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My Baby Dad Is Taking My 2years Old Child Away From Me Pls Help Me by lilsweet(f): 11:21am On Oct 12, 2020 |
Greetings sir/ma My name is Temitope I am 25years old, I do not know what else to do or who else to talk to, please help me.. I took my 2years and3months old daughter to spend some time with her father in on February 20th 2020, she was to spend Just 2 weeks after I leave the house.. Then this lock down happened and I was stuck in Lagos.. ever since then he wouldn’t let me hear her or see her even pictures I would beg for days before I see any.. He has another woman who has another child with him but my daughter is loosing all the memories we had together, and yet her father wants to take Her away from me.. please help me I had this child through CS as I couldn’t birth her normally cus of the beating he had given me while pregnant... She is all I have I don’t want him to go away with her cus he made her birth certificates without my knowledge and is processing her passport .... Please parents i know little or nothing about what to do. I went to the police station but the DPO carried my child back to him after they had a discussion behind closed doors when she had already dismissed the issue.... I had to tell my family and they call a woman by this name OLUWATOYIN J. OMOMEHIN That’s what is on her get business card AJIKE CHEMBERS. This woman stepped in and made him write an undertaking to bring the baby on Monday to the police station i.e KEMTA POLICE STATION Abeokuta.. please I don’t want to be cheated cus he has the money to do so.... help me help me please Thanks for your anticipated responds I attached some pictures pls help me So far he is using his money to oppress me We are now at the lawyers office they don’t want to tell us what is going on... she is making documents.... This guy has done something please what should I do Through the FiDA lawyer the matter is not at the IGs office he was called this morning and he said he is in Benin .... it has now come to everyone’s conclusion that he is running. but pls why? No body is saying anything again we are waiting for the IG... God knows what will happen no from Abeokuta to Benin .. all I just need is advice please no man is an island what should I do now? |
Re: My Baby Dad Is Taking My 2years Old Child Away From Me Pls Help Me by daddytime(m): 11:25am On Oct 12, 2020 |
I can imagine your pains but please, take down the stretch mark picture. It isn't flattering at all. Don't you know any of the man's family members? |
Re: My Baby Dad Is Taking My 2years Old Child Away From Me Pls Help Me by lilsweet(f): 11:30am On Oct 12, 2020 |
It’s not stretch mark sir it’s the bruises of the beating |
Re: My Baby Dad Is Taking My 2years Old Child Away From Me Pls Help Me by daddytime(m): 11:35am On Oct 12, 2020 |
lilsweet: Wow...very sorry. |
Re: My Baby Dad Is Taking My 2years Old Child Away From Me Pls Help Me by chatinent: 11:44am On Oct 12, 2020 |
Nigeria is so corrupt. Just find a good lawyer and keep pushing it. |
Re: My Baby Dad Is Taking My 2years Old Child Away From Me Pls Help Me by thorpido(m): 11:46am On Oct 12, 2020 |
You said the baby will be brought to the police station today Has that been done? |
Re: My Baby Dad Is Taking My 2years Old Child Away From Me Pls Help Me by BigDick70inch(m): 11:50am On Oct 12, 2020 |
lilsweet: Report to NGO.. I go to ministry of woman affairs.. Take down yo pics ko necessary now.. |
Re: My Baby Dad Is Taking My 2years Old Child Away From Me Pls Help Me by lilsweet(f): 11:52am On Oct 12, 2020 |
In till now nothing from him.. the woman looks worried it’s like he isn’t responding. She is taking us to her office instead.... something has happened |
Re: My Baby Dad Is Taking My 2years Old Child Away From Me Pls Help Me by Freestainworld(m): 12:13pm On Oct 12, 2020 |
the way you need the child is the way he needs him/her too, what you should be more worried about is how the child is being taken care of, you already made a mistake of sending the child to him, just bear at the moment and push more and see if the child will be released back to you which I doubt. 1 Like |
Re: My Baby Dad Is Taking My 2years Old Child Away From Me Pls Help Me by Graxie(f): 1:11pm On Oct 12, 2020 |
The question is, can you take care of the child? If yes, go to social welfare in any local government around you or secretariat, they will help you. |
Re: My Baby Dad Is Taking My 2years Old Child Away From Me Pls Help Me by Thablownmindset: 1:13pm On Oct 12, 2020 |
Kestolove: "let him with no sin cast a stone" the deed has been done already why remind her of it, and judging from what you said it's not as if you re a virgin likewise since you know that you have to open leg to do it!!!! if you can't help people don't add to their burden young woman, You have to brace yourself up for the challenge you re about facing!!! get a good Lawyer, if you can't reach out to NGOs and also please try has much as possible to reach out to the Ministry of Women Affairs BTW if you're conversant with Social media very well then you will know their are some individuals that are always ready to help in a situation like yours!!! please do research and reach out to them most of them don't charge a penny given that you re the real mother and there are evidence that he forcefully took the baby from you God will wipe your tears 10 Likes |
Re: My Baby Dad Is Taking My 2years Old Child Away From Me Pls Help Me by Mindlog: 1:14pm On Oct 12, 2020 |
