*Toyinrayo:

Lol, lol, lol, you caught me here.

But I still say women are more emotional. If the guy wants sex, it's easy to get her laid.

Trust me, women, especially Naija women are too complicated Why do you think men pay us compliments such as "does she think she has gold between her legs, hence the reluctance to give it up"

*Toyinrayo:

Who cares, both of them should NOT flirt. period

^{speaking in a squeaky voice} I care, I can flirt, but he dares not, otherwise he is getting castrated

Let me say this: A married man or woman SHOULDN'T have his/her ID on the forum. It should be hidden. All the stupid flirting should have it's limits.

chika98:

Let me say this: A married man or woman SHOULDN'T have his/her ID on the forum. It should be hidden. All the stupid flirting should have it's limits.

i agree
_{even the ones that r not married shud be hidden}

chika98:

Let me say this: A married man or woman SHOULDN'T have his/her ID on the forum. It should be hidden. All the stupid flirting should have it's limits.

Why hide it if you are not ashamed of it and don't' think it's bad?

At least you agree it's stupid.

"Your brain is connected to your mind, Your mind is connected to your common sense etc" lmao Grin Grin

Get into a woman's miind, and you're rich!!!!!!!!

Is she stupid?HuhHuh? Not necessarily, she's just getting what her husband can't give her some where else

yes shes stupid,u dont even need to flirt wt one before feelings come toyin,it might start from admiration(maybe his posts) and stuffs,havent u seen pple tripping for guys they have not evn chatted with na today

na stupid woman go fall ooo,if u really love ur man,and u get wat u want from him,so why should i fall for an invisible face

lmao. . . .sometimes, we should take time to separate reality from online, no?
For a man who flirts with a woman, begins having feelings for her, if he logs off, she's still in his mind.

If your husband doe snot give you the attention you deserve, yet another is giving it to you, what will you do?

Am surprised you did not mention self-control. . . .maybe self control plays a role? or maybe it doesn't.

aww ive missed AJ,where is she,like she will always say,as long as it is done wt a clean mind,dats why i said its only pple dat lack attention dat will fall for dat rubbish

imagine my man telling me how pretty i am,and how sexy i look,whispering sweet nothings  to my ears and telling me how much he loves,and then takes me to bed and does d acrobatic dance  tell me if i log on after d whole exercise and decide to flirt,do u realy think it will come wt feelings,d feelings there will be of wa happend a couple of mins ago wt my man and not an invisible face

even wtout my man doing anything, d facvt dat we r living happily and playing like kids will be d first thing in my mind

tope2000:

i agree
_{even the ones that r not married should be hidden}

I disagree witcha.

H2O2:

here's a hypothetical situation:
How would you confirm that the hidden identity on the other end of the computer is not jacking off to your "small" affectionate words?  If you find out he's doing it would you still continue it?  Better to be safe than sorry.

let him jerk offf,well if i find out then i might as well stop  flirting with him

but like i said men should not flirt but women r free to,cant stand it if he flirts wt one woman on d net

arrrrrrrrrrrrrrrggggggggg

~Sauron~:

I disagree witcha.

Reasons being . . . . . . .

H2O2:

That is a very clever red herring you are attempting to clinch.  But if you want to go in that direction please present some solid truths.
If you know it makes your spouse uncomfortable would you continue?

You know men are more promiscuous than women na and thats the solid truth

If it makes my boyfriend feel uncomfortable, i might have to reconsider the relationship, cos don't need me some clingy, possessive , but if he was already my spouse, i'd desist straightaway, i don marry am na and its my cross to bear

H2O2:

Why hide it if you are not ashamed of it and don't' think it's bad?

At least you agree it's stupid.

Unless you will keep it open and then tell everyone on the forum that you are married. Not tell them per se but make reference to it. Not come on here and act like you are oh so single

Busy_body:

Trust me, women, especially Naija women are too complicated Why do you think men pay us compliments such as "does she think she has gold between her legs, hence the reluctance to give it up"

^{speaking in a squeaky voice} I care, I can flirt, but he dares not, otherwise he is getting castrated

"Naija women don't understand the meaning of flings" said and approved by Sillyboy _{sorry sweetie, am still cracking up on this statement}
Hmmm, could it mean WOMEN are easy to trick? could it mean if you tell her "you're beautiful and I think I'm the right one for you", she'll take you serious and fall for you? Esp when the lazy bum at home can't get it up?

Nigerian women are hard to get, but once you get o, kilo tun ku?
Is that why some men believe us to be notorious? because we fall for men easily?

What if "he" doesn't care? If you can flirt, what makes him ineligible to flirt?

H2O2:

How do you draw the line between harmless flirting and seriously flirting?

As far as i am concerned, harmless flirting is the tongue-in-cheek one you do with random multiple guys, whilst serious flirting is the smutty type, tantamount to obsession with a particular person or group of persons

Busy_body:


You know men are more promiscuous than women na and thats the solid truth

No I don't know, and I don't remember having previously had that discussion with you.

