fork adict:

WORD!

Sadly enough, this is the trend in naija. A girl sizes you up first to ascetain if you can cope with her financial needs before she agrees to date you. i ask myself[b] whatever happened to companionship and Unconditional love in naija?[/b] The average naija girl is a hungry, desperate and unscrupoulous beach. It's just disgusting to say the least.


I was chilling with one HND level student a while ago. This chic is about 24 yrs old and she told me OH AH that the kind of guy she hopes to date now is the kind of guy that can set her up in business. She went further to say that she's past dating a guy that will take her shopping regularly. I almost collapsed. At 24 years of age?

nothing happened to it because it has never been there.

onila: U are so mean

you need a fun girl in your life

your way too academician

LMAO...Only Onila could assign a $academician variable to a maladroit, inveterate arse-kisser, and yakking bonobo of a philosophunculist like Mynd_44.

lol...Just when we thought she'd reached her nadir, she somehow contrived to outdo herself again. Thresholdless, that broad one.

Pro bono publico

Hey kids! You have to actually know something - and not just fake it - to be an academic. The guy in the spotlight, he's not the genuine article, okay? Smart kids!!

Guy go sleep abeg

ArQueBusieR:

LMAO...Only Onila could assign a $academician variable to a maladroit, inveterate arse-kisser, and yakking bonobo of a philosophunculist like Mynd_44.

lol...Just when we thought she'd reached her nadir, she somehow contrived to outdo herself again. Thresholdless, that broad one.

Pro bono publico

Hey kids! You have to actually know something - and not just fake it - to be an academic. The guy in the spotlight, he's not the genuine article, okay? Smart kids!!

I see you dont like MYND!

Mynd_44:
Describe a fun girl? You will actually see that I am actually fun.

onila:

I see you dont like MYND!

If he did, that would make me scared

@op, i v seen ur previous trend n witout a doubt u r cheap n shameless..u only understand sex n money.smh

So if I'm gettin the Op and some girls on this thread rite...A boy not giving his babe money is enuff for her to cheat on him... Some girls even say if he can't be her father and pay for all her bills then he shud go and sleep with his mother. So if I cn get y'all rite, 1. money is a condition for dating someone. I didn't say marry oh but dating someone 2. So a guy that has a lot of money and pays all ur bills is the only guy u cn make love to. 3. So u will automatically open ur laps for any guy that has a range rover sport and buys u gifts all in the name of being caring. What happened to making love to a guy cos u love him. I av said it that many girls in naija act like and have a mentality of lovepeddlers and that is why they don't get any respect from the so called rich guys they are dating. Thank God I know some girls who respect themselves and know wat relationship is really abt. Respect is reciprocal. I hope to marry one of those girls with self esteem.

At this jet age u expect a man to be giving u allws, na him born u, u better go get a job.., in my theory i only spent more on the ladies i know am not gonno marry, just incase u wanna lay curse in future i will have a good conscience to have paid for your services since u after money

I've asked girls and they said they cheat because the guy spends no money on them or because their joystick is too small to please them. Sometimes its both.

samoka10: I've asked girls and they said they cheat because the guy spends no money on them or because their joystick is too small to please them. Sometimes its both.

And sometimes they are just being silly

bknight: When you give her money, she'll still cheat but money won't be d reason
When you show d love, does she give back d love? She'll still cheat
When u shower her with attention, she'd take it for granted and still cheat
When u satisfy her in bed, she cheat for some other reasons other than sexual fulfillment.

They just simply cheat and use whatever d weakness u have as a grand reason.

Give her sexual satisfaction& she'd complain abt money, give money and she'd ask for more attention, give attention & she'd remember u're a sissy!

Gbam. All i've been seeing here is excuses why girls cheat...
But If it is guys now they will say GuYS CHEAT FOR THE MERE REASON THAT THEY ARE GUYS...
Yet so many reasons are cropping up to excuse ladies, like money, attention e.t.c ladies like money. That is true. No argument there because they like to feel comfortable all round..
But i've noticed that the rate of cheating among girls now is so high it's become more than guys now. 90% of girls are cheats if we want to be fair and there is no specific reason... The only reason guys here are talking about money is because that is the only ingredient that is difficult to obtain and that we don't have inside others. Other like attention and care can easily be faked and faked very well if money is there and the love of money and comfortability also leads to the main reason..
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GIRLS ARE GREEDY this is why guys are having it easy. Different guys have different personalities about what makes them charming and girls want to have a taste of more than one at a time. And they'll still want to keep their boyfriends after messing around... They always want to benefit that is why they will like to keep a side guy to keep them company in case of anythin and also their is SELF DECEIT , they walk willingly into what they know is a trap but they keep deceiving themselves that the guy is just a friend and they can control it and most times it happens and instead of them to confess they keep it because THEY DON'T WON'T TO LOSE and they DON'T WANT SHAME...

Pardon my Long story but i just hate when some ladies here will try to justify their actions and Then turn around to start paying men are this men are that..

Nigerian girlz knows nothing but money, even the one you are not dating still expect money from you. One girl came from anambra to visite her sister which i share apartment with in Abuja, when this girl left for school she called my stu*pid woman freak friend(who does not respect himself when it comes to girls) that she is disapionted in me, she said she came all the way from anambra i can't give anything despite her tried to be friendly with me, she also conplained about her sister's boyfriends who does not give her money. I was like WTF?

Luv Mercy: the boyfrd shud also go n sleep wit his mother

so you are dating and sleeping with men for them to spend on you?in that case its better I go for ashawo kobo kobo

Luv Mercy: The girl can hardly boast of the guy spending upto #5000 on her in a month,and the guy is telling her not to cheat on him.

xcept u r telling dm gals to turn to a LovePeddler...

I cant blieve this...is d guy her father?
Abi she na dy feed b4 d guy cme...

IYA NGBALI: so you are dating and sleeping with men for them to spend on you?in that case its better I go for ashawo kobo kobo

i tell u dat gal no well at all...dat a sick mentality.

Okontami: @Poster, you are a real example of a poverty stricken-ed lady with little or no value to offer. Well you are still a kid. Money is the least of the problem of a lot of married women out there. There are ladies who have the money but a thing as simple as truthful companionship is not there for them. I have female colleagues earning 5-6 figures (USD) who crave for just someone to be called theirs emotionally, this is not about sex ,money or marriage. Just someone to call them in the morning and say sweet things to them. It shows how much lack that some of you have. If your parents cant provide for you why not get a job and see how easy it is to make money " if it is". A lot of girls has never worked for 1k Naira in their life and the way they spend is so alarming. Ladies, pls stop this cheap prostitution called runs, it does not pay. Do something good with your life. There are lot of guys willing to spend any amount on a one night stand, is that the kind of value our culture promotes?? Lets watch it.

Gbam #fineto

Money is not part of love or wat a lady should be lookin or longin for in a relationship. I have neva ask for a kobo frm my bf before eva since ive bin havin rltnshp because i have a wonderful parent and it is their duty to take care of me, i am nt to expect any guy to pick up my parent responsibility because they are already doing it. Any lady dt is cheatin because of dt its better for her nt to have a bf she suppose to be a prostitute. If you can not be trusted now? When will dt be, and u want a happy home.

Luv Mercy: the boyfrd shud also go n sleep wit his mother

A most ignorant post. Sex 4 money!? What makes u beta than d Night worker @ Allen except being more expensive. Some naija gals are so shallow.

I gat licence to comment, but I still stay calm.