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My Ex-Girlfriend Keeps Bothering Me by biggpin(m): 2:55pm On Aug 06, 2006 |
Hey all, My ex gf keeps botherin, we use 2 date back in naija but broke 2 yrs ago, tho i left naija 8 months ago, wenevr shes online shes keeps bothrin me 2 say suntin 2 her, aint got nuthin 2 say 2 her, i dun wanna b rude, wat do i do?? |
Re: My Ex-Girlfriend Keeps Bothering Me by clocky(m): 3:27pm On Aug 06, 2006 |
give her one last hard fu*k . |
Re: My Ex-Girlfriend Keeps Bothering Me by funmise(f): 5:46pm On Aug 06, 2006 |
let her down gently |
Re: My Ex-Girlfriend Keeps Bothering Me by nike4luv(f): 5:57pm On Aug 06, 2006 |
clocky, what a great advice dont ignore her, have a talk, she probably wants you back, do what you have to do |
Re: My Ex-Girlfriend Keeps Bothering Me by micolala(m): 7:00pm On Aug 06, 2006 |
@clocky, and if she requests for another? |
Re: My Ex-Girlfriend Keeps Bothering Me by dondele(m): 10:19pm On Aug 06, 2006 |
if u still got love for her then listen to her maybe she wants you back but if u aint got nuffin for her then do what clocky said and tell her not to bug u again. |
Re: My Ex-Girlfriend Keeps Bothering Me by omogenaija(f): 10:24pm On Aug 06, 2006 |
if u know u dont want to be bother with her just block her, she will never know i think |
Re: My Ex-Girlfriend Keeps Bothering Me by iice(f): 7:49am On Aug 07, 2006 |
Ahhh shooo you have conversations with her about the weather And if she hints about the love thing, ehhhhh tell her you have moved on 1 Like |
Re: My Ex-Girlfriend Keeps Bothering Me by naijadiva2(f): 3:34pm On Aug 07, 2006 |
some people just can't take hints and nice let down. it i were you. i would have shown her something long time ago. you are being too nice. |
Re: My Ex-Girlfriend Keeps Bothering Me by biggpin(m): 5:16pm On Aug 07, 2006 |
Hey, i aint got love 4 her, i told her ovr n ovr, it cant work btwn d both of us, its nt possible, i thnk il stick 2 ya advise @naija diva, thx anyway |
Re: My Ex-Girlfriend Keeps Bothering Me by topup: 4:24am On Aug 07, 2008 |
I think if you've maturely told her you're not interested and she's actually admitted the reason for the contact, who knows maybe she just needs a friend to talk to, b/fs don't realise how safe we feel with them, and how much we open up to them, things our girlfriends don't even know. Anyways, maybe block her, she should get mad enough to want to move on, but if not just ignore her, I don't think she's desperate, she just doesn't seem to have pride. Anyways, it's probably 'cos you're all the way in AMERICARRRR now, |
Re: My Ex-Girlfriend Keeps Bothering Me by topup: 5:08am On Aug 07, 2008 |
Hmmmm. I'm in a position where I don't know if my ex wants to cut all communication altogether, he may also be trying to hint me nicely. He asked if we could be friends after the relationship, but I ignored him at first (was still hurting), but now that I am feeling better and quite over it (lost all hope), I'm messaging him, of course we're not gonna be buddies, but he is taking his sweet time to reply, basically he's not being totally responsive. I guess some people could feel uncomfortable getting close to their exs again. Mannn I don't know the true reasons behind the breakup, nevertheless. I realised this and thought, I should just leave him alone, maybe he's pissed I ignored him and has moved on, but the thing is he occassionally replies, I'm confused, Maybe I should also just reciprocate with occassional replies, though I don't like all this game playing nonsense, |
Re: My Ex-Girlfriend Keeps Bothering Me by ima1(f): 5:50am On Aug 07, 2008 |
i say ignore or tell her you have a gf. im sure there is an ignore button on the chat you are using. its that simple |
