Pls, I need new ideas cos I have run out of one. My 2 teen sisters are driving me crazy.......and I'm this close to selling them! .....prospective buyers pls indicate your interest.

They are at a stage when they feel they know it all, want to do and see it all. All you should do now is to seek to understand them and manage this transition well.
I have a teenage neice in my house believe me it took so much wisdom, tact and a reminder from my own sisters about my teeange years before I calmed down and made peace with the situation.
Shouting and constantly punishing them will only push them further to rebelion, sit and talk with them, listen to them! Why do they act out? Who are they trying to impress? If you don't manage them well at this stage it goes very wrong.
Remember your own teenage years and all you had to go through multiply it by 10 because now we have "the kardashians" teaching them all sorts of rubbish, we phones, facebook and chat groups, so manage them well, if you shout and scream without talking all they need is 100 naira for internet cafe.
Stop punishing and start listening

Help them develop a healthy esteem and their own identity. Its the follow the crowd mentality that causes rebelion at this age

First of all take away their phone to deprive them from 2go
because 2go is possess it has the tendency to lead people astray

vivian chinaza: Pls, I need new ideas cos I have run out of one. My 2 teen sisters are driving me crazy.......and I'm this close to selling them! .....prospective buyers pls indicate your interest.

just reason with them and understand em, not sure you were much different from them when you were at that age.

take away the phone.....always works !

How much are u selling?

youthful exoberance nd band wagon effect at work.u really need wisdom to handle this.have one on one talk with them.do the talking one person at a time.

Seek God first and every other thing shall be.......

How about collecting their phones, monitor the way they dress and restrict their outgoings.
Always advise them, and u will definately see some changes.

5much: youthful exoberance nd band wagon effect at work.u really need wisdom to handle this.have one on one talk with them.do the talking one person at a time.

'Exuberance' not *exoberance*.... Quit the grandiloquence....

Hmmm, very sensitive stage of human development!

nikkyshyne: How much are u selling?

just about my thought!

I dont really have one but i think advice and patience can do the magic and b4 i forget prayer keep praying for them,i do have a teenage bro he makes me wanna kill him but i just go to my room and keep myself busy

Seat them down and have heart to heart talk with them.shear your experiences with them from there they will learn to change

Rather than screaming, shouting or even beating them when they misbehave why not calmly as questions,listen and at the end calmly tell them their punishment. Withholding some privileges will surely help but don't overdo it

@ vivian chinaza

Pictures Pls

Give them only rice no chiken, let them watch only cattoon network no African Magic. however, if there is no changes over time, just sale them.

Post full pictures please. We cannot offer any useful or valid advice on what we cannot see. Doing so will be grossly preposterous. Sincerely!

Best u can do is 2 relate well with them. So dat they can tell u anything bodring them.

floriana: Post full pictures please. We cannot offer any useful or valid advice on what we cannot see . Doing so will be grossly preposterous. Sincerely!

Bad guy, you mean buy shei...

I have daughters and the method l used is to "be their best friend from a very early age"!

Not easy but "firmness when needed" and being extremely accommodating and open with them ensures that they feel "easy" in my presence.

I smack my children a lot at around the age of "6 - 10 years" (thats when we "set" the "ground rules" in our father/child relationship).... l also endeavor to be very close to them (by constant reassurance and open display of love, giving gifts, outdoor activities together, like cycling, football, e.t.c) around that period.

E noor easy o but l can tell you It works.

Now, when l just "frown my face", they already know someone has CROSSED A RED LINE! ( over the years, l have "designed" a special type of FROWN that can even kill a Gorilla" )
I dont even need to say ANYTHING, talkless of shouting!

Its better if our kids can be our "friend" instead of being "afraid" of us,,,,,, ...cos they would outgrow that "fear" one day.... and what would you have left?

Lastpage!

Uhmmm...ban them from shopping?

Bring them to my house make i use my thing teach them lesson by destroying (boring big hole in) their em... with my rod. Make u see if them no go change and start they fear the thing. Or Madam call sokoto governor make him come flog them bulala if them no go change

Spare not de rod nd spoil de child.

Make i place my bid, d 2 for 10 naira.

Come down to their level and interact with them(and making them remember u can still spank dem wen dey go wild). Encourage them by buying them useful literature that will help them. Collecting their phones will not even help cos they'd always find a way to do whatever they want to. Don't compare them with pple and help them to stay positive minded,making them know they can do better than d next person.

Practice all you have been told and give us feedback

Lol my parents used to take all of my entertainment (tv, dvd player, computer, game console; etc) out of my room i would get my portable cd player back on weekends lmao.

vivian chinaza: Pls, I'm this close to selling them! .....prospective buyers pls indicate your interest.

Interested
Here is my proof of past successful deals.

First of all, how are older are you than they?

vivian chinaza: Pls, I need new ideas cos I have run out of one. My 2 teen sisters are driving me crazy.......and I'm this close to selling them! .....prospective buyers pls indicate your interest.

Are they up to blowing age?