Subomi-luv:
Just get a white women to sort your man out whenever there is problems. There should be a black men camp where white women are in charge, i swear black men will never be the same again.

Lol. My daughters must know this tactic too.

sakurakitty:

Im not saying that that black men are un-intelligent and violent. Im using that point to show you that "behavioral patterns" are ignorant beliefs.

Even though, white men are violent and serial killers, they are not recognized for their evil. WHY?? Because they don't put EACHOTHER down. You would NEVER see them acknowledging their negative "behavioral pattern". They lift their own race up

Black men have stereotypes too. They are lazy, abusive, have tons of baby momas, rapist, murderers now add terrorist to that list so it's silly to paint white men and black women as evil and black men and white women as saints. There are also "agressive" white women out there too but i would say the systems suits them better as if the man does shit, he won't get away with it unlike with black women who take shit everyday and nothing happens. If that makes us aggressive then so be it because we did not make ourselves this way

As for me no men( Black, white etc) will i take shit from. That means that i believe that i am below them because of my race. We all know that the guy would have beaten the lady if she was black. Even if you have PMS( how the hell can you beat someone up) perhaps if she said some bad stuff maybe I would understand but that is such an excuse. The fact that she has money too could play a role because these days it's not only women that are gold-diggers.

50calibre:


Hahahaha! You still aren't getting the point, this isn't about anyone kissing the white race's ass, it's just stating plain facts. Why does it irk you so much, were you dumped for a white girl?

No, i've never dated anyone and if i did, im not going for a self-hating person. Everything im saying is flying over your head. According to the same "facts", there is a stereotype here that black people as a WHOLE are dumb, corrupt and are pre-disposed to criminal behavior.

White people are even more evil, but they never pull their own race down.

It irks me because until black people stop self-destructing each other. And, saying "white women are better at this" or "white men are that", no one will respect us.

I guess im being like the typical obnoxious and violent black woman now

sakurakitty:
Im not saying that that black men are un-intelligent and violent. Im using that point to show you that "behavioral patterns" are ignorant beliefs. I honestly thought you would pick up on that point. You don't seem to very bright :/

Even though, white men are violent and serial killers, they are not recognized for their evil. WHY?? Because they don't put EACHOTHER down. You would NEVER see them acknowledging their negative "behavioral pattern". They lift their own race up.

You're going off tangent again and comparing apples to oranges. If the topic had been about stereotypes of black women - you would have been right on the money. However, the topic is about a sad reality that's attainable out there when it comes to the innate temperament of black women.

As an original Afro-asiatic black man who's proud of his race and black skin - I believe it's high time we started discussing issues wrong with our race. And the aggressive and violent nature of black women is also ripe for discourse. we can't keep hiding everything wrong with our race - just to sing the "upliftment of our race" kumbaya. Black women need to get a grip and stop being overly aggressive and violent, period!!! It's destroying the black family structure!

Subomi-luv:
Just get a white women to sort your man out whenever there is problems. There should be a black men camp where white women are in charge, i swear black men will never be the same again.

You yourself, I remember a thread created by you a few months back, specially to adulate white me and point out how much white men tower over black men, or have you forgotten? Why don't they create a black women camp where white men rule like Gods with their co*ks?

So I'm quite surprised you are even saying some of the things you say here, are you bi polar or what?

50calibre:

You yourself, I remember a thread created by you a few months back, specially to adulate white me and point out how much white men tower over black men, or have you forgotten? Why don't they create a black women camp where white men rule like Gods with their co*ks?

So I'm quite surprised you are even saying some of the things you say here, are you bi polar or what?

Yes my dear and i never put black men down. I said from my experiences the type of guy i want, black men are not willing to do that. So for compatibility sakes would be better of marrying a white guy. Even you men yourself say helping a women is not manly and you will do no such thing. So what should i do. I never once put black men down, that is the difference

Subomi-luv:
As for me no men( Black, white etc) will i take shit from. That means that i believe that i am below them because of my race. We all know that the guy would have beaten the lady if she was black. Even if you have PMS( how the hell can you beat someone up) perhaps if she said some bad stuff maybe I would understand but that is such an excuse. The fact that she has money too could play a role because these days it's not only women that are gold-diggers.

How do you know? I know a naija man that was stabbed by his Nigerian wife and he didn't even press charges against her. You lot just love making things up just to cover your aggressive ar.ses!!

ShyM-X:


How do you know? I know a naija man that was stabbed by his Nigeria wife and he didn't even press charges against her. You lot just love making things up just to cover your aggressive ar.ses!!

