I just called the act idiotic, so take a wild guess as to whether or not I would do that.  As you rightly guessed, no, I wouldn't. I believe when trying to find out about a partner in a relationship, you can ask them(yes, they can lie but at least you asked) or  you can watch their actions (which speak louder than words). Or you can also ask other people who know them (even though you shoud take that with a grain of salt). But testing them? No!

After reading the first post, i couldn't believe my eyes ! your friend is an IDIOT QED! what kinda test is that!! If what you said is true then your friend has thrown away a JEWEL!
As to the testing issue, its a bit of a double edged sword, we should be careful in drawing conclusions to test we set out for our fiance(e). Yes we should test to give one an idea of what a person is capable of considering that you are going for a life partner. but these result should be looked at in proper prespective

this is interesting. . I wonder if Nwoke will be automatically changed to Nwoke?

HAHA, I was right.

S E U N, isn't this going too far?

Testing is useless, he might pass b4 marriage and still fail after marriage. Just go with ur best friend, simple!

which kind of yeye test be that ?

Your friend has let go of a very good wifey like girl because of his foolishness.
Whats the essence of testing someone that has been faithful to you all the while you dated.

You better tell him to go for deliverance cause he has let a good one go.

I dont think i wanna test ma fiancee cause i just cannot be bothered. I feel its childish to test ma fiancee, its not gonna achieve anything except some heartache (if he fails ).

Yo friend is a idoit,  soz 2 say but has to be said.
If he wanted to test her he should have sent another guy to do it, not himself as she was obviously commited to him and willing to whatever it takes to make him happy.
People do for some reason test their partners, but not necessarily fiancees and you get someone else that is not known to u to do it.

All i can say is that, if you get to the point that you have to "test" your girlfriend/fiancee, i'll say call it quits. What is the point?

a real relationship should be built on trust, either you trust them or you dont, no test needed.

IDIOT OF A GUY
Thank God he did not sleep with (disvirgin) her before calling it off. She resisted it but you insisted on it, as a sign of love she agreed and now you said she is a hoe. You will also meet you match someday loser!!

OOOOOOhhhhhhhhhhh my good God,how can he do such a silly thingy and loose such a precious gem,
Where is the love if there is no trust and besides i think there are better ways to test.

The king the guy in question did wrong how can he say such a thing about a woman who was ready to give up her faith to please him?sometimes we all do what is wrong to make those we love happy after pestering her life for God knows how long and probably telling her inbetween the line that if she dosnt do it he will dump her then she finally says a short prayer for forgiveness and agrees to it he dumps her.I believe that God knows that we are not perfect that is why people in relationships whatever the type should be a climbing block for each other and not a stumbling block God did not creat her an angel she made a mistake so what?what if she had said he was a sinner for sugesting her to do that and then called it quit would he be happy with her?Anyway its his loss and i pray her gain for she has learnt that men can be heartless even the so called born again ones and she will be able to make wise decision in the future.You that sugested sex in the first place are you better than her?The only tempters i know in the bible was satan the devil and those he plan to use to destroy other peoples lives no deciple of jesus tempted their fellow believer to the limit then throw them aut of the church for falling.
Finaly you have just succeed to take your wife do girlfriend and i know say na girlfriend material you go take do wife i wonder how some men dont see light when it shines so bright.

NO last temptation if i dont trust him then what am i doing with the wedding gown and his engagement ring?why stir the hornet;s nest when you cant endure the sting?the only thing that will make me call of the wedding in the last mint is if i catch him red handed.God forbid you test a man and he passes onl to do those things you thought he wouldnt do after you enter his house.Let trust and love reign and allow God do the rest except the lord gives you a good partner your tests will be in vain if you like test from now to 2mrow.

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that wasnt a fair test.

Me, I like the test ntemi oooo

u u like anyting silly

i thanks God for the girl, she would have married the "wrong" person

@ topic
   i call this test " the unnecessary " . my people say
"if witch wan kill you all im need na your goodmorning ,and im go devour u'
  na small thing witch take dey fly .
  instead of the jerk to be man enough to say he wants to chicken out, he come show his cowardly- creepy-crawlie - dripping behind by using one stupid  test as a facade to boot the sensible babe when God dash am.
 
abeg disappear make better people wen deserve her enter jare!

why would i wna test anybody for? I'll end up breakin my heart myself,its of no use joo.Play on is tha name of tha game

There are retards masquerading as sensible human beings.

@DE-KING, The truth is your friend doesn't truly love the girl, can u imagine the scenerio yourself, after tempting the innocent girl, and she, having the confidence that he would marry her soonest, whatelse would u expect from any lady in that circumstance. Honestly ur friend is a fool! Better ask him to run and apologise to the poor girl 'cos he's lost his wife 4real.
As per ur wotever test, i aint believe in that crap, if i'm down with a lady to the level of marriage i should hv had some confidence in her. As per doin any silly thing lets leave that till then but rem we re human! i.e Bill Clinton and Monica Lewinskey, the white house intern. Did Hilary crucify her husband? give it a thought my pal.

If my partner should test me on any level, no matter the outcome, the relationship MUST end.
What kind of rubbish test? Is our marriage going to be an exam?

Sorry 4 Falacy of Ad Hominem;That ur friend is a fault-finder
If the girl refuses 2 yield 2 his request he would say she is too sturbon to be his wife
That girl should thank God 4 delivering him 4m such a wicked soul.

Yes I can only test based on what one says if i find out that one lies

the guy is stupid

Don't mind this new breed of morons and local champions that are tainting our generation.

I want to test her, I want to test him. Let anybody come and test me and they will live to regret it.

Saint Joftech, what are u doing in Nairaland, go open church now. . . ''enu dun rofo''

calling the guy retarded is a compliment!!,

denex:

Don't mind this new breed of morons and local champions that are tainting our generation.

I want to test her, I want to test him. Let anybody come and test me and they will live to regret it.

new breed/ generation?

This is another tales_by_moonlight thread.

Test, I will take her for HIV I, II, III & even IV test if there is one

denex:

If my partner should test me on any level, no matter the outcome, the relationship MUST end.
What kind of rubbish test? Is our marriage going to be an exam?

. SERIOUS WORD

The test is extremely awkward Why on earth would you test someone who is engaged to you and from what I understand in the text whose family must have been introduced one unto another with SEX. I suppose d guy is not capable n needs an excuse to back out because if d girl had said NO dre stil wud av bin troubles. D guy had something up his sleeves.
As for me, I can neva put my wife to a test becos I dont bliv in such things. I love her because I trust her and d truth is dre is no reason watsoeva to dig a pit for her to fall into. If I suspect suspicious behaviours from her, I wil surely come out plain to her becos I am very open n I nsure any relationship (platonic or serious) is open. If I suspect foul play from friends I ask n once I sense insecurity, I will let U know before I call such friendship / relationship quits.