This post was inspired by the HIV/AIDS campaign that says; An HIV/AIDS free generation is possible, it begins with you. Heart-breaks can be painful and devastating. Many ladies have been “damaged” by men and would never really love again because one “yeye” boy toyed with their heart. Many guys go about with a twisted mind-set towards women, because one girl showed him pepper. Suicide, acid baths, juju attacks and murder are reported in the news because of heart-breaks.
I thought about this and came up with ways of preventing/avoiding heart breaks. Feel free to add your own.
• Don’t lie just to get some: if all you want about that girl is her waist, then tell her so. Don’t say you love her, or you’ll marry her because you want to get in between her legs. Just be true to yourself and tell her “all i want is your waist” and she might just want your 3rd leg too-. A win win for everyone!
• Know yourself: “Man know thy self”; this isn’t from the bible, it’s a quote from a philosopher. If you know yourself, you’ll know what works and what doesn’t work for you.
• Know what you want: when you know yourself you’ll know what you want. So decide on the kind of lady you want and pursue her only.
• Pursue only what you want: Personally I’ll never date a lady i can’t marry. That means i only date “my type”. So save that girl a devastating heart-break, don’t date her if she’s not your type.
• Talk, talk, talk : So many relationships end in heart-break because “lovers” spend too much time kissing, smooching and “hoo-haa” activities to actually have a heart-to-heart talk. Talking reveals deep thought, thoughts that can help you decide the direction and future of a relationship.
• If possible no sex: heart-breaks are less painfully if the relationship was “sex-free”. Girls naturally get over relationships faster when they didn’t sleep with the guy. Sex as a spiritual side to it, so don’t “commit” if have no intentions for deep commitments.
*in a primary school debater’s voice*……Hmmmn, valentine is coming o…so with this few points of mine, i hope i have been able to convince and not confuse you that “A heart-break free generation is possible; it begins with you”.
Happy Vals day in advance to all Nairalanders!!!!

Nice post. But there's no such thing as a heart-break free generation. Won't happen, never will.

Cheating is like death.. It's inevitable, unless some kind of sophisticated technology is invented.

God bless you Nenergy for this beautiful post.
Thank God this generation still have men and women God's hand is upon.
Keep it up.