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Re: Things Your Spouse Does That You Dislike by Nobody: 5:39pm On Dec 09, 2013
thegeorgy: my husband has OCD.(obsessive compulsive disorder)he is too clean and its make me very uncomfortable...as in apart from work the only thing he spend his time doing is cleaning even when i don clean tire.makes my house boring cos i feel he's being a wife and a husband at the same time cry
Thank God my sister
Re: Things Your Spouse Does That You Dislike by Incrizz(f): 5:39pm On Dec 09, 2013
dafnna: and does not really like s.ex maybe because i am not an expert in this area
Awww..how sweet of you cheesy
Re: Things Your Spouse Does That You Dislike by thegeorgy(f): 5:41pm On Dec 09, 2013
debbie: Awwww, dear i can understand how you feel,but have you tried letting him know how u feel and see those action of his?
Dont take it too hard,lest it creates more issues,.Is it something you can cope with?
my sister,it's not easy o...we almost broke up because of it.it's just encourgement from friend and family and resources from the internet.if not we for don divorce o.thats how bad.he cleans 24/7 bath babies every now and then,the dishes sef,he's always looking.and i'll be like chill now whats your problem.our bathroom gets washes everytime he wants to have a bath.the list is long.sometimes i just wanna run away and go spend my day somewhere else cos its crazy cry..he even wants to wash my feet before i enter bed,in the name of i saw you walk barefeet a few minutes ago.in a house we mop almost evryday o.
@bxcode...answered prayers keh?husband should help wife but my case is just over the top,and it makes me feel like am not doing enough.
@Dutchess,hmmmmm is good to clean but when its to the extreme,it makes others uncomfortable.sometimes my friends dont wanna come visit me,they think my house is too perfect,expecially a house where there's a two year old.it feels like its just me and my husband.not like am messy but i still want my baby to be a baby and litter sometimes.but my oga at the top winkkeeps cleaning as baby plays.and i have only been married for 3 years.God help me as i have a long time to cope with this craze.

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Re: Things Your Spouse Does That You Dislike by shejane: 5:42pm On Dec 09, 2013
thegeorgy: my husband has OCD.(obsessive compulsive disorder)he is too clean and its make me very uncomfortable...as in apart from work the only thing he spend his time doing is cleaning even when i don clean tire.makes my house boring cos i feel he's being a wife and a husband at the same time cry

My dear am suffering same wt u, is so irritating when ur man said u can't wash his clothes 2 his satisfaction

He does his laundry, he clean, even when am stil in d kitchen cooking he's cleaning d same kitchen am cooking in

Iav lost so many tins cos once he sees anytin unkept he wil jus throw away

Stil Love him sha

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Re: Things Your Spouse Does That You Dislike by optimism91(m): 5:43pm On Dec 09, 2013
[quote author=dmahn]She called me names my parents neva named me..Am I a Baby...whats d meaning of honny?[/quote
Probably, nickname(s)
Re: Things Your Spouse Does That You Dislike by Incrizz(f): 5:44pm On Dec 09, 2013
simpleseyi:

Spending the night together while not yet married. I am sure you are already thinking of your next victim. When you are through with her, dump her gently with minimum heart-break so that you can get minimum curses from her and her friends. Correct very bad guy. grin grin grin
On the contrary, I see them going to the altar grin
Re: Things Your Spouse Does That You Dislike by Chinboli(m): 5:46pm On Dec 09, 2013
simpleseyi:

Spending the night together while not yet married. I am sure you are already thinking of your next victim. When you are through with her, dump her gently with minimum heart-break so that you can get minimum curses from her and her friends. Correct very bad guy. grin grin grin


Guy Nawa oh! Aint Like Dose Guyz Na. . . . . . I Intend Making Her My Wife. . . . .
Re: Things Your Spouse Does That You Dislike by Nobody: 5:49pm On Dec 09, 2013
DutchesSsS:



But it's good to be clean

Its ocd, most cant help it, my mum is kinda germophobe too, as long as u get a man who doesnt mind and u dont get too upset, den ur cool dutchess
Re: Things Your Spouse Does That You Dislike by starbuck(f): 5:52pm On Dec 09, 2013
Mine is selfish , he complains over lil things.
Re: Things Your Spouse Does That You Dislike by bxcode(m): 5:54pm On Dec 09, 2013
DutchesSsS:



But it's good to be clean
Too much of everything they say is?........ undecidedundecidedundecided
Re: Things Your Spouse Does That You Dislike by DutchesSsS(f): 5:54pm On Dec 09, 2013
chris baba:

Its ocd, most cant help it, my mum is kinda germophobe too, as long as u get a man who doesnt mind and u dont get too upset, den ur cool dutchess


Sometimes, I freak out but I do control my outburst much better now...
Re: Things Your Spouse Does That You Dislike by Incrizz(f): 5:55pm On Dec 09, 2013
DutchesSsS:


Hmmmmm...I've got these traits too...everyone complains about iit but I can't stop...Is it really bad to be this way?
Haha..I used to have a roommate who's got the traits too. As soon as you get up from her bed, while you're still standing and chatting with her, she'd smooth it after you, rearrange your sandals, reposition your items and all what not..every where always looking squeaky clean. The only thing she couldn't do was readjust our posture, lol. It made some of us feel uneasy..jittery. Nobody likes to feel that way around anyone.
Re: Things Your Spouse Does That You Dislike by thegeorgy(f): 5:58pm On Dec 09, 2013
shejane:

My dear am suffering same wt u, is so irritating when ur man said u can't wash his clothes 2 his satisfaction

He does his laundry, he clean, even when am stil in d kitchen cooking he's cleaning d same kitchen am cooking in

Iav lost so many tins cos once he sees anytin unkept he wil jus throw away

Stil Love him sha
oh i forgot to mention when am in the kitchen,as i'm doing this he is clearing up,even things that i might want to use again,he has cleared and washed back,soup spoon too,he cleans it up.i will be like which kind wahala i marry for myself like this grin(yea i know we did not date for long)as deeper life chic now,i did not live with him wink...so must of these i did not see.he's even always at home.i'll be like go out now and visit your friends at least that way i'ld have some space and he wont see anything to clean.but he doesn't like to go out cos he doesn't wanna see any mess.at his work place,he uses handkerchief or paper towel to pick the fone.God have mercy.evrywhere for my house na hand sanitizer.he will come back from work,my 2 year old wants to give daddy a hug but no oooo.he will have to take his work cloths off,bath before he carries baby or hug me claiming so many people came by the office he doesn't wanna spread germs.at times i no dey gree o,i'ld be like i must hug u today and if i do,oga will ask me to come bath.its hard i must say. cry

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Re: Things Your Spouse Does That You Dislike by Incrizz(f): 5:59pm On Dec 09, 2013
Francomekus: seriously i don't know what i dislike about my babe, maybe i had never want to find out or i don't care what i dislike about her. But one thing am very sure is that, there are one million things i like aboout her.
*dreamy eyed* He is soo in love h♏m..
Re: Things Your Spouse Does That You Dislike by Nostalgia21(m): 6:01pm On Dec 09, 2013
Vado: Not kissing me right. There was this ex of mine, huge melons big bootay, dopee af...in my mind i was like this chic is the bomb until the day we were frenchkissing. Shorty secreted no less than a litre of saliva in my mouth i was so irritated. angry
jesus!..wetin yu come do na?
Re: Things Your Spouse Does That You Dislike by yankison(m): 6:02pm On Dec 09, 2013
Every time there is a quarrel , she go straight to her belonging and pack out of the house without my consent ,maybe when am out . i think am tired of that .

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Re: Things Your Spouse Does That You Dislike by bxcode(m): 6:03pm On Dec 09, 2013
thegeorgy:
oh i forgot to mention when am in the kitchen,as i'm doing this he is clearing up,even things that i might want to use again,he has cleared and washed back,soup spoon too,he cleans it up.i will be like which kind wahala i marry for myself like this grin(yea i know we did not date for long)as deeper life chic now,i did not live with him wink...so must of these i did not see.he's even always at home.i'll be like go out now and visit your friends at least that way i'ld have some space and he wont see anything to clean.but he doesn't like to go out cos he doesn't wanna see any mess.at his work place,he uses handkerchief or paper towel to pick the fone.God have mercy.evrywhere for my house na hand sanitizer.he will come back from work,my 2 year old wants to give daddy a hug but no oooo.he will have to take his work cloths off,bath before he carries baby or hug me claiming so many people came by the office he doesn't wanna spread germs.at times i no dey gree o,i'ld be like i must hug u today and if i do,oga will ask me to come bath.its hard i must say. cry
Dats why we support dating for a reasonable period gringringringrin

