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Re: He Takes Every Girl That Comes His Way Like His Sister - Advice by Nobody: 1:22pm On Nov 15, 2014
They re sisters na. When he sees a wife, no body will force him.

I wish all guys will see gals as sisters wink
Re: He Takes Every Girl That Comes His Way Like His Sister - Advice by Nobody: 1:23pm On Nov 15, 2014
dimples2:
Perfect gentleman
Guy I'm coming your way tongue


You look exactly like his sister
Re: He Takes Every Girl That Comes His Way Like His Sister - Advice by Nobody: 2:20pm On Nov 15, 2014
khiaa:




You didn't say that in your opening post.
He's probably wants to be inlove with the girl since it will be his first time.
I can tell the friend is actually YOU by how overly emotional you get from some of the responses. cheesy

Yea I think it's actually him undecided
Re: He Takes Every Girl That Comes His Way Like His Sister - Advice by Nobody: 4:15pm On Nov 15, 2014
vfactor:



You look exactly like his sister

Lol
Re: He Takes Every Girl That Comes His Way Like His Sister - Advice by khiaa(f): 5:40am On Nov 16, 2014
masonkz:


Hmm. Truth be told I have a very good gaydar. But it has failed me once grin

This dude in my school then, a level lower than me but same department, so damn fine with a girly kinda mannerisms, with a damn good body. I was literally head over heels. Normally an effeminate guy has a veeeryy high chance of being gay. But this was different. I started studying him kinda..till we finally became good friends. I found out he isn't gay sha, and that was really mind-blowing. The feelings subsided immediately, but I was nonetheless still surprised thatn a somewhat effeminate guy could still be straight. Rare I guess.

Asides that, I can tell if a guy is gay most times, especially if I'm interested in the person. If I'm not, then I might as well not know or care whether he's gay or not, except he opens up to me. That's why I said I have no reason to tag the OP's friend as gay, unless the Op supplies more details about him and his mannerisms.

No I'm not a mason ooo grin grin grin There's a story behind that name though grin

And hope you've voted for kulboy today tongue


So you are attracted to feminine guys, I thought you liked the muscular hardcore looking guys. Maybe the guy was afraid too come out, but there are hardcore looking/acting guys who are gay and there are also feminine girlish acting guys who loooove women only.
Tell me the story behind your name if you don't mind.
Re: He Takes Every Girl That Comes His Way Like His Sister - Advice by Nobody: 5:44am On Nov 16, 2014
khiaa:



So you are attracted to feminine guys, I thought you liked the muscular hardcore looking guys. Maybe the guy was afraid too come out, but there are hardcore looking/acting guys who are gay and there are also feminine girlish acting guys who loooove women only.
Tell me the story behind your name if you don't mind.
Hmm
Re: He Takes Every Girl That Comes His Way Like His Sister - Advice by khiaa(f): 5:48am On Nov 16, 2014
CFCfan:

Hmm

Say what's on your mind CFCfan. grin
Re: He Takes Every Girl That Comes His Way Like His Sister - Advice by Nobody: 7:24am On Nov 16, 2014
khiaa:


Say what's on your mind CFCfan. grin
Say no to 'friend zone' grin
Re: He Takes Every Girl That Comes His Way Like His Sister - Advice by khiaa(f): 2:41pm On Nov 16, 2014
CFCfan:

Say no to 'friend zone' grin


What/who do you mean?
Re: He Takes Every Girl That Comes His Way Like His Sister - Advice by Nobody: 6:26am On Nov 17, 2014
khiaa:



What/who do you mean?
A guy shouldn't treat every girl like his sister
Re: He Takes Every Girl That Comes His Way Like His Sister - Advice by Nobody: 2:46pm On Nov 17, 2014
khiaa:



So you are attracted to feminine guys, I thought you liked the muscular hardcore looking guys. Maybe the guy was afraid too come out, but there are hardcore looking/acting guys who are gay and there are also feminine girlish acting guys who loooove women only.
Tell me the story behind your name if you don't mind.

I'm attracted to both kinda guys actually...

Yea you might be right about him not wanting to come out yet, dunno. As young teenagers though, once the realisation dawned on us that we're different as regards our feelings, most gay guys end up going deeper into themselves, with many seeking spiritual help on their own, ending up in self-hate and all sorts...till we finally realise that there's just nothing you can do. Just saying in general.

