presido1:

Ujujoan na benin fly by night u wan try, abeg find another pesin, that woman abi girl no get work.
Me i no get work, i dey for Nairaland 24 hours and everytime i log in she is here. I don ask am before.
She say she don marry, i wonder weda na Nairaland be her husband, she say she get pikin, i wonda when
she dey dey with im pikin.  
But wetin be una prob. wey she dey cus u like say she be godess(she fit be oo).
She even say na e-m husband dey wash plate when them eat finish

AJ abeg no cus me put ooo. ma papa na pastor sha, if u try am na back to senda.

_{make i run comot before she enta}

ringing bell to welucome 2 of una inside ring u see she wan turn to snake(agwo nkiriko)

Why a go cuss you?  I only deal with nosey bitches!  Yes ooooooooooooooooooh!  Nairaland be ma husband and pickins them!   The real ones are eating excement for lack of attention and dereliction of "wifely" and "motherly" duties? Any problems?  At least no divorce yet from any side! Everyone is happy with the terms of "excrement" eating!  We will all match to the shrine to celebrate 25 years of "excremental bliss"!  That is all that counts abi? While some people are still struggling to start or settle in!

Fly by night bini winch. . . . . .very proud anyday!  Na beans? Send una people make them try the "winch" thingy if na so e easy!

oziomatv:

Bros make una take am easy una no see sey na women matter be this?
   
   But why una dey put mouth for women matter?  leave them make them dig am out women style.




_{AJ na igbowoman ooooo} I no talk

I am happy you know say me be Igbo woman and me whey get that wonderful "Biafra" blood for ma veins too! Nothing partial inside. My wahala has nothing to do with tribes. I deal with[b] issu[/b]es not tribes or personalities.  If a certain group of people tend to display some kind of  characteristics I detest. . . .I just deal with them as such. . . people with issues!  I do not fight guys if I can help it unless I really hate your guts.  Una never reach that level but I am watching.  Only the poisonous guys I really focus on.  But as far as na woman like me. . . .all bets are off!  I hate nosey conniving bitches!

laudate:

I can't believe am reading all these! Chai! See cyber-abuse flying left, right & centre. Kilode, like Yorubas would say.

Almondjoy, take am easy. Na wetin Ujujoan take do you?

Ujujoan, slow down. Na where you and Almondjoy jam unaself before?

Wetin cause this fight now? I thought that with that cool, mature, sensible, thoughtful advice from Nwando, the whole questions the OP brought to this thread, would have been resolved. Na wetin come be all this one?

I weak o!

Laudate. . .no worry jare. . . . sometimes na agbero market fit us! People should learn to mind their business and learn not to attack others with useless fake ID names.  This busy body matter will always cause problems and what you have here is a classic example when others do not mind their business and attack others for what they feel they believe or express.  So tell the appropriate busy bodies to learn to mind their own burning bushes. . . .simple!

Welcome back by the way!

I may not be a prophet to know it, cause I've gone through your post and figured out some nwada igbo comments.
    you married to edoman right?

na wa oh!

oziomatv:

I may not be a prophet to know it, cause I've gone through your post and figured out some nwada igbo comments.
    you married to edoman right?

Igbo man of course!   I am half Igbo too!  Like I said nothing partial or personal just issues! Anything that deserved to be cussed out. . . .gets cussed out. EXCEPT EDO PEOPLE OF COURSE! They are too much of a peace loving people to even indulge in such, as you can see!

almondjoy:

Igbo man of course! I am half Igbo too! Like I said nothing partial or personal just issues! Anything that deserved to be cussed out. . . .gets cussed out. EXCEPT EDO PEOPLE OF COURSE! They are too much of a peace loving people to even indulge in such, as you can see!

It should be my honour as a brother to invite you to igbo kwenu thread hope you don't mind writting igbo language?

oziomatv:

It should be my honour as a brother to invite you to igbo kwenu thread hope you don't mind writting igbo language?

Oh, thank you. But I just like to read those comments offline and laff my arse off with the kinds of things being discussed there. You guys are hilarious! I will just be an observer for now.

Don't tell me that you read my stupid jokes?

Of course I do. . . .The reason I say you guys are hilarious.  I just relax with ma food and drink and read those threads off line without disturbance.  A very good laff  I say.

weird combo

almondjoy:

Igbo man of course!   I am half Igbo too!  Like I said nothing partial or personal just issues! Anything that deserved to be cussed out. . . .gets cussed out. EXCEPT EDO PEOPLE OF COURSE! They are too much of a peace loving people to even indulge in such, as you can see!

@AJ, Edos are peace loving What planet are you living on? You must have seen some of ya people chasing each other with that big pot called "agbari ojukwu"

Nice tactic by Ozioma. At least, the war is over for now

Na wa oh! So this thread is still alive Kai!

Hi there! I believe the underlying question here is - can inter-tribal/inter-racial relationships work?

Unequivocably, YES! I personally don't believe it should be brought down (narrowly) to yoruba-ibo-hausa, or any other tribe. Especially in a country as diverse as ours,

Look around you and you will find that as the world evolves, preserving purity of race/ethnicity becomes harder and harder. I mean even viral strains are mutating naturally,  food for thought.

I think cross-marrying should be embraced as a unique opportunity to co-exist. Even science has proven that hybrids (offsprings/products of 2 different strains , come out of better quality than the sum of the individual strains),  Hence why we find Mulattos/Halfcasts as infinitely more beautiful, etc,

Furthermore, this should no longer be a subject of debate in mordern day nija where people have handed over rulership of their lives to spirituality (Jesus, etc, ). That then becomes the standard. And to my knowledge no religion professes discrimination.

