I don't believe this woman oh.

@firstytymum
Are u sure its ur husband that can't hold it or you..?? cos I remember a couple of days back u posted that u were patiently waiting for oga to come and 'encourage LO to come out' - lolz. So na you want am and no be oga. Oga shouldn't have too much problem. If you work on im with the other methods like olokings says, he'll be alright (at least 4 a bit). Its you that has the problem because no torchlightin or touchin of your down-under.

Anywayz, gibberish or no gibberish... You'll just have to wait until renovation work (to borrow 4rm olokings again) is complete down there. You are a dr so I don't think I have to explain the health effects to you, (lochia,infection,pain etc). You just have to explain it to him, get him a decoder for the gibberish if need be becos ur health is more important than a couple of mins of pleasure. Let him know that if you fall ill as a result of the gbenshin, he'll be the one to take care of your baby - changing diapers, singing & dancing all night long etc

I also don't think that oga sef would enjoy it if he logs in and finds out that his highway has expanded by two/three lanes or you sef begin to search for his truck/lorry on the highway....

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Amen o...

Na real kpians naim u be aswear.

See as u dey fain firsty mouth. ...

shawlar:

I don't believe this woman oh.

@firstytymum
Are u sure its ur husband that can't hold it or you..?? cos I remember a couple of days back u posted that u were patiently waiting for oga to come and 'encourage LO to come out' - lolz. So na you want am and no be oga. Oga shouldn't have too much problem. If you work on im with the other methods like olokings says, he'll be alright (at least 4 a bit). Its you that has the problem because no torchlightin or touchin of your down-under.

Anywayz, gibberish or no gibberish... You'll just have to wait until renovation work (to borrow 4rm olokings again) is complete down there. You are a dr so I don't think I have to explain the health effects to you, (lochia,infection,pain etc). You just have to explain it to him, get him a decoder for the gibberish if need be becos ur health is more important than a couple of mins of pleasure. Let him know that if you fall ill as a result of the gbenshin, he'll be the one to take care of your baby - changing diapers, singing & dancing all night long etc

I also don't think that oga sef would enjoy it if he logs in and finds out that his highway has expanded by two/three lanes or you sef begin to search for his truck/lorry on the highway....

olokings:
Buh kwaret packaging is adviced for the lay few weeks preceding delivery ooh. ... ...
So it's better mk DH collect 'em upfront top cover for the first few weeks after deliver. .
Abi u don't know that after momma experience her postpartum baby blues the dad also goes into postpartum depression. ....
That's wen touching body is needed for the reassurance that he will always be ur number one. ..
Else he go follow baby quarrel ooh. ...lol

*shaun Sir* Once again right on the money.
Na why I come amelica quick-quick b4 EDD so that wifey will take care of d one wey dey 4 storage before...
No be say I go dey on my way and then baby go come. E 4 pain me Additional 6 WEEKS..!!!!
Even now sef I dey warn my baby make e take am softly-softly wit the bosom...,
Na borrow I borrow am, make e no suck am finish...

I thought bosom na belle that time. ..

shawlar:


*shaun Sir* Once again right on the money.
Na why I come amelica quick-quick b4 EDD so that wifey will take care of d one wey dey 4 storage before...
No be say I go dey on my way and then baby go come. E 4 pain me Additional 6 WEEKS..!!!!
Even now sef I dey warn my baby make e take am softly-softly wit the bosom...,
Na borrow I borrow am, make e no suck am finish...

neks31:



Wow really!! Pls I love the dimples one for my baby o!! Anyways when I had my first baby d nurses asked me not even use soap and cream on d baby till one month!!! Tnx for d info tho!

Very interested! How is the dimple tinz done pls?

MiddyO:


Yep! Spot on. Very negligent set of ppl, Dr's don't remember patient's history, even with their IPad in front of them. (Grey's Anatomy wanna be).

They could not manage common contractions, adviced me to go home and watch it. Till pains graduated into labour and water broke. End of story.

