On my way home but this topic came up.

This family have got 2 kids and the kids lack parental care because the man and wife come in late.

The issue of Nanny is out of the option because they don't trust nannies and someone must resign to take care of the kids..

The problem here is that the wife earns four times(400%) the man's salary and the ladies salary goes a long way to sort the family expenses.

Please who do you advise to resign.
Should the man become a house husband

*Thinking*

It is a tough one really. Children needs to be adequately cared for emotionally, etc at the same time the family needs the money....

Ultimately, it is the man's call to provide for his family materially, physically and emotionally.

A tough decision has to be made...

Day care nko? Dem no get relative? Mtchew! D child needs a motherly figure!

The man should resign
Or better still the both of them should retain their jobs and find a way to share the responsibility of taking care of the children.

Neitzsche

if the man's salary can comfortably take care of the family without stress then the wife should resign

If not, the husband should resign

This is really difficult. Money is important, parental care is also important. Since they don't want the services of a nanny, they should bring in a niece or a younger sister to help them out. Or are they also scared of that option?

inspiration fm is on the issue now and have also watch a yoruba film like dt..... All in all the wife shd b the 1 to resign,cos the role of a man in the huz can't never be over emphasize,a woman without a job is still better than a man without job.......if the woman is the breadwinner she will unknowinling rub it on the husband face.

If na me be the man, I go resign.
But I go strike deal with my wife.

E get why.

yomi007k:
If na me be the man, I go resign.
But I go strike deal with my wife.

E get why.

what is it about?

lilmax:
what is it about?

Wat is wat about?

The woman should save up and open a good business, den resign, her time will be at her beck and call, the man shld continue working.

yomi007k:



Wat is wat about?

the deal

osesology:
This is really difficult. Money is important, parental care is also important. Since they don't want the services of a nanny, they should bring in a niece or a younger sister to help them out. Or are they also scared of that option?

Bringing in family member to live with them may give rise to some issues.
@op, ever heard of househusband?

Cutehector:
Day care nko? Dem no get relative? Mtchew! D child needs a motherly figure!

Are u saying day care operates till 11pm..

ojeota:
The man should resign
Or better still the both of them should retain their jobs and find a way to share the responsibility of taking care of the children.

Do u know it's a sin for a man not to provide for his family?
The Bible says such man is more than an Infidel.

yomi007k:
If na me be the man, I go resign.
But I go strike deal with my wife.

E get why.

Abeg Y?

This same old topic again?

Recycling things


The man gas resign naa , no time to become Nanny .

Do you want to compare, salary of 10k to 40k, 50k to 200k, 250k to 1m?

No way. Peace must reign sha ooo

Neitzsche:
The woman should resign, while they discuss how to undertake austerity measures to adjust to the family's downsized domestic economy. I believe in the traditional role of women as primary mothers and helpers.

Baba what's the austerity measure?
Hope Germany won't come in for bail out too..

Non should resign just yet...give it a couple o' months, save up and open a business. this is why entrepreneurship is the best(after saving up capital for a while of course) it gives you the opportunity to manage your time yourself, leave work, go for school run, cook and go back to work...sometimes, the kids could come around your office and be with you whilst you make your money...let them start saving and open a business...after a while non would want a "jacki" job anymore have tasted both waters

menix:


Are u saying day care operates till 11pm..

Do u know it's a sin for a man not to provide for his family?
The Bible says such man is more than an Infidel.

Which part of the bible , oga

You get paid to ask such a question but I don't get paid to answer it.

this one na war o. Wait let me ask the oracle.

I will want to know if his village pple are pursuing him

That's the only way he will contemplate who should resign.

This is not an issue of ego.

They can both open a business for daddy to manage so he is not idle while mummy goes to the bakery to make bread.

All that matters is that the woman doesn't lose "submission and respect" because she's the baker.

Tough one

Cutehector:
Day care nko? Dem no get relative? Mtchew! D child needs a motherly figure!

Thank you jare

Only God knows how he created the black man. This is not supposed to even be an issue.

Why is where so much poverty embedded in the mind of a black man

Sharing life issues....

I will ... So that she can face her career ... Then I move on

Mtcheeeeeew, was even thinking it's gonna be a story of a newly wedded couple working in the same organisation that have a policy of not allowing both the hubby ane the wife work with them.
And why must someone resign, there are other options they could deliberate on.

He should do the needful.. resign howbeit dishonorable.

It will hurt his ego but will benefit his family.

But he should be the finance minister or the federal government that determines how the money generated by Niger Delta that is his wife is spent.

Anything less than that is gnashing of teeth and wailing.

Definitely. The man should resign.