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| Re: Being A Woman In Nigeria Is Hard Says A Nigerian Man On Facebook by TooNoisy(f): 5:48am On Nov 07, 2015 |
Stillfire: You must have scored an F9 in maths. How can one single woman represent 0.5% of the female population in Nigeria. Nigerian has approximately 85 million women. 0.5% of that will be about 425,000. How on earth is that even close to the number 1. No wonder you keep complaining about society being unfair to you. It's crystal clear you have no formal education apart from graduating from the school of madness. Your IQ must be less than your shoe size .... 10 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Being A Woman In Nigeria Is Hard Says A Nigerian Man On Facebook by TooNoisy(f): 5:49am On Nov 07, 2015 |
Stillfire: It is obvious the school was created for you. You must have been the first graduate from the school after spending so many extra years. I can bet you are now the S.I unit for madness. You obviously use these boring lines when you have been thoroughly disgraced! Stillfire: One does not always have to be assertive and dogged to be successful in life. Some people are lucky and don't display any of these traits yet they are very successful. Different personality traits can all be successful - the most important thing is discovering your talent and knowing how to profit from it. You obviously have no talent, so you need to be extra dogged to become anything in life. Then you mention society discriminates against people who deviate from the norm. If you had an education, you would know that life rewards people who deviate from the norm. The likes of Bill Gates, Larry Ellison, Paul Allen, Steve Jobs, Mark Zuckerburg actually deviated from the norm, that is why they are so successful in life today. Most of these guys dropped out of college (mostly Harvard) to start their businesses. Today they are very well rewarded for these deviations. If you had an education, you would know that doing what everyone else is doing will only make you mediocre in life. If you took any finance class you would understand that "no risk taken means very little return". Life itself rewards risk takers. Stillfire: These tiring lines are getting too lame. You have agreed that nothing is holding women back in Nigeria from becoming what they want to be and living the life they want to live. So why the hell did this useless thread get this long? It's because semi-illiterates like you want to play the victim card and no one is buying it anymore. If your parents refused to give you an education, there are several adult education classes and you are free to enroll in one. Your Phd from the school of madness may not help you though! 10 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Being A Woman In Nigeria Is Hard Says A Nigerian Man On Facebook by tyconcepts(f): 7:11am On Nov 07, 2015 |
Toonoisy pon da beat.... Lemme read back and comprehend before flipping my thumbs. 1 Like |
| Re: Being A Woman In Nigeria Is Hard Says A Nigerian Man On Facebook by TooNoisy(f): 6:09pm On Nov 07, 2015 |
We celebrate the emergence of the first democratically elected female governor in Nigeria. She is also the second woman to become Governor after Dame Virgy Etiaba. Just a shout out to the women making waves all across Nigeria. Those venturing into politics, academia, business, show biz, industry, entertainment, ministry, charity, tourism etc. These are the women making Nigeria proud. 10 Likes |
| Re: Being A Woman In Nigeria Is Hard Says A Nigerian Man On Facebook by Nobody: 9:51pm On Nov 07, 2015 |
TooNoisy: Let's not get carried away. They could be men in disguise.  1 Like |
| Re: Being A Woman In Nigeria Is Hard Says A Nigerian Man On Facebook by Stillfire: 10:49pm On Nov 07, 2015 |
TooNoisy: So you woke up very early on a Saturday morning when you should be enjoying your sleep to write this jargon  . You obviously didn’t sleep well last night. My words must have given you nightmares and destroyed all your sensibilities and cognitive faculties. Again, you are NOT saying anything new. Stop pilfering from the previous pages that have analyzed the issue before you jumped into a thread like a witch on a broom and polluted cyberspace with your idio.cy and witch craft. If you cannot get it into your thick, reta..rded olodo skull that the examples which you YOURSELF listed are assertive traits and one would need these traits despite ones personality to counter these discrimination and also understand the fact that assertiveness can only go as much if legislation is NOT used to assail these discriminatory practices and the fact that ignoring these discrimination does not counter the existence of it thereof and that this is forum and you have no rights whatsoever to dictate what topics should require discourse, then your parents should BLUDGEON and kill you bit by bit, hand today, leg tomorrow for wasting their funds on your education. If idiocy had a face it would be you and your entire lineage. Any time you allude to NL members without addressing the topic, you will be dealt with by ME. Try it once again and you would be DEFINITELY dealt with. If your idio.tic self cannot argue on a topic without emotional outbursts alluding to NL members, then you would be strategically dealt with by me from henceforth. I will personally deal with your passive aggression, stupidity, idiocy, social deviance, fraudulent contradictions, non sequitur logical fallacies irrespective of whose oxen is gored in your family from the suckling child to those who are about to kick the bucket, since you do not have anything better to do than to be senile degenerate and institute yourself as a decrepit nuisance on cyberspace. 11 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Being A Woman In Nigeria Is Hard Says A Nigerian Man On Facebook by Stillfire: 11:04pm On Nov 07, 2015 |