Just like i know a lot of black women who are not agressive or violent etc. You say generalisations but do not like it when i do same thing?

ShyM-X:


You're going off tangent again and comparing apples to oranges. If the topic had been about stereotypes of black women - you would have been right on the money. However, the topic is about a sad reality that's attainable out there when it comes to the innate temperament of black women.

As an original Afro-asiatic black man who's proud of his race and black skin - I believe it's high time we started discussing issues wrong with our race. And the aggressive and violent nature of black women is also ripe for discourse. we can't keep hiding everything wrong with our race - just to sing the "upliftment of our race" kumbaya. Black women need to get a grip and stop being overly aggressive and violent, period!!! It's destroying the black family structure!

How am i comparing apples to oranges. You're stereotyping black women as violent and temperamental. Black men are stereotyped as violent and pre-disposed to criminal behaviors. What is different about those 2 stereotypes?? Both are ignorant and what racists use against black people. (And, apparently black people use against eachother).

What world do you live in where black women are overly agressive and violent, btw?? If anything, men are usually the violent ones in a family unit. WTF? O_o. Black men need to stop bringing down black women and glorifying white women.

sakurakitty:

How am i comparing apples to oranges. You're stereotyping black women as violent and temperamental. Black men are stereotyped as violent and pre-disposed to criminal behaviors. What is different about those 2 stereotypes?? Both are ignorant and what racists use against black people. (And, apparently black people use against eachother).

What world do you live in where black women are overly agressive and violent, btw?? If anything, men are usually the violent ones in a family unit. WTF? O_o. Black men need to stop bringing down black women and glorifying white women.

Exactly. Are their mothers/sisters and girlfriends/wives and all women they have dated been like that. They talking now from their asses

sakurakitty:

No, i've never dated anyone and if i did, im not going for a self-hating person. Everything im saying is flying over your head. According to the same "facts", there is a stereotype here that black people as a WHOLE are dumb, corrupt and are pre-disposed to criminal behavior.

White people are even more evil, but they never pull their own race down.

It irks me because until black people stop self-destructing each other. And, saying "white women are better at this" or "white men are that", no one will respect us.

I guess im being like the typical obnoxious and violent black woman now

Yes you are absolutely right, the black man stereotype is correct, black men are more predisposed to violence, that's the truth. Violence is in the black gene but it is up to black women to try and break away from that violent pattern, and try to create a balance. A nice/cool black woman = happy/kind/cool black man = happy and well trained kids

Nobody is putting down his race, just recognising the shortcomings of black people, the first step to redemption is identifying/acknowledging the problem and then trying to fix it.

Go and ask Robert de Nero, he puts down white women.

Subomi-luv:
Just like i know a lot of black women who are not agressive or violent etc. You say generalisations but do not like it when i do same thing?

An unaggressive/non-violent black woman is definitely not yet in her comfort zone to exert her authority. You know black women are naturally pretentious. But be very very very scared when she becomes comfortable!!!

Subomi-luv:
Yes my dear and i never put black men down. I said from my experiences the type of guy i want, black men are not willing to do that. So for compatibility sakes would be better of marrying a white guy. Even you men yourself say helping a women is not manly and you will do no such thing. So what should i do. I never once put black men down, that is the difference

So accusing black men of inflated egos is what?

50calibre:

Yes you are absolutely right, the black man stereotype is correct, black men are more predisposed to violence, that's the truth. Violence is in the black gene but it is up to black women to try and break away from that violent pattern, and try to create a balance. A nice/cool black woman = happy/kind/cool black man = happy and well trained kids

Nobody is putting down his race, just recognising the shortcomings of black people, the first step to redemption is identifying/acknowledging the problem and then trying to fix it.

Go and ask Robert de Nero, he puts down white women.

Why should it always be up to black women? Why can't it be both ways? Honestly it's the men who need to change because black women are not violent. Yes you can say we have mouth and talk a lot but beating men etc. That's a lie. If that was true they would be less abuse from men to women

50calibre:

So accusing black men of inflated egos is what?

Am not, what has ego got to do with this?

sakurakitty:
How am i comparing apples to oranges. You're stereotyping black women as violent and temperamental. Black men are stereotyped as violent and pre-disposed to criminal behaviors. What is different about those 2 stereotypes?? Both are ignorant and what racists use against black people. (And, apparently black people use against eachother).

What world do you live in where black women are overly agressive and violent, btw?? If anything, men are usually the violent ones in a family unit. WTF? O_o. Black men need to stop bringing down black women and glorifying white women.