Please shine ya eye o! I know things happen but this was gross negligence!

Thank God for restoration.

@Middy, Sorry about your previous loss. May you not experience another of such.

I'm not trying to discredit your statement but I used the hospital in question for both my pregnancies and they were quite professional and thorough.

My first preg was risky and I would have had a miscarriage but for the attention I got there.

Not l3ss than 3 of my friends including one that lost an earlier preg at a high brow hospital have used them and no negative report. The only thing is at the first sign of complication, they will want to push for CS instead of VD.

Another thing is their antenatal patients have multiplied greatly between last yr and now. So you spend a long time there for ANC checkups. I yabbed them that they've turned to General Hospital

I'm not trying to advertise for them but want to share my own experience.

For naija levels they were more than okay. But of course you can't compare that with the medical care here in yankee.

happytbaby:
I have always used my savings account to buy PTA.

As I don get alert.... Godwin!
Got PTA from sterling bank with a new savings account . Godwin

Misen:
Lax is truly a breeze,came in thru lax last month,was the only Nigerian pregnant lady on my flight from Paris to lax,
Cbp:what are u here for?
Me:vacation and childbirth...
Cbp:why did u decide to give birth here?
Me:better medical care
Scans my fingers
Asks me how much I have and how I intend paying I said cash,asks me to keep all my receipts and stamps me in for 6 months,no secondary inspection,no agriculture,just wheeled my bags out to the exit....I thank GOd for favour,using dr mbagwu and st Francis,patiently waiting for my lil one..

Congrats dear! How're u coping with the cost of living and accommodation in LA?

Gagat:


Very interested! How is the dimple tinz done pls?

Oh gosh....lol!...people...lets be real abeg...Dimples are a genetically inherited trait...its not something one soap or concotion will give you..Kai!

If your baby is going to have dimples, your baby will and its not going to be because of something you use or put on your baby.

firsttymum:
Shawlar
Olokings
Bigfido
And experienced mamas

I have a kweshun... Do u guys really abstain from kpekus till 6 weeks post delivery... I remember when I told my husband it was like I was speaking gibberish.

Well it all depends on individual really,some are ready b4 it...dats if all is well dwn dere....while some ve to abstain from kpekus till after 6weeks,especially if one had a tear...wif ma first baby i had a 3rd degree tear...so dat place was a no go area buh as soon as i went 4 post delivery checkup n was cleared...d kpekushing resumed full time without wasting time....sorry if dis is a bit vulgar.

omogedudu99:


@Middy, Sorry about your previous loss. May you not experience another of such.

I'm not trying to discredit your statement but I used the hospital in question for both my pregnancies and they were quite professional and thorough.

My first preg was risky and I would have had a miscarriage but for the attention I got there.

Not l3ss than 3 of my friends including one that lost an earlier preg at a high brow hospital have used them and no negative report. The only thing is at the first sign of complication, they will want to push for CS instead of VD.

Another thing is their antenatal patients have multiplied greatly between last yr and now. So you spend a long time there for ANC checkups. I yabbed them that they've turned to General Hospital

I'm not trying to advertise for them but want to share my own experience.

For naija levels they were more than okay. But of course you can't compare that with the medical care here in yankee.

This is life. Some have it good while some are not so lucky. Please I'm signing up for their pediatrics and I'm hoping I'm making the right choice.
Anyho, will try them out still.
@Middy sorry about then ( I think some of us have to go through the whole miscarriage/ preterm labour thing. Heart wrenching!
Like they say, what doesn't kill you makes you stronger.
Can't wait for you to hold this bundle in your arms (God has a way of making us forget)

olokings:
Seriously ladies. ..c'mon with all these concussions n applications put into practice wen medical expertise were not existent at the time.

The medical practices have had gaping leaps in development and after spending thousands of dols for these cuties una wan still baff n massage with concussions n palm oil...really. .weh even nafdac no give clearance haba...
Mk we tk am easy ooh.