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Re: Things Your Spouse Does That You Dislike by Incrizz(f): 6:04pm On Dec 09, 2013
thegeorgy:
my sister,it's not easy o...we almost broke up because of it.it's just encourgement from friend and family and resources from the internet.if not we for don divorce o.thats how bad.he cleans 24/7 bath babies every now and then,the dishes sef,he's always looking.and i'll be like chill now whats your problem.our bathroom gets washes everytime he wants to have a bath.the list is long.sometimes i just wanna run away and go spend my day somewhere else cos its crazy cry..he even wants to wash my feet before i enter bed,in the name of i saw you walk barefeet a few minutes ago.in a house we mop almost evryday o.
@bxcode...answered prayers keh?husband should help wife but my case is just over the top,and it makes me feel like am not doing enough.
@Dutchess,hmmmmm is good to clean but when its to the extreme,it makes others uncomfortable.sometimes my friends dont wanna come visit me,they think my house is too perfect,expecially a house where there's a two year old.it feels like its just me and my husband.not like am messy but i still want my baby to be a baby and litter sometimes.but my oga at the top winkkeeps cleaning as baby plays.and i have only been married for 3 years.God help me as i have a long time to cope with this craze.
Hm lipsrsealed Amen

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Re: Things Your Spouse Does That You Dislike by thegeorgy(f): 6:13pm On Dec 09, 2013
bxcode:
Dats why we support dating for a reasonable period gringringringrin
in my next life now,cos certainly not this one wink i love him though but that part HELL NO! and he too cant help it.i'm seeing these cos am still a housewife sha,maybe when i start working i'ld see less of it wink
Incrizz: Haha..I used to have a roommate who's got the traits too. As soon as you get up from her bed, while you're still standing and chatting with her, she'd smooth it after you, rearrange your sandals, reposition your items and all what not..every where always looking squeaky clean. The only thing she couldn't do was readjust our posture, lol. It made some of us feel uneasy..jittery. Nobody likes to feel that way around anyone.
you just described my husband there.i just got up from the bed,my eyes never even clear,bed has started being made.i sit to watch tv on the couch before i get up or my friends do,he has started to dust.no grain of sand in my house.any small one he see,he sweeps and mops everywhere,even the one i no see o.he will say is the one that uses glasses and me who doesn't no see that spot grin....kai!
people with ocd should be marrying themselves maka chukwu.at least them go dey mad together. cheesy

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Re: Things Your Spouse Does That You Dislike by yankison(m): 6:17pm On Dec 09, 2013
packing out of the house without my consent
Re: Things Your Spouse Does That You Dislike by Nobody: 6:18pm On Dec 09, 2013
I think it's just male habits
They are just so different from us females
Where do I even start from?


Scratching :
why do men always scratch themselves and grab their manhood from time to time?
I don't understand that habit,it's not as though the thing is running away,just leave it alone and quit scratching yourselves too
Is it craw craw?
Farting in bed when you think we have dozed off
So annoying. grin

Not washing hands
: men don't wash their hands often.they come out from the bathroom and you don't hear a tap running,obviously they didn't wash their hands.especially after holding their sumtin to pee pee,there could be droplets of pee on that hand but they won't wash it o
Next thing they want to shake your hand.i hate shaking men.there is no telling the legion of bacteria on those hands. grin

Pee pee on the toilet seat. gosh,I hate to see droplets of pee pee on the toilet seat.they pee and shake off excess pee from the thing.why not dab it with tissue paper,why do you shake and drop pee on the seat?
So annoying. grin

Clothes everywhere
If you like buy 5 hampers and 5 baskets,the man prefers to drop his dirty clothes and socks on the closet floor.they are just a different breed of creatures wallahi grin Thank God I am not a man.
Go to a girl's room and compare with his brother's room.ut like a tornado went through his.that scatter scatter starts from childhood.
You even have to remind the little boys to brush their teeth and wipe their bum bum.Girls never have to be reminded of that.

Cooking is a mess
If your man cooks,get ready.when he is done,the whole kitchen is a mess.they don't do cleaning,food particles on the stove,on the floor,on the tables.
Garri or farina scattered everywhere waiting for me to come and clean it.


Watching sports
if not for the Spirit of God in my life,I for scatter that his big screen Tv grin.Once his eyes are glued to sports I become totally invisible,irrelevant,a nobody ( like sexkills) grin grin
I could shake my groove thing before his eyes and he will yell that I clear off the road.
Chei
The obsession with sports can be annoying
He will cancel a date to watch sports.

