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Re: Things Your Spouse Does That You Dislike by lumzybo: 6:42pm On Dec 09, 2013
shejane:

My dear am suffering same wt u, is so irritating when ur man said u can't wash his clothes 2 his satisfaction

He does his laundry, he clean, even when am stil in d kitchen cooking he's cleaning d same kitchen am cooking in

Iav lost so many tins cos once he sees anytin unkept he wil jus throw away

Stil Love him sha
He go soon taya.

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Re: Things Your Spouse Does That You Dislike by bfmconcepts: 6:42pm On Dec 09, 2013
My spouse is not romantic enough. She can stay 6months without sex if you do not ask or make attempt.
No casual kisses or sex attempt from her. This became worse after she dropped the second baby.
Even while sleeping on the same bed, she will back me and would not even stretch hand or even try keep me warm.
I have done all I could but she won't change
Although, I was the one that disvirgined her, but should that be a factor for her coldness towards sex and romance?
She's also a very good mother and manager, neat and well mannered to a large extent
Am even considering having extra-marital affairs but I love her and the children and don't want to do anything to hurt them
Re: Things Your Spouse Does That You Dislike by Nobody: 6:44pm On Dec 09, 2013
embarassed embarassed
crackhaus:
Actually this is quite common with me too undecided
I wonder why they like to just hold the donkey-kong without any reason, and yet won't let us hold the bo.oobsies without any reason too. This usually happens when I'm lying on the bed trying to rest...very annoying angry angry undecided
Re: Things Your Spouse Does That You Dislike by JustDamsel: 6:44pm On Dec 09, 2013
Hahaha, Baby mama make u no kill me with laugh o o! I am a typical of those qualities and my wife wil hug u 4 that. I can fart indiscriminately, nak kitten almost every nite and my wife must not sleep in my bed side. An exception is that, am gud cook and i do not litter.

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Re: Things Your Spouse Does That You Dislike by Nobody: 6:48pm On Dec 09, 2013
sandijey:

shocked you sure say my papa no play away match? Please let me see your face before I tell my mummy


Mondi sweets! The pishhhure I see of u on ur profile does not look anything like me o!
i posted a clear pic on the previous page
Re: Things Your Spouse Does That You Dislike by Dannylux: 6:50pm On Dec 09, 2013
Vivly: E don do na. grin

Lmao see as you dey laugh this girl. I know say you dey enjoy am grin
Re: Things Your Spouse Does That You Dislike by Nobody: 6:51pm On Dec 09, 2013
bfmconcepts: My spouse is not romantic enough. She can stay 6months without sex if you do not ask or make attempt.
No casual kisses or sex attempt from her. This became worse after she dropped the second baby.
Even while sleeping on the same bed, she will back me and would not even stretch hand or even try keep me warm.
I have done all I could but she won't change
Although, I was the one that disvirgined her, but should that be a factor for her coldness towards sex and romance?
She's also a very good mother and manager, neat and well mannered to a large extent
Am even considering having extra-marital affairs but I love her and the children and don't want to do anything to hurt them


Did you try something called dating before you got married? grin
Re: Things Your Spouse Does That You Dislike by Dannylux: 6:52pm On Dec 09, 2013
Vivly: E don do na. grin
Re: Things Your Spouse Does That You Dislike by Nobody: 6:56pm On Dec 09, 2013
JustDamsel: Hahaha, Baby mama make u no kill me with laugh o o! I am a typical of those qualities and my wife wil hug u 4 that. I can fart indiscriminately, nak kitten almost every nite and my wife must not sleep in my bed side. An exception is that, am gud cook and i do not litter.

Lol
I know I spoke the mind of most wives
Na so una dey
Thank God you clean up in the kitchen,mine doesn't
The farting one,he thinks it's funny,it is soooooo annoying
I bet your wife finds it annoying too

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Re: Things Your Spouse Does That You Dislike by Nobody: 7:02pm On Dec 09, 2013
DutchesSsS:



But it's good to be clean

To be obsessed with cleanliness or anything is a disorder
If people are complaining about it and it occupies you that much,it is a problem

