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Friendship by dubem3(m): 5:29pm On Jul 29, 2013
Have you ever wondered at how when ladies beg God for children, they make reference to the lack of a child's cry in their home or to wanting to have same?
A very sharp contrast is having the same lady that said this prayer ask her child to shut up when he is crying or complaining that he cries too much.
Sometimes we humans tend to appear confused. Appearing like we don't know what we want. Cries are compulsory when you talk of babies though they may be irritating but I bet you, you'll get scared and complain if you get a child that does not cry.

Our entire lives is a continuous struggle towards perfection, though we can never get there, we can get better. With each new art you master, you discover a lot more arts you have to learn in other to compliment it and thus striving, days grow into weeks, weeks into months and months into years...you just got old.

Humans will always complain. It's an essential tool in craving for perfection. Deal with it! Look for other things in people that make them good, focus on them and if you find enough treasures in that person, stick to them cos truth be told, there ain't one person alive that's not annoying in their own way.

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Re: Friendship by Mynd44: 5:40pm On Jul 29, 2013
Gree-die is not annoying at all cheesy
Re: Friendship by ERF: 5:41pm On Jul 29, 2013
That's the truth ßro.
We are never satisfied, no matter what. When it rain heavily we complain about it, when it rain a little we say "why this little? " , when it does not rain then we will call the heavens down.

Same with sunshine, when its in excess we complain...even when the effect is low, and we washed our clothes..we still shout out to the heavens.
The things is that, we humans want everything to suit our desires at the appointed time.

Funny how we want perfection, buh we don't strive towards it.

No matter the cash we have, we still want more. Even Bill Gates isn't satisfied with his riches, he wants more. He wants to retain his title yearly, and the year things go bad...blame comes in place.

That's life for us ßro, if we can realise that even the world isn't perfect. If we can be satisfied in any condition, and let increase and growth takes it due course without possibly striving detrimentally for it.... Then i think this world will be a better place smiley
Re: Friendship by ayobase(m): 9:50pm On Jul 29, 2013
Mynd_44: Gree-die is not annoying at all cheesy

What am I not missing?

U can show me the path!

Dubem, u are on point....but hope not surrounded with......
Re: Friendship by Nobody: 10:08pm On Jul 29, 2013
Uhm I think the part about ''more of child's cry in their home'' is more figurative than literal, nice write up all the same..human nature is just insatiable we always want more but striving to be contented with whoever you're with is the ultimate key to happiness and a successful relationship.
Re: Friendship by dubem3(m): 10:07am On Jul 30, 2013
do you ever give thought to the source of the 'bear-ability' of life? The reason why one thing is termed interesting and the other not? Have you wondered at a world where all appears as you want it, no challenges?
apart from its impossibility, I bet you, you'd be worn out before long and You'll wonder endlessly. cos the charm in life is derivable from its ups and downs.
life is interesting cos you don't know what comes next.
Good feels good or probably better cos you know what bad feels like.
freedom is better appreciated if you've been incarcerated.

Hence we learn that as bad as bad is we need it too to make life worth living. Be not the one that Let's that friend walk before you realise the essence of their presence.
Re: Friendship by ERF: 10:22am On Jul 30, 2013
Indeed!!
That's why i always say, everything is worthwhile and worth it no matter how good or ill it seems.
The joy of life depends on its contents, everything being made equal either good or ill...
Re: Friendship by Nobody: 10:36am On Jul 31, 2013
Right on.
Re: Friendship by dubem3(m): 8:21pm On Aug 06, 2013
what better than the harmony of those keys and string to revive a worn out self.
Good music has a way of running the lenght and breath of the body, strengthening the spine, awakening the soul, warming the blood and calming the nerves. Thanks yield. I consider this a gift.
Re: Friendship by Sanboy25: 9:02pm On Aug 06, 2013
Hum ok. smiley
Re: Friendship by dubem3(m): 3:17am On Aug 07, 2013
Sanboy25: Hum ok. smiley

undecided
Re: Friendship by Nobody: 3:23am On Aug 07, 2013
Nice writeup
Re: Friendship by dont8(m): 2:09pm On Aug 07, 2013
Love this, happy to be a friend!

God bless true friends.
Re: Friendship by Sanboy25: 7:02pm On Aug 07, 2013
dubem3:

undecided
smiley

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