The deciding factor in a relationship whether inter-racial/inter-tribal/ or the the same tribes, are the 2 people involved. It is no longer about families and satisfying them, but about the girl and the boy. If they believe in each other and what they have, they should go for it.  I'm married to an Arab. It's now over 12yrs. My sister imarried an igbo man, now oever 17yrs. My brother married from Congo Brassivilem now ievr 18yrs. My elder sister married from Benin Rep, now over 12yrs. Another brother married an Efik woman. The baby brother is marrying a bini girl. The lesson of this story is that we decide for ourselves and sort out our differences when they do happen. And belive me no tribe of marriage is immune to challenges in marriage.

I personally think our people have become lazy in their dependence. We like to yap about our marital qualms to our family and friends in the guise of seeking advice. We fear that if we marry outside our tribes we might loose this "support" and so, this causes us to hesitate in marrying from outside our tribes.

The main thing is be conscious of what you want. Go for it knowing that life in itself is a challenge. And in any challenge it helps to have a friend you can depend on. Assure yourself that the person you are choosing to marry is worthy of that role. Live your life and determine to be prepared to represent. to show that it can work. Understanding and love is the formula.

As for te kids, i agree it is a constant battle trying to keep one's own personal identity and culture. And the questio always is - whos culture shall we teach the kids. I would sya that is scondary. the kids will learn both cultures and in return the entire family will be enriched by it.

Good luck!

Nigerians need to get over themselves.

Igbo chicks are ok but they have mysterious genes like really.

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^^^ whats your problem mehn its not a good look for other yoruba ladies

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tpia.:

Imagine the likes of Michelin talking trash.

Thats how her sister gamine was telling stories of how her hausa taxi driver said everyone knows Yoruba women are ugly.

her sister Michelin isnt ugly, but Yoruba women are.

Talk about pointing one finger and having four fingers pointing back at you.

I'm quite sure Yoruba males are among the ones buttering up these people.

what wont people say for a indecencies and a chance to enter diamond womanliness.

sista mi, e ya fi won le
oro awon yoruba okunrin wa dabi aja to ba ma sonu nii
ko ni gbo fere olode

infact my elder brother is dating one(he is only a joker)am not a tribalist but they believed the guy jumped from heaven because they always do it in such a way that the guy neglects his families even his parent
ifact let me say 70% of yoruba abuja guys get hooked up wit igbo ladies
while 67% of them are now regretting
the reason been that there nothing like 'first time' in their dictionary(they moved in wit u the day u approached them) and also they could go any lenght in getting a man for instance,use their money to cook food for the guy, buy him cloth and the rest(is not as if the guy is not ok and u know our men with ifa, ijekuje),i dont even think is ordinary , at the end of the day, married her (wen the guy would have been fooled that she is a good and nice girl) they would start drying him(both wit wat she invested and non-investment)
thats wat they do in abuja, we referred that as abuja marriage
is not new to me wen this poster came up with such

Na wa o.

foyeks2001:



sista mi, e ya fi won le
oro awon yoruba okunrin wa dabi aja to ba ma sonu nii
ko ni gbo fere olode

infact my elder brother is dating one(he is only a joker)am not a tribalist but they believed the guy jumped from heaven because they always do it in such a way that the guy neglects his families even his parent
ifact let me say 70% of yoruba abuja guys get hooked up wit igbo ladies
while 67% of them are now regretting
the reason been that there nothing like 'first time' in their dictionary(they moved in wit u the day u approached them) and also they could go any lenght in getting a man for instance,use their money to cook food for the guy, buy him cloth and the rest(is not as if the guy is not ok and u know our men with ifa, ijekuje),i dont even think is ordinary , at the end of the day, married her (wen the guy would have been fooled that she is a good and nice girl) they would start drying him(both wit wat she invested and non-investment)
thats wat they do in abuja, we referred that as abuja marriage
is not new to me wen this poster came up with such

am not a tribalist

they believed the guy jumped from heaven because they always do it in such a way that the guy neglects his families even his parent

re re re re re
bla bla blah
Oloshi Alakori.
Will you shut your orifice??
Your lame attempt at making any sense came up short.
You claim not be a tribalist but your post reeks of tribalism and utter stupidery.
I’ll advice you again to shut your orifice and keep your drivel to urself.

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OMO IBO:

re re re re re
bla bla blah
Oloshi Alakori.
Will you shut your orifice??
Your lame attempt at making any sense came up short.
You claim not be a tribalist but your post reeks of tribalism and utter stupidery.
I’ll advice you again to shut your orifice and keep your drivel to urself.

e ri were
jo ma bu mi je jor, yaba apa osi ni ile oo

foyeks2001:


e ri were
jo ma bu mi je jor, yaba apa osi ni ile oo

Ko ni da fu e so gbon.

O ni were

^^oponu ni e.

ode.

OMO IBO:

Ko ni da fu e so gbon.

O ni were

mi o blame e now, she bi awon omo osan ti won ko ponpon ba ya won ni mo blame
iwo obuko yii(alara rirun ati enu rirun yii)

foyeks2001:


mi o blame e now, she bi awon omo osan ti won ko ponpon ba ya won ni mo blame
iwo obuko yii(alara rirun ati enu rirun yii)

Gbe enu e so un jare.
Oloriburuku omo jati jati

Aye baje.

wo mi o ni time ee mo sogbo
je ka tun pade ni ojo monday nitori av got to close from work(u jobless thing)
look am aint a tribalist , am a detribalised nigerian(mingle wit everybody that comes my way), u have to come to Abuja and see wat ur girls(its just that i cant withstand the way the behave here) are doing there(cant say of Lagos but very sure of Abuja)

OMO IBO:

Gbe enu e so un jare.
Oloriburuku omo jati jati

Aye baje.

mo sin e je sogbo
iwo ti awon era (ant) ti da opolo e ruu yii(thats why u cant reason)

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