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Re: Things Your Spouse Does That You Dislike by tomzman: 7:03pm On Dec 09, 2013
thegeorgy:
oh i forgot to mention when am in the kitchen,as i'm doing this he is clearing up,even things that i might want to use again,he has cleared and washed back,soup spoon too,he cleans it up.i will be like which kind wahala i marry for myself like this grin(yea i know we did not date for long)as deeper life chic now,i did not live with him wink...so must of these i did not see.he's even always at home.i'll be like go out now and visit your friends at least that way i'ld have some space and he wont see anything to clean.but he doesn't like to go out cos he doesn't wanna see any mess.at his work place,he uses handkerchief or paper towel to pick the fone.God have mercy.evrywhere for my house na hand sanitizer.he will come back from work,my 2 year old wants to give daddy a hug but no oooo.he will have to take his work cloths off,bath before he carries baby or hug me claiming so many people came by the office he doesn't wanna spread germs.at times i no dey gree o,i'ld be like i must hug u today and if i do,oga will ask me to come bath.its hard i must say. cry
Hmmn! I kinda pity you o! But the thing might reduce as he grows older sha!
Re: Things Your Spouse Does That You Dislike by tomzman: 7:04pm On Dec 09, 2013
thegeorgy:
oh i forgot to mention when am in the kitchen,as i'm doing this he is clearing up,even things that i might want to use again,he has cleared and washed back,soup spoon too,he cleans it up.i will be like which kind wahala i marry for myself like this grin(yea i know we did not date for long)as deeper life chic now,i did not live with him wink...so must of these i did not see.he's even always at home.i'll be like go out now and visit your friends at least that way i'ld have some space and he wont see anything to clean.but he doesn't like to go out cos he doesn't wanna see any mess.at his work place,he uses handkerchief or paper towel to pick the fone.God have mercy.evrywhere for my house na hand sanitizer.he will come back from work,my 2 year old wants to give daddy a hug but no oooo.he will have to take his work cloths off,bath before he carries baby or hug me claiming so many people came by the office he doesn't wanna spread germs.at times i no dey gree o,i'ld be like i must hug u today and if i do,oga will ask me to come bath.its hard i must say. cry
Hmmn! I kinda pity you o! But the thing might reduce as he grows older sha!
Re: Things Your Spouse Does That You Dislike by shaynelifa(m): 7:05pm On Dec 09, 2013
bennysucre: Aint married yet but my mate leaves a pool of saliva on d bedsheet n pillow when sleeping. Choi! I hate dat!!!
bhahahhahahahabababababhehehebebhuhuh
Re: Things Your Spouse Does That You Dislike by okewumi: 7:05pm On Dec 09, 2013
[b]Re: Things Your Spouse Does That You Dislike by Baby mama: 6:18pm
I think it's just male habits
They are just so different from us females
Where do I even start from?


Scratching : why do men always scratch themselves and grab their manhood from time to time?
I don't understand that habit,it's not as though the thing is running away,just leave it alone and quit scratching yourselves too
Is it craw craw?
Farting in bed when you think we have dozed off
So annoying. grin

Not washing hands: men don't wash their hands often.they come out from the bathroom and you don't hear a tap running,obviously they didn't wash their hands.especially after holding their sumtin to pee pee,there could be droplets of pee on that hand but they won't wash it o
Next thing they want to shake your hand.i hate shaking men.there is no telling the legion of bacteria on those hands. grin

Pee pee on the toilet seat. gosh,I hate to see droplets of pee pee on the toilet seat.they pee and shake off excess pee from the thing.why not dab it with tissue paper,why do you shake and drop pee on the seat?
So annoying. grin

Clothes everywhere
If you like buy 5 hampers and 5 baskets,the man prefers to drop his dirty clothes and socks on the closet floor.they are just a different breed of creatures wallahi grin Thank God I am not a man.
Go to a girl's room and compare with his brother's room.ut like a tornado went through his.that scatter scatter starts from childhood.
You even have to remind the little boys to brush their teeth and wipe their bum bum.Girls never have to be reminded of that.

Cooking is a mess
If your man cooks,get ready.when he is done,the whole kitchen is a mess.they don't do cleaning,food particles on the stove,on the floor,on the tables.
Garri or farina scattered everywhere waiting for me to come and clean it.


Watching sports if not for the Spirit of God in my life,I for scatter that his big screen Tv grin.Once his eyes are glued to sports I become totally invisible,irrelevant,a nobody ( like sexy kills) grin
I could shake my groove thing before his wyes and he will yell that I clear off the road.
Chei
The obsession with sports can be annoying
He will cancel a date to watch sports.

His car is his other woman
He will not allow me drive his car but he drives mine
It's not as though I'm going to crash it o.
Sometimes I want to pose small and go to a function in a Benz but the answer is always no
I drive it sha when he travels lipsrsealed lipsrsealed

The male hormone
Atimes we just want a good night's sleep.every night must not be ikwokirikwo.sometimes I just want to lay down and meditate but them someone wants to take me out of the spirit realm into the natural.
It's all good but not always na
Ha a
Is it food?
If only he knows I pray sometimes that he keeps those hands to himself grin

His side of the bed
I don't understand the obsession over his particular side of the bed.i can sleep on any side I don't care but once I sleep on his side,he wakes me up to "shift"
Nna why nau?