TooNoisy: You are stu..pid. Despite these strides your stupidity will not let you see contradictions the Nigerian female politician exhibits. We are still debating where to define marital age, there is no justice to protect you when your husband finally kicks your ghana must go from the house, during domestic violence incidence the police considers it as ‘family issues’, and you TooNoisy would be bludgeoned till your family members come in to remove the carcass and nonentity you have become from your husband's house, you are not even protected from marital rape, and some hotels in Nigeria have the effrontery to ban unaccompanied women from patronizing their businesses. And we have Nigerian women in politics? Lmao! And you are not embarrassed by these contradictions? You should be ASHAMED of yourself. E no go better for YOU and Nigerian female politicians. Olori buruku oshi!12 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Being A Woman In Nigeria Is Hard Says A Nigerian Man On Facebook by Stillfire: 11:11pm On Nov 07, 2015 |
Timbuktou: Naa not men in disguise, but women who would go there and do practically NOTHING, ZILCH, NADA for females.  5 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Being A Woman In Nigeria Is Hard Says A Nigerian Man On Facebook by Stillfire: 11:28pm On Nov 07, 2015 |
Chillisauce: Early retirement ke? No o. Saturday na rest day for moi, na im I log NL for evening come find Toonoisy wey don spread her tired ass, already dey shi.ttt everywhere since the 'wee' hours of the morning. Even if she no get work, at least kitchen work dey, laundry dey, I guess she no fit sleep well last night after my thorough onslaught and schooling. Must have been a lot of tossing and turning last night, make dey break o, make I go fight stillfire ...Odesco raised to the power for 10000000000!11 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Being A Woman In Nigeria Is Hard Says A Nigerian Man On Facebook by TooNoisy(f): 5:59am On Nov 08, 2015 |
Stillfire: I read the first paragraph and I didn't even need to read the rest of your rubbish. You are completely incapable to reasoning or problem solving. If someone consistently posts a few hours before you wake up everyday and you consistently post a few hours after the person's last post; does it occur to you the person may be in a different time zone? Have you ever heard time zone differences before? I am sure you haven't. Please check google. From the way you type, it is obvious you have never left your village neither do you have an education, so you know very little. My advice to you is to get a formal education so that you can be useful to the society. 8 Likes |
| Re: Being A Woman In Nigeria Is Hard Says A Nigerian Man On Facebook by TooNoisy(f): 6:05am On Nov 08, 2015 |
Stillfire: What a shame. You must come from the gutter. From your choice of words, one can only conclude you are a runs girl at best. But you type more like a road side asha*wo, not even a runs girl. I am sure that's how you and your colleagues in your industry communicate. Stop lying that Saturday is your rest day. You were up all night yesterday with different men, so they completely knocked you out. Obviously, you have run out of data so you needed some money to top up. My advice to you repeatedly is to become more connected to the world. You can't blame the society alone for your predicament. You got to blame yourself too. 8 Likes |
| Re: Being A Woman In Nigeria Is Hard Says A Nigerian Man On Facebook by TooNoisy(f): 6:20am On Nov 08, 2015 |
Stillfire: What a shame, your problem is that you have never left your village and the only education you have is what you read on Nairaland. Yes we have Nigerians in politics and they are succeeding. You will know that "some hotels" do no allow unaccompanied women from patronizing their business. You are in the business of patronizing hotels with different men, so you will know which ones allow unaccompanied women and which ones don't. The reason why some of these hotels ban unaccompanied women from patronizing their business is because of people like you! Once they see the way you are dressed, they automatically stop you, because they know what you came to do. I have gone unaccompanied for business meetings in several hotels in Nigeria - in Lagos, Abuja, PH, Kano etc. Obviously, from the way I was dressed, no one would think of stopping me because I didn't look like you (a run's girl). All the top hotels in Nigeria will allow unaccompanied women into them any day. They only tend to question those that are dressed like prosti*tutes (like you), because they know how you can bring their brand to disrepute. Again, try and beat your wife in Lagos state and see what happens. Olodo Stillfire, any incident of domestic violence can be reported to the police in Lagos State at least and it will be dealt with. Again, your lack of education wouldn't let you know. And what is marital rape again? You people have these problem when you end up marrying drug addicts. Sex is to be enjoyed in marriage, no need for rape. By the way, the punishment for rape in Nigeria is life imprisonment. Nigeria as a whole lacks enough laws and justice most times belong only to the rich. It is a general problem that affects everybody. But you needed to deviate so that it would seem you have a point. That's not what we are talking about on this thread. The thread started with how society demands that women should not be educated, should not have a job, should not have a car, should not buy expensive things. We all know that is a lie and a lie it will continue to be. Don't digress please. 12 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Being A Woman In Nigeria Is Hard Says A Nigerian Man On Facebook by Nobody: 7:19am On Nov 08, 2015 |
Stillfire, are you related to Shollypopzz?  cc Lalasticlala, Obinoscopy, dominique, I think you should come and check this thread. An alternate moniker came here to rain insults on me and as usual, their bias mod came to delete only posts directed at them. I wonder why Seun still kept him as a mod when he's bias.. |
