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Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by rose4flower(f): 4:00am On Sep 07, 2015
Op I wil seriously advice u nt to go my reason is I feel d lady is up to no good ur ex might av shown her signs he still loves u & she can be planning something for u people are very dangerous. Should incase u go don't stay long & pls don't eat dere. If possible if u notice ur ex av seen u for him to no u attended after Dat live d place quickly because tins are happening
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by Truckpusher(m): 4:24am On Sep 07, 2015
romme2u:


bros for this kind time?

una no dey sleep. abeg make una sori, i just forget wetin i type.

moreover u can join sleeknick at night crawlers season 65
Where e dey happen? grin

I no dey miss party o. cheesy

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Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by allcomage: 4:31am On Sep 07, 2015
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freecocoa:
Nah, i'm not hot temepered, I guess you are new on how things are around here.grin

I'm just ready to defend my kind when necessary.
I'm happy your are following the treads.
Don't go to the wedding. The ex might have been dropping your name by mistake or why making love with the wife and she feels insecure. She might be the jealous and wicked type,and she will use this opportunity to see you for future attack and insult when your ex will start to play away match. Don't court trouble for your self because nothing good will come out of it. Why your issue would even come up in the first instance in a serious issue like marriage?are you their matchmaker? Kindly stay off the wedding and cut off communication with him.
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by justinuchegmai: 4:34am On Sep 07, 2015
There is no problem with that invitation,as I write u now, my ex came to my house with her mother last week to invite me to her wedding next month. I will be there live with my wife.there is nothing wrong with d invitation unless u didn't part ways well

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Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by orior5: 4:40am On Sep 07, 2015
freecocoa:
Here's the thing, an ex called me last week(my first boyfriend) to invite me to his wedding, the issue now is that I don't know if I should honour the invite, he said his wife insist he invites me(he didn't want to )I know he did love me and he was quite the model boyfriend then(he could pass for the types in mills$boons grin)and we have talked since the break up but I never thought he wouldn't invite me to his wedding, and now to call me to say his wife insists he invites me is kinda shocking/confusing, I always knew I would honour the invites I have the time to attend to,still I'm wondering if I should sit this one out, I partly want to go because it will be like a kind of reunion with old friends(even some who have to travel from very far for this) yet somehow, I feel like not going, he didn't sound happy to invite me, he was cold.

Would you go if you were the one?
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by macminista(m): 4:41am On Sep 07, 2015
Be wise and move on with ur life..u got nothing fo prove..even if the wife sends a private cheffuer 2 come pik u dont GO!..women re funny creatures she wants to show of that u might ve dated him but iit was her who finally won his heart
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by orior5: 4:42am On Sep 07, 2015
Sure u can attend, if u ve d balls, cos I guess his wife to be wants u to c wat u lost,
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by Shigoboy(m): 4:52am On Sep 07, 2015
I did, and I was honoured, she was very happy to have me there cos we seperated on a mutual aggrement, cheesy
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by ShayGirl(f): 5:06am On Sep 07, 2015
lol.
.The guy dey fear make u no go raise hand during dat scary moment wen d pastor throws d question to the crowd... grin grin

Well, il go cos i was invited
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Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by samokoduwa(m): 5:06am On Sep 07, 2015
freecocoa:
I don't know her.

It normal for a wife to asked the husband to invite his ex as a proof of her know if he has closed the chapter or not. For such to happen, it only tell the wife has her own fear of the man past and she is trying to act the mature one even deep down she does not want to. The question is? If deep down u know, u have end the past and no string of such, yes go n get a gift and dress the way n act the way u act. But if u still do, take a rain cheque, if it becos of old friend to meet, then sorry, u friend are there for a wedding not for u, u can always meet them at a more comfortable zone.

Your going is cos nothing involved. If for any reason u have feeling or plan to over dress to be the side attraction, then u mortgage ur future and u wld remain unhappy the "Mr Right" wld be come a mirage.