The pead nurses who says give ur baby a sponge bath/rob instead of the regular one we dey do is because of the sensitivities of these babies' skin.

Bekoo let's tune down with all these self claiming babalawo weh we wan turn here. .....even in the village they have started using baby soaps. .lol. ..
Let's be cautious with what we apply onto their skin and even into their mouth. ...pls

Gbam!!!!! I almost thought I was in the wrong thread with all these palmoil, black soap (with plenty concoction), powder, dimples, etc

Powder is not good for babies, google it!!!

Palmoil prevents permanent body odor. Hello deodorant!!! Hello personal hygiene!!!

Olokings Oh boy eh... General Chai.... No b small lecture u lecture me o.

Shawlar make I no lie even as I dey tell hubby... Me sef dey wonder am. Chai I don read something today. As u come before edd to "Collect" trust me na so me I dey anticipate my own to do and come.
Na borrow u borrow am d bossom abi Hahahhahahaah... Can't stop laughing.

For some reasons my pillow feels so masculine kikikikikikikikiki

Me wey go tell person advice am sef.. My turn dey come.. It's looking very funny

Neks31 Chai I can imagine... But the important one is the before baby arrival.

Deeore lol...
Ayanuke IKR

OLOKINGS & SHAWLAR u guys got me laughing real hard.

Have you read the reviews for this hospital? I considered it before settling for Orlando cos the price was very affordable but I only heard and read not so good things (from the area where the Hospital is to the nurses bad attitude and insistEnce on speaking only spanish) so I fashied.

If you have and are still willing to go ahead, then please ignore my comment.

Amgizzie:
Hello my people, Thank you all for the information available here. its been a blessing for me. I want to apply for my visa at the end of the month. I plan to use Haileah Hospital atleast to even get a quote. I have gotten the hospital's response via email. They gave me a couple of doctor's to contact for the doctor's fees and appointment, unfortunately its been almost impossible getting thru to them. I intend staying in florida.

Has anyone used Haileah, or does anyone have a doctor's contact, email preferably or even phone number around florida?

Any advice or information will be appreciated. Even if its another affordable hospital within the miami area, I am open to suggestions pls.


Thanks

Especially for those in cold areas, this season is very harsh on adult skin not to talk of newborns.

olokings:
Seriously ladies. ..c'mon with all these concussions n applications put into practice wen medical expertise were not existent at the time.

The medical practices have had gaping leaps in development and after spending thousands of dols for these cuties una wan still baff n massage with concussions n palm oil...really. .weh even nafdac no give clearance haba...
Mk we tk am easy ooh.

The pead nurses who says give ur baby a sponge bath/rob instead of the regular one we dey do is because of the sensitivities of these babies' skin.

Bekoo let's tune down with all these self claiming babalawo weh we wan turn here. .....even in the village they have started using baby soaps. .lol. ..
Let's be cautious with what we apply onto their skin and even into their mouth. ...pls

The naija visa on arrival is for business visitors and you'll have to get a letter from immigration in abuja.

We did it for some business partners in my office and it was full of comma and k-leg.

And if you end up with the ETC, pls make copies o! My in-law has not been able to get her daughter's naija passport in Lagos cos she doesn't have a copy of the ETC to prove that she brought Her to naija legally (the girl is 3 now). She's planning to get it in the UK since they already have UK passports.

shawlar:


Just coming back from the Naija embassy people @ Comfort Inn.
They are not issuing visas and even the passports they are processing will take 4-6weeks before you can collect it... - like I said, not for me.
The man also said that instead of an ETC, i can apply for the visa online and there is an option of collecting it in MMA II when I arrive in Nigeria...
That is what he said oh...., I don't know if it will work and I'm not that adventurous to try it mesef...

@omogedudu99



Amen o! My dear everyone will speak from their personal experience.

I was admitted and my Gynae abandoned me till well after the incident happened. Didn't hand me over to another Gynae and no other was on ground till it was too late.

