Hi everyone i must confess that i m really grateful on the commendations i get from pals reading my posts on relationship and sending me emails on issues, you can feel free to ask questions here and anyone responsible can also contribute because "wise people commends and others condemns"

starting a relationship-:

every relationship has got a foundation, some found theres on materialism, good looks, characters, bad habits, personalities, race, background, likes and selfishness but whatever be the common ground we found ours, be conscious of the fact that every true relationship is a seed that must be planted and given patience to grow

some starters especially the fellas always complain of issues and a friend called me on midnite call and was like,: "what kind of gal is this i met, she doesn't call and when i call all she does is to demand for credit and even when i send her she doesnt reciprocate with a thank you and she is so demanding and bla bla bla" my advice was

1. on what ground did you meet her?

his reply: i met her in school, same dept

2. what attracted you to her?

his reply: she is damn cool and she looks good and a stunt dresser, every broda's fantasy

3. okay, what attracted her to you?

his reply: hmmmmmmm, she hasnt said yet but i think its got to do with my looks, my confidence even though she has not yet said so

4. so what makes you think she likes you

his reply: tony i dont know, but i have dat feeling

5. okay keep giving her recharge cards then and lets see how it goes



my advice #1 is this,

in the 1st 3 wks of every true relationship, both parties should refrain from complimenting each other with love stuffs and bla bla bla every micro seconds of the clock, its boring, at best you could give a call in at work or wherever but pls make it plain and simple, with that you may have got to know their likes and dislikes, because the truth is that not everyone likes flattery compliments, to them it seem fake and usual -i swear i have seen many.

by the 4wk( 1mth) you must have come to know their likes and dislikes and i bet you that is when a true playa can strike and win that attraction


my advice #2 :

Do not be in a hurry, pls brodas dont use RECHARGE CARDS as a stuff to get a chic impressed,most brodas send them even without the gals asking and gals could be very smart, the moment they see that , they will use you, because they know you are just fake and probably a wussy, if a gal is growing likes for you, she will call you and if not yet , pls wait because she will certainly do, everyone has their breaking points, some could be 10 degree while others 600 degrees, and another reason most girls dont call is probably they are shy, immature, primitive, stingy. so b4 you start condemning her , first subtly know her reasons


my advice #3:

every girl is naturally open to love and be loved by everyone, be it an introvert or extrovert, but over time, some guys have really come to make them(females) form a defence mechanism and so b4 u try coming into her life try and make her understand you intentions, if it is for sex or relationship, let her know than playing smart she might accept you for sex and not relationship. . .funny aint it, but true though


i could go on and on, but will stop here for today, remember "true love grows"