But if deep down nothing, go it a proof to know u too have ended, closed the chapter and you have moved on for good.
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by castro316: 5:11am On Sep 07, 2015
Maybe she want to know who her arch rival to be is?
So she wants to know u welll well so that if she spots u 1km near her man she will be well to warn you.
Any ways if u go or u no go she will still discover you. It seems ur ex always talks about you to her bringing the euphoria of wanting to see you
Go there.
Greet them warmly
Drop ur gifts
Eat small meat
Get the hell out of there
No dancing I repeat no dancing with the groom
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by samokoduwa(m): 5:11am On Sep 07, 2015
macminista:
Be wise and move on with ur life..u got nothing fo prove..even if the wife sends a private cheffuer 2 come pik u dont GO!..women re funny creatures she wants to show of that u might ve dated him but iit was her who finally won his heart


In a way it kind of fun, becos when the Pst say kiss the bride the bride knowing the ex is around wld kiss longer and act more closes, lol the question can u handle that?? If no abeg seat down make u nor go throw transfer aggression on the next guy that comes ur way, cos it can be any of us here o, lol
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by castro316: 5:12am On Sep 07, 2015
freecocoa:
I don't know her.


Maybe she want to know who her arch rival to be is?
So she wants to know u welll well so that if she spots u 1km near her man she will be well to warn you.
Any ways if u go or u no go she will still discover you. It seems ur ex always talks about you to her bringing the euphoria of wanting to see you
Go there.
Greet them warmly
Drop ur gifts
Eat small meat
Get the hell out of there
No dancing I repeat no dancing with the groom
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by samokoduwa(m): 5:18am On Sep 07, 2015
castro316:

Maybe she want to know who her arch rival to be is?
So she wants to know u welll well so that if she spots u 1km near her man she will be well to warn you.
Any ways if u go or u no go she will still discover you. It seems ur ex always talks about you to her bringing the euphoria of wanting to see you
Go there.
Greet them warmly
Drop ur gifts
Eat small meat
Get the hell out of there
No dancing I repeat no dancing with the groom

Lol....hmmm, dance Wetin, na aboard u dey. Lol.... the bride mother nor go drag her hair from dance floor to outside with her eyes. Lol... leave that matter, see if u have 0.000000000000001 feeling with the guy dnt even think of going, the wife want to see this ex, trust me. She tell her friend u become a watch n she know now how the degree of ur past with his husband, more so why on earth wld any wife want to invite husband ex. It mean it came up as an issue n to proof to her invite her. So u have now become a case study abi. Lol please, move on o
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by Kirinwa: 5:21am On Sep 07, 2015
freecocoa:
A part of me reaaaalllyyyy want to go, I've made my peace with the break up a long time ago but I seem to just wonder, if you know what I mean.wink

You seem to wonder if he still feels something for you abi? Anyway when the uncut video comes out I'll like to get a copy.

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Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by onunwa21(m): 5:21am On Sep 07, 2015
Just be careful d way u people sound d name of this love......

Reunion.....fear d hold me ooooooo, no go take one 4 d road......

My advice is........ don't honor d invitation weda u people departed in peace or not, cos u will 4eva regret y cumn 4 d wedding (u re going to be cold in that ceremony) and all eyes esp asehbis wil be on u.
Bt if u ve oda intentions u can attend.
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by DrGroove(f): 5:22am On Sep 07, 2015
I don't know how some ladies think with their brains
How do you even keep in touch with your ex that he can contact you n invite you for his wedding?
I don't understand
Anyway,that invite is just to spite you.If his fiancee is behind it,thats worse.the lady just wants to embarrass you

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Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by Kirinwa: 5:23am On Sep 07, 2015
For me I won't go. Go do wetin? embarassed

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Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by DrGroove(f): 5:26am On Sep 07, 2015
justinuchegmai:
There is no problem with that invitation,as I write u now, my ex came to my house with her mother last week to invite me to her wedding next month. I will be there live with my wife.there is nothing wrong with d invitation unless u didn't part ways well
Yours is a different case.You are a man and the best part of it.you are married...married b4 her.And you are going with your wife..Who is this OP going there with?

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Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by samokoduwa(m): 5:26am On Sep 07, 2015
onunwa21:
Just be careful d way u people sound d name of this love......

Reunion.....fear d hold me ooooooo, no go take one 4 d road......

My advice is........ don't honor d invitation weda u people departed in peace or not, cos u will 4eva regret y cumn 4 d wedding (u re going to be cold in that ceremony) and all eyes esp asehbis wil be on u.
Bt if u ve oda intentions u can attend.


