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What Does It Mean When Ur Gf Never Calls After Her Promises? by unamama(m): 7:14am On Aug 10, 2012
what does it mean when u call ur gf, after sometimes promises to call back cos she is busy but never calls?
Re: What Does It Mean When Ur Gf Never Calls After Her Promises? by 190theclown: 7:21am On Aug 10, 2012
Ha

Another august visitor
Re: What Does It Mean When Ur Gf Never Calls After Her Promises? by unamama(m): 7:33am On Aug 10, 2012
d most funny thng is dat wen eva i ask her if there is some1 else, she tells me NO, claiming to b sincere abt it...!
Re: What Does It Mean When Ur Gf Never Calls After Her Promises? by 190theclown: 7:37am On Aug 10, 2012
Really?
Re: What Does It Mean When Ur Gf Never Calls After Her Promises? by ifihearam: 7:49am On Aug 10, 2012
Una don turn this nairaland to something else oooo...@op send her recharge card to try her first,some girls dey very stingy if dem neva love you,so your babe neva get ur time. Trust me there is anoda guy out there who she calls every time,funny enough na flash the guy go flash her each time dem wan yan and this ur babe go talk for over 20minuted with that guy. Very say. This ur babe wicked sha
Re: What Does It Mean When Ur Gf Never Calls After Her Promises? by Jambsupport(f): 7:56am On Aug 10, 2012
wots ur age? 16? 18? comot hia jor. c qwension
Re: What Does It Mean When Ur Gf Never Calls After Her Promises? by lolaluv1(f): 8:22am On Aug 10, 2012
Smh. God punish unemployment wey do dis strong tin to Naija men! Mmttccheeeew!
Re: What Does It Mean When Ur Gf Never Calls After Her Promises? by Nobody: 8:30am On Aug 10, 2012
unamama: d most funny thng is dat wen eva i ask her if there is some1 else, she tells me NO, claiming to b sincere abt it...!
Babe u too fine for me
I nor think say i be right person for u babe
Darling, u need a man way go dey ur body
way go give u all the company u need babe
I just want the best for u girl Omotena
oh oh i fit give u all the time u deserve deserve hey
cos i be waka waka (waka waka)
Na who go dey there for u wen u halla
wen u wen u halla heyeeee
Re: What Does It Mean When Ur Gf Never Calls After Her Promises? by Flygeriana(m): 8:56am On Aug 10, 2012
^^ D fvck is he on abt?
Re: What Does It Mean When Ur Gf Never Calls After Her Promises? by Nobody: 9:10am On Aug 10, 2012
ifihearam: Una don turn this nairaland to something else oooo...@op send her recharge card to try her first,some girls dey very stingy if dem neva love you,so your babe neva get ur time. Trust me there is anoda guy out there who she calls every time,funny enough na flash the guy go flash her each time dem wan yan and this ur babe go talk for over 20minuted with that guy. Very say. This ur babe wicked sha
Gbam!!
Re: What Does It Mean When Ur Gf Never Calls After Her Promises? by seedord247(m): 9:16am On Aug 10, 2012
Maybe she's pinging the time u called her. shocked
Re: What Does It Mean When Ur Gf Never Calls After Her Promises? by Sijo01(f): 9:18am On Aug 10, 2012
190-the-clown:
Ha

