@serubawon, LOL. Yes i wz kinda ready to do dat. Haha. Dat guy is one comical (at times) character here, but dis time he overstepped. Hope u're doin good? And ur babies? God bless u.

chaircover:

@serubawon, dont bother wasting time on Mobo. He deliberately winds people up and many of us just ignore him.

I agree with you, his comments this time are very distasteful and disrespectful and he has stepped over the line between his dry and boring black women insults and tainting the memory of a very much loved one. However, dont let him get to you because that is what he wants.

I think you have/are doing really well under the circumstances. You are not the only widower/widow on NL, and I am sure that this thread has been a source of encouragement for many.

This should be the last time you try to belittle me, I have been watching you and your I know all altitude for 4 years now on Nairaland, have had enough of you.

Wislet:

@serubawon, LOL. Yes i wz kinda ready to do dat. Haha. Dat guy is one comical (at times) character here, but dis time he overstepped. Hope u're doin good? And your babies? God bless u.

Overstep my bound, now, now, now, this just goes to show what you stand for and how you will fall for negativity, you gold digger.

@Wislet & Chaircover. I see what you guys mean. Thanks for the heads up.

MOBO999:

This should be the last time you try to belittle me, I have been watching you and your I know all altitude for 4 years now on Nairaland, have had enough of you.

MOBO999:

Overstep my bound, now, now, now, this just goes to show what you stand for and how you will fall for negativity, you gold digger.

Why didn't you face the man that challenged you, ode? We know you type always picking on the women, Coward.

A widower comes here to talk dust and look at what people are saying, we have our own nature given talent, we cant discuss everything on nairaland, am fed up with people bringing all topic to discuss here.

Are they forcing you to read it or are you admitting you don't have self control? Is it your life, how does it concern you what someone else chooses to post, abi who died and made you post monitor?

MOBO999:

A widower comes here to talk dust and look at what people are saying, we have our own nature given talent, we cant discuss everything on nairaland, am fed up with people bringing all topic to discuss here.

Interesting. Why don't you just go somewhere else and flaunt your life dedication to being %$#@*&. I read a survey once that people who lash out at others (even for fun), were either bullied or sexually abused by a family member in their youth. Since I don't think you were bullied, did someone play with you as a kid? Was it big aunty or bigger uncle that did some nasty things to you to turn you into what you are today. I'm sorry, but I do think I can recommend someone who can help. However, you have to come to terms with your self and forgive big uncle (or was it someone even worse than that?) yuuck!!! Go find whoever the guy is that "played" with you, forgive him and get on with your life. I would like to return to saying dust to people who won't get offended by it.

I double checked my post to make sure I didn't say anything offensive people. Forgive me if I did.

MOBO999:

^^^ Why will any good thinking and smart lady bother with a widower and 2 kids, tell me the ladies that dont love new or good thing and a widower is not a good thing or a smart move, am also disappointed in all the ladies on this post, this just goes to show how cheap Nigeria women have become, am loving my life in England and have sinced moved on.

jealousy go kill somebody.who u be sef? e dey obvious dat serubawon get class pass u.u know even near d guy sef.just reading ur ridiculous comments show say home training far from u o.i sure say women don reject u sotay u come dey vex 4 women.na we dey responsible 4 ur miserable existence?

@serubawon, abeg leave dis mugu 4 us women 2 deal with jo o.he is jealous because of d way ladies respond 2 u.ode of the 1st order.didirin osi.seeking attention 4rm people wey pass am.

@mobo, who asked weda u r in england sef.u r so vain u want everyone 2 know dat, abi? WHO CARES!!! (im sure say na osodi u dey, miserable & wretched.olodo.

^^^Don't waste your time. Serubawon will not fancy you. Not after talking about his kids and himself here(with or without pics)

jennykadry:

^^^Don't waste your time. Serubawon will not fancy you. Not after talking about his kids and himself here(with or without pics)

can't help Lol.

