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Re: His Wife Earns Four Times His Salary And Someone Must Resign by ronald4lif(m): 9:33pm On Oct 09, 2015
Cutehector:
Day care nko? Dem no get relative? Mtchew! D child needs a motherly figure!

Dalu for this nwanne madu. No be only house husband, na house horseband. No way I'm resigning and be dependent on a woman. Mbanu!

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Re: His Wife Earns Four Times His Salary And Someone Must Resign by otabuko(m): 9:33pm On Oct 09, 2015
If i slap the man ehhhhhh.... He would resign.... And find a business that would give him some time for the kids...

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Re: His Wife Earns Four Times His Salary And Someone Must Resign by Missy89(f): 9:34pm On Oct 09, 2015
I dont need to read the post.

He should resign with immediate effect

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Re: His Wife Earns Four Times His Salary And Someone Must Resign by muheewa(m): 9:34pm On Oct 09, 2015
Cutehector:
Day care nko? Dem no get relative? Mtchew! D child needs a motherly figure!
Abi ooooo.........GrandMother nko instead of staying in the village she can decide to stay with them nd Take care of her grand children. Nd them go de give grandma little change forr upkeep......

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Re: His Wife Earns Four Times His Salary And Someone Must Resign by OlufemiWhit(m): 9:35pm On Oct 09, 2015
The husband should resign..... I just don't trust nigerian women....she fit start to dhy do anyhow if d husband no get money again
Re: His Wife Earns Four Times His Salary And Someone Must Resign by menix(m): 9:35pm On Oct 09, 2015
yomi007k:

Which part of the bible , oga

1st Timothy 5 vs 8..
Re: His Wife Earns Four Times His Salary And Someone Must Resign by Ghost01(m): 9:35pm On Oct 09, 2015
IYANGBALI:
the man go cook food and wash pant for him wife o. He go be senior houseboy for house
There's nothing wrong with being a house-husband. Both the husband and the wife have equal stakes in a marriage. If the situation is the other way around, we won't even be having this discussion. There is nothing wrong with the man manning the kitchen. And which one is wash pant for his wife? She isn't disabled now, is she?

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Re: His Wife Earns Four Times His Salary And Someone Must Resign by pbs4real(m): 9:35pm On Oct 09, 2015
Vinshu:


Pride would not sustain the family. What matters is funds. And the woman earns more. Why can't the man earn 5 times the woman? undecided
if anyone has to stp it has to be the woman,cant allow ah wife fend for the family wen am not handicapped... we have to manage my income pending on wen sometin btr comes in
Re: His Wife Earns Four Times His Salary And Someone Must Resign by pbs4real(m): 9:37pm On Oct 09, 2015
Ghost01:
There's nothing wrong with being an house-husband. Both the husband and the wife have equal stakes in a marriage. If the situation is the other way around, we won't even be having this discussion. There is nothing wrong with the man manning the kitchen. And which one is wash pant for his wife? She isn't disabled now, is she?
coming from a guy,i must say u kept in a state of imbroglio undecided

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Re: His Wife Earns Four Times His Salary And Someone Must Resign by menix(m): 9:37pm On Oct 09, 2015
muheewa:
Abi ooooo.........GrandMother nko instead of staying in the village she can decide to stay with them nd Take care of her grand children. Nd them go de give grandma little change forr upkeep......

Probably u have not heard of Mother in-law from hell..
Re: His Wife Earns Four Times His Salary And Someone Must Resign by pbs4real(m): 9:38pm On Oct 09, 2015
Missy89:
I dont need to read the post.

He should resign with immediate effect
u must be high on lipsrsealed
Re: His Wife Earns Four Times His Salary And Someone Must Resign by Nobody: 9:38pm On Oct 09, 2015
PROBLEM IS THIS:
1.HOUSE HUSBAND,AGREED BUT FOR HOW LONG. WILL HE ALSO BE DOING THE CHILD BEARING?
2.WHAT DO THEY OR HE BUT FALL BACK ON,SHOULD ANYTHING GO WRONG WITH THE 400% SALARY EARNING WIFE OR HER JOB.
3.WHAT IF SHE WERE A WIDOW WITH THESE TWO KIDS, WHAT WOULD BE RESIGNING.
I THINK THEY SHOULD LEARN TO TRUST A MAID OR USE NEW EDGE TECH TO MONITOR ACTIVITIES AT HOME FROM WORK. LIFE MUST GO ON OO.BUT MEHNNN, THEN SUPPOSE COMOT THIS OGA MANHOOD OO. 4TIMES!! shocked
Re: His Wife Earns Four Times His Salary And Someone Must Resign by no1madman(m): 9:38pm On Oct 09, 2015
IamMissMarvel:
I will want to know if his village pple are pursuing him

That's the only way he will contemplate who should resign.

This is not an issue of ego.

They can both open a business for daddy to manage so he is not idle while money goes to the bakery to make bread.

All that matters is that the woman doesn't lose "submission and respect" because she's the baker.
so u sabi something!
Re: His Wife Earns Four Times His Salary And Someone Must Resign by cococandy(f): 9:38pm On Oct 09, 2015
The man should resign
Re: His Wife Earns Four Times His Salary And Someone Must Resign by jornie(m): 9:38pm On Oct 09, 2015
F

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Re: His Wife Earns Four Times His Salary And Someone Must Resign by menix(m): 9:38pm On Oct 09, 2015
pbs4real:
coming from a guy,i must say u kept in a state of imbroglio undecided

When I saw same I was wondering if he's a transgender..

