dmcdad:

Sure! There are other men that can do the wooing even though they are not the kinda men she wants.. Abi?

is she d kind of woman he wants? if she is, he'l come to her. women dont do d chasing.

goofie:

is she d kind of woman he wants? if she is, he'l come to her. women dont do d chasing.

That ain't chasing my dear.. Do u even care if the guy is kinda the shy type?

dmcdad:

That ain't chasing my dear.. Do u even care if the guy is kinda the shy type?

if hes d shy type, does dt mean dt evry girl he like hv to woo him first? its not a womans place to woo a man. dts my opinion. u myt say a woman should woo a man. dts ur opinion. we dont hv to hv d same opinion.

goofie:

if hes d shy type, does dt mean dt evry girl he like hv to woo him first? its not a womans place to woo a man. dts my opinion. u myt say a woman should woo a man. dts ur opinion. we dont hv to hv d same opinion.

That's right, we have different views. Mind u... I never stated it outrightly that they should woo men. I just said it could happen in rare cases (since not all men are mature 2 contain such). Anywayz, it's all good with your views

eye contact, eye contact, eye contact.

1. They will keep looking at you, but look away as soon as you look back at them. (with snowbunnies their face gets really red)

2. They will ask you a random stupid question like, 'were is the water fountain'

4. They will make direct eye contact and not look away. (sheesh)

3. They will keep looking in your general direction without making eye contact... this last one is tricky, i have never acted on it yet so its unconfirmed

goofie:

if hes d shy type, does dt mean dt evry girl he like hv to woo him first? its not a womans place to woo a man. dts my opinion. u myt say a woman should woo a man. dts ur opinion. we dont hv to hv d same opinion.

No one is saying the woman has to woo the man... But the truth is, for young people the female has the choice in dating. A man can ask a million girls for their number but none will say yes if they were not attracted to him in the first place.

That is why girls should let dudes know they are interested, then he has the green-light to move in and ask for her number. This is the best and most efficient way. People end up in bad match-ups because dude are asking out girls who don't really like them, while girls are not getting with the guys they want because they are being passive. If this is too much for you then you have insecurity issues.

goofie: afterall s.perms chase
e.ggs n not d oda way round

owkay

djeezy: Nice thread. I think body signals will convey the message but in rare cases, the girl tells the guy. Last week i boarded a public bus and i sat next to a pretty girl. I got my shades on and right from the time i entered the bus, the girl has been staring at me, most times she would lean on my body amongst other things. As a sharp guy i just got the signal, started a convo with her and got her number. It was just like magic. As i type now, i am making huge progress.

You havent made no progress as far as Im concerened.

Fork her first, then and only then would you have made 'progress'

pleep: No one is saying the woman has to woo the man... But the truth is, for young people the female has the choice in dating. A man can ask a million girls for their number but none will say yes if they were not attracted to him in the first place.

That is why girls should let dudes know they are interested, then he has the green-light to move in and ask for her number. This is the best and most efficient way. People end up in bad match-ups because dude are asking out girls who don't really like them, while girls are not getting with the guys they want because they are being passive. If this is too much for you then you have insecurity issues.

i see that d world is changing and its expected dt women hv to give green lyt to men for them to woo them. wow! pls dont make me laugh. it hs neva bn declared that

a woman hs 2 give d man green light first. d man sees a woman n goes 4 her wheda or not she gives green lyt.its his job to convince and persuade her. bt u want

it easy. no sir! pls dont turn d tables

pleep: eye contact, eye contact, eye contact.

1. They will keep looking at you, but look away as soon as you look back at them. (with snowbunnies their face gets really red)

2. They will ask you a random stupid question like, 'were is the water fountain'

4. They will make direct eye contact and not look away.

3. They will keep looking in your general direction without making eye contact... this last one is tricky, i have never acted on it yet so its unconfirmed

If a gal is feelin, she'll shw u diff signs lyk d ones u've bin tld and 4 u 2 confirm..jst walk up 2 her & gv her a deep kiss...if truely she's feelin u, she'll reciprocate d romantic gesture if nt, gt ready 4 a dirty slap

onila:

goofie:

i see that d world is changing and its expected dt women hv to give green lyt to men for them to woo them. wow! pls dont make me laugh. it hs neva bn declared that

a woman hs 2 give d man green light first. d man sees a woman n goes 4 her wheda or not she gives green lyt.its his job to convince and persuade her. bt u want

it easy. no sir! pls dont turn d tables

Is it so hard for you to just make eye contact with the person who are interested in, so he can go ahead and ask for your number? You are Pathetic.

Believe me the women who have 'success' with men don't just sit around like a log waiting for something to come along. They have game... and the men who have success with women don't have the time or the energy to "Persuade" a random stranger to like them.

i feel sorry for Nigerian men if yall have to deal with this kinda nonsense...

pleep:

Is it so hard for you to just make eye contact with the person who are interested in, so he can go ahead and ask for your number? You are Pathetic.

Believe me the women who have 'success' with men don't just sit around like a log waiting for something to come along. They have game... and the men who have success with women don't have the time or the energy to "Persuade" a random stranger to like them.

sit like a log of wood n keep waiting to get eye contact,green light and dont go for what u want whn u see it.

