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The Pains In Romance And Marriage Among Igbos. by rotimy(m): 5:16pm On Jul 01, 2008
Umunnem, ndi Igbo. Gini kpatara na Umu Igbo na enwe nsogbu na-ihe gbasara anu m di na nwunye? Otutu ndi Anambra na asi na ha agaghi anu onye Imo, Abia ma obu Enugu. Ndi Owerri na Mbano ekweghi Inu onye Mbaise. Onye Okigwe na atu onye Owerri ujo. Onye Onitsha si na ndi Igbo ndi ozo bu "nwa onye Igbo". Anambra si na ndi Enugu na Ebonyi bu "Wawa". Enugu kwue na Anambra na Imo bu "Ndi Agba Enu". Otutu jukwara inu onye Igo maka na asi na obu "osu, ume, ohu". kedu ihe ichere maka onodu ojoo Umuka Igbo butere onwe ha?
Re: The Pains In Romance And Marriage Among Igbos. by tope2000(f): 5:17pm On Jul 01, 2008
ABEG, carry go another section
Re: The Pains In Romance And Marriage Among Igbos. by jekkad: 5:19pm On Jul 01, 2008
lmao @tope

@topic

even sef ndi anambra kacha atu ndie umuahia u'jo,fa si na ndie umuahia wara anyan,mana ndie abia ekwero alu kwanu ndie anambra na mbaise,amakwamu ife ne menu,echemu na anyin ncha bu ofu
Re: The Pains In Romance And Marriage Among Igbos. by Nobody: 5:20pm On Jul 01, 2008
@poster
i feel you
Re: The Pains In Romance And Marriage Among Igbos. by Radiant(f): 5:23pm On Jul 01, 2008
Not sure where you going with this. . . .
Re: The Pains In Romance And Marriage Among Igbos. by Gamine(f): 5:27pm On Jul 01, 2008
Theres always pain among those igbo people,

chai!
Re: The Pains In Romance And Marriage Among Igbos. by RedHotChic(f): 5:28pm On Jul 01, 2008
translate pls or delete thread.
Re: The Pains In Romance And Marriage Among Igbos. by Nobody: 5:30pm On Jul 01, 2008
poster which state re u from ?.
nwa owerri
Re: The Pains In Romance And Marriage Among Igbos. by Nobody: 5:38pm On Jul 01, 2008
poster which state re u from ?.NWA OWERRI
my uncle's wife is  from ANAMBRA .
TWO OF MY SISTERS INLAW DID THEY TRADITIONAL MARRIAGE LAST XMANS .BOTH THEY HUSBAND IS FROM ENUGU .
Re: The Pains In Romance And Marriage Among Igbos. by kingdong(m): 5:51pm On Jul 01, 2008
o wenro ife na e me nu. anyin ni ne bu ofu.
Re: The Pains In Romance And Marriage Among Igbos. by noetic(m): 6:29pm On Jul 01, 2008
lol. . . . . . . . cool shocked shocked grin grin
Re: The Pains In Romance And Marriage Among Igbos. by rotimy(m): 6:52pm On Jul 01, 2008
RedHotChic:

translate please or delete thread.
RED is my favourite colour! The topic is too[b] HOT [/b]for non Igbos to understand or contribute! It's not just for a CHIC, believe me, it's a hidden sore but the odour is ozzing out!
Re: The Pains In Romance And Marriage Among Igbos. by rotimy(m): 6:58pm On Jul 01, 2008
Gamine:

Theres always pain among those igbo people,


A PAIN truly shared, goes away! There things great minds must discuss even though others may pretend it is not existing or true.
Re: The Pains In Romance And Marriage Among Igbos. by rotimy(m): 7:05pm On Jul 01, 2008
Radiant:

Not sure where you going with this. . . .
Where am going? ANAMBRA, ENUGU, EBONYI, IMO, ABIA , every town in Igbo land and every Igbo family all over the world
Re: The Pains In Romance And Marriage Among Igbos. by chisimdi(f): 7:12pm On Jul 01, 2008
@rotimy abum onye Anambra,Dim wu onye Umuahia.
Re: The Pains In Romance And Marriage Among Igbos. by jekkad: 7:21pm On Jul 01, 2008
chisimdi:

@rotimy abum onye Anambra,Dim wu onye Umuahia.

kedi side umuahia di gi si, chisi?
Re: The Pains In Romance And Marriage Among Igbos. by rubi(f): 8:08pm On Jul 01, 2008
@ Topic where one grew up contributes a lot when one is getting married if someone from Anambara grew up among the Imo people it is likely that the person will marry from that place, why? because he /she associates with them alot either in business, church activities or work and somehow develop bond or used to the person.