Another august visitor



Lmaoo
Re: What Does It Mean When Ur Gf Never Calls After Her Promises? by cindyrella(f): 9:29am On Aug 10, 2012
It means she is having second thoughts about you and the relationship.....
So hurry now and commit suicide before she dumps you!
Re: What Does It Mean When Ur Gf Never Calls After Her Promises? by lockheed55(m): 11:15am On Aug 10, 2012
unamama: what does it mean when u call ur gf, after sometimes promises to call back cos she is busy but never calls?
@op i kinda think u have a good question there. it cud mean a whole lot of things, most likely shes being immature. it cud also mean u for one are being a bit boring - or sth -ve - when u spoke to her over the phone. hence she politely dismisses with the famous "i will call u later" girls normally use. most times, especially when u later keep cracking ur brain over what it cud mean, it is just an easy way to tell u "u dont seem to have much to say now, call me back when u do"
there is this chick that is so currently into me (i mean real chick, hot, beautiful, killer this n that, never for once asked for rechg, my last caller as i type this, etc etc). just few months ago when i sounded like a little "fighting" (for some reason) she just went stranger on me n used the "i will call u later" i'd heard but never understood. mehn was i shocked. but guess what she added: "...erhmm if i say call u... call me if i dont call u". Hmm, so into me dont u think
Re: What Does It Mean When Ur Gf Never Calls After Her Promises? by unamama(m): 9:31am On Aug 11, 2012
ifihearam: Una don turn this nairaland to something else oooo...@op send her recharge card to try her first,some girls dey very stingy if dem neva love you,so your babe neva get ur time. Trust me there is anoda guy out there who she calls every time,funny enough na flash the guy go flash her each time dem wan yan and this ur babe go talk for over 20minuted with that guy. Very say. This ur babe wicked sha
@ifihearam. u c dis exact thng wey u talk, i do am last week sunday. i sent her a card & she called. after some mins, i had to end d call so i can call her bck since mtn charges me lesser if i call her cos i registered her as a special no. on my sim. but she was bitterly complaining y i ended d call, dat after all i sent her d card. wat she dd put me in a state of confusion d more. i dnt rilly knw wat she is upto.
as it stands, she called me seven times yesday, i refused to pick d call cos i'm upset. altho i called her in d evening, she said she was on her way bck frm wrk, if i culd call later. but atleast, she is suppose to flash me wen she gets home. she dd nt flash & i refused to call her...!
Re: What Does It Mean When Ur Gf Never Calls After Her Promises? by unamama(m): 9:31am On Aug 11, 2012
ifihearam: Una don turn this nairaland to something else oooo...@op send her recharge card to try her first,some girls dey very stingy if dem neva love you,so your babe neva get ur time. Trust me there is anoda guy out there who she calls every time,funny enough na flash the guy go flash her each time dem wan yan and this ur babe go talk for over 20minuted with that guy. Very say. This ur babe wicked sha
@ifihearam. u c dis exact thng wey u talk, i do am last week sunday. i sent her a card & she called. after some mins, i had to end d call so i can call her bck since mtn charges me lesser if i call her cos i registered her as a special no. on my sim. but she was bitterly complaining y i ended d call, dat after all i sent her d card. wat she dd put me in a state of confusion d more. i dnt rilly knw wat she is upto.
as it stands, she called me seven times yesday, i refused to pick d call cos i'm upset. altho i called her in d evening, she said she was on her way bck frm wrk, if i culd call later. but atleast, she is suppose to flash me wen she gets home. she dd nt flash & i refused to call her...!
Re: What Does It Mean When Ur Gf Never Calls After Her Promises? by unamama(m): 9:34am On Aug 11, 2012
190-the-clown:
Really?
yep, dats wat she keeps on tellin me... she told me she loved me bt, wat i feel is dat, she jst like calling wen she feels like
Re: What Does It Mean When Ur Gf Never Calls After Her Promises? by unamama(m): 9:41am On Aug 11, 2012
cindyrella: It means she is having second thoughts about you and the relationship.....
So hurry now and commit suicide before she dumps you!
lol...z, if i catch u eeeh, u no go fit spell ur name again
Re: What Does It Mean When Ur Gf Never Calls After Her Promises? by unamama(m): 9:51am On Aug 11, 2012
lockheed55:
@op i kinda think u have a good question there. it cud mean a whole lot of things, most likely shes being immature. it cud also mean u for one are being a bit boring - or sth -ve - when u spoke to her over the phone. hence she politely dismisses with the famous "i will call u later" girls normally use. most times, especially when u later keep cracking ur brain over what it cud mean, it is just an easy way to tell u "u dont seem to have much to say now, call me back when u do"
there is this chick that is so currently into me (i mean real chick, hot, beautiful, killer this n that, never for once asked for rechg, my last caller as i type this, etc etc). just few months ago when i sounded like a little "fighting" (for some reason) she just went stranger on me n used the "i will call u later" i'd heard but never understood. mehn was i shocked. but guess what she added: "...erhmm if i say call u... call me if i dont call u". Hmm, so into me dont u think
u av a vry big point here, sincerely i av learnt 4rm ur post... so wat do u suggest i do now?
Re: What Does It Mean When Ur Gf Never Calls After Her Promises? by unamama(m): 9:53am On Aug 11, 2012
lockheed55:
@op i kinda think u have a good question there. it cud mean a whole lot of things, most likely shes being immature. it cud also mean u for one are being a bit boring - or sth -ve - when u spoke to her over the phone. hence she politely dismisses with the famous "i will call u later" girls normally use. most times, especially when u later keep cracking ur brain over what it cud mean, it is just an easy way to tell u "u dont seem to have much to say now, call me back when u do"
there is this chick that is so currently into me (i mean real chick, hot, beautiful, killer this n that, never for once asked for rechg, my last caller as i type this, etc etc). just few months ago when i sounded like a little "fighting" (for some reason) she just went stranger on me n used the "i will call u later" i'd heard but never understood. mehn was i shocked. but guess what she added: "...erhmm if i say call u... call me if i dont call u". Hmm, so into me dont u think
u av a vry big point here, sincerely i av learnt 4rm ur post... so wat do u suggest i do now?
Re: What Does It Mean When Ur Gf Never Calls After Her Promises? by unamama(m): 9:58am On Aug 11, 2012
seedord247: Maybe she's pinging the time u called her. shocked
rilly?
Re: What Does It Mean When Ur Gf Never Calls After Her Promises? by unamama(m): 10:00am On Aug 11, 2012
lola.luv:
Smh. God punish unemployment wey do dis strong tin to Naija men! Mmttccheeeew!
hahaha, u r on ur own
Re: What Does It Mean When Ur Gf Never Calls After Her Promises? by unamama(m): 10:03am On Aug 11, 2012
Jambsupport: wots ur age? 16? 18? comot hia jor. c qwension
shut up jooor. na small girls dey claim wetin them no b... i guess u r a sec sch stdnt of abt 15 or 16
Re: What Does It Mean When Ur Gf Never Calls After Her Promises? by davidcobi: 10:07am On Aug 11, 2012
unamama: what does it mean when u call ur gf, after sometimes promises to call back cos she is busy but never calls?
It means she's not feeling you!
Maybe you became broke and she's not getting any raises. Or maybe you thought she's your girlfriend, but to her; you might just be another clown.
Or she's expecting you to buy her the airtime; in which case she'll call you with only 15% of the airtime.

