davidcobi:
It means she's not feeling you!
Maybe you became broke and she's not getting any raises. Or maybe you thought she's your girlfriend, but to her; you might just be another clown.
Or she's expecting you to buy her the airtime; in which case she'll call you with only 15% of the airtime.

I hope this explains it.

Its explains but it is nt helping me

190: august vistors ma binu

abeg make una let us have peace in our houses

hahaha

lockheed55:

@unamama, I hate to disappoint u but u no be like person wey get wahala o. I only have this one word for u:

COMMUNICATION

its important to fully accept the fact that virtually all girls understand basic relationship dynamics: simply put, that she shudnt stretch herself to get to u n that u shud be the one "struggling" to get to her. Most girls are kind of programmed to think this way n ur girl is only one of them. This is especially so when the relationship is not fully or well defined. The reasons why they be this way wud be another topic, another day. Trust me, it is not that ur girl is so dumb she didnt know she shud have flashed u or so when she came back or that she forgot to call u as promised, she just has to be this way because of what i'll simply call the reasons. To her, shes only being natural. There is really no need getting angry at her or getting surprised when she calls. Most times they think things are in a state of balance or theres no prob.
all u need here is just a very flat table with two drinks on it plus a gentle smile on ur face. TELL HER. TALK ABOUT IT. LET HER KNOW THE RIGHT WAY, THE WAY U WANT IT. dont expect nature to be organized enough for the right communication to be there. U lead man. A girl most likely will remain in her default unless u let her know its ok and expected of her to be more responsive.
eg. this is what i did some years ago, a new friend: i txted her times, asking few questions forher to respond, putting the mark for her to know the txt wants a response, setting it to request response. no response. but when i told her. guess what she said:
"okaaayy"
then she was texting me freely feeling safe about it. eg

thnk u vry mch, wat u av said is exactly hw it is. she isn't doin it deliberately, it is part of most females, in d name of keepin their pride... we av talked abt it on d fone but, we still need 2 c abt it...!

lockheed55:

@unamama, I hate to disappoint u but u no be like person wey get wahala o. I only have this one word for u:

COMMUNICATION

its important to fully accept the fact that virtually all girls understand basic relationship dynamics: simply put, that she shudnt stretch herself to get to u n that u shud be the one "struggling" to get to her. Most girls are kind of programmed to think this way n ur girl is only one of them. This is especially so when the relationship is not fully or well defined. The reasons why they be this way wud be another topic, another day. Trust me, it is not that ur girl is so dumb she didnt know she shud have flashed u or so when she came back or that she forgot to call u as promised, she just has to be this way because of what i'll simply call the reasons. To her, shes only being natural. There is really no need getting angry at her or getting surprised when she calls. Most times they think things are in a state of balance or theres no prob.
all u need here is just a very flat table with two drinks on it plus a gentle smile on ur face. TELL HER. TALK ABOUT IT. LET HER KNOW THE RIGHT WAY, THE WAY U WANT IT. dont expect nature to be organized enough for the right communication to be there. U lead man. A girl most likely will remain in her default unless u let her know its ok and expected of her to be more responsive.
eg. this is what i did some years ago, a new friend: i txted her times, asking few questions forher to respond, putting the mark for her to know the txt wants a response, setting it to request response. no response. but when i told her. guess what she said:
"okaaayy"
then she was texting me freely feeling safe about it. eg

thnk u vry mch, wat u av said is exactly hw it is. she isn't doin it deliberately, it is part of most females, in d name of keepin their pride... we av talked abt it on d fone but, we still need 2 c abt it...!