I reiterate - this isn't a stereotypical or a cliche thing; it's the truth.

Black women are aggressive, end of story!!!

ShyM-X:


An unaggressive/non-violent black woman is definitely not yet in her comfort zone to exert her authority. You know black women are naturally pretentious. But be very very very scared when she becomes comfortable!!!

Lol you are crazy Ok i guess you hang around with a lot of aggressive black women, try to change your inner circle and you will be surprised at what you would find. You make it seem like black women are walking, aggressive, violet, unstable time bombs out to beat and kill black men. Wow

50calibre:

Yes you are absolutely right, the black man stereotype is correct, black men are more predisposed to violence, that's the truth. Violence is in the black gene but it is up to black women to try and break away from that violent pattern, and try to create a balance. A nice/cool black woman = happy/kind/cool black man = happy and well trained kids

Nobody is putting down his race, just recognising the shortcomings of black people, the first step to redemption is identifying/acknowledging the problem and then trying to fix it.

Go and ask Robert de Nero, he puts down white women.

Now, this black man is putting himself down :O This is getting really sad. White people are more violent and evil, have you seen what they did to blacks during SLAVERY And, even in the 1960's. They lynched blacks for no reason whatsoever, burned down their houses, set blacks on fire. ALL of that....And this black man is sitting here saying that black men are more pre-disposed to violence.

A nice/cool black woman does NOT AUTOMATICALLY = happy/kind/cool black man. Sometimes it may, depending on the guy. But half of the time A nice/cool black woman = still the same violent/drunk/cheating black man.

Subomi-luv:
Why should it always be up to black women? Why can't it be both ways? Honestly it's the men who need to change because black women are not violent. Yes you can say we have mouth and talk a lot but beating men etc. That's a lie. If that was true they would be less abuse from men to women

This is it, DEADLOCK!!! This is the problem right here. A black woman can't accept constructive criticism, always trying to rub shoulders with a man.

This right here is why black men and black women don't agree. If it were to be white woman, she would take that point on board and try to effect change.

Damn it!!

Subomi-luv:
Am not, what has ego got to do with this?

Accusing a man of refusing to help with chores is what? Don't you know that is you alluding that black men have big egos?

Subomi-luv:
Lol you are crazy Ok i guess you hang around with a lot of aggressive black women, try to change your inner circle and you will be surprised at what you would find. You make it seem like black women are walking, aggressive, violet, unstable time bombs out to beat and kill black men. Wow

I've been around all classes, shades, and creeds of black women - and I'm saying the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth. The quiet ones are usually the most violent ones.

Heck, chirpsing a black girl is enough to tell you how aggressive they are.

50calibre:

This is it, DEADLOCK!!! This is the problem right here. A black woman can't accept constructive criticism, always trying to rub shoulders with a man.

This right here is why black men and black women don't agree. If it were to be white woman, she would take that point on board and try to effect change.

Damn it!!

Lol then you obviously do not know white women. Why do you think white men and white women have this partnership thing. Everyone does their share. Why should one person who is not to blame or has not done anything wrong change just because a man wants to be a pushover. Sir you are not looking for a white women but a weak women who you can control and pushover. Goodluck finding her

ShyM-X:


I reiterate - this isn't a stereotypical or a cliche thing; it's the truth.

Black women are aggressive, end of story!!!

Okay, you can walk away with your tail behind your back. It seems like nothing sticks to your brain, since i already shot down your re-iterated point. I don't want to waste my time arguing with someone who just doesn't get it.. Now, keep on bringing down your own race.

Btw, all races of women are aggressive. But, when other races do it, it is apparently okay. You're too much of a house slave to recognize bad traits in other races. I repeat: ALL RACES OF WOMEN AND MEN can be "aggressive". The woman in this article attacked this man, and you have the nerve to call black women aggressive in the same article.

ShyM-X:


I've been around all classes, shades, and creeds of black women - and I'm saying the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth. The quiet ones are usually the most violent ones.

Heck, chirpsing a black girl is enough to tell you how aggressive they are.

Ok you are entitled to your opinions after all. Black women should stop stressing and getting their panties twisted about what some black men say. SO yes we are aggressive, violent and we beat men. Happy now . Think black women should start behaving and beating men and be violence and aggressive so we can at least live up to our name. We can get white women to help us in such instances

sakurakitty:

Okay, you can walk away with your tail behind your back. It seems like nothing sticks to your brain, since i already shot down your re-iterated point. I don't want to waste my time arguing with someone who just doesn't get it.. Now, keep on bringing down your own race.

