Subomi-luv:
LMFAO, maybe that's the only way to keep this men in check. Goodnight, i have a long drive ahead today.

But just remember this:

They will fight back soon.

Most will end up leaving their wives, anyway. Hence, why we've got single mums everywhere in the UK and the vicious cycle of broken homes would continue.

armyofone: lol, that's how they do it in the west. It is western civilization.
But come to think of it, they are married and should be responsible.
There are dinner to help wifey with, dish to wash, kids to play with and wifey to spend time with. Why wouldn't you run home? I'd like to get a bell myself. I mean gring gring bobo comes running. What a wonderful life

That's a great idea, let me know where you buy that bell from

She taught the staff a lesson too , don't meddle when dealing with a black brother I'm helping sistahs around the world.

babyosisi:

Could it be the woman is doing immiga papers for him
What is the reason man would still hang with a woman like that
It may be be for papers ( Akwukwo ndu)
Chai
A nigerian man is reduced to nothingness

The woman beat him up in public o not even inside the bedroom behind closed doors
Inside a hotel lobby with people watching sotay[b] a hotel staff came to rescue him[/b]

ShyM-X:


But why should a grown man have a curfew in his own house?

It's just so unfair. Black women need to chill and stop abusing the law!!

if you wanted to be roaming the streets at 12/1 am why did you get another mans child to change her name and marry you #confusedbutmarried much

stillwater:

Hahaha.
The guy even looks tamed. Ope o! One tamed black man, makes the world a better place. Oyibo woman ride on! Girl power!

But seriously now,i am glad he didn't hit her back or he would have surely ended up in jail,no questions asked.
But what is so clear is how weak this man must be and the contempt she has for him such that she could treat him this way in public
Everyone gets frustrated but for a woman to have the audacity in public to assault her husband physically
That man is certainly not wearing the pants in that family
No matter how crazy I get,I know where my madness cannot cross
If it carries me to land oga a dirty slap in private or public I may have my dental arrangements reorganized in a flash before he realizes he is a man of God that is supposed to submit to the Holy Spirit

ShyM-X:


They will fight back soon.

Most will end up leaving their wives, anyway. Hence, why we've got single mums everywhere in the UK and the vicious cycle of broken homes would continue.

Today's marriage ehn lol........smhhhhhhhhh

NA to dey pretend remains......

armyofone: lol, that's how they do it in the west. It is western civilization.
But come to think of it, they are married and should be responsible.
There are dinner to help wifey with, dish to wash, kids to play with and wifey to spend time with. Why wouldn't you run home? I'd like to get a bell myself. I mean gring gring bobo comes running. What a wonderful life

That's not western civilisation; it's madness. I don't see white men running home like that, so why should black men be treated like kids because the system favours women?

Anyway, I definitely won't let that happen to me. Any girl that tries that with me, will have to go back to wherever she came from. I don't have time for time wasters.

50calibre:

You are not debating, you are cursing out like a banshee, typical black woman, when she has nothing else to say, she goes into rage and aggression.

I'm still yet to understand how saying black women are more violent translates into worshipping white women. You keep recycling the same thing over and over, I'm beginning to thinks it has more to do with what is in your head than reality.

People like you act like they respect themselves but when they see a white guy smile at them they run after him like dogs and even do things for him they won't even do for a brother.

Show some respect black woman.

Im not debating Anyone who reads the post would know that i've been putting down BOTH of your arguments. You think im blind. I've shot down arguments and counter-arguments alike. Brought up FACTS. Yet, i haven't been debating...? You say that white women are more tolerant (even though they are not). You clearly attributed positive traits to your white goddesses (who have ZERO respect for you) and negative traits to black women.

Of course, you'll then try to insult me lolol. "I'll run after white guys like dogs" Lololol. I;ve trashed white racists and black self-hating racists alike all over the internet. Unlike you, i do not worship white skin

I know that no matter how much you compliment them and bring down your own race. They will NEVER respect you. Ever. That is something you have yet to learn. You see this article about a white women attacking a black man, yet still say they are tolerant.

