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Re: Security Tips For Ladies. by olenyi: 8:42pm On Jun 29, 2013
I believe no 5 doesn't apply to naija. angry
Re: Security Tips For Ladies. by badmeat(m): 8:42pm On Jun 29, 2013
Ladies,when emptying cash from a man's pocket,if you like shout n spray pepper,he will empty his Zip toocheesy
Re: Security Tips For Ladies. by SpicyMimi(f): 8:44pm On Jun 29, 2013
yuzedo:

This person that I'm sure is a guy. Bia, stop dis rough play whoever you are. I'm looking for punny on NL, don't burn my cable! angry

Huh?! Plis disregard whoever is the devil behind that. Even ordinary nudès I've not seen, talk more going steady. This is a disclaimer, NL SWEET BABES, I AM STILL SINGLE! HURRY & COME GET ME B4 DESPERADOS TIFF ME AWAY! angry so Modella, wuz yo numba? undecided

lmaoooooooooo!!!
I don laff taya o! This chief Yuzedo of a guy no go kee person o! grin grin
Re: Security Tips For Ladies. by WildChild00(m): 8:45pm On Jun 29, 2013
A_K_O:

Yes if you have to. And on a more serious note, be aware of and absolutely disgusted by the level of violence against women in our society, and fight it whenever you can. Even if it means fighting your violent guy friends.

You have spoken absolutely well, yes the united nation even hv a day set aside to mark that day, "Violence against women" i.e violence free day, the truth of the matter is that women should first help themselves before if need be, then we can now come in, dont u think so
Re: Security Tips For Ladies. by haconni(m): 8:52pm On Jun 29, 2013
These are helpful. Very helpful but some situations can be very dire.

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Re: Security Tips For Ladies. by Ishilove: 8:55pm On Jun 29, 2013
MissYuzedo: Okies am safes in my husband's manshun
Sweetus has a sister? undecided
Re: Security Tips For Ladies. by Ishilove: 9:00pm On Jun 29, 2013
yuzedo:
Wtf is dis?! angry angry undecided
See, madam, if you ain' giving me straff, abeg just change your goddamn moniker. MODs we have a situation here. Hian!

Lmao!!! cheesy
Re: Security Tips For Ladies. by Ishilove: 9:04pm On Jun 29, 2013
obadiah777: SO A BLACK GUY WAS BEATING A WHITE LADY ? WHATS THE PROBLEM THERE ? HER ANCESTORS BEAT THE BLACK GUYS ANCESTORS. ABEG POST THE VIDEO HERE MAKE I ENJOY AM grin grin grin
I'm just realising that you are a wicked person, obadiah. I am also sure you won't be asking for a video of the beating for your viewing pleasure if it was a woman related to you by marriage or blood. angry

Black hearted knave! angry

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Re: Security Tips For Ladies. by Decryptor(m): 9:09pm On Jun 29, 2013
smoosh15: 1) What should a woman do if she finds herself alone in the company of a strange male as she prepares to enter a lift in a high-rise apartment late at night?

Experts Say: Enter the lift. If you need to reach the 13th floor, press all the buttons up to your destination. No one will dare attack you in a lift that stops on every floor.

What if it is an apartment where the floors are usually isolated? By then, the evil deed would have been done. Secondly, lifts and elevators can be stopped midway.

2) What to do if a stranger tries to attack you when you are alone in your house, run into the kitchen.

Experts Say: You alone know where the chili powder and turmeric are kept.And where the knives and plates are. All these can be turned into deadly weapons. If nothing else, start throwing plates and utensils all over.

Let them break. Scream. Remember that noise is the greatest enemy of a molester. He does not want to be caught.

What if the house is in the middle of nowhere or he has a loaded gun and shoots out of panic...in the case of the latter, i'd advice the lady to keep her calm and co-operate

3} Taking an Auto or Taxi at Night.

Experts Say: Before getting into an auto at night, note down its registration number. Then use the mobile to call your family or friend and pass on the details to them in the language the driver understands .Even if no one answers your call, pretend you are in a conversation. The driver now knows someone has his details and he will be in serious trouble if anything goes wrong. He is now bound to take you home safe and sound. A potential attacker is now your de facto protector!

Good idea but not really brilliant...the license plate number of a vehicle can be swapped or changed. The only fool-proof logic is to have access to his driver's license which is not realistic at this point


4}What if the driver turns into a street he is not supposed to – and you feel you are entering a danger zone?

Experts Say: Use the handle of your purse or your stole (dupatta) to wrap around his neck and pull him back. Within seconds, he will feel choked and helpless. In case you don’t have a purse or stole just pull him back by his collar. The top button of his shirt would then do the same trick.