@jenny u too bad LOL

jennykadry:

^^^Don't waste your time. Serubawon will not fancy you. Not after talking about his kids and himself here(with or without pics)

Jenny

U no well!            lmao

jennykadry:

^^^Don't waste your time. Serubawon will not fancy you. Not after talking about his kids and himself here(with or without pics)

Kai you harsh o!!!

@Busybody20

Where ya other sister Busy_Body? The fake one ? Haven't seen her in ages.

Busybody20 and Busy_Body are two, different, unique, individuals?
I did not know that!

jennykadry:

^^^Don't waste your time. Serubawon will not fancy you. Not after talking about his kids and himself here(with or without pics)

silent reader.madam jk idiwa harshh

jennykadry:

@Busybody20

Where ya other sister Busy_Body? The fake one ? Haven't seen her in ages.

Abegi comot jare no ask mi question        y u yab nemesis like dat 

If nemesis get eye for serubawon true true, u think say she go talk am for nairaland when she no say d guy dey read am? u sef check am out!

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Busybody20 and Busy_Body are two, different, unique, individuals? 
I did not know that!

we r different. One's hot  d other is  de-wor-wor. i nor fit shout abeg 

^^ for your mind .

I no yab anybody, just said the truth.

Where Busy_body dey ehn, make una bring her out of her of her rooom oooo, her psychotic behaviour no mean say una go dey sedate her anyhow.

serubawon:

Interesting. Why don't you just go somewhere else and flaunt your life dedication to being %$#@*&. I read a survey once that people who lash out at others (even for fun), were either bullied or sexually abused by a family member in their youth. Since I don't think you were bullied, did someone play with you as a kid? Was it big aunty or bigger uncle that did some nasty things to you to turn you into what you are today. I'm sorry, but I do think I can recommend someone who can help. However, you have to come to terms with your self and forgive big uncle (or was it someone even worse than that?) yuuck!!! Go find whoever the guy is that "played" with you, forgive him and get on with your life. I would like to return to saying dust to people who won't get offended by it.

I double checked my post to make sure I didn't say anything offensive people. Forgive me if I did.

hahahhahahahahhahahahhahahha. See yabs. Eledumare oo *whistling *olopa oo* . Mobo cannot resurface after this. I think he missed road coming to the family section. This thread is very funny.

jennykadry:

^^ for your mind .

I no yab anybody, just said the truth.

Where Busy_body dey ehn, make una bring her out of her of her rooom oooo, her psychotic behaviour no mean say una go dey sedate her anyhow.

dem loot b_b  fujitsu laptop during london riot, dats y she never log in   

^Lmao. Last time I checked, na starcomm lappy she dey use. I no know where she get am from or which coy make am.

people don't worry.i'm married 2 serubawon's friend o.my hubby almost pissed on himself when he read d thread.i was having so much fun keeping serubawon in suspense, but ma hubby has already told d poor guy everything.men!!! no fun at all.jokes aside, i wish i had someone 2 introduce to serubawon.he is so sweet when it comes to his kids and it really broke ma heart hearing stories of him & his late wife.i never met her, but I wish I did.so u can unerstand why i hit back at dat turd mobo.
ok, o.i don talk enough o, b4 i go call d poor guy's real name by mistake.serubawon, all I am waitin 4 is when God brings dat jewel 2 u.u deserve it (dis man go call police 4 me wit all dis ma mouth wey no get control. ciao all.

I've been off this thread for a minute. Definitely things have taken an interesting turn. So someone here knows serubawon huh? Pls keep the mystery for the rest of us. It makes it all more delish.
So Serubawon any recent dates? If you attend a Nigerian church there are a thousand sisters and ushers willing to cook and clean their way into your heart.

Ladies, ladies, ladies, did I hear you say what now, don’t you think this has gone on too much, must you bring up issues like this, he is a widower, lost his wife, what does all this do to the wife memory, we all know he love his kids, why cant Nigeria men do the right thing, you waste your time online here trying to get sympathy from these hag of women and they are all flying over you out of desperation (reason been you claim to be rich and based in America) as husband is scare is Nigeria.