Well if she is filing papers for him,let him get a metal protection for his crotch incase she decides to do Mike Tyson dia and just endure
He doesn't look like a JJC sha
He looks like a British born citizen
Nigerian born men don't look all that degbe degbe like soggy pancake

White men know their boundary. They know what to do and don't expect you to do everything. A white guy will be at the barber shop, meet some old pal, chat a bit and exchange phone numbers/byes.
Our brothers are different ball game . Go barb your hair, chat up old friends you just met, they will talk till tomorrow , they will continue the chat at the bar right after.

ShyM-X:


That's not western civilisation; it's madness. I don't see white men running home like that, so why should black men be treated like kids because the system favours women?

Anyway, I definitely won't let that happen to me. Any girl that tries that with me, will have to go back to wherever she came from. I don't have time for time wasters.

sakurakitty:

Im not debating Anyone who reads the post would know that i've been putting down BOTH of your arguments. You think im blind. I've shot down arguments and counter-arguments alike. Brought up FACTS. Yet, i haven't been debating...? You say that white women are more tolerant (even though they are not). You clearly attributed positive traits to your white goddesses (who have ZERO respect for you) and negative traits to black women.

Of course, you'll then try to insult me lolol. "I'll run after white guys like dogs" Lololol. I;ve trashed white racists and black self-hating racists alike all over the internet. Unlike you, i do not worship white skin

I worship white skin? Lol I would have been bothered if that statement was actually true, I'm the proudest black person you can ever meet, even my colleagues back in university could attest to that.

But come to think of it, you seem to have some deep seated emotional issues for to even call someone like me self hating, what happens when you see an actual self hating black person who uplifts white women, e. g Mr Cork on this site? What are your issues, talk to me, I might be of help.

Hope you don't commit suicide someday after seeing an interracial couple.

Policewoman: Yea. Pre-menstrual syndrome makes me beat up suspects atimes

See dis gatewoman..

dayokanu: Why her PMS no dey make her go beat up policeman or David Cameron why be say na the husband PMS direct her to?

Hope the same PMS land her in jail

Just imagine if it was A MAN that behaved so violently towards his wife, what would all these wanna-be feminist be saying? Would they agree to blame it on Testosterone?

And what do you think the Judge would have done to the man? (At least six months imprisonment! ..and 50K fine! ..with a Barring Order to boot ...and the woman will immediately file for divorce and claim 50% plus the family Home!)

Something is definitely wrong with MARRIAGE, the way it is presently constituted.
My sympathy to young men about to marry.

PMS koo, Petrol nii. Winch woman!

Lastpage!

Voilence in a marriage no matter who the culprit is,should be punished.her excuse isn't enough.

ShyM-X:


Come on this the UK where everything favours women. Out here, when a girl slaps your right cheek; you've to either run away or turn your left cheek. Retaliate and end up in prison loool. I've got a friend who didn't finish and has been in prison for 4 years now, just for pushing his gf(and she slapped him first). She must have fell on something and the guy was charged and sentenced for GBH.

Beating a girl is suicidal out here.

this is the main crux of the matter....
it's not a white/black thing - it's just the way the law tries to overcompensate the women. 90% of the UK judges are feminists or just rank idïots.....every fück img day in this country, judges release dangerous female criminals back to the streets because women are led by their hormones....




this woman went to a casino, entered a room that said "staff only", opened a bag and stole an iphone with a charger. she got arrested! in court, she claimed she was too drunk to remember she even went into a casino. it took the jury only 40 mins to conclude she wasn't guilty!

if she was a man, would they have let him off the hook?

dayokanu: Why her PMS no dey make her go beat up policeman or David Cameron why be say na the husband PMS direct her to?