If it makes my boyfriend feel uncomfortable, i might have to reconsider the relationship, because don't need me some clingy, possessive , but if he was already my spouse, i'd desist straightaway, i don marry am na and its my cross to bear

I don't see how a questionable action that arouses a natural feeling of jealousy and curiosity should be considered possessive?
that's the reason I mentioned earlier that it's up to the couple to decide what flies in their relationship.

tope2000:

Reasons being . . . . . . .

Married women are human beings too.
People get to flirt with em in the real world, how much more the cyber world??

Busy_body:

As far as i am concerned, harmless flirting is the tongue-in-cheek one you do with random multiple guys, whilst serious flirting is the smutty type, tantamount to obsession with a particular person or group of persons

Busy body: How body?? E don tey ooh
U deserve a hug for saying that!

Busy_body:

As far as i am concerned, harmless flirting is the tongue-in-cheek one you do with random multiple guys, whilst serious flirting is the smutty type, tantamount to obsession with a particular person or group of persons

keyword there is "as far as I am concerened," which means you agree that "harmless flirting" is not a concept that is  universally agreed upon.  It's a to-may-to or to-mah-to kind of thing.

~Sauron~:

Married women are human beings too.
People get to flirt with em in the real world, how much more the cyber world??

have i given u ur night kiss

d amount of flirts i get everyday in d real world r more than sauron and co i get to meet here

~Sauron~:

Married women are human beings too.
People get to flirt with em in the real world, how much more the cyber world??

So u wont mind if ur wife is flirting with a guy on YIM?

Married women deliberately initiating and doing the flirting is another issue.

tope2000:

So u wont mind if ur wife is flirting with a guy on YIM?

He probably would.

My ex-jumpoff got mad at me for something as routine as complimenting celebrities.

busybein:

have i given u ur night kiss

d amount of flirts i get everyday in d real world r more than sauron and co i get to meet here

atleast we all know that you are married. U'r own no count

~modified~

H2O2:

He probably would.

My ex-jumpoff got mad at me for something as routine as complimenting celebrities.

How cool of you to refer to her as a jump off.

H2O2:

He probably would.

My ex-jumpoff got mad at me for something as routine as complimenting celebrities.

ex-jumpoff

H2O2:

Married women deliberately initiating and doing the flirting is another issue.

its not deliberate,some men think women r flirting wt them wt just a little smile from her lips,she did it innocently,but men as usual,always wetting their pants at any slightest opp

chika98:

How cool of you to refer to her as a jump off.

oops  
I goofed.

H2O2:

oops  
I goofed.

Atleast you are honest about it. Other dudes won't be that honest about it

H2O2:

Not exactly! Remember you said earlier that "a woman can never have too much love" .

Don't mind me jare, was only pulling Toyin's legs when i said this, and thankfully, she got the gist

H2O2:

And how are we so sure it's only a foolish woman that will fall for that trash. Since we as humans are imperfect beings, what makes you think you are above or immune from deceit

Like i said earlier, a non-foolish woman would have to dislove her man and fall in love with the flirtee before she falls for the trash UNLESS she is not having her needs, ^{whatever they might be,} being met at home.




_{Sorry for my yinglish in italics o}

Flirting. . . .define what you mean by clean mind.

A marriage that is danger of failure should not even be exposed to internet affair. . . . .infact no marriage should be exposed to such

clean mind is innocent mind

but all dis flirting stuff is done innocently ooooo no strings attached

busybein:

yes shes stupid,u don't even need to flirt wt one before feelings come toyin,it might start from admiration(maybe his posts) and stuffs,havent u seen people tripping for guys they have not evn chatted with na today

na stupid woman go fall ooo,if u really love ur man,and u get what u want from him,so why should i fall for an invisible face

Then it's fair to say that married couples who flirts online are very much stupid.

You logged off ni o, I don't care.
If I find my husband flirting online, I'd take it serious. Because I don't know what the hell he's been doing with her.

imagine my man telling me how pretty i am,and how sexy i look,whispering sweet nothings to my ears and telling me how much he loves,and then takes me to bed and does d acrobatic dance tell me if i log on after d whole exercise and decide to flirt,do u realy think it will come wt feelings,d feelings there will be of wa happend a couple of mins ago wt my man and not an invisible face

even wtout my man doing anything, d facvt that we r living happily and playing like kids will be d first thing in my mind

lolol, clean mind, if it's not clean nko? oje bi.

Flirting. . . .define what you mean by clean mind.

A marriage that is danger of failure should not even be exposed to internet affair. . . . .infact no marriage should be exposed to such

Busy_body:

Don't mind me jare, was only pulling Toyin's legs when i said this, and thankfully, she got the gist

Like i said earlier, a non-foolish woman would have to dislove her man and fall in love with the flirtee before she falls for the trash UNLESS she is not having her needs, ^{whatever they might be,} being met at home.




_{Sorry for my yinglish in italics o}

You would be surprised to find out the kind of trash that women fall for on a daily basis.

H2O2:

oops  
I goofed.

goofed
cant remember the last time i heard that word