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In Ramadan, My Wife Doesn't Want To Sleep With Me by ogahlouiskid18(m): 11:23am On Jun 30, 2015
My wife and I fast during the whole
Ramadan, but at night, she doesn't want to
sleep with me. She doesn't even want to
touch me, and this makes me feel very
restless. Please advice.

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Re: In Ramadan, My Wife Doesn't Want To Sleep With Me by axiliborha(f): 11:23am On Jun 30, 2015
sad

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Re: In Ramadan, My Wife Doesn't Want To Sleep With Me by Nobody: 11:24am On Jun 30, 2015
NO BIG DEAL....





IT'S FOR A SHORT PERIOD

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Re: In Ramadan, My Wife Doesn't Want To Sleep With Me by ZeezaRapture(m): 11:25am On Jun 30, 2015
undecided
Re: In Ramadan, My Wife Doesn't Want To Sleep With Me by Nobody: 11:31am On Jun 30, 2015
Go and tell America

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Re: In Ramadan, My Wife Doesn't Want To Sleep With Me by buzquet(m): 11:34am On Jun 30, 2015
Na evry tym u dey drink burantashi?

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Re: In Ramadan, My Wife Doesn't Want To Sleep With Me by donholy28(m): 11:38am On Jun 30, 2015
Tell her ur going out to get it elsewhere... and she will r*pe u

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Re: In Ramadan, My Wife Doesn't Want To Sleep With Me by Eesha: 11:46am On Jun 30, 2015
Y would she do that. Once you have broken your fast anything goes grin , till sahur. Did she say that the reason for her distance is ramadan

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Re: In Ramadan, My Wife Doesn't Want To Sleep With Me by achinaboy(m): 12:28pm On Jun 30, 2015
she is sleeping with someone else

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Re: In Ramadan, My Wife Doesn't Want To Sleep With Me by PAGAN9JA(m): 1:09pm On Jun 30, 2015
Its allowed. muhammad that prophet dude said that your wives are permissible to you after breaking fast.

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Re: In Ramadan, My Wife Doesn't Want To Sleep With Me by docphresh(m): 1:09pm On Jun 30, 2015
She neva chop, u wan still commot the small power she get. . Oga u b weeked man!

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Re: In Ramadan, My Wife Doesn't Want To Sleep With Me by Shaadey: 1:09pm On Jun 30, 2015
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Re: In Ramadan, My Wife Doesn't Want To Sleep With Me by Feranmicharles(m): 1:09pm On Jun 30, 2015
buzquet:
Na evry tym u dey drink burantashi?

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Re: In Ramadan, My Wife Doesn't Want To Sleep With Me by wisefizz(m): 1:09pm On Jun 30, 2015
... What the hell? ... Why won't I touch my wife during fasting when water to take janumba is available

Oga op, sit her down and talk to her where she will understand

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Re: In Ramadan, My Wife Doesn't Want To Sleep With Me by Gepheral: 1:10pm On Jun 30, 2015
So this kind question still dey look for answers?

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Re: In Ramadan, My Wife Doesn't Want To Sleep With Me by preciouswize(m): 1:10pm On Jun 30, 2015
Wetin concern m nau?

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Re: In Ramadan, My Wife Doesn't Want To Sleep With Me by vicola0281: 1:10pm On Jun 30, 2015
lmaooo she is sleeping wit anoda muslimite....

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Re: In Ramadan, My Wife Doesn't Want To Sleep With Me by Neduzze5(m): 1:10pm On Jun 30, 2015
Yes it is permissible....

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Re: In Ramadan, My Wife Doesn't Want To Sleep With Me by CR77(f): 1:10pm On Jun 30, 2015

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Re: In Ramadan, My Wife Doesn't Want To Sleep With Me by admax(m): 1:11pm On Jun 30, 2015
grin
Re: In Ramadan, My Wife Doesn't Want To Sleep With Me by CR77(f): 1:11pm On Jun 30, 2015
No advice for u


Anyway my best advice is go 2 red light
ogahlouiskid18:
My wife and I fast during the whole
Ramadan, but at night, she doesn't want to
sleep with me. She doesn't even want to
touch me, and this makes me feel very
restless. Please advice.