Still not a good idea especially when he is doing over 60mph/100kmph. The vehicle could lose control and topple over which might result in the loss of your life and the driver and this particular feat is only possible when you are at the back. Criminals usually think about counter situations before carrying out their crime...in this particular case, the driver will definitely not be alone.


5} If you are stalked at night.

Expert Say: enter a shop or a house and explain your predicament. If it is night and shops are not open, go inside an ATM box. ATM centers always have security guards. They are also monitored by close circuit television.
Fearing identification, no one will dare attack you.

Entering a house: The occupants of the said house are also security conscious. They might pay a deaf ear to your alerts. I for one would not open my door for someone i know is being stalked by a possible killer. I'd rather call the police from inside my house.
ATM: A much better idea only if the stalker is aware that ATM have hidden cameras that can take his picture which many people in this part of the world are hardly aware of. The most safer part is if there is an "armed" security guard at the ATM post too.


After all, being mentally alert is the greatest weapon you can ever have.

Please spread it to all those women u care & spread awareness as dis is d least we can do for a social & moral cause and fr d safety of women.


Bottom-line...never pray to find yourself in any of the aforementioned situations cos some others before you did same but did not live to tell the story. God is the ultimate protector!
Re: Security Tips For Ladies. by pekelepekele(m): 9:20pm On Jun 29, 2013
If you kill the taxi driver by choking him , expert won't be with you at the court to stand for you .

My advise just let your movement be straight forward don't double date . If you are going to agege don't say VI
Re: Security Tips For Ladies. by armyofone(m): 9:30pm On Jun 29, 2013
the same Obadiah that quotes the bible to kingdom come. I think he is on a long tin when typing.

Ishilove:
I'm just realising that you are a wicked person, obadiah. I am also sure you won't be asking for a video of the beating for your viewing pleasure if it was a woman related to you by marriage or blood. angry
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Black hearted knave! angry

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Re: Security Tips For Ladies. by 99cent: 10:04pm On Jun 29, 2013
nice tips.
but,to make women even more secure, government should enforce laws to punish men who sex.ually and violently abuse women. that way, men will think twice before thinking of harming women.
the reason they do it is because they know they can get away with it and the woman will be blamed for not following your so called "tips"
none of these tips are bulletproof and let us put the onus on the men as well to be more responsible and respectful toward women. that is the best tip of all. Too bad it's not mentioned in your post.
Re: Security Tips For Ladies. by 99cent: 10:06pm On Jun 29, 2013
haconni: These are helpful. Very helpful but some situations can be very dire.

I agree.
Re: Security Tips For Ladies. by Nobody: 10:56pm On Jun 29, 2013
MissYuzedo: Okies am safes in my husband's manshun


Padin? Plis wuzdis?! angry angry
Yuzedo come and explain yourself now!!! angry angry angry
Re: Security Tips For Ladies. by yuzedo: 11:18pm On Jun 29, 2013
tchidi:


Padin? Plis wuzdis?! angry angry
Yuzedo come and explain yourself now!!! angry angry angry
swerry even me dint under stand. I just waked up to found dis yahooboy want to high jack dis racket. I can't never never cheat on u or SlyIg or d oda estra 47 sweet NL babe dat love me four my sweetnes and nut my mony or good loooook. Dis babe is a theif and I will do advat on dis websight to denounce her. angry






Sweery sooooooo wuzup wit d nyashin u promiss me since last 4yr na?! angry

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Re: Security Tips For Ladies. by yuzedo: 11:29pm On Jun 29, 2013
naptu2:

Chei! Chief Sweetus did not invite me to the wedding sad
That's how you know this character is an impostor without my blessings. It is impossible not to have the great naptu2 honor us with his presence at my eventual nupitals. Pay him/her no heed.
Re: Security Tips For Ladies. by Petraman(m): 11:57pm On Jun 29, 2013
nice one here. my girl must read dis in case i might not be around to protect her
Re: Security Tips For Ladies. by mzkanye(f): 12:24am On Jun 30, 2013
Hmmm..I love dat sha..
Re: Security Tips For Ladies. by spenx084(m): 2:00am On Jun 30, 2013
MissYuzedo: Okies am safes in my husband's manshun

So na Yuzedo you finally gree for abi?after i spend my money buy you Z10 and Iphone6?no wahala. sad
Re: Security Tips For Ladies. by Nobody: 8:43am On Jun 30, 2013
MISS Yuzedo?! Emphasis on the "MISS". I bet she's yuzedo's lost-but-find sister or is it the case of a child born outta wedlock? if not Chief Yuzedo you'd better have a convincing explaination for this slip!

