My problem is that I dated a Caribbean girl while in Europe. I pushed to go further with her while in but all to no avail. When I came back to Naija, I decided to forget about her but she seriously held onto me demanding that we skype every night. Worse still, till date we still end up discussing career and stuff. She gently rebuffs each time I bring up love issues. Promised to visit me here in Naija but I am thinking...

soccerinfo9ja:

Lol if i ever take this post seriously i would be walking up to so many girls daily. Lol naa. But if u doupt u can click on my profile sha

Fine boy.com

dmcdad:

My dear... Maturity here ain't about the age buh ur ability to handle situations with high level of reasoning. Besides, one who is mature is balanced psychologically, emotionally and otherwise. What is emotional balance? I think it's the ability to handle an emotional situation sanely and with dignity irrespective of the emotional tension..

So, like I said from the outset, if and only if one is very mature. Capiché?

94% of psychotics think they are sane... How do you define sane?

lalaosky:

spot on but if i were ever to be a gurl, i don't think i will tow that line reason being the different scenarios i've seen where the guy's paints the said gurls name black after getting them laid.

Men are the chasers but in a case where the lady thinks she will loose the guy if she keeps mute, then she should tell the guy after weighing the pros and cons of such act.

if i was to be a gurl, i will simply give him some signs that a guy that who is observant will notice.signs like always being with him,making him smile, playfully hitting on him or bringing love matters up whenever we're together plus other numerous stuffs.if he doesn't notice that am actually digging him, then i'll take it that he isn't intrested.sadly though, sometimes, some guys don't get to notice this signs.

They do my dear, its just that they are too in love with someone else, so they ignore it. Every matured guy know when a gurl is interested in him.

goofie:

i see that d world is changing and its expected dt women hv to give green lyt to men for them to woo them. wow! pls dont make me laugh. it hs neva bn declared that

a woman hs 2 give d man green light first. d man sees a woman n goes 4 her wheda or not she gives green lyt.its his job to convince and persuade her. bt u want

it easy. no sir! pls dont turn d tables

This is y men end up wit women who dont really n truely love them.
This is y women end up with players at times.
If the guy is matured all he needs r signals 2 make him realize that she likes him.

pleep:

Is it so hard for you to just make eye contact with the person who are interested in, so he can go ahead and ask for your number? You are Pathetic.

Believe me the women who have 'success' with men don't just sit around like a log waiting for something to come along. They have game... and the men who have success with women don't have the time or the energy to "Persuade" a random stranger to like them.

Padi mi, heaven know say i no get time 2 start 2 convince any chick 2 like me.

Idowuogbo: wen i see a guy i like, i plot. After plotting, i point and hook. Sefini!

this is why am crazy over her

chakula: Thread deserves ladies attention but it possesses more of guys, the purpose of the thread at the end is possibly not achieved.

Who told u? Cant u c d guys r tellin d gurls dat they want them 2 make signals, nt moves. Truth is evri guy wants a gurl who truely lyks him and not him forcing himself on her 2 lyk him.

There's dis pretty chick in my class dat has been tryin 2 get my attentn. She's always surrounded by guys because of her beauty and am not d kind of guy dat rush to get girls' attentn. She always try 2 talk 2 me and her eyes always meet mine frequently. Pls tell me, is she throwing d 'i lyk u' signs or what?

[quote author=tpia1]dunno, its been a while since i liked any guy outside the tv screen.
U go dey masturbate gan.abi u wan enta tv go meet d guys.

djeezy: Nice thread. I think body signals will convey the message but in rare cases, the girl tells the guy. Last week i boarded a public bus and i sat next to a pretty girl. I got my shades on and right from the time i entered the bus, the girl has been staring at me, most times she would lean on my body amongst other things. As a sharp guy i just got the signal, started a convo with her and got her number. It was just like magic. As i type now, i am making huge progress.

guy abeg what did you talk about cause a similar thing happen to me the girl was all over me but i just coud'nt start a convo with her

mawojuuche:

because of p.uu.s.sy? huge progress indeed!!! i jst f.uc.kd dat gal incase u dnt knw

hahahahahahahahahahaha......

warrior101:

94% of psychotics think they are sane... How do you define sane?