Please, please, please, this is all so wrong now, so wrong now, I would advice everyone to be modest with their speech, what if the late wife brother or sister happens to see this post, you are not the only widower around, this Serabuwon fellow is playing on the weakness of this desperate women from Nigeria.

nemesis:

people don't worry.i'm married 2 serubawon's friend o.my hubby almost pissed on himself when he read d thread.i was having so much fun keeping serubawon in suspense, but ma hubby has already told d poor guy everything.men!!! no fun at all.jokes aside, i wish i had someone 2 introduce to serubawon.he is so sweet when it comes to his kids and it really broke ma heart hearing stories of him & his late wife.i never met her, but I wish I did.so u can unerstand why i hit back at dat turd mobo.
ok, o.i don talk enough o, b4 i go call d poor guy's real name by mistake.serubawon, all I am waitin 4 is when God brings dat jewel 2 u.u deserve it (dis man go call police 4 me wit all dis ma mouth wey no get control. ciao all.

@nemesis. I would never have thought it was you. Well, I guess you had your piece of fun on my behalf. Your husband has been making fun of me ever since. Well, that's life. Please don't bring any more drama here, pleeease. Thanks for the compliments, sha.

MOBO999:

Ladies, ladies, ladies, did I hear you say what now, don’t you think this has gone on too much, must you bring up issues like this, he is a widower, lost his wife, what does all this do to the wife memory, we all know he love his kids, why cant Nigeria men do the right thing, you waste your time online here trying to get sympathy from these hag of women and they are all flying over you out of desperation (reason been you claim to be rich and based in America) as husband is scare is Nigeria.

Please, please, please, this is all so wrong now, so wrong now, I would advice everyone to be modest with their speech, what if the late wife brother or sister happens to see this post, you are not the only widower around, this Serabuwon fellow is playing on the weakness of this desperate women from Nigeria.

@mugu419 (oh sorry, mobo) Are u still here? Please go somewhere else! You're like an annoying fly all over this thread (flies get swatted, you know). And where did you get the notion that I'm rich (wish I was). Don't you have anything better to do? It seems the sexual molestation affected you a lot more than the usual horrors. And the way you direct your hatred at the women makes me suspect that you might have been molested by your, (I don't think I should tell everyone your dirty secrets). A lengthy deliverance session at MFM should do you a lot of good. Exorcise those demons within you. You know what, something just occurred to me, was your manhood affected? Hmmmm, now that's a real problem there. I really sympathize with you. I think there is a thread that deals with people who were sexually molested by family members. Give me some time, I'll look for it and get back to you.

spoilt:

I've been off this thread for a minute. Definitely things have taken an interesting turn. So someone here knows serubawon huh? Pls keep the mystery for the rest of us. It makes it all more delish.
So Serubawon any recent dates? If you attend a Nigerian church there are a thousand sisters and ushers willing to cook and clean their way into your heart.

Naaaa. I think being single is best for me right now. Too much emotional stress. God's time will come when He wants it to.

I had lost my husband last year he was owning Orlando Warehousing business and after his death i was handling it till now though i was totally unaware of the business but slowly i can understand each and every aspect of it In starting we have faced a great loss but i didn't give up and stand again with new enthusiasm and now i managed it successfully.
Orlando Warehousing

gibsonride:

I had lost my husband last year he was owning Orlando Warehousing business and after his death i was handling it till now though i was totally unaware of the business but slowly i can understand each and every aspect of it In starting we have faced a great loss but i didn't give up and stand again with new enthusiasm and now i managed it successfully.
Orlando Warehousing

@gibsonride. Sorry to hear about your loss. Do you have kids?

Hi all, another silent reader here,  @ serubawon, I don't think you need to pay heed to 'gibsonride' or whatever he/she is called; a glance at his/her previous posts on NL shows things don't add up at all.  Just a thot, cheers!