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Re: Security Tips For Ladies. by Nobody: 9:46am On Jun 30, 2013
Nice one :-)
Re: Security Tips For Ladies. by slimyem: 9:58am On Jun 30, 2013
yuzedo:
Wtf is dis?! angry angry undecided
See, madam, if you ain' giving me straff, abeg just change your goddamn moniker. MODs we have a situation here. Hian!

yuzedo:

This person that I'm sure is a guy. Bia, stop dis rough play whoever you are. I'm looking for punny on NL, don't burn my cable! angry

Huh?! Plis disregard whoever is the devil behind that. Even ordinary nudès I've not seen, talk more going steady. This is a disclaimer, NL SWEET BABES, I AM STILL SINGLE! HURRY & COME GET ME B4 DESPERADOS TIFF ME AWAY! angry so Modella, wuz yo numba? undecided
lmao . cheesycheesy
Re: Security Tips For Ladies. by Babaken(m): 1:55pm On Jun 30, 2013
so you are telling me now that if boko haram is after lady she run to your house you will allow her in. pls am just asking.
Re: Security Tips For Ladies. by Nobody: 2:26pm On Jun 30, 2013
Ishilove:
I'm just realising that you are a wicked person, obadiah. I am also sure you won't be asking for a video of the beating for your viewing pleasure if it was a woman related to you by marriage or blood. angry

Black hearted knave! angry
THE WHITE MAN IS MY ENEMY. TAKE THAT HOWEVER YOU WANT. JACOB VS ESAU. THE SEED OF EVE VS THE SEED OF THE SERPENT wink wink
Re: Security Tips For Ladies. by Nobody: 2:27pm On Jun 30, 2013
armyofone: the same Obadiah that quotes the bible to kingdom come. I think he is on a long tin when typing.

LMAO @ LONG TIN. I COULDA SWORN YOU WERE IN AMERICA. ARE YOU IN ENGLAND MADEMOISELLE ARMYOFONE ?
Re: Security Tips For Ladies. by SlyIg(f): 3:56pm On Jun 30, 2013
yuzedo:
swerry even me dint under stand. I just waked up to found dis yahooboy want to high jack dis racket. I can't never never cheat on u or SlyIg or d oda estra 47 sweet NL babe dat love me four my sweetnes and nut my mony or good loooook. Dis babe is a theif and I will do advat on dis websight to denounce her. angry






Sweery sooooooo wuzup wit d nyashin u promiss me since last 4yr na?! angry
What?
Re: Security Tips For Ladies. by abukkyia(f): 5:33pm On Jun 30, 2013
Caracta: If you are stalked at night and you enter a house, don't be surprised if you are sent out and rejected.

Four years ago, armed robbers invaded my street and were shooting in the air. I was walking down the street. Everyone ran for cover. I ran into a shop to avoid being hit by stray bullet. The owner of the shop, a heavily built woman, pushed me out of her shop (back into the street) and locked her door.

As for that tip, just pray you get into the right house or shop.
abi gud help us any nyc tips
Re: Security Tips For Ladies. by Uwakuwak(f): 6:24pm On Jun 30, 2013
MissYuzedo: Okies am safes in my husband's manshun

who are you?
Re: Security Tips For Ladies. by Nobody: 8:49pm On Jun 30, 2013
obadiah777: THE WHITE MAN IS MY ENEMY. TAKE THAT HOWEVER YOU WANT. JACOB VS ESAU. THE SEED OF EVE VS THE SEED OF THE SERPENT wink wink
But how can u live in a white man country and u hate them, why would u want to be seeing people u hate everyday.

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Re: Security Tips For Ladies. by Preshie(f): 11:17pm On Jun 30, 2013
*scratches head*

Sorry for derailing oo...abeg what's the full meaning of OP as it is used in Nairaland?

I no want abuse or yab oo. I only want the answer to my question.

Thanks.
Re: Security Tips For Ladies. by Nobody: 11:52pm On Jun 30, 2013
femmyb: But how can u live in a white man country and u hate them, why would u want to be seeing people u hate everyday.
AHHH BUT YOU DONT KNOW HISTORY. THE WHITE MANS COUNTRY IS THE CAUCUS MOUNTAINS GEORGIA RUSSIA. EVERYTHING ELSE HE CONQUERED AND TOOK INCLUDING EUROPE. EUROPE BELIEVE IT OR NOT BELONGED TO BLACK PEOPLE
Re: Security Tips For Ladies. by WildChild00(m): 12:55am On Jul 01, 2013
obadiah777: AHHH BUT YOU DONT KNOW HISTORY. THE WHITE MANS COUNTRY IS THE CAUCUS MOUNTAINS GEORGIA RUSSIA. EVERYTHING ELSE HE CONQUERED AND TOOK INCLUDING EUROPE. EUROPE BELIEVE IT OR NOT BELONGED TO BLACK PEOPLE

Tell dat to ur followers...

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