Pls I need an honest advice,I got married last year,and had my first child also last year,my husband elder sister left there house came to my matrimonail home to stay,she put up silly attitude,does things anyhow,doest help in doing anything in d house,d worst she goes into my kitchen and cook her own food,she doesn't even regard my marriage for anything.
I've tried dicussin d issue wit my husband but he takin d whole issue lightly,he can't caution her simply because she's his elder sister.
Pls wat do I do cos am really tired of all these and feel lyk leaving dis marriage cos I feel am not even save wit my husband,I really need my privacy and I need to enjoy my home as a woman.
Pls advice tank u!!!

dear name sake all u av to do is shw her luv buh I tik u really need ur privacy

So it is safe to conclude that not only are you slightly schizophrenic (talking to yourself), you are also delusional (Believing you are a woman living in a big mansion where everyone and their momma wants to live) eh?

My Husband's Elder Uncle Is Living With Us

Good to know.

Sisi_Kill: So it is safe to conclude that not only are slightly schizophrenic (talking to yourself), you are also delusional (Believing you are a woman living in a big mansion where everyone and their momma wants live), eh?

My Husband's Elder Uncle Is Living With Us

Good to know.

lmao @ op busted.you cannot lie for long on nl,nairalanders will always find you out,moreso there's a yoruba proverb that says even if the person been deceived doesnt know,the liar knows he is lying

I was also shocked to Ơ̴̴̴̴͡.̮Ơ̴̴̴͡ that she opened 2 threads with similiar titles.
God dey.
Madam, the only problem u have is You tryin to deceive us with ur multiple threads.

LMAO @ sISI... AHAHAHHA

Lol,na wa 4 u op,liar liar.

Your sister Inlaw hasn't done anything to you. You don't sound like you've made an effort to be accommodating at all you should try and be nicer remember you married into their family you have to give them reasons to love you.

But. Pp, you should have made such things clear from the beginning that you don't intend on living with in laws. I've told my fiancé this already before marriage has even begun just so he doesn't try it.

Plus remember marriage isn't a small thing if your fed up of the marriage because of this little thing then you shouldn't have married to begin with because you don't sound mature enough for such responsibility.

Whats all this Yeye privacy you are talking about sef. Is she joining you on the bed while phucking?
Why cant people just be a little tolerant?

While in school I was staying with over 10 boys in a small room not bigger than a kitchen, even at almost every point in my life I had to stay with people either family or friends.

Thats what makes us Africans our ability to tolerate people thats why we dont ship our families and elderly ones to a Old peoples Homes

Didnt you also live with people I also hope your children would never need to live with people cos thats the same way they would tell him they needed their privacy

Nonsense

OP is even phoney

angelbaby22: Your sister Inlaw hasn't done anything to you. You don't sound like you've made an effort to be accommodating at all you should try and be nicer remember you married into their family you have to give them reasons to love you.

But. Pp, you should have made such things clear from the beginning that you don't intend on living with in laws. I've told my fiancé this already before marriage has even begun just so he doesn't try it.

Plus remember marriage isn't a small thing if your fed up of the marriage because of this little thing then you shouldn't have married to begin with because you don't sound mature enough for such responsibility.

I hope you or your husband never stayed with anyone while growing up, and I hope your children would never stay with anyone too in their whole life

dayokanu:

I hope you or your husband never stayed with anyone while growing up, and I hope your children would never stay with anyone too in their whole life

She and her husband probably did not live with other people while growing up and I think that is a blessing. Not everyone came from some poverty stricken Nigerian home where the parents birthed more children than they can adequately take care of and thereby send their children to live with extended family relatives. Also, not everyone loves a crowded home. Marriage should be between husband, wife and children and not husband, wife, children and extended relatives, especially when the marriage is still young and the couple involved are still trying to get used to each other.

dasparrow:

She and her husband probably did not live with other people while growing up and I think that is a blessing. Not everyone came from some poverty stricken Nigerian home where the parents birthed more children than they can adequately take care of and thereby send their children to live with extended family relatives. Also, not everyone loves a crowded home. Marriage should be between husband, wife and children and not husband, wife, children and extended relatives, especially when the marriage is still young and the couple involved are still trying to get used to each other.

You think the class of people in the bolded are the only ones who get to live with other people and you think poverty is the only reason/situation why one might have to put up with other people for sometime?... or am I the one not getting you?

Ahahhaahhahhhahha**i can't breathe*****oops busted op.

dayokanu:

I hope you or your husband never stayed with anyone while growing up, and I hope your children would never stay with anyone too in their whole life

What's the point if your ranting! Do you think it's acceptable for inlaws to invade the home of a newly married couple. I'm not nigerian so I don't know how things are done there but in my country when a married couple weds you give them privacy for at least one year of the marriage you won't see in laws just popping in unnecessarily to frustrate a marriage that's barely begun. I grew up in a very big family by the way but respect isn't about how many people you grew up exposed to its about how you were brought up and for us were brought up to respect people's privacy and space so I expect the same thing to continue after marriage.

Good luck for your partner in your own marriage I hope they don't run from your crowded home.

This thread is fake.there is another thread like this same date,same body but different caption.