I hope this explains it.
Re: What Does It Mean When Ur Gf Never Calls After Her Promises? by Nobody: 10:42am On Aug 11, 2012
ifihearam: Una don turn this nairaland to something else oooo...@op send her recharge card to try her first,some girls dey very stingy if dem neva love you,so your babe neva get ur time. Trust me there is anoda guy out there who she calls every time,funny enough na flash the guy go flash her each time dem wan yan and this ur babe go talk for over 20minuted with that guy. Very say. This ur babe wicked sha
on point!!
Re: What Does It Mean When Ur Gf Never Calls After Her Promises? by 190: 12:14pm On Aug 11, 2012
august vistors ma binu

abeg make una let us have peace in our houses undecided
Re: What Does It Mean When Ur Gf Never Calls After Her Promises? by lockheed55(m): 9:20pm On Aug 11, 2012
unamama:
u av a vry big point here, sincerely i av learnt 4rm ur post... so wat do u suggest i do now?

@unamama, I hate to disappoint u but u no be like person wey get wahala o. I only have this one word for u:

COMMUNICATION

its important to fully accept the fact that virtually all girls understand basic relationship dynamics: simply put, that she shudnt stretch herself to get to u n that u shud be the one "struggling" to get to her. Most girls are kind of programmed to think this way n ur girl is only one of them. This is especially so when the relationship is not fully or well defined. The reasons why they be this way wud be another topic, another day. Trust me, it is not that ur girl is so dumb she didnt know she shud have flashed u or so when she came back or that she forgot to call u as promised, she just has to be this way because of what i'll simply call the reasons. To her, shes only being natural. There is really no need getting angry at her or getting surprised when she calls. Most times they think things are in a state of balance or theres no prob.
all u need here is just a very flat table with two drinks on it plus a gentle smile on ur face. TELL HER. TALK ABOUT IT. LET HER KNOW THE RIGHT WAY, THE WAY U WANT IT. dont expect nature to be organized enough for the right communication to be there. U lead man. A girl most likely will remain in her default unless u let her know its ok and expected of her to be more responsive.
eg. this is what i did some years ago, a new friend: i txted her times, asking few questions forher to respond, putting the mark for her to know the txt wants a response, setting it to request response. no response. but when i told her. guess what she said:
"okaaayy"
then she was texting me freely feeling safe about it. eg
Re: What Does It Mean When Ur Gf Never Calls After Her Promises? by Nobody: 11:41pm On Aug 11, 2012
~unfollowing~
Re: What Does It Mean When Ur Gf Never Calls After Her Promises? by davidcobi: 7:38am On Aug 12, 2012
@Op, Are u waiting for a miracle before you realize that you have to dump her with swift effect, then ask her what's wrong later?
Re: What Does It Mean When Ur Gf Never Calls After Her Promises? by lolaluv1(f): 3:42pm On Aug 12, 2012
Really, it seems you are not a wahala person. So many fake stories (reason 4 my earlier reply) but you seem sincere enough.

My advice is that you should have a deep talk with her if the character bothers u so much. Also,take special note of lockheed's advice.
Re: What Does It Mean When Ur Gf Never Calls After Her Promises? by unamama(m): 7:09pm On Aug 12, 2012
lola.luv:
Really, it seems you are not a wahala person. So many fake stories (reason 4 my earlier reply) but you seem sincere enough.

My advice is that you should have a deep talk with her if the character bothers u so much. Also,take special note of lockheed's advice.
Lola.luv as d name implies, now u r talkin. unlike b4 dat u were brkin ma hrt wit ur reply. u shld kn better cos u r a lady...!
Re: What Does It Mean When Ur Gf Never Calls After Her Promises? by unamama(m): 7:12pm On Aug 12, 2012
davidcobi: @Op, Are u waiting for a miracle before you realize that you have to dump her with swift effect, then ask her what's wrong later?
lol..z, make una no make me laff again jooor. na serious matter

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