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What Number Of BBM Contacts Is Considered Normal? by sienna116(f): 5:38pm On Jan 12, 2013
A friend of mine was going through my blackberry and she exclaimed at the number of contacts on my BBM.
My BBM contacts are less than 60 consisting of friends, family, colloegues, acquaintances etc. I know some people who have up to a hundred contacts on their BBM. Which leads me to the question; what number of contacts is considered normal? What are the advantages of having too little or too many bbm contacts?
Over to you, my honourable nairalanders.
Re: What Number Of BBM Contacts Is Considered Normal? by sienna116(f): 5:59am On Jan 26, 2013
Not a single post? Great nairalanders! Where art thou? Thou doest have no blackberry?
Re: What Number Of BBM Contacts Is Considered Normal? by Bawss1(m): 6:53am On Jan 26, 2013
Studies have shown that there is actually a limit to the number of people an individual can maintain a stable social relationship with. That limit is usually around the 150 mark even though experts say it ranges from 100 to 230. It is referred to as Durban's Number. Above this range more restrictive rules have to be put in place for the group relationship to be stable.
In social media one sees individuals with friends that number in the thousands and one's suspicion is that there is no way in hell for all those friendships to be genuine or solidly built. Many are just acquaintances or random people with no real claim to friendship.
This is also the case for BBM.
Re: What Number Of BBM Contacts Is Considered Normal? by Nobody: 9:09am On Jan 26, 2013
Having more than 200 is too much,having less than 20 is too little.
Re: What Number Of BBM Contacts Is Considered Normal? by Nobody: 10:11am On Jan 26, 2013
@OP I have 69 contacts including you. grin
I think your contacts relevance matters. I use mine to keep in touch with family and business contacts. Very few friends. I have some who are of no relevance too so sometimes it's good to delete such people, then I keep those who might have something to offer in the near future. Someone like you
grin
Re: What Number Of BBM Contacts Is Considered Normal? by sienna116(f): 11:50am On Jan 26, 2013
@wizee, more than 200? So 199 contacts is moderate?
@ brand_new". Lol. u have me on ur contact list? May I know you please
Re: What Number Of BBM Contacts Is Considered Normal? by Nobody: 2:43pm On Jan 26, 2013
sienna116:
@ brand_new". Lol. u have me on ur contact list? May I know you please
Seems you're not the Sienna of auto section.
Re: What Number Of BBM Contacts Is Considered Normal? by SisiKill1: 2:52pm On Jan 26, 2013
Brand_new:
Seems you're not the Sienna of auto section.
People must call you Sherlock in real life. ...your powers of deduction are astonishing. shocked

@ Topic
Why can't people live and let live Why must every little itty bitty trivial things be defined according to some norm? If you wanna have a billion contacts go right ahead and let the person who wants to have 2 do theirs.

Jeez. ...Naija and thier need to tell people how to live their lives. ..God help us.
Re: What Number Of BBM Contacts Is Considered Normal? by Nobody: 3:07pm On Jan 26, 2013
Sisi_Kill:
People must call your Sherlock in real life. ...your powers of deduction are astonishing. shocked
***SOBBING***Not my fault cheesy
Re: What Number Of BBM Contacts Is Considered Normal? by djeezy(m): 4:28pm On Jan 26, 2013
The maximum i've eva got is 150. I have many friends who happen to be blackberry users. But with time i realised i do not need too many contacts, expecially the "ghost" ones, just few active chat buddies. And so i reduced it to 120. And also With the help of naijapings app, some people have been able to get outrageous number of contacts.

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