I don't wait to get eye contact, i make eye contact. If the girl doesn't return it i move on.

goofie:

sit like a log of wood n keep waiting to get eye contact,green light and dont go for what u want whn u see it.

men go for what they see on a random day

eye contact style is used by girls who are interested in guys they like

to complete this thread formular. . . . .

i have never asked a guy out

my way of asking guys out is =eye contact hidden signals

this style have worked for me since i was 13

and 100 percent of the time the guys come and say hi 2 me GAME

tintingz: to complete this thread formular. . . . .

onila: i have never asked a guy out

my way of asking guys out is =eye contact hidden signals

this style have worked for me since i was 13

and 100 percent of the time the guys come and say hi 2 me GAME

Exactly take it from a girl with game.

pleep: No one is saying the woman has to woo the man... But the truth is, for young people the female has the choice in dating. A man can ask a million girls for their number but none will say yes if they were not attracted to him in the first place.

That is why girls should let dudes know they are interested, then he has the green-light to move in and ask for her number. This is the best and most efficient way. People end up in bad match-ups because dude are asking out girls who don't really like them, while girls are not getting with the guys they want because they are being passive. If this is too much for you then you have insecurity issues.

Thanks for elucidating.. True talk

pleep: i feel sorry for Nigerian men if yall have to deal with this kinda nonsense...

Certainly not someone like me, when I know I want to invest in ur life why would I want to waste my time in convincing someone who is not gonna offer much... Nonsense!

goofie:

sit like a log of wood n keep waiting to get eye contact,green light and dont go for what u want whn u see it.

The gurlz that sit and wait for the guy to work his way out, do they get the better of men? They are the same pple that will sit and whine that all men are the same..

pleep: I don't wait to get eye contact, i make eye contact. If the girl doesn't return it i move on.

Exactly!

onila: men go for what they see on a random day

eye contact style is used by girls who are interested in guys they like

Thank u jare.. Thats the way it works. Does that mean goofie doesnt have any guy she likes before getting in contact? Na wa o

u ppl r just funny. Considering d posts av read so far. Anyways, once i ws too naive to notice a readn mate in my TDB days bk in uni ws really feeln me. Got so bad she had to scribble smth on a piece of paper for me...b4 i came bk to earth. It read " u know some of us at times need pampering". All d wyl i tot her fonds were strictly mutual. D numerous visits to my lecture classes n lots more. All d same sha, didnt let d male pride down...took d opportunity n d rest na story. Worth d wyl. Wen a woman wants u, its a lot beta n safe...u r home.

A lady who is interested in a man will stare at him a lot and try to avert her eyes when caught. That's a good tell tale sign. Women need to be a bit more engaging with men especially wit total strangers. Here'S a short story.

A friend of mine will be getting married to a nice dude next month. How did they meet? They sat next to each other on a local flight and she greeted him and asked if she could read the newspaper he had in his hands. That simple gesture started a convo btw them. Her fiancé admits that he didn't notice her and never will have if she had not asked for the paper as he was tired and had planned to sleep trough out the flight. But her asking for the paper led to an engaging conversation which led to him getting her number and wooing her which is nw leading to their marriage.

However ladies, let's keep our signals subtle cos truth be told I don't think there's a man alive mature enough to handle u pursuing him. When push comes to shove he will say u came to him on ur hands and knees begging to have him. So give out little signals and be subtle about it.

Well telin a guy i lyk him cud jst pass as an innocent remark xo if he goes abou tinking nd placing anytin romantic 2 it den hez gt 2 deal wit d@ cos if i feel anytin close 2 anytin romantic i'd rather kip it 2 maisef dan tell him cos as long as we're Nigerians d@ impressions will alwais be dia abou girls d@ does such xo i'd rather kip it 2 maisef dan create an impression wether gud or bad

some girls use their eyes and its just powerfull ... I remember this one time me this Guatamalen exchange student, we stared at each other all the way down the hallway and even turned out heads when we walked past each other. I had a smile plastered on my face for the next five minutes.

But I was such a pussy back then.. and i never even got her number.

And one time this Israeli lady at the mall, she was selling some sort of dead sea soap. Our eyes locked and she winked. That was the sexiest thing i have ever seen in my life. (she was prolly trying to get me to buy soap tho. )

Some things a chick does can change her from an 8 to a 10.

Hmmmmm,when i like a guy,i tell d guy 'i tink i like u'.

galadima77: u ppl r just funny. Considering d posts av read so far. Anyways, once i ws too naive to notice a readn mate in my TDB days bk in uni ws really feeln me. Got so bad she had to scribble smth on a piece of paper for me...b4 i came bk to earth. It read " u know some of us at times need pampering". All d wyl i tot her fonds were strictly mutual. D numerous visits to my lecture classes n lots more. All d same sha, didnt let d male pride down...took d opportunity n d rest na story. Worth d wyl. Wen a woman wants u, its a lot beta n safe...u r home.

i'd say nt all guys wud feel d@ way abou d@

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