Toothpaste droplets on the sink and bathroom mirror
Why?
Why must it drop there and you don't clean it off
I don't gerrit


Still love him sha[/b]

@ Baby mama, you really understand us oo. Ahh! men are different creature.God will bless my wife, she is really trying and mature in mind.
I just they visualize my bedroom now,kai, fling cloth left, right and center. Football nko? don't try african margic when Arsenal or Super eagles are playing and these people no they pay me salary
God will honour our wives jare. These should be part of my new year, new resolution. grin

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Re: Things Your Spouse Does That You Dislike by Tolexander: 7:12pm On Dec 09, 2013
tchigofigo:
coincidence.,really?!are u kidding me?...if i hear say u no see her post b4 u take advantage post d same tin..
me take advantage?

Those that know me know that i don't take advantage!
Re: Things Your Spouse Does That You Dislike by Chibest2000(m): 7:14pm On Dec 09, 2013
kayClt: Dey say "water no get enemy" He hates Water,u will hv to beg n pet him b4 he takes his bath n he has no shame, he farts in ma presences n dats very annoying.
hahahahahaaahhahahhaha funny woman grin
Re: Things Your Spouse Does That You Dislike by Chinboli(m): 7:15pm On Dec 09, 2013
Incrizz: On the contrary, I see them going to the altar grin

God bless u ma sister. . . . . .
Re: Things Your Spouse Does That You Dislike by Nobody: 7:15pm On Dec 09, 2013
Mine's a far distance thing. And he likes to stay on the phone for loooong hours sad
I appreciate that he loves to keep up on everyday happenings and talk about every little thing kiss
And he says my voice calms him down and reduces his stress from work
But honey sometimes I just want to sleep baby kiss

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Re: Things Your Spouse Does That You Dislike by lumzybo: 7:18pm On Dec 09, 2013
bfmconcepts: My spouse is not romantic enough. She can stay 6months without sex if you do not ask or make attempt.
No casual kisses or sex attempt from her. This became worse after she dropped the second baby.
Even while sleeping on the same bed, she will back me and would not even stretch hand or even try keep me warm.
I have done all I could but she won't change
Although, I was the one that disvirgined her, but should that be a factor for her coldness towards sex and romance?
She's also a very good mother and manager, neat and well mannered to a large extent
Am even considering having extra-marital affairs but I love her and the children and don't want to do anything to hurt them
Part of what you av 2 deal with when you marry a V. Sorry

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Re: Things Your Spouse Does That You Dislike by JustDamsel: 7:23pm On Dec 09, 2013
Yea baby mama, but those shouldn't be much problem to u. My wife got tired of my farting tendencies and ideally decided to join d race. Last time i came back frm work only to meet a house messed up with foul gas. My wife couldn't hide she's d culprit as she laughed and dashed out. I had to patronise my mallam customer first 4 a camphor, and later an air freshner. Funny enof, d aboki man askd me if a rat had died in my house. U can turn those annoying moments into fun.

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Re: Things Your Spouse Does That You Dislike by Tolexander: 7:27pm On Dec 09, 2013
Dannylux:

Kindly tell us what you meant then grin
bro! I meant i don't know if he has join the gang cos the last time i saw him was yesterday and i can't say what may have happened to him.

You seem to be sceptical, hope am safe sir?
Re: Things Your Spouse Does That You Dislike by leyeluv(f): 7:34pm On Dec 09, 2013
lmao make una no kill person wit laf oooooooooo
Re: Things Your Spouse Does That You Dislike by leyeluv(f): 7:37pm On Dec 09, 2013
my sign and open his white eyes when asleep very annoying
Re: Things Your Spouse Does That You Dislike by leyeluv(f): 7:39pm On Dec 09, 2013
my sign and open his white eyes when asleep very annoying and also ask one particular question a thousand times especially when his annoyed
Re: Things Your Spouse Does That You Dislike by Nobody: 7:41pm On Dec 09, 2013
"Pee pee on the toilet seat. gosh,I hate to see droplets of pee pee on the toilet seat.they pee and shake off exc ;Dess pee from the thing.[b]why not dab it with tissue paper,[/b]why do you shake and drop pee on the seat? So annoying. grin tongue"

My sister that one hard o, toilet paper ke, no time mehn!

