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Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by Nobody: 1:42pm On Apr 20, 2013
[size=14pt]I really hate to say this but this is becoming a constant for a while now.
I try as much as possible to stay away from married men who approach me for friendship, knowing fully well that their "friendship" all bores down to one thing and that is : Spoiling you with good stuffs of life and at the end, demanding to see or have a taste of what is underneath! angry


Seriously, Why wont this married men let us be and enjoy our youthful lives just the way they've enjoyed theirs?
Is this some kind of wickedness of some sort?
Dont they know that by such doings that they are putting at risk their marriages?
Do they want us (the youths) to suffer the same fate in our marriages (i.e, our own husbands going after young girls too)
Do they want to marry us as 2nd wives or they are just out to spoil our future?!
Is it that they are not happy with their marriages? I dont get it!


I face these almost in my everyday life,the single guys keep coming with the married men ( even those that pretend they are not married) what da heck?! I received the most embarrasing call of my life #days back at about 10pm when a lady called me to stay off her marriage and if not, she knows all my details on where I school and would come haunt me down and am like what the heck again? Whose fault is it this time? The saidman told me he wasnt married! Nawao!
And I wonder where the silly man was at the time his wife was using his cellphone to make this call and threaten an innocent girl like me sad

Not just that am facing it in the real world, even here on NL, married men who dont even deny the fact that they are married keep disturbing for "FRIENDSHIP"! What kind of friendship do you wanna have with a single lady and online?! Abeg and abeg, I dont entertain married men as friends. I'm sounding this clear because of any married man on here that might have been harbouring such intentions! For GOD's sake, Na Swear? You have a wife - for the s.ex and companionship and kid(s), so what again do you want?
I'm tired of all these, I dont know what method to use in telling you people off again o!! angry

I want to know what such men want. What abeg? This is beyond me![/size]

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Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by Truckpusher(m): 1:57pm On Apr 20, 2013
Tashamania: [size=14pt]I really hate to say this but this is becoming a constant for a while now.
I try as much as possible to stay away from married men who approach me for friendship, knowing fully well that their "friendship" all bores down to one thing and that is : Spoiling you with good stuffs of life and at the end, demanding to see or have a taste of what is underneath! angry


Seriously, Why wont this married men let us be and enjoy our youthful lives just the way they've enjoyed theirs?
Is this some kind of wickedness of some sort?
Dont they know that by such doings that they are putting at risk their marriages?
Do they want us (the youths) to suffer the same fate in our marriages (i.e, our own husbands going after young girls too)
Do they want to marry us as 2nd wives or they are just out to spoil our future?!
Is it that they are not happy with their marriages? I dont get it!


I face these almost in my everyday life,the single guys keep coming with the married men ( even those that pretend they are not married) what da heck?! I received the most embarrasing call of my life #days back at about 10pm when a lady called me to stay off her marriage and if not, she knows all my details on where I school and would come haunt me down and am like what the heck again? Whose fault is it this time? The saidman told me he wasnt married! Nawao!
And I wonder where the silly man was at the time his wife was using his cellphone to make this call and threaten an innocent girl like me sad

Not just that am facing it in the real world, even here on NL, married men who dont even deny the fact that they are married keep disturbing for "FRIENDSHIP"! What kind of friendship do you wanna have with a single lady and online?! Abeg and abeg, I dont entertain married men as friends. I'm sounding this clear because of any married man on here that might have been harbouring such intentions! For GOD's sake, Na Swear? You have a wife - for the s.ex and companionship and kid(s), so what again do you want?
I'm tired of all these, I dont know what method to use in telling you people off again o!! angry

I want to know what such men want. What abeg? This is beyond me![/size]
grin grin grin...Wahala dey oooo

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Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by Nobody: 2:00pm On Apr 20, 2013
Truckpusher: grin grin grin

I'm vexing and you are laughing, abi? cry cry

This is your future wife we are talking about here o. sad tongue

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Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by Truckpusher(m): 2:02pm On Apr 20, 2013
Tashamania:

I'm vexing and you are laughing, abi? cry cry

This is your future wife we are talking about here o. sad tongue
I love competition.....you're beautiful, that's your problem.... wink

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Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by Nobody: 2:05pm On Apr 20, 2013
Tashamania:

Not just that am facing it in the real world, even here on NL, married men who dont even deny the fact that they are married keep disturbing for "FRIENDSHIP"! What kind of friendship do you wanna have with a single lady and online?!

