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Why Are Single Mothers Not Proud Of Their Child(ren)? by DenreleDave(m): 12:51pm On Oct 17, 2020 |
Have u ever encountered a lady and she never told you that she has a child? How did you find out that she has a child? Is men rejection the reason they lie about their child? If they are not proud of such kid, why not abort them at early stage of pregnancy? My encounter: I met with a very pretty lady at the bus stop. Actually I don't really know how to approach a lady on motion either on street or bus stop. (To the guys dt can toast ladies anywhere anytime, I respect you ooo ). The tfare was high during the time they allowed movement In corona time. So her tfare wasn't complete and she approached me for help. I gave her wat on me but it wasn't enough. So I helped her search for a bus dt will collect less n thankfully we found one. I collected her number n we waved goodbye. Later during the week, she came over to my place, we talked and she left.. The following week she came again and as we were on bed (don't think far oo, just on bed, she was using my phone) and I saw sumtin like a stitched mark line on the lower part of her stomach.. Mind you, whenever I call her, I always hear the sound of a baby boy beside her almost all time. So if I ask her, she will say it's her baby sister... But whenever we are talking, she keep telling me she can't trust men jare. What they did to her sis and so on.. Now her sister has a baby and so on Sha. Personally I don't even have any issue with single mothers Cox I love kids so Much , so if u tell me u av a kid and u r a single mother, I know some guys hate such thing here but for me, I don't have any problem with it at all. . So there was a day I was seeing her off and she stopped by a place to buy children cloth (boy own to be precise). She was even asking if it will fit a 2 or 3 years old boy Sha... Then i knew she had a kid. The line under her Tommy was probably an operation.. She probably gave birth through surgery BUT why is she lying to me. It has happened already, no going back. If you are not proud of your own child, then you should be avoided.. Yes. If there is a single lady that is not proud of her kid, such lady is not marriageable. If she can deny her kid, then she has no problem denying u at any point in time.. The man that will marry you will surely marry you. Be clear to him from the start, if he wants to stay, he will stay... DenreleDave ™ 8 Likes |
Re: Why Are Single Mothers Not Proud Of Their Child(ren)? by yomi007k(m): 12:55pm On Oct 17, 2020 |
Why didn't you just ask her, Detective? 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Are Single Mothers Not Proud Of Their Child(ren)? by Camelot65: 12:56pm On Oct 17, 2020 |
The thing is that when she makes it known that she's a single mom, most guys would get discouraged and not go for her..... So, some pretend to be single. haven't had any encounter though 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Single Mothers Not Proud Of Their Child(ren)? by vincenteger: 1:00pm On Oct 17, 2020 |
Before now the society forbids someone giving birth b4 marriage. I think that norm is still in most persons(females) hence they shy away from the truth or rather the reality. And plz don't just blame them It is not as easy as you might think. Most men won't even accept them 4 Likes |
Re: Why Are Single Mothers Not Proud Of Their Child(ren)? by Nobody: 1:01pm On Oct 17, 2020 |
Is Dat D Reason U Created Dis Topic? Not Every Single Mother Likes Making People Know Abt Dat. Some Single Ladies Do. There Are Guys Who Do Dsame Too. As 4 Me, I'm A Low-Key Type Of Guy. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are Single Mothers Not Proud Of Their Child(ren)? by chinchonglee(m): 1:07pm On Oct 17, 2020 |
Dnt ever marry a single mother! 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Are Single Mothers Not Proud Of Their Child(ren)? by PrinceofAgoAre(m): 1:15pm On Oct 17, 2020 |
Speechless. Only d females can explain y dey do that. like u said man wey go marry her go marry her |
Re: Why Are Single Mothers Not Proud Of Their Child(ren)? by Nobody: 1:16pm On Oct 17, 2020 |
chinchonglee:why? 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Are Single Mothers Not Proud Of Their Child(ren)? by Nobody: 1:20pm On Oct 17, 2020 |
The way the society condemns single mothers leaving the single fathers out of it is heartbreaking,the society kind of make men eat their cakes and have it 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Are Single Mothers Not Proud Of Their Child(ren)? by chinchonglee(m): 1:25pm On Oct 17, 2020 |
Zzor:Z 6 Likes |
Re: Why Are Single Mothers Not Proud Of Their Child(ren)? by Nobody: 1:27pm On Oct 17, 2020 |
Camelot65: She’s a mother, no mother should have to pretend what they are not..,,and later come back to say “ I was afraid to tell u” that’s deception... it’s no big deal to have a child.... many of them don’t want a man that has children....they want single guys too..that’s why they pretend to be single.. most single mothers are just very desperate cos they feel their child is why guys don’t want to marry them ......... but the truth is, it’s not easy to find husband generally....boys are not smiling on the street, ask single girls too....body count of almost 10-15 before settling down... |