Btw, all races of women are aggressive. But, when other races do it, it is apparently okay. You're too much of a house slave to recognize bad traits in other races. I repeat: ALL RACES OF WOMEN AND MEN can be "aggressive". The woman in this article attacked this man, and you have the nerve to call black women aggressive in the same article.

Mental Slavery that is what is keeping us back

sakurakitty:

Now, this black man is putting himself down :O This is getting really sad. White people are more violent and evil, have you seen what they did to blacks during SLAVERY And, even in the 1960's. They lynched blacks for no reason whatsoever, burned down their houses, set blacks on fire. ALL of that....And this black man is sitting here saying that black men are more pre-disposed to violence.

A nice/cool black woman does NOT AUTOMATICALLY = happy/kind/cool black man. Sometimes it may, depending on the guy. But half of the time A nice/cool black woman = still the same violent/drunk/cheating black man.

you want me to camouflage reality? Why are you trying to act like black men are saints, don't you know the percentage of violent crime being committed by black men?

There are many violent, weird and crazy white people but comparing actions from the slave trade era or the 20th century to actions today is plain ignorant. Yes white people were incredibly violent to blacks however, they seem to be evolving, the violence seems to be diminishing apart from some evil serial killers and all that.

My question is when would black women evolve?

50calibre:

you want me to camouflage reality? Why are you trying to act like black men are saints, don't you know the percentage of violent crime being committed by black men?

There are many violent, weird and crazy white people but comparing actions from the slave trade era or the 20th century to actions today is plain ignorant. Yes white people were incredibly violent to blacks however, they seem to be evolving, the violence seems to be diminishing apart from some evil serial killers and all that.

My question is when would black women evolve?

When black men evolve. So i guess that would be never

50calibre:

This is it, DEADLOCK!!! This is the problem right here. A black woman can't accept constructive criticism, always trying to rub shoulders with a man.

This right here is why black men and black women don't agree. If it were to be white woman, she would take that point on board and try to effect change.

Damn it!!

No, if it was a white woman, she would call you a niggerr and logout. To the bolded statement: You reallly think that a white person would do that?? Lol. This is once again the halo effect of putting a race on a pedestal . You just read an article of a white lady attacking his husband over who knows what. If anything, they are the most loose, but of course that doesn't matter to you. They have the white skin, so by default, they can do no wrong

sakurakitty:
Okay, you can walk away with your tail behind your back. It seems like nothing sticks to your brain, since i already shot down your re-iterated point. I don't want to waste my time arguing with someone who just doesn't get it.. Now, keep on bringing down your own race.

Btw, all races of women are aggressive. But, when other races do it, it is apparently okay. You're too much of a house slave to recognize bad traits in other races. I repeat: ALL RACES OF WOMEN AND MEN can be "aggressive". The woman in this article attacked this man, and you have the nerve to call black women aggressive in the same article.

Honestly, you haven't posted anything worth debating. All you've done so far is just jumping from pillar to post; comparing apples to oranges; and citing asinine examples that have no correlation whatsoever with the topic in discourse. I'm not running from you - just don't have time for redundant arguments.

Also, this isn't about bringing my race down - it's about the inane behavioural pattern of black women. And how counterproductive their temperament is to the black family structure. You can live in denial all you want - but the truth is out there for all to see. We all are aware of the high increase in divorce rates among black families; the increase in black single mums and absentee dads; and the increase in domestic violence among black families.

50calibre:

you want me to camouflage reality? Why are you trying to act like black men are saints, don't you know the percentage of violent crime being committed by black men?

There are many violent, weird and crazy white people but comparing actions from the slave trade era or the 20th century to actions today is plain ignorant. Yes white people were incredibly violent to blacks however, they seem to be evolving, the violence seems to be diminishing apart from some evil serial killers and all that.

My question is when would black women evolve?

Huhhh, there are still whites today who are burning crosses over in the good ole southern states. There are still white polices shooting blacks. But of course, that is A-OKAY with you . They are not evolving. Many are just silently awaiting the perfect moment to do what they;ve always wanted to do. You assume their silence means they looove and accept you. Open your eyes, sweetie

Subomi-luv:
Ok you are entitled to your opinions after all. Black women should stop stressing and getting their panties twisted about what some black men say. SO yes we are aggressive, violent and we beat men. Happy now . Think black women should start behaving and beating men and be violence and aggressive so we can at least live up to our name. We can get white women to help us in such instances

You don't need to start - you lot have already started.

However, you lot need to be scared because once black men start reacting; there will be a lot of funerals out there.