the solution... Why cheat, lie and deceive when there are like minded people out there? What's this need to shatter another person's reality?.. I'm talking about both genders here... There's someone everyone. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by Nobody: 1:17am On Oct 22, 2019 |
Hipsofagoddess: You're taking that ancestor seriously 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by Nobody: 1:20am On Oct 22, 2019 |
crackhaus: Will you rest? |
Re: Why Do We Justify The Actions Of Philandering Men? by Nobody: 1:30am On Oct 22, 2019 |
Guest007: Lol, he is so annoying. |
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