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Re: Things Your Spouse Does That You Dislike by Nobody: 7:41pm On Dec 09, 2013
"Pee pee on the toilet seat. gosh,I hate to see droplets of pee pee on the toilet seat.they pee and shake off exc ;Dess pee from the thing.[b]why not dab it with tissue paper,[/b]why do you shake and drop pee on the seat? So annoying. grin tongue"

My sister that one hard o, toilet paper ke, no time mehn! grin
Re: Things Your Spouse Does That You Dislike by urchpath(m): 7:42pm On Dec 09, 2013
190: Popowaa likes repeating her pants!!

thats my major problem with her angry

Tot ur female? undecided
Or is it what am thinking?
Re: Things Your Spouse Does That You Dislike by DonMekino(m): 7:59pm On Dec 09, 2013
my beautiful damsel just does not know how to chew without making irritating noises while eating. ,.I am trying though to work on dat.....before it gets out of hand. especially in public .....

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Re: Things Your Spouse Does That You Dislike by thegeorgy(f): 8:39pm On Dec 09, 2013
tomzman:
Hmmn! I kinda pity you o! But the thing might reduce as he grows older sha!
thank you,i just pray he changes as he grows older,i've complained to his family members they keep saying to ignore him that he's always been like that.its not easy though.sometimes i try to ignore by playing music or surfing the net when dis madness starts,at times it works but other times i still find myself getting angry.if to say na boyfriend now,i for don carry my baggage crymy papa was so the opposite wink.never seen a man that cleans like this.my brothers are clean but they're not this crazy.phew!
Re: Things Your Spouse Does That You Dislike by Olarewajub: 8:47pm On Dec 09, 2013
thegeorgy:
oh i forgot to mention when am in the kitchen,as i'm doing this he is clearing up,even things that i might want to use again,he has cleared and washed back,soup spoon too,he cleans it up.i will be like which kind wahala i marry for myself like this grin(yea i know we did not date for long)as deeper life chic now,i did not live with him wink...so must of these i did not see.he's even always at home.i'll be like go out now and visit your friends at least that way i'ld have some space and he wont see anything to clean.but he doesn't like to go out cos he doesn't wanna see any mess.at his work place,he uses handkerchief or paper towel to pick the fone.God have mercy.evrywhere for my house na hand sanitizer.he will come back from work,my 2 year old wants to give daddy a hug but no oooo.he will have to take his work cloths off,bath before he carries baby or hug me claiming so many people came by the office he doesn't wanna spread germs.at times i no dey gree o,i'ld be like i must hug u today and if i do,oga will ask me to come bath.its hard i must say. cry
Is he a Med Lab Scientist?

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Re: Things Your Spouse Does That You Dislike by Hummingbird: 8:49pm On Dec 09, 2013
My husband can eat ehn undecided,I can't count the number of times he eats in a day...he even wakes up @ nyt to eat,most times he wudnt wake me,he just go into the kitchen and microwave the leftove from the dinner..but anyday there is no left over,na to come and wake me o embarassed...and he doesn't have a bedroom voice,he wakes up the babies with his gorodom voice and its annoyin lipsrsealed...plus upon all the food..he hasn't added weight since we got married o cheesy

Also,his chest is always my pillow o,if I mistakenly carry my head @ nyt,he will place the head back there and all the chest na bone undecided undecided

He also love music ehn,but he's always singing off key...sometimes when he sings for me...(My best track is Celine Dion's 'If that's what it takes'), omo come and see voice of life...I just try to smile on top the croacky voice grin grin..

Scratching his blokos with his hands..and carrying my babies with dos dirty handsundecided

Whenevr am on braids too and I want to lose it,he insists on helping me,for minutes,he will still be on one,wen he's unable to lose it,den he will say 'ife mi,I dnt tink am getting this one o'...

But with all this,he rocks my world..I love you baby kiss kiss

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Re: Things Your Spouse Does That You Dislike by Nobody: 8:51pm On Dec 09, 2013
thegeorgy:
thank you,i just pray he changes as he grows older,i've complained to his family members they keep saying to ignore him that he's always been like that.its not easy though.sometimes i try to ignore by playing music or surfing the net when dis madness starts,at times it works but other times i still find myself getting angry.if to say na boyfriend now,i for don carry my baggage crymy papa was so the opposite wink.never seen a man that cleans like this.my brothers are clean but they're not this crazy.phew!
Kpele,I can imagine how u feel.Ewww,It's not a comfortable feeling.

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