An older guy(maybe 10-18yrs age gap) you love so much and used to with a bad past and not so much going in his present like you know, being a medical doctor or so or a guy who doesn't have that much age gap, aspiring to be a top medical doctor, got so much going for him and all,  like everything seems so right but no much love maybe on the friendship level compared to the first? You as the girl got so much going too so not lacking anything.

Girls which would you choose or which will be right? Guys you are also welcome.