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Does Family History Matters A Lot When Choosing Your Partner? by legendprac(m): 7:36am On Sep 05, 2012 |
If her mother and grandmother had broken homes, think again before taking her to d altar. If his father and grandfather were polygamists and wife beaters, think again before u agree to marry Him. I have seen traits repeat themselves, if u have too, tell us... If u believe what I said is wrong, give us your reasons, we are here to learn... Gudmorning pals... |
Re: Does Family History Matters A Lot When Choosing Your Partner? by Andrew3(m): 7:41am On Sep 05, 2012 |
No you are wrong, It has nothing to do with hereditary rather if you choose a partner based on lust or cash. loth was from soddom. |
Re: Does Family History Matters A Lot When Choosing Your Partner? by Mynd44: 8:13am On Sep 05, 2012 |
Someone skipped genetics class in biology 2 Likes |
Re: Does Family History Matters A Lot When Choosing Your Partner? by Sijo01(f): 8:18am On Sep 05, 2012 |
Smh! |
Re: Does Family History Matters A Lot When Choosing Your Partner? by legendprac(m): 8:29am On Sep 05, 2012 |
::Andrew::: So, if u wanna get married and ur mother-in-law and her own mother(ur wife's granny) all had broken homes, u won't consider dat as a factor? |
Re: Does Family History Matters A Lot When Choosing Your Partner? by legendprac(m): 8:30am On Sep 05, 2012 |
Sijo01: Smh! Y r u shaking ur head? |
Re: Does Family History Matters A Lot When Choosing Your Partner? by Andrew3(m): 8:33am On Sep 05, 2012 |
legendprac: no, I have my decisions and choices. |
Re: Does Family History Matters A Lot When Choosing Your Partner? by DExplorer1: 8:39am On Sep 05, 2012 |
Dude, i like this topic but why kill it? "Does Family History Matters A Lot When Choosing Your Partner? would have been better and also earn a deserved attention. @Topic: Sometimes they do and sometimes they don't depending on what matter is to be considered. If the grandmother and mother had a broken home, it doesn't interpret that a child born into that family will have a broken home if it's not supernaturally related. If the grandfather and father was alcoholic doesn't mean the son would be but if they were polygamous and such individual doesn't have some strong set of beliefs against the act of many wives then he just might follow that pattern. Good topic dude and hope more people respond. |
Re: Does Family History Matters A Lot When Choosing Your Partner? by tobechi20(m): 8:48am On Sep 05, 2012 |
It is important but nt very important |
Re: Does Family History Matters A Lot When Choosing Your Partner? by nitlad: 8:48am On Sep 05, 2012 |
Yeah family history matters a lot, BUT PERSONALITY MATTERS MOST! |
Re: Does Family History Matters A Lot When Choosing Your Partner? by Mynd44: 9:29am On Sep 05, 2012 |
legendprac:It is not a factor |
Re: Does Family History Matters A Lot When Choosing Your Partner? by legendprac(m): 2:31pm On Sep 05, 2012 |
D-Explorer: It doesn't really have to be spiritual for traits to repeat themselves,esp when it comes to blood... What happened to the saying, 'it runs in the family' 1 Like |
Re: Does Family History Matters A Lot When Choosing Your Partner? by legendprac(m): 2:34pm On Sep 05, 2012 |
::Andrew::: I used to say such tins,until I tot time to study events... Believe me, it's a big factor.. If it happened to d granny and d parent, den u have to be very careful... if it happened to just the parent, it could be a one-off, so that was y I included the grandparents in my post... |
Re: Does Family History Matters A Lot When Choosing Your Partner? by DExplorer1: 2:44pm On Sep 05, 2012 |
legendprac:Emphasis wasn't on spiritual but the individual. The saying "it runs in the family" is a fallacy and it can only be used to justify evil. |
Re: Does Family History Matters A Lot When Choosing Your Partner? by spothot: 4:02pm On Sep 05, 2012 |
D-Explorer:i think it matters, at least from what i've seen. Some go into their marriages with the intent of not repeating such but inexplicably find themselves in it 1 Like |
Re: Does Family History Matters A Lot When Choosing Your Partner? by DExplorer1: 6:03pm On Sep 05, 2012 |
spothot:Can we say that's spiritual? |