About my name. Lol. The short story is that Mason was a crush in secondary school. He had just come in for the holiday classes we were having in preparation for our WAEC... ended up being friends... and ended up crushing on him badly. Of course there was nothing I could do. I only tried distancing myself from him later on. And when we left secondary school, I had to erase all contacts with him..except the name, Mason. grin
Re: He Takes Every Girl That Comes His Way Like His Sister - Advice by khiaa(f): 10:25pm On Nov 17, 2014
@masonkz:





Wow!!! I feel bad for the stuff gay people go through especially as teenagers, those are the hard years for everyone but the added stress that you are so different must have been hell.
That is why I know you/gays were born that way because nobody would choose to go through that self torment and depression. sad
You still have feelings for Mason after all these years, do you ever see him?
-----------------------------------------
I'm attracted to both kinda guys actually...

Yea you might be right about him not wanting to come out yet, dunno. As young teenagers though, once the realisation dawned on us that we're different as regards our feelings, most gay guys end up going deeper into themselves, with many seeking spiritual help on their own, ending up in self-hate and all sorts...till we finally realise that there's just nothing you can do. Just saying in general.

About my name. Lol. The short story is that Mason was a crush in secondary school. He had just come in for the holiday classes we were having in preparation for our WAEC... ended up being friends... and ended up crushing on him badly. Of course there was nothing I could do. I only tried distancing myself from him later on. And when we left secondary school, I had to erase all contacts with him..except the name, Mason. grin

Re: He Takes Every Girl That Comes His Way Like His Sister - Advice by khiaa(f): 10:37pm On Nov 17, 2014
CFCfan:

A guy shouldn't treat every girl like his sister


I know, that isn't normal that is why I think he might be gay.
Re: He Takes Every Girl That Comes His Way Like His Sister - Advice by shellliver: 11:45pm On Nov 17, 2014
Christmasdon:
Please, advice what should he do, he confinded in me that despite being Hot at times, still he can't still do it, he Loves girls as they are but he doesn't see himself having intimacy with them. What could actually be wrong with this fellow. Your consent is needed.

My guy, nothing bad might be wrong with you.

I was once like that the only close connection I had was friend-zoning the opposite sex until now.

Its better you change though, guess you are shy, or believes making them a sister-like builds the relationship better.

Just change it, not every girl wants to be a sister
Re: He Takes Every Girl That Comes His Way Like His Sister - Advice by Nobody: 2:21pm On Nov 19, 2014
khiaa:
Wow!!! I feel bad for the stuff gay people go through especially as teenagers, those are the hard years for everyone but the added stress that you are so different must have been hell.
That is why I know you/gays were born that way because nobody would choose to go through that self torment and depression. sad
You still have feelings for Mason after all these years, do you ever see him?

Sigh. Good to know you understand.


Nahhh I don't have any feelings for him anymore, and nope I haven't seen him since we left secondary school. smiley
Re: He Takes Every Girl That Comes His Way Like His Sister - Advice by Christmasdon(m): 9:33pm On Nov 19, 2014
khiaa:



I know, that isn't normal that is why I think he might be gay.
. CaTholic Reverend fathers' are gay! Is it what you are saying.?
Re: He Takes Every Girl That Comes His Way Like His Sister - Advice by khiaa(f): 11:05pm On Nov 19, 2014
masonkz:






Sigh. Good to know you understand.


Nahhh I don't have any feelings for him anymore, and nope I haven't seen him since we left secondary school. smiley


Hi Masonkz
Yes I understand very well. I know this may sound like a cliché, but my best friend of 20 years is gay, we have been besties since we were 6 years old, he told me when we were 16 but I knew years before then.
Re: He Takes Every Girl That Comes His Way Like His Sister - Advice by khiaa(f): 11:21pm On Nov 19, 2014
Christmasdon:
. CaTholic Reverend fathers' are gay! Is it what you are saying.?



What are you talking about?
Re: He Takes Every Girl That Comes His Way Like His Sister - Advice by Dnockeror333(m): 12:48pm On Oct 27, 2017
GAY ALERT!!!!!!!!!!!!!! shocked

Thou hath a nuance! Did you saw him with men?

I know this OP may be speaking of me!

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