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Re: His Wife Earns Four Times His Salary And Someone Must Resign by Vinshu(f): 9:39pm On Oct 09, 2015
pbs4real:
if anyone has to stp it has to be the woman,cant allow ah wife fend for the family wen am not handicapped... we have to manage my income pending on wen sometin btr comes in

What if nothing better comes in ? Anyway it depends on the situation though
Re: His Wife Earns Four Times His Salary And Someone Must Resign by Barayeks(m): 9:40pm On Oct 09, 2015
I was happy to read a comment from a lady on the first page saying the woman will lose respect for her husband if she becomes the bread winner...and rub it in his face

and that's the truth

Its how women are built, no matter how humble she'll eventually blurt it out during misUnderstandings, which is inevitable .."good for nothing man!...blah blah"

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Re: His Wife Earns Four Times His Salary And Someone Must Resign by pbs4real(m): 9:41pm On Oct 09, 2015
menix:


When I saw same I was wondering if he's a transgender..
who knows? That's the best word to describe him/her grin

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Re: His Wife Earns Four Times His Salary And Someone Must Resign by flexingPAPA: 9:41pm On Oct 09, 2015
in this era of no of no job vacancy!!! non of them should resign, they should bring one of their mum or relative to come and assist....
Re: His Wife Earns Four Times His Salary And Someone Must Resign by menix(m): 9:42pm On Oct 09, 2015
cococandy:
The man should resign

If he resigns, don't u think he will b termed "Useless" both outside nd inside the home..

Secondly, his more than an Infidel if you believe the bible (1st Timothy 5 vs cool
Re: His Wife Earns Four Times His Salary And Someone Must Resign by pbs4real(m): 9:43pm On Oct 09, 2015
Vinshu:


What if nothing better comes in ? Anyway it depends on the situation though
by God's grace sometin btr would come grin
Re: His Wife Earns Four Times His Salary And Someone Must Resign by tunapius(m): 9:43pm On Oct 09, 2015
janejive:
The woman should save up and open a good business, den resign, her time will be at her beck and call, the man shld continue working.
@op, come and see d solutn to ur grievance oo
Re: His Wife Earns Four Times His Salary And Someone Must Resign by IYANGBALI: 9:43pm On Oct 09, 2015
Ghost01:
There's nothing wrong with being an house-husband. Both the husband and the wife have equal stakes in a marriage. If the situation is the other way around, we won't even be having this discussion. There is nothing wrong with the man manning the kitchen. And which one is wash pant for his wife? She isn't disabled now, is she?
ghost01 washing woman's pants since 150AD grin

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Re: His Wife Earns Four Times His Salary And Someone Must Resign by saintkel(m): 9:44pm On Oct 09, 2015
raayah:

I think I will make a good wife
Amen
Re: His Wife Earns Four Times His Salary And Someone Must Resign by Nobody: 9:44pm On Oct 09, 2015
long thing my mom was a single mother and a banker she was busy but i managed to turn out right, there's no guarantee that a stay at mom would mean a good child, nothing stops me from smoking weed if i want to. so better they keep their jobs

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Re: His Wife Earns Four Times His Salary And Someone Must Resign by tpraiz(m): 9:45pm On Oct 09, 2015
D Man must Act like d father of d Home en quietly resign o:::::::::::I no fit shout 400 times ur pay...e no easy o
Re: His Wife Earns Four Times His Salary And Someone Must Resign by Nobody: 9:45pm On Oct 09, 2015
menix:


Funny..
1st Timothy 5 vs 8.. it's a sin for a man not to provide for his family..

Genesis 2 vs 18: God said, “It’s not good for the Man to be alone; I’ll make him a helper, a companion.”

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Re: His Wife Earns Four Times His Salary And Someone Must Resign by Lordseyad(m): 9:45pm On Oct 09, 2015
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Re: His Wife Earns Four Times His Salary And Someone Must Resign by harry509: 9:46pm On Oct 09, 2015
menix:
On my way home but this topic came up.

This family have got 2 kids and the kids lack parental care because the man and wife come in late.

The issue of Nanny is out of the option because they don't trust nannies and someone must resign to take care of the kids..

The problem here is that the wife earns four times(400%) the man's salary and the ladies salary goes a long way to sort the family expenses.

Please who do you advise to resign.
Should the man become a house husband

hmmmmM! D qustn is vry simple. Day care nko undecided or they don't av any relative they can bring in 2 care of their kids?
Re: His Wife Earns Four Times His Salary And Someone Must Resign by yomi007k(m): 9:47pm On Oct 09, 2015
menix:


1st Timothy 5 vs 8..

Agreed.

The man wud be providing protection, grooming, psychological and academic nessecities as his finances will not "provide enough"

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Re: His Wife Earns Four Times His Salary And Someone Must Resign by tunapius(m): 9:48pm On Oct 09, 2015
Missy89:
I dont need to read the post.

He should resign with immediate effect
lol, if dem carry hoe giv mad man, na him side he go hoe grass com

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