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First Date, First Chance by Nobody: 5:47pm On Feb 27, 2015
First impression last long and golden opportunity comes first. The secret to getting a 2nd date depends on how well the 1st date goes. To get d 2nd date, here are few tips;

1. DONT BE TOO SERIOUS: it's important you keep conversation fun, pleasant and interesting. Ask about hobbies and passions, avoid politics, religion and keep a sense of humour.

2. BE HONEST: Don't tell lies to appear fascinating and doesn't mean you need to them everything about you but maintain a decorum. As time goes on you can reveal your mystery step by step.

3. ASK QUESTIONS: It's important you keep the conversation pleasant and interesting by asking positive questions like 'What things make you happiest? What do you love about your job? What meals do u enjoy most? Etc.

4 LISTEN: Paying attention to what he/she says keep a positive and symbiotic conversation running. When getting to know your date, don't be prepping the next thing to say while she is talking. Keep the listening to talking ratio even or more.

5. DISPLAY POSITIVE BODY LANGUAGE: Eye contact, smile, holding hands occasionally are powerful body language that display positive interest and increase the change of getting a 2nd date. If you really like him, you can lean towards your date when discussing. When dropping her @ home, a kiss on her fore head, cheeks is okay to increase her feeling for you.

6. OFFER TO PAY: Do bring cash. There is nothing wrong with offering to share the bill or pick up popcorn while your date buys movie tickets. Even if you don't end up paying, the offer makes the date lighter and you both feel equally in charge.

7. DRESS TO IMPRESS: The way you dress appears to be the way you will the address. Dress nice, radiant and smart. Perhaps wearing your favourite outfit with your favourite shoes makes you feel bold and confident. If you feel fabulous, you radiate.
Re: First Date, First Chance by ShirelleBaby: 6:09pm On Feb 27, 2015
wristwatch:

6. OFFER TO PAY: Do bring cash. .



SHIKENA-i will overlook the rest.


YES,I AM NICEcheesy
Re: First Date, First Chance by Nobody: 6:12pm On Feb 27, 2015
ShirelleBaby:



SHIKENA-i will overlook the rest.


YES,I AM NICEcheesy

LOL I knew some naija babes will not agree to this point.
Re: First Date, First Chance by chingydaboss(m): 6:14pm On Feb 27, 2015
Funi u.. money seems to b everything rite?..
ShirelleBaby:



SHIKENA-i will overlook the rest.


YES,I AM NICEcheesy
Re: First Date, First Chance by ShirelleBaby: 6:17pm On Feb 27, 2015
chingydaboss:
Funi u.. money seems to b everything rite?..


dear,did u plan to come without cash?

Common--u asked me out,I didn't.
Wait let me ask u out and the bill will be on metongue
Re: First Date, First Chance by dechandel(f): 6:18pm On Feb 27, 2015
Yass..
Carry popcorn money along..
This is for girls who feel splitting money on a date is an abomination
Re: First Date, First Chance by dechandel(f): 6:20pm On Feb 27, 2015
ShirelleBaby:



dear,did u plan to come without cash?

Common--u asked me out,I didn't.
Wait let me ask u out and the bill will be on metongue
grin grin grin

You must be a joker grin
If i ask you out. its 50:50 o

I will only pay with my church mind
Re: First Date, First Chance by chingydaboss(m): 6:23pm On Feb 27, 2015
Will definitely pay d bill.. I for one njoy paying d bills especially wen I seem to b d one who asked u out..

Bak to d article, it said both parties shud offer to pay.. den it's left for either of dem to tak sole responsibility of d bill
ShirelleBaby:



dear,did u plan to come without cash?

Common--u asked me out,I didn't.
Wait let me ask u out and the bill will be on metongue
Re: First Date, First Chance by Nobody: 6:24pm On Feb 27, 2015
ShirelleBaby:



dear,did u plan to come without cash?

Common--u asked me out,I didn't.
Wait let me ask u out and the bill will be on metongue

Lol so if your date lost his wallet, will u foot d bill?
Re: First Date, First Chance by Nobody: 6:26pm On Feb 27, 2015
dechandel:
Yass..
Carry popcorn money along..
This is for girls who feel splitting money on a date is an abomination

Thank you but girls can do better by paying the fee that is higher, what do u think? wink wink
Re: First Date, First Chance by Nobody: 6:26pm On Feb 27, 2015
incase
Re: First Date, First Chance by Nobody: 6:28pm On Feb 27, 2015
chingydaboss:
Will definitely pay d bill.. I for one njoy paying d bills especially wen I seem to b d one who asked u out..

