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Re: She Is Rich And Has A Good Job by Mariangeles(f): 10:04am On May 13, 2020 |
affable4: Rather, gone are the days of strong men who are not afraid to take responsibility for their family. 4 Likes |
Re: She Is Rich And Has A Good Job by prettysassygirl(f): 10:17am On May 13, 2020 |
Be a little more careful when you are with him.Don't confront him yet,just try to find out indirectly his true intention towards you b4 taking any decisions. |
Re: She Is Rich And Has A Good Job by cococandy(f): 10:18am On May 13, 2020 |
Mariangeles: Girl it’s not even as new some of us would like to believe. A good number of Women been providing for ages. 7 Likes |
Re: She Is Rich And Has A Good Job by KanwuliaExtra: 10:29am On May 13, 2020 |
Confusedgirlie: OTURUGBEKE-BAJEEEEEE!!!! Seeeee levels!!!! This na real “STRUGGLE LOVE” 001! Nne, abeg na “scrubs” you wan marry? 5 Likes |
Re: She Is Rich And Has A Good Job by sanesta: 10:29am On May 13, 2020 |
Mariangeles:Lol!! it's not a good thing that most of our Women are frightened of responsibility.. |
Re: She Is Rich And Has A Good Job by Karleb(m): 10:32am On May 13, 2020 |
I see nothing wrong here! |
Re: She Is Rich And Has A Good Job by cococandy(f): 10:40am On May 13, 2020 |
sanesta: False information 3 Likes |
Re: She Is Rich And Has A Good Job by sanesta: 10:45am On May 13, 2020 |
prettysassygirl:Sounds sensible unlike others. guys are tired of broke girls and according to the op, the said guy is nice and not cheating. perhaps, "she's rich and has a good job" could be one of his criteria of a good spouse. Now, the big question is: Is he also a rich guy ?? |
Re: She Is Rich And Has A Good Job by Ikjosh04: 11:00am On May 13, 2020 |
Confusedgirlie: From my angle, i feel there are many way to see his response and I've read through your replies here. i believe since you said he is a decent guy and he is not demanding and from what you said both of you contribute at least 60:40 which i feel is normal since you said yoy earn 6× more than him. My question to you now is, do you know this his friend in person and know his character. There are many reasons why a guy will give that type of reply, maybe his friends are mocking him and reducing his personality or maybe before this your bf met you his a play boy and ge has decided to stick(love) with you which is not bad or maybe this friend likes you or maybe your bf his just trying to let his friend know he can no longer ne a play boy or maybe... My dear there are many maybe scenarios(you can look at the reply from many angle. Please read and digest affable4 reply to you. |
Re: She Is Rich And Has A Good Job by Ikjosh04: 11:01am On May 13, 2020 |
Vyolet:apt |
Re: She Is Rich And Has A Good Job by Gloriagee(f): 11:04am On May 13, 2020 |
My take Is that he's a gold digger n is only bidding his time. Once he has you under his control, watch everything change. You saw that chat for a reason 4 Likes |
Re: She Is Rich And Has A Good Job by Nobody: 11:16am On May 13, 2020 |
Mtchewww 1 Like |
Re: She Is Rich And Has A Good Job by Confusedgirlie: 11:41am On May 13, 2020 |
Ikjosh04:Thanks. Honestly, it's hard to tell. He was not a playboy before he met me. I don't know that his friend personally, though he has talked about him a few times. It's been a source of worry to me in some way since I saw that message. And looking back it seems justified, at least from some of things I have remembered him saying. I didn't want to raise the issue when I found out. Now am reconsidering. |
Re: She Is Rich And Has A Good Job by Confusedgirlie: 11:42am On May 13, 2020 |
sanesta:He is average. But he is a decent guy. |
Re: She Is Rich And Has A Good Job by Biglittlelois(f): 11:49am On May 13, 2020 |
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Re: She Is Rich And Has A Good Job by Biglittlelois(f): 11:56am On May 13, 2020 |
Confusedgirlie: You keep defending him, so what exactly did you come here for or want to hear? If you want to continue with him, do that, but be careful, any human can deceitfully portray themselves as a saint just to get what they want, it has happened one too many times, just be careful. 5 Likes |
Re: She Is Rich And Has A Good Job by Karleb(m): 12:02pm On May 13, 2020 |
Biglittlelois: Talk about paranoia. |
Re: She Is Rich And Has A Good Job by Eketem: 12:04pm On May 13, 2020 |
Mariangeles: Confusing lot, when it comes to money you people remember strong men, when it comes to submission and washing plates you remember equality Pick a struggle dear women of 2020 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: She Is Rich And Has A Good Job by Eketem: 12:08pm On May 13, 2020 |
Well it is one of your qualities. Have an honest discussion with him on why he is with you; being wealthy is nothing to be ashamed about just be logical not emotional when having a talk so you don't marry somebody who solely loves you for your financial muscles. What also helps is when marriage is on the tables clearly discuss a budget of family who does what etc. In a family who has more money should do more. |
Re: She Is Rich And Has A Good Job by crackkhaus: 12:09pm On May 13, 2020 |
Eketem:Lmao... |
Re: She Is Rich And Has A Good Job by Eketem: 12:17pm On May 13, 2020 |