Sane in that context means: Sensible and reasonable...

georgesylva:
This is y men end up wit women who dont really n truely love them.
This is y women end up with players at times.
If the guy is matured all he needs r signals 2 make him realize that she likes him.

Gbam!

Adamsdelrio: There's dis pretty chick in my class dat has been tryin 2 get my attentn. She's always surrounded by guys because of her beauty and am not d kind of guy dat rush to get girls' attentn. She always try 2 talk 2 me and her eyes always meet mine frequently. Pls tell me, is she throwing d 'i lyk u' signs or what?

Don't you know that in most cases gurlz are attracted to guys that don't give a f**k about them, especially when every other guys around you are always on her... Guy! You are the boss. Strike whenever you are disposed to do that. Besides, it might beat ur imagination that, she'd refuse every other guys all because of you.. I tell you, she'll feel honoured the first time u get to talk to her

Eeem, personally, I dont think I ever asked any of my dates out.... Mostly they do d askin, or things jus grow from friendship to datin.. To me, if you open ur mouth and tell me u're into me, I'll see u as courageous, knowin wat u want, as someone possessin confidence, i'll see it as a huge step towards d +ve direction of ur maturity level... BUT If you prefer to use ur so-called 'signs and wonders'.. No p! I notice em all and Both of us go use am till a more serious girl comes and takes place.. That time O mee gi VAAM na anya!!!

when u met them sitting down,they will express their feelings by twisting of their two legs. I have observed this severely.

If a girl likes u she wil keep a constant eye contact. D bold ones wil like to join in your talk wit others just to get ur attention.she wil also support ur views and comments in a coversation.If a girl likes u she wil keep a constant eye contact. D bold ones wil like to join in your talk wit others just to get ur attention.she wil also support ur views and comments in a coversation.If a girl likes u she wil keep a constant eye contact. D bold ones wil like to join in your talk wit others just to get ur attention.she wil also support ur views and comments in a coversation.

Only God knows the amount of body language and eye contact I have misinterpreted in my lifetime. If a girl says "I really like your shirt" or asks me what perfume I use, that is bound to get my attention. Girls, una dey suffer yourselves oooo. Staring at someone is creepy sef. Most girls that stare at me, I just admire and walk off.

12 inches!:
Only God knows the amount of body language and eye contact I have misinterpreted in my lifetime. If a girl says "I really like your shirt" or asks me what perfume I use, that is bound to get my attention. Girls, una dey suffer yourselves oooo. Staring at someone is creepy sef. Most girls that stare at me, I just admire and walk off.

sincerely it seems you are more like me Bro...

12 inches!:
Only God knows the amount of body language and eye contact I have misinterpreted in my lifetime. If a girl says "I really like your shirt" or asks me what perfume I use, that is bound to get my attention. Girls, una dey suffer yourselves oooo. Staring at someone is creepy sef. Most girls that stare at me, I just admire and walk off.

haha lol!

I think thats the best policy

somtimes wen a gurl stares at me for long and i notice that,i walk up to her for convo and she ends up showing me serious red light like as if i hav offended her before in her past life.So i guess all dis much eye contact of a thing by gurls does not work for me at all.

I will ignore him. That has really worked for me cos then the guy will just be wondering wats different about me. I try to be different from othhers also. However, when we get to talk then he will get to know me and realise m not that hard as I protrayed. Then he would v fallen flat

"v fallen flat" what do you mean?

Fallen in love such that it will take him time to recover

^^^^^ Seriously? Wahala dey be that ooooo

I think any matured gurl should be courageous enough to go for what she want