Lol... intention, on a wedding day? That way it call a wedding day, no matter how ur prepare come, if u come with any sort of feeling, na u go feel bad. All asehins are aware u have come, ma ex is around. So..... u got nothing to proof, as far ex is getting married expect u are how the father or pastor to hold the wedding service, u presence is irrelevant.
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Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by batulakarada: 5:32am On Sep 07, 2015
Wear a very tight outfit ,displaying all your assets and show him what he is missing
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by samokoduwa(m): 5:35am On Sep 07, 2015
Kirinwa:
For me I won't go. Go do wetin? embarassed

Chop jolly rice na...lol
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by islandmoon: 5:37am On Sep 07, 2015
Everything depend how on simple you are, i have a friend who will go there and have loads of funny without caring about whatever cheesy, probably he must have told her about you wish could be in a bad or good way, which ever way could make her want to know you!

the guy is not done with you, hes still found of you and has told her about you! hes only feeling reluctant because you the one he truly love and you know he may be marrying just anyone now because he must get married now but your memories still remain in his mind, that's why hes still talking about you! your presence may change his mood though, depend on how strong your relationship was then!

like i still love my Ex who still appear to be my favorite on planet earth, she's fluent, great sense of humor ,very intelligent but I had to move on because of her pride, lavish spending,greed,laziness and her excessive love for telemundo! He's not easy to forget your true love, probably you were the one who called it quit then abi?
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by samokoduwa(m): 5:40am On Sep 07, 2015
batulakarada:
Wear a very tight outfit ,displaying all your assets and show him what he is missing

Lol.. OK he miss for two second, after wedding enjoy his wife for honey mood, u miss for a life time collect all guys phone no cos u dey try impress, abi seat for house watch telomuodo
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by samokoduwa(m): 5:49am On Sep 07, 2015
islandmoon:
Everything depend how on simple you are, i have a friend who will go there and have loads of funny without caring about whatever cheesy, probably he must have told her about you wish could be in a bad or good way, which ever way could make her want to know you!

the guy is not done with you, hes still found of you and has told her about you! hes only feeling reluctant because you the one he truly love and you know he may be marrying just anyone now because he must get married now but your memories still remain in his mind, that's why hes still talking about you! your presence may change his mood though, depend on how strong your relationship was then!

like i still love my Ex who still appear to be my favorite on planet earth, she's fluent, great sense of humor ,very intelligent but I had to move on because of her pride, lavish spending,greed,laziness and her excessive love for telemundo! He's not easy to forget your true love, probably you were the one who called it quit then abi?


Hmmmm... u spoke so well about her n ended her with such weakness, if u through love her u for stay na... but I get, see we are just painting blue black. The question is simple. Two ex were dating, so nature bring issue, both decide to part with small drama but don't know if na series drama or those drama that have part 1,2,3 and even up to 5. Now one is getting married, the ex wife as she is invited.

Answer, I was thinking if both ex part, all is well so it does not matter if anyone attend any event but reme drama was involved so u being to think For the lady, to come put her thot for nairaland shows she has thot of go or not to go! Don't go, finish. And let sleeping dog lie.
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by Ahmadgani(m): 5:56am On Sep 07, 2015
Honour thy invitacion.. But if you think your presence could awake the sleeping feelings and emotions, just stay at home and get yourself a thisday newspaper and some bottle of cold drinks.

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Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by kilokeys(m): 5:57am On Sep 07, 2015
cococandy:
If he sounded cold, pls don't go. He hopes you won't come but is only inviting you to please his wife.

And why on earth does she even want you there?

i m surprised u r asking...

its simple.
the guy must hv said sweet things about the op.
so the wifey wants to see the flawless angel, place her on a scale of 1-10 and ascertain if she is still a threat.

all women wants to know their supposed competitions

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Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by lao(f): 5:59am On Sep 07, 2015
For the fact that you considered in going, you still have some feelings for your ex. I mean you "ex" inviting you is just courtesy.
Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by AyeeIdris(f): 6:00am On Sep 07, 2015
During my wedding reception, bros was introducing me to some of his friends....we came up to a girl and he was like "meet.... My ex girlfriend ". the girl and I turned to look at him like Wtf. The girl then said "ode Bobo Ni eh". For some reason, I found this hilarious. Na so I begin laugh, she too began to laugh... she then said "congratulations. And Good luck. You go need am. My response "babe...I know " We started laughing again. Bros was just looking at us like we have craze


The morale of this long tale. Your experience at the wedding is what you make it. Go see old friends. Merry and be happy. Life is too short for drama

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Re: Would You Go To An Ex's Wedding? by jamace(m): 6:08am On Sep 07, 2015
Please, don't attend. I feel very uncomfortable particularly when it is your "enemy" insisting you attend.

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