Useless bunch of hypocrites. I bet they are the same id*iots that take every opportunity to put down women.


Sorry about your plight with the lying married man whose wife called you. The biggest dilemma I can see from your post is how can a woman tell that a man is married when he is hell bent on deceiving her that he is not. Are there signs to watch for early enough before feelings start to develop? I truly don't know the answer. I pray you never fall victim to such again.




I want to know what such men want. What abeg? This is beyond me!


What they want? S*ex, s*ex and more s*ex.

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Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by Nobody: 2:13pm On Apr 20, 2013
Truckpusher: I love competition.....you're beautiful, that's your problem.... wink

Do I do an ugly facial surgery in that case then? wink Knowing fully well that you would still love me no matter the circumstance tongue tongue

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Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by laykhorn(m): 2:13pm On Apr 20, 2013
Its this simple... let them do 5 times and see If they'd still want to be friendz
Believe me, It works.

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Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by Nobody: 2:16pm On Apr 20, 2013
ileobatojo:

Useless bunch of hypocrites. I bet they are the same id*iots that take every opportunity to put down women.


Sorry about your plight with the lying married man whose wife called you. The biggest dilemma I can see from your post is how can a woman tell that a man is married when he is hell bent on deceiving her that he is not. Are there signs to watch for early enough before feelings start to develop? I truly don't know the answer. I pray you never fall victim to such again.





What they want? S*ex, s*ex and more s*ex.

[size=14pt]Thank you!
I'll never fall a victim again. Well.. I hope I dont because you never can tell when it comes to such men.
More s.ex? Is it that their wives don't give them as much s.ex as they want?[/size]undecided
Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by Truckpusher(m): 2:17pm On Apr 20, 2013
Tashamania:

Do I do an ugly facial surgery in that case then? wink Knowing fully well that you would still love me no matter the circumstance tongue tongue
No need for any form of ugly facial surgery ,lets join the Islamic faith and the Hijab will do the job cheesy.....WHAT DO YOU THINK?

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Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by biolabee(m): 2:18pm On Apr 20, 2013
Truckpusher: grin grin grin...Wahala dey oooo
Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by Nobody: 2:19pm On Apr 20, 2013
laykhorn: Its this simple... let them do 5 times and see If they'd still want to be friendz
Believe me, It works.

Hell, you know they would flee even after once.
5 times? My "underneath" is very much precious to me than anything. It is not for laboratory experiments.
undecided

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Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by Idowuogbo(f): 2:19pm On Apr 20, 2013
Tasha, u save dat woman number? Abeg wire me d digits Biko! F00lish woman! angry
Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by Truckpusher(m): 2:19pm On Apr 20, 2013
Tashamania:

[size=14pt]Thank you!
I'll never fall a victim again. Well.. I hope I dont because you never can tell when it comes to such men.
More s.ex? Is it that their wives don't give them as much s.ex as they want?[/size]undecided
Variety is the spice of life ...so they say.

But trust me ,i won't cheat on you ,i'll get a second wife at least that's not cheating tongue
Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by Truckpusher(m): 2:20pm On Apr 20, 2013
Idowuogbo: Tasha, u save dat woman number? Abeg wire me d digits Biko! F00lish woman! angry
gragra girl dun show....badosky you dey owe me e-slap tongue
Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by Nobody: 2:21pm On Apr 20, 2013
Truckpusher: No need for any form of ugly facial surgery ,lets join the Islamic faith and the Hijab will do the job cheesy.....WHAT DO YOU THINK?

Hijab? Won't that be much of a problem while undressing? undecided cheesy
Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by Idowuogbo(f): 2:24pm On Apr 20, 2013
Truckpusher: gragra girl dun show....badosky you dey owe me e-slap tongue
undecided undecided undecided undecided
Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by obo389(m): 2:24pm On Apr 20, 2013
undecided
Ur username shws u2b a run‘s gurl as i c am.
Btw,do u ve a guy in ur lyf?

