Tinkybabe: Nifemi,I sent you a pm.pls reply.

Nifemi_cutie: Hello nairalanders am Oluwanifemi...Av bin avin dis prob bt i didnt take note until i was 15yrs in ss2,all my frndz talk abt my bf bt i dnt av one nd they wil be like Nife tel us abt ur bf nd i wud jux form stories for dem bt it was actually troubling me... Not dat i dnt av admirers bt its seems sumtin is hindering dem frm asking me out cos i can remember a guy in my sch was actually telling evribdy he loves me nd he wud ask me out he didnt eventually until the tin jux fade away,i av lots of dem also telling my frndz they like me nd i'll expecting them to come nd ask me out bt they wont..i'm tinking mayb it because am ugly nd short (u can verify wit my pix)dis as got me worried cos i dnt tink its normal nt to get sum1 to love u til dis age even my younger sis has who she is dating nd i usually cry wen i see them 2geda even if am dat ugly atleast sum1 wud sha love me nd am nt the type dat wud start forcing myself on guyz...wat amaze me is dat guyz ask me out online nd av dated them bt i dnt really do dat wit joy cos i knw it nt gonna end up anywhr gud...i went to see a pastor sumtimes ago nd he told me after he pray he saw a mark like wen u jux cement a house nd its stil wet nd u touch it,u knw ur finger iz gonna appear wen it dry he said he saw sumtin like dat nd dat y av bin avin hinderance in sumtinz including nt get attractd to guyz..,xo pls i nid ur advice as to what i can do to be free..pls i dnt want insult cos dis issue is making me cry all day cos my getting married to a husband in future is at stake...THANKS

awesome99: Nifemi,my joy is you have seen,heard.....i jus pray you conquer

fijiano202: i tire ooo Chai what is this world turning into,how can a 17yrs old girl be complaining Shes single when even ur Aunties on Nairaland are also single at their 30's.Firstly you and ur lil sis needs to be flogged,how can u be jealous of ur sister below 16,instead of you to spank and smack her to Face her Studies.Secondly may God forgive me but the pastor u went to meet abt ur single status is a basstard,instead of canning u hes telling you what only ur parents should know at that age.Thirdly why would you be looking for a Boyfriend at 17,if you start sleeping around at this age how will ur future be.Pls Nifemi go and face ur studies and forget abt guys for now,come back when ur alot older and more matured ok

pDude:

Simply put, you are not fine.

Just look at your profile pix

I'm sorry but I have to be frank with you. No guy would look your way twice.

pDude:

Simply put, you are not fine.

Just look at your profile pix

I'm sorry but I have to be frank with you. No guy would look your way twice.

Sarah a: . Don't know what to call you.

pDude:

Call me pdude

vickyO:
More like douchebag.

pDude:

Simply put, you are not fine.

Just look at your profile pix

I'm sorry but I have to be frank with you. No guy would look your way twice.

pDude:

Simply put, you are not fine.

Just look at your profile pix

I'm sorry but I have to be frank with you. No guy would look your way twice.

pDude:



Why you have to say that sweetie?

pDude:

Simply put, you are not fine.

Just look at your profile pix

I'm sorry but I have to be frank with you. No guy would look your way twice.

vickyO:
More like douchebag.

vickyO:
More like douchebag.

Nifemi_cutie: Dnt call him names ma...jux for us to knw dat he is jobless nd useless...he came in nd commentd :PDnt call him names ma...jux for us to knw dat he is jobless nd useless...he came in nd commentd

pDude: @nifemi_cutie, i apologize for my gall.

Now let me advice you.

When I was younger, I was an ugly duckling. I lacked game, was socially awkward and fat. I couldn't even look at a female's face without stuttering.

As I grew older and got into university, all that changed. I lost the weight, became quite attractive, and I became more sociable. Na so girls come dey trip for me . One babe even said that I was the only guy that she has fallen in love with.

Listen baby nifemi, you are not at your end yet. You will still blossom. Just wait for it. I became a swan. You too can become on but you have to be patient. Even though right now I have gained the weight back, I'm still attractive.

Just don't become desperate. I luv you babes. Merry Christmas.

Mannylex: i detest girls with low self esteem.

Sarah a: see who is talking?

olenime:
Hmm, Nifemi is becoming a big gal, I hope u found some1 to ask u out by now? U are 19 now.....
Jst reading tru thread for the first time and it makes me smile...
All the best for ur bold courage!