His car is his other woman
He will not allow me drive his car but he drives mine
It's not as though I'm going to crash it o.
Sometimes I want to pose small and go to a function in a Benz but the answer is always no
I drive it sha when he travels lipsrsealed lipsrsealed

The male hormone
Atimes we just want a good night's sleep.every night must not be ikwokirikwo.sometimes I just want to lay down and meditate but then someone wants to take me out of the spirit realm into the natural.
It's all good but not always na
Ha a
Is it food?
If only he knows I pray sometimes that he keeps those hands to himself grin

His side of the bed
I don't understand the obsession over his particular side of the bed.i can sleep on any side I don't care but once I sleep on his side,he wakes me up to "shift"
Nna why nau?

Toothpaste droplets on the sink and bathroom mirror
Why?
Why must it drop there and you don't clean it off
I don't gerrit


Still love him sha

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Re: Things Your Spouse Does That You Dislike by Nobody: 6:20pm On Dec 09, 2013
Mondisweets: shocked we look alike


shocked you sure say my papa no play away match? Please let me see your face before I tell my mummy


Mondi sweets! The pishhhure I see of u on ur profile does not look anything like me o!
Re: Things Your Spouse Does That You Dislike by Nobody: 6:30pm On Dec 09, 2013
kennygee: Dances in public when ever he hears a song that he loves. Embarrassing, i just leave him and walk away.
he got demons on him. he need exorcism grin

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Re: Things Your Spouse Does That You Dislike by Nobody: 6:34pm On Dec 09, 2013
shejane:

My dear am suffering same wt u, is so irritating when ur man said u can't wash his clothes 2 his satisfaction

He does his laundry, he clean, even when am stil in d kitchen cooking he's cleaning d same kitchen am cooking in

Iav lost so many tins cos once he sees anytin unkept he wil jus throw away

Stil Love him sha

I wish I could trade places and have mine cleaning
His shoes have migrated to my side of the wardrobe,if you see the speed I use to cast them to his side grin

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Re: Things Your Spouse Does That You Dislike by fabulousdame(f): 6:34pm On Dec 09, 2013
i think people with ocd needs therapy.. it's a psychological problem.

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Re: Things Your Spouse Does That You Dislike by Nobody: 6:34pm On Dec 09, 2013
obadiah777: he got demons on him. he need exorcism grin

Hahhahahahahahahahhahahahaha!

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Re: Things Your Spouse Does That You Dislike by Nobody: 6:36pm On Dec 09, 2013
There are way too many long comments
*scratches my eye
Re: Things Your Spouse Does That You Dislike by Nobody: 6:37pm On Dec 09, 2013
sandijey:

shocked you sure say my papa no play away match? Please let me see your face before I tell my mummy
Re: Things Your Spouse Does That You Dislike by Icudkill: 6:38pm On Dec 09, 2013
thegeorgy:
oh i forgot to mention when am in the kitchen,as i'm doing this he is clearing up,even things that i might want to use again,he has cleared and washed back,soup spoon too,he cleans it up.i will be like which kind wahala i marry for myself like this grin(yea i know we did not date for long)as deeper life chic now,i did not live with him wink...so must of these i did not see.he's even always at home.i'll be like go out now and visit your friends at least that way i'ld have some space and he wont see anything to clean.but he doesn't like to go out cos he doesn't wanna see any mess.at his work place,he uses handkerchief or paper towel to pick the fone.God have mercy.evrywhere for my house na hand sanitizer.he will come back from work,my 2 year old wants to give daddy a hug but no oooo.he will have to take his work cloths off,bath before he carries baby or hug me claiming so many people came by the office he doesn't wanna spread germs.at times i no dey gree o,i'ld be like i must hug u today and if i do,oga will ask me to come bath.its hard i must say. cry
Now this is serious

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Re: Things Your Spouse Does That You Dislike by Nobody: 6:39pm On Dec 09, 2013
COD reminds me of my dad!
Re: Things Your Spouse Does That You Dislike by Nobody: 6:39pm On Dec 09, 2013
kennygee: Dances in public when ever he hears a song that he loves. Embarrassing, i just leave him and walk away.

I would have loved this!!
Kai
That is my type of man
I am a dancer.I love to dance and my man will just dance to a couple of songs and sit down and I stay on dancing with friends and family while he watches.

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