Hope the same PMS land her in jail

PMS whr i knw na Premium Motor Spirit.wen woman dong dey reason n act frm her punany na it be say Toto wahala dong enter.

babyosisi:

But seriously now,i am glad he didn't hit her back or he would have surely ended up in jail,no questions asked.

ok, so you know. for all those peeps wondering how women could beat their husbands anyhow in europe/america, here's your answer. . . once the woman calls the police. . . you are going to be locked up. THE POLICE IS NOT COMING TO ASK "WHAT HAPPENED", THEY ARE COMING TO LOCK YOU UP ASAP. once the police locks you up, they take a statement from the woman. at that point, if she says you hit her, it's no longer she vs you, it is now you vs the state , in otherwords, she cant even stop the case, so even if the man is innocent, he will spend at least one night in police custody, call a lawyer(costs some big money)and the court will give a restraining order keeping you away from her and perhaps your home while you continue to pay the bills. then if you no get friends, you'll spend more money in a hotel room pending the removal of the restraining order.

at this pointshe cant just tell the courts she has forgiven you, that the case should be withdrawn. NO! , she has made a statement, and he is accused of domestic violence which is against the state. it's the state vs the man. if she withdraws the statement, the state will prosecute her for perjury . . .ebelebe . .

the best that you can hope for is that the prosecutor will not find enough evidence to jail the man finally, then the man will be free to return home. by then check how much money the dude go don spend, the stress, then your boss at work will start considering replacing you . . etc etc etc . . .

and this is irrespective of whether the man hit her or not . . it's just a matter of she picking up the phone and calling police.

so i ask you gentlemen of nairaland . . .will you rather go through all this or would you quietly endure the shame and hope for the best? especially if youre just a beginer earning little pay, some of which you need to send home to mama.
there's a reason why marriage is dying in the western world, and this is BADLY affecting many good girls abroad who honestly want to get married as most young men are not encouraged to go into marriage.

But what is so clear is how weak this man must be and the contempt she has for him such that she could treat him this way in public

i hope my statement above explains it all

Everyone gets frustrated but for a woman to have the audacity in public to assault her husband physically
That man is certainly not wearing the pants in that family

i can tell you that the majority of married men in the UK (even worse in the US) are not "wearing the pants" in the family

No matter how crazy I get,I know where my madness cannot cross
If it carries me to land oga a dirty slap in private or public I may have my dental arrangements reorganized in a flash before he realizes he is a man of God that is supposed to submit to the Holy Spirit

i know some nigerian women who suddenly changed to tigers when they got to the US and saw how the law is lopsided in their favour. i know one who even cheated on her igbo husband and called the police for the man. at the end she filed for divorce and took away their only child as well as half of the man's money. the man brough him to america o. and yes it's an igbo woman too. it happened in texas. it was so funny, bc she has been beating this guy for years, the guy kept enduring it until he pushed her one day. she called police. police took him away while she used the opportunity to cheat some more with her boyfriend , the poor dude borrowed money to hire a solid lawyer, and when prosecution was unable to prove that he beat his wife (bc he didnt anyway) she filed for divorce, she is living in texas now in the man's house. but trust igbo man, he sold the initial house and bought a smaller house in some not so good part of houston and also cut his work hrs so that he earns smaller pay and the woman cant get a good job and she spends a lot and so is kinda haggard now while the man is picking up gradually but doesnt want to work too hard since whatever maney he makes will be split for the woman.

marriage in ala bekee. . . . satan is doing a good job on it . .

coogar: suspended sentence for 12 months and court fines for assaulting her hubby. if it was the other way round, the husband would get 4 years imprisonment for marital abuse.

UK judges are twäts!

Spot on cougar.while the reading the story and I discovered it was in UK,I shook my head.Had it been it was the. Other way round and the guy blaming it side effect of sipping alcohol,in fact his jail sentence would be more than 4 years. Unfair and preferential judicial system is absolute wash.

coogar:

this is the main crux of the matter....
it's not a white/black thing - it's just the way the law tries to overcompensate the women. 90% of the UK judges are feminists or just rank idïots.....every fück img day in this country, judges release dangerous female criminals back to the streets because women are led by their hormones....




this woman went to a casino, entered a room that said "staff only", opened a bag and stole an iphone with a charger. she got arrested! in court, she claimed she was too drunk to remember she even went into a casino. it took the jury only 40 mins to conclude she wasn't guilty!

if she was a man, would they have let him off the hook?