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Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by Truckpusher(m): 2:25pm On Apr 20, 2013
Tashamania:

Hijab? Won't that be much of a problem while undressing? undecided cheesy
more fun when undressed smiley
Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by Truckpusher(m): 2:26pm On Apr 20, 2013
Idowuogbo:
undecided undecided undecided undecided
if i vex? shocked shocked shocked shocked
Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by Truckpusher(m): 2:27pm On Apr 20, 2013
obo389: undecided
Ur username shws u2b a run‘s gurl as i c am.
Btw,do u ve a guy in ur lyf?
Are you human? grin grin

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Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by Idowuogbo(f): 2:29pm On Apr 20, 2013
obo389: undecided
Ur username shws u2b a run‘s gurl as i c am.
Btw,do u ve a guy in ur lyf?
Wots dis one saying? undecided undecided

So if my username na karashika, dat automatically means I b winsh ni? undecided

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Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by Nobody: 2:31pm On Apr 20, 2013
Tashamania:

More s.ex? Is it that their wives don't give them as much s.ex as they want?undecided

It's just plain greed and selfishness. Not content with what they have, they want 'variety'. Randy goats.

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Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by Nobody: 2:36pm On Apr 20, 2013
Idowuogbo: Tasha, u save dat woman number? Abeg wire me d digits Biko! F00lish woman! angry

Na the yeye man number she used in calling o!
e ma worry, am still waiting for the ode of a husband to call me. I dey wait like lion dey wait for im prey.
Seriously, I don tire sef!
sad
Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by Nobody: 2:38pm On Apr 20, 2013
obo389: undecided
Ur username shws u2b a run‘s gurl as i c am.
Btw,do u ve a guy in ur lyf?

Are you talking to me? If yes, how does my username look like the one of a runz girl to you?undecided
Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by Nobody: 2:40pm On Apr 20, 2013
Idowuogbo:
Wots dis one saying? undecided undecided

So if my username na karashika, dats automatically means I b winsh ni? undecided

NA SO! grin grin grin
Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by tpia5: 2:41pm On Apr 20, 2013
are you sure you're not the one stalking the married man/men in question.

some women do not chase a man unless he's in a relationship.

they're not attracted to single guys.

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Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by Nobody: 2:43pm On Apr 20, 2013
Truckpusher: more fun when undressed smiley

HAHAHA! Crazy You!

Whether you like it or not, am doing an ugly facial surgery and am moving in with you! grin grin tongue

Now, do you like one shrunken eye with a swollen eyeball and an inverted nose? smiley smiley

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Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by Truckpusher(m): 2:46pm On Apr 20, 2013
Tashamania:

HAHAHA! Crazy You!

Whether you like it or not, am doing an ugly facial surgery and am moving in with you! grin grin tongue

Now, do you like one shrunken eye with a swollen eyeball and an inverted nose? smiley smiley
Wedding plans cancelled till further notice....*slams the door, picks an old nokia 3310 to call her mom* tongue

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Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by Nobody: 2:47pm On Apr 20, 2013
ileobatojo:

It's just plain greed and selfishness. Not content with what they have, they want 'variety'. Randy goats.

In that case, they have the options of marrying as many wives as they want. Afterall, no one is against it.
Rather than spoiling a young girl and dumping them afterwards.
I've got one prayer for such men and that is: Whatever they do to young girlz, would be the same other married men would do to their daughters. This is so unfair!

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Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by Nobody: 2:55pm On Apr 20, 2013
tpia@:
are you sure you're not the one stalking the married man/men in question.

some women do not chase a man unless he's in a relationship.

they're not attracted to single guys.


Thank God, you said "some" and fortunately I am not among the "some" that chases guys that are in relationships talk more of married guys. It might interest you to know that I don't even chase guys.
smiley

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Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by Nobody: 2:56pm On Apr 20, 2013
Nothing wrong in that, its natural to devour as many peanuts as one can.
Re: Dealing With The Pressures From Married Men by Nobody: 2:57pm On Apr 20, 2013
Truckpusher: Wedding plans cancelled till further notice....*slams the door, picks an old nokia 3310 to call her mom* tongue

Mom said you are such a naughty darling! grin smiley

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