lilsweet: Which state was she born in? Do you have a copy of her birth certificate? |
Re: My Baby Dad Is Taking My 2years Old Child Away From Me Pls Help Me by Mindlog: 1:21pm On Oct 12, 2020 |
Freestainworld: The father of the child has to prove beyond reasonable doubt that the other woman who he is living with and also has a child with is a better caregiver to the OP's child than the child's biological mother. 1 Like |
Re: My Baby Dad Is Taking My 2years Old Child Away From Me Pls Help Me by ayodele17893: 2:07pm On Oct 12, 2020 |
:It’s not span record sir it’s the abrasions of the beating findings to NGO.. I go to ministry of woman relations..Take down yo photos ko prerequisite now.. |
Re: My Baby Dad Is Taking My 2years Old Child Away From Me Pls Help Me by BEANSndPLANTAIN(m): 2:53pm On Oct 12, 2020 |
lilsweet:sorry ooo. this one get as e be both parents fighting to get custody of their child |
Re: My Baby Dad Is Taking My 2years Old Child Away From Me Pls Help Me by Freestainworld(m): 3:03pm On Oct 12, 2020 |
Mindlog:we are saying the same thing, the care of the child is the outermost important thing at the moment, she should make it known that what ever happens to the child, that the father should be held responsible, that way, the father will apply precautions. |
Re: My Baby Dad Is Taking My 2years Old Child Away From Me Pls Help Me by lilsweet(f): 3:10pm On Oct 12, 2020 |
Yes I have a copy of her birth certificate.. now We went to his house to serve him letter from FIDA to come to court but he is not home one security saw him going out this morning but he has locked the gate with 3 padlocks. |
Re: My Baby Dad Is Taking My 2years Old Child Away From Me Pls Help Me by Nnefada: 3:11pm On Oct 12, 2020 |
Kestolove:And for the sake of the innocent girl, help her(the mother)if you can. |
Re: My Baby Dad Is Taking My 2years Old Child Away From Me Pls Help Me by Mindlog: 3:16pm On Oct 12, 2020 |
Freestainworld: Mothers are primary caregivers, it is not about making it known that should anything happen to the child he would be held responsible. The mother of the minor has more custodial right in the present circumstance, let her approach the family court and a legally binding agreement would be reached on how their daughter would spend time between both parents. |
Re: My Baby Dad Is Taking My 2years Old Child Away From Me Pls Help Me by Mindlog: 3:23pm On Oct 12, 2020 |
jasman1: There is no bastard in this life, everyone has a father rather it is a matter of acknowledgement and taking up responsibilities. You choose to ignore where she wrote the baby daddy already has another baby with another baby mama, you are very sure.....how small minded! 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Baby Dad Is Taking My 2years Old Child Away From Me Pls Help Me by mrdharkchild(m): 5:24pm On Oct 12, 2020 |
One sided story. |
Re: My Baby Dad Is Taking My 2years Old Child Away From Me Pls Help Me by Mindlog: 5:42pm On Oct 12, 2020 |
lilsweet: It is good you got FIDA involved and no matter how long, he will get served. At least the court would give him the chance to explain why he is convinced that he and his second baby mama are in better position to have sole custody of your daughter. |
Re: My Baby Dad Is Taking My 2years Old Child Away From Me Pls Help Me by merieam16(f): 9:58pm On Oct 12, 2020 |
I gat notin to say...lasticlala front page she might help der |
Re: My Baby Dad Is Taking My 2years Old Child Away From Me Pls Help Me by Ganjafama(m): 4:37am On Oct 13, 2020 |
Kestolove:Don't talk like this . What happened to her could happen to any woman, so please go easy on the bashing. |
Re: My Baby Dad Is Taking My 2years Old Child Away From Me Pls Help Me by Think9ja(m): 8:02am On Oct 13, 2020 |
There's an old saying by Nigerian girls "it is better to cry in a range rover than inside keke" Now that you are inside the range rover, why can't you cry in peace? I hope and pray you never get to see that little girl again, since you were stupid enough not to give her a good father Rubbish |
Re: My Baby Dad Is Taking My 2years Old Child Away From Me Pls Help Me by Mindlog: 8:05am On Oct 13, 2020 |
Think9ja: Unfortunately for you, that prayer will not be answered as long as she goes legal. |
Re: My Baby Dad Is Taking My 2years Old Child Away From Me Pls Help Me by DenreleDave(m): 8:09am On Oct 13, 2020 |
lilsweet: But u no he is a woman beater, yet u got pregnant for him all bcox of the money he has. Are u telling me dt he has never beaten u when u guys were dating? Yet u carry belle.. That is the problem with most of u and u deserve all this punishment... After all, he deserve the baby too.. So forget it.. When una see money for guy hand, the next thing for una mind na to get belle for am...una no dey think at all.. If u were richer than him, u wud have probably do that to him.. U might have taken the baby and deny him too. So go in peace.. He is the father baby, he can't maltreat her or him 1 Like |
Re: My Baby Dad Is Taking My 2years Old Child Away From Me Pls Help Me by DenreleDave(m): 8:12am On Oct 13, 2020 |
lilsweet: Better leave the baby alone... Go and start a new life afresh... This time, don't look at riches, look for a good man n see ur life changing |
Re: My Baby Dad Is Taking My 2years Old Child Away From Me Pls Help Me by Oizee(f): 8:17am On Oct 13, 2020 |
Think9ja:absolute nonsense comment |
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