baby124:

A proper anini is being harbored. To steal from someone who you think has earned your trust is a very bad sign. I do hope the mum did not put him up to it. Some parents have no shame. Depends on his age. If he is less than 13, call his mum and call him to have a conversation about what happened. If he is above 13, you can talk to him alone. But from now on, I hope you have learnt to keep the child out of your flat. Before he steals everything there. Once someone betrays trust, they will have to earn it again. Don't be naive a second time

this is harsh - baby124, you are strict.....damn!

coogar:


this is harsh - baby124, you are strict.....damn!

Did I lie? The child is a dangerous future robber. See what it took for him to confess.

He returned the money, I see no need to involve the mum. You did a good job showing him that doing wrong cannot always be hidden. I think you should follow up with talks with the lad on how to avoid falling into such errors. However you should rescind all privileges of his access to your apartment unsupervised. He needs to know he has lost your trust and must work to gain it back.

op don't report him...he sees you as a mentor, and I believe you should be man enough to address him. just sit him down and talk to him and make him know the consequences stealing could have on him you can show him pics of jungle justice being metted out on thieves in the street and ask him if he wants to end up like that...you should be stern and serious when talking to him...

crackhaus:
Well when I was about 14, a female neighbour whom I knew had a crush on me caught me making out with her younger sister (they were both a little older than I was).
Despite all the pleading, the biitch still went ahead and told my mom because she was angry it was her sister instead of her.

My mother called me into her room on her return from work and asked me, "so I heard you now know how to kiss and touch brea.sts?"
The next thing that followed without giving me a second to reply, was her hand descending on my face in one fell swoop - the slap kept resounding in my ear for the next 5mins.

Did my mother's slap stop me from kissing and touching brea.sts? Absolutely not!
It only taught me never to do it with any girl who lived nearby.

End of story!

.Lol It's obvious you are still hurt

NickiRoman:
.Lol It's obvious you are still hurt

By the slap?

Well I think I've gotten over it, the number of kisses and brea.sts I've had since then has definitely made the slap nothing but 'collateral damage' - one of the many hazards associated with having any romantic relationship with a neighbour

crackhaus:

By the slap?

Well I think I've gotten over it, the number of kisses and brea.sts I've had since then has definitely made the slap nothing but 'collateral damage' - one of the many hazards associated with having any romantic relationship with a neighbour

. You've gotten over it indeed and you went as far as calling her a b*tch

NickiRoman:
. You've gotten over it indeed and you went as far as calling her a b*tch

I'm not over it, as a matter of fact I'm still heartbroken and in dire need of some love...

Now can you quit getting on my post or mentioning my moniker for absolutely no reason!