Re: Does Family History Matters A Lot When Choosing Your Partner? by Mynd44: 6:20pm On Sep 05, 2012 |
D-Explorer:Hell no |
Re: Does Family History Matters A Lot When Choosing Your Partner? by DExplorer1: 10:08pm On Sep 05, 2012 |
Mynd_44:..and what is it? Watch the bolded spothot: |
Re: Does Family History Matters A Lot When Choosing Your Partner? by Bluemoon1(f): 12:53am On Sep 06, 2012 |
@op i think the history you are referring to is Medical history which can be linked to the D.N.A, that one is important but alcoholism/broken homes is not in anyone's D.N.A... |
Re: Does Family History Matters A Lot When Choosing Your Partner? by 190: 1:23am On Sep 06, 2012 |
OP I agree with you on the part of broken homes I have dated quite a few ladies from broken homes raised by single moms and i swear down those ladies where nothing to write home about, they simply dont understand the function of a relationship or man in their lives.. God help them sha! Just kicked one of em to her sorry curbs a few months back and till date shes till venting dont blame me - blame your mama - kmt OFF TOPIC Why wouldnt you check the history of the girl u wanna marry You sure dont wanna end up with a NATIVE DOCTOR'S DAUGHTER ELSE You would be 7 STEPS FROM HELL FIRE by the time the father blows native chalk in your face each time you hit his daughter |
Re: Does Family History Matters A Lot When Choosing Your Partner? by Ivynwa(f): 1:38am On Sep 06, 2012 |
Shouldn't it be about the person and the person's way of thinking. Family history should be considered to some extent but that should not be the determining factor because a person can have opposing ideology to what others in the family uphold. 190 This your redina has reached a screaming point where people should go on strike about it. That is too freaking bright on the eyes. WTfr*ak, 190? |
Re: Does Family History Matters A Lot When Choosing Your Partner? by 190: 2:14am On Sep 06, 2012 |
^Moderators please ban this shawrri above me shes a native doctor's daughter, they normally cant stand red fonts cos it looks like blood to their eyes |
Re: Does Family History Matters A Lot When Choosing Your Partner? by Ivynwa(f): 2:20am On Sep 06, 2012 |
190: ^Moderators please ban this shawrri above me REDINA!!
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Re: Does Family History Matters A Lot When Choosing Your Partner? by 190: 2:27am On Sep 06, 2012 |
HELP HELP HELP She wouldnt leave my boxers alone |
Re: Does Family History Matters A Lot When Choosing Your Partner? by Ivynwa(f): 2:36am On Sep 06, 2012 |
Hahaha my emoticons are funny to look at. 190: HELP HELP HELP Run along and get on with your Ladies-e-terrorist NL business. Goodnight to you. |
Re: Does Family History Matters A Lot When Choosing Your Partner? by 190: 2:48am On Sep 06, 2012 |
Re: Does Family History Matters A Lot When Choosing Your Partner? by Mynd44: 3:47am On Sep 06, 2012 |
Ivynwa: HahahaYou are one badt girl. See as you pursue 190 |
Re: Does Family History Matters A Lot When Choosing Your Partner? by Ivynwa(f): 5:50am On Sep 06, 2012 |
Mynd_44: Pursue? 190 na my Paddy, na my NL son be that. Hahaha |
Re: Does Family History Matters A Lot When Choosing Your Partner? by legendprac(m): 6:25am On Sep 06, 2012 |
190: OP 190, U r right.... A few of dem don't act dat way,but it's just a few of dem... Lmao @ d native doctor ish |
Re: Does Family History Matters A Lot When Choosing Your Partner? by legendprac(m): 6:29am On Sep 06, 2012 |
Ivynwa: Shouldn't it be about the person and the person's way of thinking. Family history should be considered to some extent but that should not be the determining factor because a person can have opposing ideology to what others in the family uphold. Believe me, I had a notion like urs... I dropped it wen I started observing trends.... One can be dif frm wot is obtainable in his family,but its more like d exception,not d rule |
Re: Does Family History Matters A Lot When Choosing Your Partner? by Mynd44: 4:48pm On Sep 06, 2012 |
Ivynwa:Lol |
Re: Does Family History Matters A Lot When Choosing Your Partner? by MrsChima1(f): 5:34pm On Sep 06, 2012 |
I was more concern with HIV, STD, and Mental status. |
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