Although some people still have that mentality of not going too far especially the first born. Love breaks every boundary
Re: The Pains In Romance And Marriage Among Igbos. by ifyalways(f): 8:21pm On Jul 01, 2008
rubi:

@ Topic where one grew up contributes a lot when one is getting married if someone from Anambara grew up among the Imo people it is likely that the person will marry from that place, why? because he /she associates with them alot either in business, church activities or work and somehow develop bond or used to the person.

Although some people still have that mentality of not going too far especially the first born. Love breaks every boundary
uka agwula ! kiss
nnem bu nwa afor Onicha mana o luru Di na ime ime Abia steeti,na Arogod.
nwanne nnam luru nwanyi na Mbaise, otu enyim nwoke bu onye Orlu,o luru nwanyi na Idembia,Ebonyi steeti,enyim nwayi bu onye Umuaka Imo steeti,mana o luru di na Amagunze,Enugu steeti.so na uche nkem oju ajuju(OP) ihe a i chere a bughi ezi okwu.anyi na alurikota onwa anyi buko cool
Re: The Pains In Romance And Marriage Among Igbos. by jekkad: 8:39pm On Jul 01, 2008
ifyalways what  dposter said is d truth,so many igbos refuse to marry from some kind of states ,and yes some marry too from other states but d mentalities of those that refuse to marry must change,some imo's and abia's don't even want to hear d name anambra not to talk of marrying there,and some anambarians don't even want to near umuahia reason is because d umuahias r wise,now d umuahias don't want to go to mbaise and enugu reason is because they r too conny and tricky ,now some of the abia's dont want to go to umuaka in imo state reason is because they r more of jazz pple,ndie ogwu,my eldest sister married an anambra man ulu n'nemu luru onye delta ,yes there r some of them that marry because they don't care,its all about love but there r some that have sworn never to marry from other states
Re: The Pains In Romance And Marriage Among Igbos. by ifyalways(f): 8:50pm On Jul 01, 2008
jenny well,a maghikwam hoha cool mmadu na ekwu ihe o huru abi?a hubeghim either my friends ma o bu ndi ezi na ulo m ebe a koro udika akuko ahu. undecided E chekwam ma o bu ezi na ulo onye ahu si ka a na adi bothered abt undecided well i dont know,never seen or heard such.
anyway it should be "some" and not "all" or 'among igbos" its all abt individuals.Yes,to me it boils down to the individuals invovled and not a culture thing ! its not abt "igbos" its abt "individuals" kiss
Re: The Pains In Romance And Marriage Among Igbos. by rotimy(m): 10:54pm On Jul 02, 2008
ifyalways:

jenny well,a maghikwam hoha cool mmadu na ekwu ihe o huru abi?a hubeghim either my friends ma o bu ndi ezi na ulo m ebe a koro udika akuko ahu. undecided E chekwam ma o bu ezi na ulo onye ahu si ka a na adi bothered about undecided well i don't know,never seen or heard such.
anyway it should be "some" and not "all" or 'among igbos" its all about individuals.Yes,to me it boils down to the individuals invovled and not a culture thing ! its not about "igbos" its about "individuals" kiss
Since we are now using ENGLI-IGBO, Let me join the train. Ka anyi ja onye anyi eziokwu, whenever one wants to marry beyond his or her local goverment or State in Igbo LAND, the folks at home and even some friends will tell you a thousand reasons not to go very far and they will demonize the area you want to marry from. I agree with IFYALWAYS that it is some not all Igbos! But the few exceptions are those their parents and uncles are more Lagosians or Americans and hardly travel to land of their nativity. Such folks even do the so-called traditional marriage at Lagos, Abuja or Kano without knowing the mindsets of the folks back home. Some Anambra guys are accussed by the some Imo babes that they usually disappont after courtship claiming " Nne m gbara m aluna gi"
Kedu I kpatara na onyeghi onye choro itunye onu n'okwu banyere osu, ume, ohu na ihe gbasara anu m di an nwunye na ala igbo?
Re: The Pains In Romance And Marriage Among Igbos. by rotimy(m): 10:11am On Jul 03, 2008
rubi:

@ Topic

Although some people still have that mentality of not going too far especially the first born. Love breaks every boundary
The boundary of[b] love[/b] not yet broken in some Igbo land is the osu or ume caste system. It has lasted more than 500 years and simply refuses to go of fade away! In Umuoji in Anambra State, an entire village, Urueze, are regarded as outcasts! Till today, other people from other villages find it very difficult to marry from there due to parental pressures and unbroken boundary!
Re: The Pains In Romance And Marriage Among Igbos. by youngies(m): 12:19pm On Jul 03, 2008
Kedu I kpatara na onyeghi onye choro itunye onu n'okwu banyere osu, ume, ohu na ihe gbasara anu m di an nwunye na ala igbo?

Ihe gbasara osu, ume mobu ohu has been treated extensively na forum a. N'ihi nke a, oburu na i choro i nu opinion ndi mmadu naya, biko visit the following links:

Osu Caste System Had Been Banned In Igboland-influencial ,
www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-122692.0.html

Origin Of The Osu Caste System?
www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-106467.0.html

My Girl Wants To Marry Me But Her Parents Said No (Osu)
www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-106262.0.html

I'm About To Marry An 'Outcast' (Osu) Guy -
www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-48932.96.html

Would You Marry An Osu? -
www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-23527.0.html
Re: The Pains In Romance And Marriage Among Igbos. by rotimy(m): 8:08pm On Jul 03, 2008
youngies:

Ihe gbasara osu, ume mobu ohu has been treated extensively na forum a. N'ihi nke a, oburu na i choro i nu opinion ndi mmadu naya, biko visit the following links:

Osu Caste System Had Been Banned In Igboland-influencial ,
www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-122692.0.html

Origin Of The Osu Caste System?
www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-106467.0.html

My Girl Wants To Marry Me But Her Parents Said No (Osu)
www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-106262.0.html

I'm About To Marry An 'Outcast' (Osu) Guy -
www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-48932.96.html

Would You Marry An Osu? -
www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-23527.0.html

Thanks my brother for the threads. They were treated before I joined. I will read them.
Onye aghara nwannee ya
Re: The Pains In Romance And Marriage Among Igbos. by rotimy(m): 7:40pm On Jul 04, 2008
chisimdi:

@rotimy abum onye Anambra
A BU M NWA AFO IGBO.
Re: The Pains In Romance And Marriage Among Igbos. by Esss(m): 7:52pm On Jul 04, 2008
Nwanna, Okwu ghi ku otor ka amu.

Ezigbo Ajuju ki ju. Nnem a'choghi e nu na m lu onye Abia, Ebonyi, Imo. Obu na orburo onye Anambra (ebe anyi), mo Enugu, ya bu kwa onye ocha.
Re: The Pains In Romance And Marriage Among Igbos. by Manxman: 1:15am On Aug 25, 2011
Wetin unu know sef? Pls Ignorant pple should stop making uneducated guesses.nitori pe omo onye igbo lemi !(IGBO LAGOSIAN). Mi i no fit ToTo FEAR ToTo 4cK LAP!!!.abeg chorom wnayi onyigbo am still searching!
Re: The Pains In Romance And Marriage Among Igbos. by Manxman: 1:16am On Aug 25, 2011
Wetin unu know sef? Pls Ignorant pple should stop making uneducated guesses.nitori pe omo onye igbo lemi !(IGBO LAGOSIAN). Mi i no FEAR ToTo 4cK LAP!!!.abeg chorom wnayi onyigbo am still searching!
Re: The Pains In Romance And Marriage Among Igbos. by mekadude: 10:40pm On Aug 31, 2011
ihe na ewutem karia bu na ndi igbo na anu ndi Yoruba. angry angry angry
ha na anu kwa ndi ugwu karia ndi igbo ibe ha oge ufodu.
eziokwu amarom ife na eme ndi igbo. angry

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