Nurses on night duty refused to attend to me even when I was in excruciating pain all night, I had to wake one up to even respond to my enquires after practically crawling to the Nurses station..

The nurse that eventually attended to me gave me a drip which on hind sight (sounds like ocytoxin) my body was on fire for about 45 mins and I was hot all over. Water broke 2ce in less than an hr after that.

While I was in the delivery room I was transfered to another room half way through the procedure while waiting for the placenta to emerge, with 'everything' hanging between my legs, because they needed the room for someone else.

Remains of the placenta were left behind, which was discovered 3 weeks later.

In another climate this would have been a mega Legal battle but I left it all to God.

In my current hospital the difference between the care @ GC and them is from here to heaven. Due diligence and apparent value for life is out of this world.

I don't wish this horrific experience on anyone, not even my enemy!

Need I say more?

Meehn. ....women una dey try sha ooooh....
24 gun shots salute...
#takesabow

MiddyO:
@omogedudu99



Amen o! My dear everyone will speak from their personal experience.

I was admitted and my Gynae abandone

Need I say more?

firsttymum:
honestly you took this out of my mouth.
Even ordinary powder with talc isn't good for a baby... Which powder doesn't have talc? It causes lung damage... But no matter how it's preached people still use it.. The way women pack it on babies body you'll wonder why the baby is so white...

Vaseline blue seal is good for baby skin. Sebamed baby soap is $5 approximately I know it's expensive it's very good too. There are different products made specifically for baby skin.

I think the excuse is that out mothers used it and nothing happened so we will use it. You've forgotten the people who made it for our mothers ain't the people making it today. Then it was genuinely for good health and skin... Now it's for more profit and how much more profit can b made plus the copy cats.

@firstymum did u get sebamed cleansing bar at Walmart online, I intend buying it along from Naija but couldn't get it from my regular store here, learnt its scarce. I used it for my first daughter till she was 18months.
What's coconut oil used for, u mentioned it in one of your post.

My oga don turn priest sef

I think men know this, esp when they see the stress you go through nursing a baby then they turn the celibacy button on, till the excitement of seeing a new baby wears out.
It is just innate.

olokings:
#18+ PG adviced. .

Now onto the main thing.

YES YES YES YES YES YES. ....even without doctors advice the usual waiting period with our layman sense was at least 8 - 10 weeks if ur body over scratch u....
If not omo it's to wait mk u experience one cycle sef. .

Buh sha ooh. .if weda cold too much there are other ways na ..u know as a babe u are weh u wan oppress the dudes in ur b4 b4 years and u don't want them to shine Congo bravado u know how u go about it...
B4 u work on him 1hr u will be the one waking him up sef.

Pls abeg tell am say no entry for now ooh, that category 6 tornado just drove rough through the highway and mtce work is yet to be completed as such road is closed down. ..mk he try the loop.

Even my doctor in his discharge notes said wifey should not lift anything heavier than 10 lbs so no carrying junior 2 sef. .only 3 for now because he's newborn n must feed.

Well are a doc. ...discuss n educate him further. ..then I'd say. ...this is a gud time and golden opportunity for you guys to experiment on ur sexuality of cranking n running ur engines without firing ur #pistons & #plungers ...


Again. .. #18+ PG is strongly advice. .. S.N.L.

That's my 2 naira. .lol...

shawlar:


hahahahaha....
This one no go only touch the heart, e go touch the pocket too cos I'm sure those immigration people in Nigeria would see it as a means of collecting dollar$$$ from me..... I have already started processing the etc

You haven't still gotten the etc? When did you apply? It takes a day to process na, and arrives overnight if you pay extra $20.

And like the mama above said, MAKE COPIES oooooo

MiddyO post=quote:


In my current hospital the difference between the care @ GC and them is from here to heaven. Due diligence and apparent value for life is out of this world.