Re: Why Are Single Mothers Not Proud Of Their Child(ren)? by PrinceofAgoAre(m): 1:28pm On Oct 17, 2020 |
Zzor:In some certain situations, society makes women eat their cake nd have it .. It goes both ways 3 Likes |
Re: Why Are Single Mothers Not Proud Of Their Child(ren)? by Ikillbrokehoes(m): 1:35pm On Oct 17, 2020 |
Nah |
Re: Why Are Single Mothers Not Proud Of Their Child(ren)? by Camelot65: 1:36pm On Oct 17, 2020 |
1StopRudeness:Truer words...... @bold, same thing I was trying to put across In all, no-one should lie about their status, it'll surely backfire on the long run |
Re: Why Are Single Mothers Not Proud Of Their Child(ren)? by Nobody: 1:36pm On Oct 17, 2020 |
Zzor:Okay, Hope you will be a responsible husband when you marry 3 Likes |
Re: Why Are Single Mothers Not Proud Of Their Child(ren)? by Charleys: 1:37pm On Oct 17, 2020 |
Her child is a bastard. How hard is that.? |
Re: Why Are Single Mothers Not Proud Of Their Child(ren)? by Nobody: 1:57pm On Oct 17, 2020 |
Zzor: Society isn’t doing anything to single mothers.. Why are u women always quick to call opinions of few people general society condemnation..?? The truth is u women like to play the victim card. It’s the same card you play with ur non-virgin status, abortion and body count etc.... Why would a woman lie about not having a beautiful child just becos someone has his choice.. ...the truth is they they are just desperate to marry single guys and they commit the fallacy of thinking their child is the reason why men Won’t propose... guess what?? That’s the usual parole on the streets...ask single girls too... they are not finding marriage easy either... .is it not on the same nairaland we talk about high body counts before marriage?? boys are generally not marrying early....and the sexual immorality everywhere don’t make guys think of having their own wife early... 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Are Single Mothers Not Proud Of Their Child(ren)? by Nobody: 1:58pm On Oct 17, 2020 |
Xoly: Lol...stylish accusation... |
Re: Why Are Single Mothers Not Proud Of Their Child(ren)? by DenreleDave(m): 2:11pm On Oct 17, 2020 |
vincenteger: But she has notin to lose.... Her kid shud her world |
Re: Why Are Single Mothers Not Proud Of Their Child(ren)? by DenreleDave(m): 2:12pm On Oct 17, 2020 |
Truvel: U av a kid with no mother too? Single father? |
Re: Why Are Single Mothers Not Proud Of Their Child(ren)? by DenreleDave(m): 2:13pm On Oct 17, 2020 |
Re: Why Are Single Mothers Not Proud Of Their Child(ren)? by DenreleDave(m): 2:13pm On Oct 17, 2020 |
Zzor: |
Re: Why Are Single Mothers Not Proud Of Their Child(ren)? by DenreleDave(m): 2:15pm On Oct 17, 2020 |
1StopRudeness: Bwahahahahahhaha Chai, most men will definitely marry a retired LovePeddler 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Single Mothers Not Proud Of Their Child(ren)? by Nobody: 2:22pm On Oct 17, 2020 |
DenreleDave: That’s not news naaaa.... if you don’t marry a virgin...u should manage whateva u marry...good piece of mind is the goal now... not chastity |
Re: Why Are Single Mothers Not Proud Of Their Child(ren)? by MrCork: 2:55pm On Oct 17, 2020 |
Zzor: Bro its because, a few guys want to fok u on nairaland even thou they found out u r male...EmmettAtkins definitely want to fok u sir. I dont tink he cares u r male ..juss to let u no sir (he ain't gay thou) 6 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Why Are Single Mothers Not Proud Of Their Child(ren)? by chinchonglee(m): 2:58pm On Oct 17, 2020 |
DenreleDave:We ve bin preaching the reasons on NL since. So i ve ntn to say today 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Single Mothers Not Proud Of Their Child(ren)? by Nobody: 3:12pm On Oct 17, 2020 |
MrCork:
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Re: Why Are Single Mothers Not Proud Of Their Child(ren)? by Edyice: 3:13pm On Oct 17, 2020 |
MrCork: Me too wants to knack but when I found out that ,who I was trying to knack has huge eggplant , nobody tell me before I sóró-sokè 5 Likes |
Re: Why Are Single Mothers Not Proud Of Their Child(ren)? by MrCork: 3:57pm On Oct 17, 2020 |
Edyice: Kindly respect yourself on nairaland & quit cussing people 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Are Single Mothers Not Proud Of Their Child(ren)? by TOPCRUISE(m): 4:07pm On Oct 17, 2020 |
Most of them have their child/children through unquestionable circumstances that they themselves are not proud of. It could be the father is not responsible, denied the pregnancy or was already married. Some are not sure who the father of their child was and can't account for him. It could be such a child is a huge responsibility that have denied them of their dreams and ambitions like education. It is well with all single Mothers. Its not easy 1 Like 1 Share |
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