We thank God for all the various topics we have posted on romance and even the most trivial things, but please, let us separate the wheat from the chaff.

IF YOU KNOW YOU CANNOT BE FAITHFUL AND TRUTHFUL, DO NOT GO INTO ANY RELATIONSHIP WITH ANY MAN OR WOMAN.

AS I HAVE SAID BEFORE, LOVE IS NOT BY FORCE.
PEOPLE DESERVE THEIR PEACE OF MIND AND SANITY.

Why should someone have hypertension, because of a relationship?

I am saying this after reading many SOS posts on this board.

Why should you be miserable in a relationship or marriage?

I have written on profitable or unprofitable relationships and the essence of romance and many people felt offended by the bitter truth, because I was kicking up and raising so much dust and pouring sand into their[i] garri[/i].
Many of them live on cheating and lying.
Many people live and survive on such relationships since they are professional girlfriends and professional mistresses or I prefer to call them blood sucking mosquitoes and germ spreding green housefleis.

PLEASE, CUT OFF FROM ANY MAN OR WOMAN WHO CANNOT GIVE YOU PEACE OF MIND.

Hypertension kills.

Why marry if you cannot keep the vows of matrimony?
Marriage is not by force.
All my mates don marry finish, make I marry jo.
No way.
You have your life to live.
Are you living for them?

Love is meant to bring out the best in us and not the worst.

Marriage is meant to make us happy and not unhappy and in agony.

If you think it is not my business, then you are wrong.

It is my business, because when the cookie crumbles, the pieces will be scattered all over the place and disrupt the peace.
Broken marriages have caused dislocations of the affected families and communities and disturbed the peace in our society.

Go to the streets.
Go to the hospitals.
Go to the police cells.
Go to the courts.
Go to the prisons.
There, you will see the victims of these troublemakers and mischief makers of fake relationships and fake marriages.

These mischievous people have done great harm to so many lives.

I am tired of hearing and reading these horrible and terrible tales of woes.
I need my peace of mind.
I want to go to bed and sleep peacefully without having nightmares.


I hope these mischievous devils and lunatic fringe elements are reading these.

Husbands making their wives unhappy and miserable, please, ENOUGH IS ENOUGH.
If you cannot love her and make her happy and merry, why did you marry her?
It is evil and wicked to marry a woman only to mess her up and let her suffer so much misery.
If you are doing this evil to your wife, may you reap what you sow.
Your sins will expose you.

Boyfriends who are maltreating their girlfriends like animals, please ENOUGH IS ENOUGH.
Love is not by force.
If you cannot give her peace of mind, then let her go in peace.
I BEG!
Haba!
Na wetin?
Bicos of sex, you dey vex!
Please, let her be.   

Aha ah! Angelina, I have not forgotten you and the other daughters of Jezebel and Delilah.
Relationships are not games.
It is neither MONOPOLY nor TOTOPOLY.
If you have scores to settle with men, do not use your innocent boyfriends as the scapegoats.

Therefore, if you cannot be faithful and truthful to your boyfriend, leave him alone!
I am begging you in JESUS Holy Name!
Stop all the romantic 419 schemes and scams online and offline in your desperation to swindle and siphon his hard earned money!
You are not his mother or father who brought him into this world.
You are not GTB or ZENITH Bank where he should be making large deposits daily, weekly or monthly.
As Caroline Chikezie would exclaim, Chineke! 

Enough of your romance scams!

If you think you are smart, go and get a job and earn your own cash!
Your boyfriend is not the Red Cross or Central Bank.
Forking and messign around is not adding anything to our GDP.
You are only spreading your HIV!
Excuse me.

Please, I need my peace of mind.
The troubles and contagious diseases you are spreading are the evils plaguing our world.

Please, repent, for your own good.


Finis.

Goodnight Sweetheart.

Photo Credit: DRAGON HEARTS

Woooooooooooooooooooohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh. Tonguelashing, I like, I like, I like.

This thread will not change anything.

People are going to do what they want to do.

Hmmmn

I see only the ladies are responding to these threads cuz the men will just read and look away. Orikinla, great post. I think its always good to have threads like this once in a while, even if its only a single relationship that benefits rom this, it is worth it.

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Lovely post! You are very passionate about this aren't you? I don't care if people think this post will not change anything, people will read it, and maybe just maybe one person will think twice before carrying out any of the selfish actions mentioned in the post.

topup,
Yes, I am really passionate about it, because I am involved
Beautiful lives have been destroyed, including my unborn male child who would have been two years now.

@Ori, once again you have nailed it dear . Excellent job.

It's such a pity that the lil boys, in big men clothes on the forum won't read such topics. LOL.

I will soon find my two NL boyfriends to have them read this, so our relationships can florish

The below mentioned is really really deep Ori,

Boyfriends who are maltreating their girlfriends like animals, please ENOUGH IS ENOUGH.
Love is not by force.
If you cannot give her peace of mind, then let her go in peace.
I BEG!
Haba!
Na wetin?
Bicos of sex, you dey vex!
Please, let her be.


The only conclusion that I can derive from those guilty of the above mentioned is that they either grew up in homes where their fathers constantly abused their moms, so they somehow have accepted it as normal. Or they themselves were abused. I pity them honestly.

As females we need to look for thos early warning signs. A man who laces and praises you with the same tongue should be avoided like a plague.