I don't wish this horrific experience on anyone, not even my enemy!

Need I say more?

My HMO list them as a 2 star hospital, so no surprises

Sorry about your experience

Truck, highway, lorry! Three way lane, renovation work!

Y'all are smoking something in that US ooo!

shawlar:

I don't believe this woman oh.

@firstytymum
Are u sure its ur husband that can't hold it or you..?? cos I remember a couple of days back u posted that u were patiently waiting for oga to come and 'encourage LO to come out' - lolz. So na you want am and no be oga. Oga shouldn't have too much problem. If you work on im with the other methods like olokings says, he'll be alright (at least 4 a bit). Its you that has the problem because no torchlightin or touchin of your down-under.

Anywayz, gibberish or no gibberish... You'll just have to wait until renovation work (to borrow 4rm olokings again) is complete down there. You are a dr so I don't think I have to explain the health effects to you, (lochia,infection,pain etc). You just have to explain it to him, get him a decoder for the gibberish if need be becos ur health is more important than a couple of mins of pleasure. Let him know that if you fall ill as a result of the gbenshin, he'll be the one to take care of your baby - changing diapers, singing & dancing all night long etc

I also don't think that oga sef would enjoy it if he logs in and finds out that his highway has expanded by two/three lanes or you sef begin to search for his truck/lorry on the highway....

See as I de yinmu yinmu for you.
You don't need soap or a product to create dimples on baby cheeks.
You just depress both cheeks after each bath when they are just born and their skin is still malleable.

My baby wasn't born with dimples, so I tried it for a few days,(my pikin must get toro!) dres one tiny impression now when she cries or smiles.
I also did that bum one at d base of the spine. Dunno what it's for, but I think it looks pretty having dimples above d bum bum

bachangel:


Oh gosh....lol!...people...lets be real abeg...Dimples are a genetically inherited trait...its not something one soap or concotion will give you..Kai!

If your baby is going to have dimples, your baby will and its not going to be because of something you use or put on your baby.

favoredgal:


My HMO list them as a 2 star hospital, so no surprises

Sorry about your experience

Please enlighten us, what is GC so we can run far away from them o!

nefertitiram:


Please enlighten us, what is GC so we can run far away from them o!

Oga olokings I've literally read your reply like 3 times and loling !! Chaiii u r too funny and your choice of words na die!!! Tnx anyways I'm still celibate till thy spirit permits!

We bless God for restoration. Truly, you may never forget, but your next baby will bring a lot of joy into your life.

Can't wait for your to announce the good news!

MiddyO:


Nerf you know our stories are similar, I lost my own preg @ 22.5 weeks shortly after you. Private hospital on Bourdillon o!
My friend's sister almost died in the UK from infected CS site last year. Gross negligence ni o.

So UK too de struggle o, NHS isn't all that in my opinion

MumTee:


@firstymum did u get sebamed cleansing bar at Walmart online, I intend buying it along from Naija but couldn't get it from my regular store here, learnt its scarce. I used it for my first daughter till she was 18months.
What's coconut oil used for, u mentioned it in one of your post.

I ordered it here in d US from sebamed.com. In naija u can get it in health plus.

Don't know what the coconut oil is used for. It cldnt have been me mentioning coconut oil

nefertitiram:

Truck, highway, lorry! Three way lane, renovation work!

Y'all are smoking something in that US ooo!

serious something

Awwww MiddyO

OMG
Sorry about your experience
It must have been terrible... I'm so speechless

firsttymum u get question when u be answer already. Lolzzz I know say na this kind question u go ask.

If e fit colect am same day of delivery no problem, e no go kill. I knw of someone wey say husby collect am dat very day. Just try am, make u tell us ur experience. I cant shout. Lolzz

firsttymum:
Shawlar
Olokings
Bigfido
And experienced mamas

I have a kweshun... Do u guys really abstain from kpekus till 6 weeks post delivery... I remember when I told my husband it was like I was speaking gibberish.