crackkhaus: We will shout and jump on the equality train until money matter enters; most men will spend his whole life providing financially for a woman and her family some women will hail her for even stealing from him saving from his sweat to secretly build house and own businesses. Some even have babies for other men and pin on them but men will brave it, work like donkeys Let 10 women pay bills for men and hurt them then the Whole internet space will be filled with wicked men who are gold diggers. We want equality but we don't want the responsibility that comes with it. We want men to walk in our shoes but we don't want to walk in their own 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: She Is Rich And Has A Good Job by crackkhaus: 12:30pm On May 13, 2020 |
Eketem: You're killing me... 3 Likes |
Re: She Is Rich And Has A Good Job by Ikjosh04: 12:35pm On May 13, 2020 |
Confusedgirlie: Ok, I've gone through your profile and honestly it's not easy to see a guy in the same financial stratum like you. Guy's in the same financial stratum with you, will prefer to go for girls with a lower financial class for the reason best know to them. Be that as it may i suggest before or when you find love you should be investment savvy so all your wealth goes to your children and you can also seek happiness by being a philanthropists(by giving what you can afford to orphanage, motherless, baby home and co) my point is don't rely on any man to give you the 100% happiness you seek. While doing all that i listed above any man that decide to stick with you will love and respect you more for the way you see and perceive life. My opinion though. My question to you is, during the early stages of your career did you have any true friendship with guys or you where career focus or you where aiming for top guys and thereby doing shakara? |
Re: She Is Rich And Has A Good Job by Ybaby: 12:36pm On May 13, 2020 |
Confusedgirlie: He is after your money or her money. Which ever way he is after a woman for money He is most likely trying to siphon funds or marry her and have her pay his bills The writing is on the wall, heaven has showed it to you It is now a matter of how much you love yourself, your concept of yourself and your self esteem. No advise from me.... feel free to read my past NL posts. 4 Likes |
Re: She Is Rich And Has A Good Job by Saintinoo(m): 12:52pm On May 13, 2020 |
Confusedgirlie:Aunty are you not rich, Don't you have a good job? Atleast he said the truth and you are sure he doesn't double date.... See we men like a woman who works and earns for her self, but if you think you need to find out if he only love you for your money fine. |
Re: She Is Rich And Has A Good Job by CHoccolaTE: 1:04pm On May 13, 2020 |
Mtsheww Nairaland men are just big fat gigantic hypocrites. If a man started a thread and said he saw his girlfriend saying she is with him because he is rich they will run into the thread like flies gathering shit to insult all women and advice him to leave the gold digger. Now it's a man saying he is with a woman for money they have started remembering all sorts of justifications for his gold digging statement Confusedgirlie, no need for you to be confused The man will use the hell out of you if you marry him. You will be primary breadwinner and primary house cleaner, nanny, housemaid etc, he can assist you once in a while but he will always consider it your duty to do housework while at the same time you are bringing the largest share of upkeep money and being under his leadership/submitting to him. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: She Is Rich And Has A Good Job by Mariangeles(f): 1:13pm On May 13, 2020 |
[s] Eketem:[/s] A weak man spotted! You want total respect and submission of a wife, but not responsibilities that come with it! Talk about weakness and confusion put together! Truth is, most men of nowadays are weak men that are afraid of responsibilities required of a man who wants a family of his own. You have no right to ask your wife to equally share in your responsibilities. That is major weakness. Your wife is meant to be your helper. 5 Likes |
Re: She Is Rich And Has A Good Job by Biglittlelois(f): 1:13pm On May 13, 2020 |
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Re: She Is Rich And Has A Good Job by Mariangeles(f): 1:16pm On May 13, 2020 |
sanesta: Who told you that lie? |
Re: She Is Rich And Has A Good Job by Mariangeles(f): 1:26pm On May 13, 2020 |
Confusedgirlie: Run for your life! That is a gold digger you have as a man! You're the gold mine! A BLOOD SUCKING MAN LEECH! It is only a matter of time before he heaps his responsibilities on you and still expect your total submission. 4 Likes |
Re: She Is Rich And Has A Good Job by Eketem: 1:32pm On May 13, 2020 |
Mariangeles: You need help. First of all I am a woman all of the tantrums you are throwing na waste. I believe in equality and the responsibility that comes with it. I believe in a family who earns more does more and who is home at the time does what needs to be done. I practice what I preach hence more than a decade of marriage I have no cause to come and cry online and make myself a victim of my choices. Learn to pass correct information without emotional curses and tantrums |
Re: She Is Rich And Has A Good Job by Mariangeles(f): 1:39pm On May 13, 2020 |
[s] Eketem:[/s] Forget all this jibbyjabba! I believe in how God intended it to be. A man has to be responsible for his family. That is how to earn the respect of a wife. Now, it is a different matter if the wife is greedy and never satisfied. 3 Likes |
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