Ol boy I've said it before and I'm saying it again..if na so..woman wey be say na u carry am go abroad go come turn around become Lord and Master say for say one yeye law get k-leg...I dey go spiritual fast. Leave story...once I see signal..na Ijebu straight for consultation...I no get time for court and wetin wetin..Nonsense!

jidewin:
Ol boy I've said it before and I'm saying it again..if na so..woman wey be say na u carry am go abroad go come turn around become Lord and Master say for say one yeye law get k-leg...I dey go spiritual fast. Leave story...once I see signal..na Ijebu straight for consultation...I no get time for court and wetin wetin..Nonsense!

you forget say if you dey UK, you no go get time to begin look for "signal" not to talk of going "ijebu consultation". as for fasting. .. .well, it depends on your job, if you work in a place that involves brain-work and calculations, you cant afford to skip breakfast . . . make u for no go make mistake for work wey go cost ya employer (or you if na your own company) some thousands of pounds
so my dear, the only solution is to get a cool headed girl . . . . . i wish you luck finding one in the UK. better do ya fasting before you get the girl.

but hope dey, one of my friends developed a new theory that he's still doing statistical analysis on. . . he says the trick is to go for a slightly older and richer woman. those ones want to settle down and already have their money. he may be right.

pres-elect:

you forget say if you dey UK, you no go get time to begin look for "signal" not to talk of going "ijebu consultation". as for fasting. .. .well, it depends on your job, if you work in a place that involves brain-work and calculations, you cant afford to skip breakfast . . . make u for no go make mistake for work wey go cost ya employer (or you if na your own company) some thousands of pounds
so my dear, the only solution is to get a cool headed girl . . . . . i wish you luck finding one in the UK. better do ya fasting before you get the girl.

but hope dey, one of my friends developed a new theory that he's still doing statistical analysis on. . . he says the trick is to go for a slightly older and richer woman. those ones want to settle down and already have their money. he may be right.

My guy, me fast on top woman mata? I dey craze...I say I dey go spiritual....u no grab? All this wester this and that no dey my dictionary. Live story,if u waka enta woman hand wey wan prove anyhow,na spirito straight.whether na woli or alfa...or both join sef...how man go sufa take build empire,one jezebel go come use left leg scatter the whole show?walahi,she go pack comot no go remember how,I swear. Becos there's a law in place...abegi...higher spiritual law too dey in place well well...and very affordable sef.

jeffizy:
Shame on you.
Coulda been your son ;-(

where have u been,,, oga.

I am a white man married to a Nigerian woman and while I love my wife very much, she has the most violent of tempers. Her first instinct is to start hitting and throwing things. She freely admits that she gets much too angry much too easily but can’t seem to be able to do anything about it. I live in constant fear of setting her off.

It seems you're new around these sides. However, you need to discuss the topic and not go off tangent. I'm a realist and I say it as it's. If the topic were to be about the most beautiful race of women - I'll definitely side with black women.

But the topic in discourse here is about domestic violence and which race of women is the most aggressive one. And obviously black women are the most violent and aggressive women out there. It's just simple and straightforward.

I agree with you on both points. Black women are the most beautiful and they have the most violent temper. I’m a white man married to a Nigerian woman and her rages are terrible and are triggered by the least little thing. Her temper is constantly simmering under the surface

Ngetch:
I am a white man married to a Nigerian woman and while I love my wife very much, she has the most violent of tempers. Her first instinct is to start hitting and throwing things. She freely admits that she gets much too angry much too easily but can’t seem to be able to do anything about it. I live in constant fear of setting her off.

Don't condone that. If she won't change, do report her to the authority and stay far away from her

Violence should never be tolerated by anybody