The girl can hardly boast of the guy spending upto #5000 on her in a month,and the guy is telling her not to cheat on him.

Lust, contempt & immaturity... Thats what I think. Girls can testify to it that the times they had cheated on their guy, its becos of one of this three.

richarts: Lust, contempt & immaturity... Thats what I think. Girls can testify to it that the times they had cheated on their guy, its becos of one of this three.

lack of care from the guy's side could be a reason too. she didn't get enough attention from the bf so she tries to get it somewhere else.

Some girls are just born naturally to cheat no matter what you give or do to them...

ULSHERLAN: Some girls are just born naturally to cheat no matter what you give or do to them...

these girls probably exist too. I don't know such a girl among my friends.

Luv Mercy: The girl can hardly boast of the guy spending upto #5000 on her in a month,and the guy is telling her not to cheat on him.

What am I reading here?
If a guy ask you not to cheat on him, there is something he must have noticed in you, which makes you prone to cheating.And in this particular case it's money.
Money plays a role in relationships, but if you measure love against the amount spent or invested in you then you are on the wrong track.
In short a guy who spends more on you, doesn't love you more than the one who doesn't.

I can't think of anything other than choice would make a person cheat. I still hold firm to the fact that an unmarried person can't cheat when they aren't even obligated to be faithful to their unmarried partner.

I asked one male chatter on a particular thread...how can he expect his girlfriend to be faithful to him when he won't even provide for her since he is not obligated to?

Marriage is an obligation.....dating/courting is a test drive.

op are u for real, is her bf her fada dat he shud spend on her

ednut1: op are u for real, is her bf her fada dat he shud spend on her

the boyfrd shud also go n sleep wit his mother

Luv Mercy: The girl can hardly boast of the guy spending upto #5000 on her in a month,and the guy is telling her not to cheat on him.

Is it the amount of money the guy spent on her that will make her faithful to her bf? Or the amount of love they have for each other. Seriously peaple that think the way you think are the one that make peaple believe that Nigeria girls only care about money, which is not true.

Luv Mercy: the boyfrd shud also go n sleep wit his mother

Ewwwwwwwww

seunfly:

Is it the amount of money the guy spent on her that will make her faithful to her bf? Or the amount of love they have for each other. Seriously peaple that think the way you think are the one that make peaple believe that Nigeria girls only care about money, which is not true.

You want her looking good. But you wont spend money on her because u are saving for a laptop. Dont worry. Some other guys you dont know will happily spend the money.

Luv Mercy: The girl can hardly boast of the guy spending upto #5000 on her in a month,and the guy is telling her not to cheat on him.

This girl of easy virtue has come again with her delusive theories. Enter Nollywood na...na express! You no see as dem dey dash Genevieve Range Rover sports?

Luv Mercy: The girl can hardly boast of the guy spending upto #5000 on her in a month,and the guy is telling her not to cheat on him.

Wait did I just read this crap, are you well at all.
Is the BF her effing father? What's wrong with these brainless kids self? Abeg go borrow brain cos this one is defective

Luv Mercy: The girl can hardly boast of the guy spending upto #5000 on her in a month,and the guy is telling her not to cheat on him.

Wait did I just read this crap, are you well at all.
Is the BF her effing father? What's wrong with these brainless kids self? Abeg go borrow brain cos this one is defective

Pennywise:

You want her looking good. But you wont spend money on her because u are saving for a laptop. Dont worry. Some other guys you dont know will happily spend the money.

My brother at this stage of my life, i can't spend on any girl to buy her love. If I have some money, i can give it to anybody in need including her but not because i want her to love me. Any girl that can not love me without my money can move on to those who can do the spending, by the way am looking for wify and that is perfect way to screan them out and get the best possible one. Real gold is not pick from ground it is minned and dig out with alot of process.

Is there any good reason for cheating Besides money, incapability. Seriously, any better reason?

Luv Mercy: the boyfrd shud also go n sleep wit his mother

I guess by your theory all gals should spread em legs to just any guy that's the highest bidder.
If your encouraging a gal to cheat just because the bf can't meet all her material needs, why not as well tell them to switch family to one that's rich.

^^

There are many fectors that can lead a girl to cheat on her man, it all depands on individual (Different strokes for different folks).

190: for Nigerian girls it is always about MONEY

forget grammar

190, are you not mostly right... some Nigerian girls cheat bcoz they think their BF is a cheat.

Luv Mercy: the boyfrd shud also go n sleep wit his mother

oh I get it.. no more love..
just pay #5000....and she lie flat in bed...

190: Money ooh money once money finish cheating follows

I dey tell you bros..

some ladies on this thread, don talk am finish

now I believe all you've been saying about 9ja girls.. ama follow your footsteps bro..
#team190

190: ^You dont Need Prophet ELIJAH to come down from HEAVEN to tell you
Nigerian girls are all about money,


infact give me 2billion naira today in 2weeks i go phuck all the girls on nairaland finish
forget grammar

cocky much?


I'll pretend u didn't just say that :/

ednut1: op are u for real, is her bf her fada dat he shud spend on her

is the gf his wife that she must remain faithful to him?

acidosis™:

I dey tell you bros..

some ladies on this thread, don talk am finish

now I believe all you've been saying about 9ja girls.. ama follow your footsteps bro..
#team190

follow 190's footsteps
Guy u go misplace

Luv Mercy: The girl can hardly boast of the guy spending upto #5000 on her in a month,and the guy is telling her not to cheat on him.

Money sustain romantic Love indeed

Luv Mercy: The girl can hardly boast of the guy spending upto #5000 on her in a month,and the guy is telling her not to cheat on him.

Pathetic. So it's all about the money then ...

@Poster, you are a real example of a poverty stricken-ed lady with little or no value to offer. Well you are still a kid. Money is the least of the problem of a lot of married women out there. There are ladies who have the money but a thing as simple as truthful companionship is not there for them. I have female colleagues earning 5-6 figures (USD) who crave for just someone to be called theirs emotionally, this is not about sex ,money or marriage. Just someone to call them in the morning and say sweet things to them. It shows how much lack that some of you have. If your parents cant provide for you why not get a job and see how easy it is to make money " if it is". A lot of girls has never worked for 1k Naira in their life and the way they spend is so alarming. Ladies, pls stop this cheap prostitution called runs, it does not pay. Do something good with your life. There are lot of guys willing to spend any amount on a one night stand, is that the kind of value our culture promotes?? Lets watch it.