Bak to d article, it said both parties shud offer to pay.. den it's left for either of dem to tak sole responsibility of d bill

The thing is in Nigeria, girls want guys to pay all the bills.
Re: First Date, First Chance by ShirelleBaby: 6:30pm On Feb 27, 2015
dechandel:
grin grin grin

You must be a joker grin
If i ask you out. its 50:50 o

I will only pay with my church mind

My babe for lifecheesy
Re: First Date, First Chance by dechandel(f): 6:34pm On Feb 27, 2015
ShirelleBaby:


My babe for lifecheesy
The only girl i would have married,if only gay marriage was allowed in the eyes of God grin
Re: First Date, First Chance by chingydaboss(m): 6:35pm On Feb 27, 2015
Yea I suppose..
wristwatch:


The thing is in Nigeria, girls want guys to pay all the bills.
Re: First Date, First Chance by Nobody: 6:35pm On Feb 27, 2015
so true.

nice one op
Re: First Date, First Chance by Nobody: 6:36pm On Feb 27, 2015
dechandel:
The only girl i would have married,if only gay marriage was allowed in the eyes of God grin

lipsrsealed
Re: First Date, First Chance by Nobody: 6:37pm On Feb 27, 2015
wristwatch:


The thing is in Nigeria, girls want guys to pay all the bills.

N200 wristwatch how far na
Re: First Date, First Chance by Nobody: 6:37pm On Feb 27, 2015
diddydiva:
so true.

nice one op

Thanks
Re: First Date, First Chance by dechandel(f): 6:37pm On Feb 27, 2015
wristwatch:


Thank you but girls can do better by paying the fee that is higher, what do u think? wink wink
Popcorn money could also pay up for the expensive plate of rice.. I just meant girls should take credit cards along..
Re: First Date, First Chance by ShirelleBaby: 6:38pm On Feb 27, 2015
wristwatch:


Lol so if your date lost his wallet, will u foot d bill?

baby boy is going wash plates mehn.
Re: First Date, First Chance by Nobody: 6:38pm On Feb 27, 2015
headlamp:


N200 wristwatch how far na

Dis clown eh! cheesy
Re: First Date, First Chance by Nobody: 6:39pm On Feb 27, 2015
ShirelleBaby:


baby boy is going wash plates mehn.

Haha. U wicked oh!
Re: First Date, First Chance by ShirelleBaby: 6:40pm On Feb 27, 2015
dechandel:
The only girl i would have married,if only gay marriage was allowed in the eyes of God grin


Lmaocheesy
Re: First Date, First Chance by Nobody: 6:41pm On Feb 27, 2015
wristwatch:


Thanks
ya welcome
Re: First Date, First Chance by ShirelleBaby: 6:42pm On Feb 27, 2015
diddydiva:
so true.

nice one op

Diddydiva being nice-

Hehehehecheesy
Re: First Date, First Chance by Nobody: 6:43pm On Feb 27, 2015
ShirelleBaby:


Diddydiva being nice-

Hehehehecheesy
actually i am nice grin
Re: First Date, First Chance by Nobody: 8:13pm On Feb 27, 2015
11, SHOW HER THE MONEY


12, SHOW HER MORE MONEY.


That's the 11th and 12th commandment of dating a Naija babe. grin



Pun intended! grin
Re: First Date, First Chance by Nobody: 8:18pm On Feb 27, 2015
dechandel:
Popcorn money could also pay up for the expensive plate of rice.. I just meant girls should take credit cards along..

Okay. Nice
Re: First Date, First Chance by mirexxx(f): 8:19pm On Feb 27, 2015
nice! its good 2 always go with cash or a credit card!
Re: First Date, First Chance by Nobody: 8:27pm On Feb 27, 2015
Brandnew2:
11, SHOW HER THE MONEY


12, SHOW HER MORE MONEY.


That's the 11th and 12th commandment of dating a Naija babe. grin



Pun intended! grin

Don't make d mistake bro.
Re: First Date, First Chance by Nobody: 8:34pm On Feb 27, 2015
wristwatch:


Don't make d mistake bro.
It works like magic.
Most ladies fall like a pack of cards when they meet or go on a date with a handsome. debonair with flashy accessories accompanied with a nice ride and apartment. They usually end up in bed with him on the first date without even knowing.

I know a lot of ladies around here would deny that. cheesy

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