Nomski0: Babe you definately dont need a boyfriend @ 17. What exactly do you need him for?

You should be friend zoning them at this stage.....they're just distractions. Wait till you're emotionally mature dear. What's the rush?

skydeep: @Op. Who told you having a boyfriend at 17 makes you a beautiful girl? A lot of ugly girls are carrying unwanted pregnancy out there.

What makes you a beautiful girl depends on how you live your life. You are still young and fresh and in order to make your dreams come true and make your parents proud of you, you will have to forget about dating for now. Everything has time when it occurs but when you try to force it to occur at the wrong time, it hurts you badly. Keep it cool.

fijiano202: pls dont think of any of that for now u are still young and still have a long way ahead,Believing in such a thing would distabilze u and make u lose focus of ur life and Education,When you get to University u will understand more abt life,dont rush urself into something u will Regret,if you are still a virgin pls keep urself safe,guys respect decent girls than all this sa-re-wa-gba ladies

fijiano202: pls dont think of any of that for now u are still young and still have a long way ahead,Believing in such a thing would distabilze u and make u lose focus of ur life and Education,When you get to University u will understand more abt life,dont rush urself into something u will Regret,if you are still a virgin pls keep urself safe,guys respect decent girls than all this sa-re-wa-gba ladies

Nadia_SA1: S that u on ur profilepic..

slap1: Now this is funny. When I was even 18/19, girls (older and younger) come after me, but I had little interest in them. So, just take it easy. Marriage shouldn't be on your 'to-do' list yet. Read novels, read your textbooks, and grow up a little more.

martha: yes na... Shez d 1...
Btw Nadia, ur wicked... U avnt asked of me since

Nifemi_cutie: i undastand its U.G.L.Y,rite?

Nifemi_cutie: I undastand everytin u're tryin to say nd i'll kip to it..THANKS

kennypoka2: Nifemi can I ask this ?s..
1. Wen u went to the pastor was it with ur parents or alone? (cos the pastor got me worrying )
2. are ur parent aware of ur sister dating?
3. have you gained admission to university( well I know this is silly but I just wanna drop something about)

Harbosede02: enjoy life d way it cums...

Nifemi_cutie: i got admitted into unilag bt nt wit the course i want xo am trying anod a uni

skydeep: 21st century boyfriends are jokers

Vivly: I thought as much. By the time you get admitted and face school with classes and exams, I don't think you'll have the time to start worrying about future husbands.

larride:

So you get married to Pa antelope in the 19th century?

Nifemi_cutie: pls am nt joking abt dis issue...all i nid is ur advice

martha: Hmmmm... You!

Miss Martha, what did I do?

martha: u know what u need? A best frnd... U think having a bf will "make u belong"? Are u desperate for a bf cos u think ur lonely? Just get a bff... Someone u can confide in... Dont worry... In some years to come, u'll look back at this thread and have a good laugh

skydeep:
Not as a boyfriend

martha: Ehn?

larride: To all the ladies advising the OP to concentrate on her studies but started dating and prolly having s3x at 16 are all hypocrite. Shame on you all.

Nomski0:

Miss Martha, what did I do?

larride: Just saw your mom is late, sorry about that, I think you just need a friend to talk too, someone to pour out your heart too, just flow with your friends, face your studies, men will come in due time.

Harbosede02: cums as in comes...any p wif dat?

skydeep:
Experience they say is the best teacher. If we had sex at 16 as you said and made mistakes in our time, do you expect us to allow another innocent girl to do the same?

Nifemi_cutie: i think nau am more enlightened abt dis issue dat it is nt wat is suppose to be on my list my education first nd i promise to take to dat...Thanks aunty Martha for ur word of encourage am xo hapi wit the way u pple speak to me wit gud arms cos b4 opening dis thread i tot no one wud listen to me or advice me