I am not the minister of women affairs neither have I broken a lady’s heart. So how the heck will I know anything about why women are dumped? Well, the reason for break ups has always interested me, and this piece is written from the confessions of guys I know who have ended their relationships abruptly. Of course there are many other reasons, some of which have nothing to do with the lady. So why are women dumped?

• They rush into relationships: Ladies not wanting to “remain” single rush into relationships. Not every guy you meet is worthy of your heart, some are meant to be your friends, others are meant to help you fulfil destiny. Dating every Tom, D¡ck and Harry is a sure-fire street to being dumped.
• Don’t know their worth: Most Ladies price themselves too cheap, they don’t know their worth. They fall for a man because of what he has. The guy knows you are “bigger” than him and he will be afraid of your future “mega-ness”. He will simply have a feel and let you go. Give a Range Rover sports to a “danfo” driver and he will drive it like a danfo, condemn it and go back to his danfo. There is more to you than you think.
• They are not unique: Most Ladies have lost their uniqueness to following fads. They will fix fingers, fix eye lashes, get tattoo and wear outrageous cloths. At the end they end up looking like every other lady. Only a unique lady becomes the “one”, others are just the next “one”. As far as guys are concerned there are 2 kinds of ladies; the ones to f**k and the ones to marry.
• They take relationships too personal: Women are emotional and guys have always used this against them. A guy will mess up and because you love him you will forgive and forget. You keep taking sh*t until he throws you into the soak way. Love is serious business and relationship is a merger between 2 companies. Most lovers are too busy kissing, groping and humping to really discuss. Sit him down talk, talk and talk. From his comments you will know if he is toying with you or not. Arrive at agreements and if you don’t like the “terms” leave the id¡ot. Don’t tolerate acts of irresponsibility. Men are basically big babies; they may “like” a lady who tolerates their excesses. But at the end, they will marry the lady that sets them straight. My roommate back in Uni dumped his girlfriend because his grades became terrible (too much humping, no time for reading). He became serious with the one whose colour of panties he hasn’t seen, but who always encouraged him to study.
• They give all: Marriage is the only place you are allowed to give yourself totally. I am not saying you should not “invest” in your relationship, but invest based on the level of commitment. You are rendering the services of a wife to a boyfriend and you expect to be “paid” like a wife? Only a husband can “pay” a wife. Some ladies have given so much (110%) to a boyfriend that the guy will be wondering if there is anything else left to give when he marries her. Sharp guy will squeeze you dry and move on to a more promising fruit.
• They allow themselves to be used: Nobody dumps what they haven’t used. So if a guy hasn’t used you, he can’t “dump” you. Be useful not, useless. Guys will try to put in in tight spots, but don’t allow it….Don’t put yourself in vulnerable situations.

N.B: I am not an expert or a counsellor, but If you are hurt and need someone to talk to ,email me.

True talk!

There's no formula poster.
Women are not all the same,neither are relationships,
What some men find repulsive in a woman, other men find it attractive.eg,some men love stubborn women,while others prefer them cool and reserved.
Others don't mind the plastic surgery and makeup, if anything, they are more willing to pay for it.

I would therefore say that a woman is dumped because the relationship just didn't work! And the reason that it didn't, is limited to that particular relationship not all.

pendo89: There's no formula poster.
Women are not all the same,neither are relationships,
What some men find repulsive in a woman, other men find it attractive.eg,some men love stubborn women,while others prefer them cool and reserved.
Others don't mind the plastic surgery and makeup, if anything, they are more willing to pay for it.

I would therefore say that a woman is dumped because the relationship just didn't work! And the reason that it didn't, is limited to that particular relationship not all.

Hahaha. Listen, Just because a guy "doesn't mind" your slutty fashion sense doesn't mean he likes it. He might just be tolerating it,so as to get enough of what he really wants.

pendo89: There's no formula poster.
Women are not all the same,neither are relationships,
What some men find repulsive in a woman, other men find it attractive.eg,some men love stubborn women,while others prefer them cool and reserved.
Others don't mind the plastic surgery and makeup, if anything, they are more willing to pay for it.

I would therefore say that a woman is dumped because the relationship just didn't work! And the reason that it didn't, is limited to that particular relationship not all.

wich normal man go want to date a troublesome woman?

lefulefu:
wich normal man go want to date a troublesome woman?

I think you would cz you love trouble.

nenergy:
Hahaha. Listen, Just because a guy "doesn't mind" your slutty fashion sense doesn't mean he likes it. He might just be tolerating it,so as to get enough of what he really wants.

I understand what you mean and you are right, it happens.
But you will be suprised at what some men/women find tasty in real life.
A gangster looks sexy to some women than the cool reserved guy.So does a 'slutty woman' to some men.
And don't say they aren't willing to settle down with them, unless you are living in paradise.
I'ts a big world full of different people with varied tastes.That you must know.
Thing is,men and women get dumped because an aspect of their relationship failed to work.
The reasons you mentioned above work both ways cz men get dumped for the same same reasons.

pendo89:
I think you would cz you love trouble.



I understand what you mean and you are right, it happens.
But you will be suprised at what some men/women find tasty in real life.
A gangster looks sexy to some women than the cool reserved guy.So does a 'slutty woman' to some men.
And don't say they aren't willing to settle down with them, unless you are living in paradise.
I'ts a big world full of different people with varied tastes.That you must know.
Thing is,men and women get dumped because an aspect of their relationship failed to work.
The reasons you mentioned above work both ways cz men get dumped for the same same reasons.

True!

pendo89: There's no formula poster.
Women are not all the same,neither are relationships,
What some men find repulsive in a woman, other men find it attractive.eg,some men love stubborn women,while others prefer them cool and reserved.
Others don't mind the plastic surgery and makeup, if anything, they are more willing to pay for it.

I would therefore say that a woman is dumped because the relationship just didn't work! And the reason that it didn't, is limited to that particular relationship not all.

true

how can dis OP just ruin and open facts about players like me in public

lefulefu:
wich normal man go want to date a troublesome woman?

i alwz prefer a troublesm woman,did u min am nt normal,i hate dull galz