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Re: In Ramadan, My Wife Doesn't Want To Sleep With Me by Quinn581(m): 1:11pm On Jun 30, 2015
nk
Re: In Ramadan, My Wife Doesn't Want To Sleep With Me by solidgidlas(m): 1:11pm On Jun 30, 2015
Rape her abg

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Re: In Ramadan, My Wife Doesn't Want To Sleep With Me by efilefun(m): 1:12pm On Jun 30, 2015
Praise be to Allaah.
Firstly:

Intercourse during the day in Ramadaan is haraam for men and women alike, who are obliged to fast during the day. Doing that is a sin for which expiation (kafaarah) must be offered. The kafaarah is to free a slave; if that is not possible then the person must fast for two consecutive months; whoever is not able to do that must feed sixty poor persons.

It was narrated that Abu Hurayrah (may Allaah be pleased with him) said: Whilst we were sitting with the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him), a man came to him and said, “O Messenger of Allaah, I am doomed!” He said, “What happened?” He said, “I had intercourse with my wife when I was fasting [in Ramadaan].” The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said, “Are you able to free a slave?” He said, “No.” He said, “Are you able to fast for two consecutive months?” He said, “No.” He said, “Can you feed sixty poor persons?” He said, “No.” Then the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) remained silent for a while, and whilst we were like that, a large vessel of dates was brought to the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him), and he said, “Where is the one who was asking?” He said, “Here I am.” He said, “Take these and give them in charity.” The man said, “Is there anyone more poor than me, O Messenger of Allaah? For there is no household between the two harrahs (lava fields – i.e., in Madeenah) that is poorer than my household.” The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) smiled until his eyeteeth could be seen, then he said, “Feed it to your family.”

(Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 1834, 1835; Muslim, 1111)

Secondly:

With regard to intercourse during the night in Ramadaan, this is permitted and is not forbidden, and the time when it is permitted lasts until the onset of dawn. When dawn comes, intercourse becomes forbidden.

Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):

“It is made lawful for you to have sexual relations with your wives on the night of As-Sawm (the fasts). They are Libaas [i.e. body-cover, or screen, or Sakan (i.e. you enjoy the pleasure of living with them] for you and you are the same for them. Allaah knows that you used to deceive yourselves, so He turned to you (accepted your repentance) and forgave you. So now have sexual relations with them and seek that which Allaah has ordained for you (offspring), and eat and drink until the white thread (light) of dawn appears to you distinct from the black thread (darkness of night), then complete your Sawm (fast) till the nightfall”

[al-Baqarah 2:187]

This verse clearly states that it is permissible to eat, drink and have intercourse during the nights of Ramadaan until dawn.

After having intercourse it is obligatory to do ghusl, then pray Fajr.

And Allah knows best.

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Re: In Ramadan, My Wife Doesn't Want To Sleep With Me by Nobody: 1:12pm On Jun 30, 2015
Yes, but u must break ur fasting first, that'll be from around 7pm to 4 am

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Re: In Ramadan, My Wife Doesn't Want To Sleep With Me by Fulaboy(m): 1:12pm On Jun 30, 2015
ogahlouiskid18:
My wife and I fast during the whole
Ramadan, but at night, she doesn't want to
sleep with me. She doesn't even want to
touch me, and this makes me feel very
restless. Please advice.
there's nothing wrong in it in as much as you're doing it at night only

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Re: In Ramadan, My Wife Doesn't Want To Sleep With Me by ihatebuhari(f): 1:12pm On Jun 30, 2015
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Re: In Ramadan, My Wife Doesn't Want To Sleep With Me by Adesiji77: 1:12pm On Jun 30, 2015
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Re: In Ramadan, My Wife Doesn't Want To Sleep With Me by cornoil(m): 1:12pm On Jun 30, 2015
brother you have the holy book to guide you now and ur Muslim scholars. OP is just a jester that opened the thread for fun. tongue

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