Re: My Ex-Girlfriend Keeps Bothering Me by topup: 5:56am On Aug 07, 2008 |
ima1 adive me! do me! do me next! |
Re: My Ex-Girlfriend Keeps Bothering Me by HCH3COO: 8:10am On Aug 07, 2008 |
i don't think she's into lesbian affairs miss topup. |
Re: My Ex-Girlfriend Keeps Bothering Me by dadahgirl: 8:19am On Aug 07, 2008 |
biggpin: Did you let her know you did not want to have any communication with her? Maybe you should be direct with her and if that does not work, then dont respond to any of her emails. |
Re: My Ex-Girlfriend Keeps Bothering Me by micklplus(m): 11:23am On Aug 07, 2008 |
topup: I read ur other posts from other topics. You sure are still in love with your bobo but, u have to take it easy. i guess the brother is only trying to be polite, nice and courteous by being very matured about u and his occasional replies to you. He sure has moved on and prolly dating other babe. I will strong advice you to move on too. fashi the past and embrace the future. You sure WILL get another bobo that will truly love u with all his heart. Cheers |
Re: My Ex-Girlfriend Keeps Bothering Me by ula(f): 12:49pm On Aug 07, 2008 |
if you are not interested anymore, tell her in plain language you dont want her. its better 4 her to know your stand now than 4 you to be a weak man!!!! |
Re: My Ex-Girlfriend Keeps Bothering Me by tope2000(f): 12:51pm On Aug 07, 2008 |
Block her from your contact list |
Re: My Ex-Girlfriend Keeps Bothering Me by MrCrackles(m): 12:52pm On Aug 07, 2008 |
@Poster Log her off completely!! |
Re: My Ex-Girlfriend Keeps Bothering Me by topup: 3:37pm On Aug 07, 2008 |
micklplus: Thanks All the 'You're the only one for me' and 'I don't see myself rushing into a relationship anytime soon' lol, |
Re: My Ex-Girlfriend Keeps Bothering Me by sistawoman: 3:45pm On Aug 07, 2008 |
If you are using yahoo all you have to do is put her on your ignore list and her messages wont even appear, unless of course you like the attention. Where in B-more are you West side or East Side? |
Re: My Ex-Girlfriend Keeps Bothering Me by izeek(m): 4:06pm On Aug 07, 2008 |
waz the breakup that bad, that u cant even ask how she fairing and all? old boy just try and make conver ook. |
Re: My Ex-Girlfriend Keeps Bothering Me by topup: 4:54pm On Aug 07, 2008 |
izeek: lol that's what I'm thinking, but it doesn't even have to be how it ended, it has more to do with how it was dealt with when it ended, if she left him, got with another guy, did all sorts of things to rub her new b/fs in his face, then he'd be feeling a lot of resentment towards her. I noticed guys are more difficult in this sense, sometimes when you hurt them, they can never (or not in less than a year) get over it, and it's usually when they're vulnerable do they come back. When they've still got game and girls are all over them, they couldn't care less about the ex (if she hurt them that is). |
Re: My Ex-Girlfriend Keeps Bothering Me by C2H5OH(f): 6:50am On Aug 21, 2009 |
Like they said, some can't be let down nicely. Even doing it the harsh way doesn't work either. Believe me I know. Easy solution: BLOCK |
Re: My Ex-Girlfriend Keeps Bothering Me by IFELEKE(m): 10:55am On Aug 21, 2009 |
biggpin:Next time she bothers you, say something like this: ''it was good while it lasted and i cannot but wish you well.goodluck with next''. |
Re: My Ex-Girlfriend Keeps Bothering Me by Enockia(m): 11:35am On Aug 21, 2009 |
tell her to back off |
Re: My Ex-Girlfriend Keeps Bothering Me by posakosa(m): 11:40am On Aug 21, 2009 |
She's bothering you because she is online, LOL! Shes not in the country u're in She does not have your number Im sure she did not tie your hands to the computer/nor does she have a gun thru your head to respond to her. Just because she's online, hahahaha! |
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