| Re: Being A Woman In Nigeria Is Hard Says A Nigerian Man On Facebook by zeb04(f): 7:44am On Nov 08, 2015 |
too much whining. nobody gives you anything, you take it. society don't give you jack. at 21, I got a job,got my very first house and moved in. I don't like whining. I don't like self pity but also I understand everyone is not like me. 6 Likes |
| Re: Being A Woman In Nigeria Is Hard Says A Nigerian Man On Facebook by TooNoisy(f): 8:00am On Nov 08, 2015 |
zeb04: I don't take people like them seriously. Tara started her make up business at age 20. Now, she owns many franchises. Lot's of young women have created new industries on their own. Even in the corporate world, a lot of Senior Management are women, even executive management. Some of these young female executives are under 35. Just google Tosin Otitoju and see what she has become. Even in the engineering field, there are female EDs in the IOCs. Total, Shell, etc all have female EDs. Then someone is here crying her mother told her not to go to school, buy a car, get a job. What a joke. Stillfire cannot know the young successful women I have mentioned on this thread. They are not her crowd. The stories she will have are one uneducated alhaji she is doing runs with. The alhaji (with many wives) probably sent his sons to school and did not educate his daughters. She them concludes that is how the whole of Nigeria is. Stillfire, I am not in your league neither am I your class. You can keep writing stories about the uneducated alhajis that you sleep with here on Nairaland, I will continue to give examples of young, hardworking women who are doing us proud everywhere. But some of these people are just trolls. A few week back the same people were arguing that women are now becoming the heads of the home and making the money while men don't do anything. See the thread below. They are just confused and argue different things everyday. https://www.nairaland.com/2509348/reality-men-fast-losing-positions 10 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Being A Woman In Nigeria Is Hard Says A Nigerian Man On Facebook by Nobody: 8:04am On Nov 08, 2015 |
zeb04:True! Being poor in Nigeria/anywhere is hard. For example, between Linda Ikeji and her gateman, who's having it easier? 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Being A Woman In Nigeria Is Hard Says A Nigerian Man On Facebook by Nobody: 8:33am On Nov 08, 2015 |
Stillfire: Blah, blah, blah. Were they elected to be women's advocates? Are elected male politicians supposed to go and do something for males? *insert roll-on-floor-laughter emoji here. They are servants of the public, elected to serve the public, that's the entire male and female public by the way. I couldn't care less if they did practically NOTHING, ZILCH, NADA FOR WOMEN. Politicians who want to be gender advocates better look for an NGO to join. We don't need such unserious people holding public office. 10 Likes |
| Re: Being A Woman In Nigeria Is Hard Says A Nigerian Man On Facebook by Nobody: 9:28am On Nov 08, 2015 |
TooNoisy How do you explain the fact that Nigeria ranked 118 (out of 142 countries) in 2014 in the global gender gap index? 5 Likes |
| Re: Being A Woman In Nigeria Is Hard Says A Nigerian Man On Facebook by Adaeze003(f): 10:37am On Nov 08, 2015 |
Mindfulness: No body is saying things are perfect in Nigeria but things are definitely changing. Instead of cry on nl about the problems, go out there and DO something about it. Raining insults on NL will not put Nigeria in a better position on that list. Is anyone physically prohibiting you from living the way you want? Are there laws you don't like? If yes... Where are seminars, peaceful protests, walks, other events to create real-time and real world awareness? What exactly are you DOING to change the situation? Talk is cheap. #stop crying, start doing. Oh... I know you didn't ask me sha but... just saying. 4 Likes |
| Re: Being A Woman In Nigeria Is Hard Says A Nigerian Man On Facebook by Nobody: 10:41am On Nov 08, 2015 |
Mindfulness: That one dey easy nah.... Nigerian women are about the laziest and the most self entitled women on the planet Considering the amount of time they spend whining, I am shocked Nigeria does not rank 142 out of 142 on the gender gap index  4 Likes |
| Re: Being A Woman In Nigeria Is Hard Says A Nigerian Man On Facebook by Nobody: 10:44am On Nov 08, 2015 |
njokusboy: LMAO |
| Re: Being A Woman In Nigeria Is Hard Says A Nigerian Man On Facebook by Nobody: 10:55am On Nov 08, 2015 |
Adaeze003: Far from perfect but you are right things are fortunately and ultimately changing. Thank God. Instead of cry on nl about the problems, go out there and DO something about it. Talking about problems is not the same as crying. Addressing such issues is important. It doesn't mean that nothing else is done. Is anyone physically prohibiting you from living the way you want? Are there laws you don't like? If yes... It is not about prohibition. The thread is more about the mentality so many people in this country have, which needs to be changed and so we need to talk about it. Addressing issues and frustrations that bother people is not the same as crying or whining. Discourse is important and I agree with you, I appreciate it more when it is free of insults. TooNoisy is mentioning Linda Ikeji here and how she is a great example and role-model and I agree with her on this but it doesn't change the fact that you will find plenty of comments online, which are degrading to her because the lady is not yet married. It also doesn't change the fact that the same lady is circumcised and has been deprived of one of the greatest and most natural pleasures a human being can enjoy and that is s.exual intimacy. This is unheard of, it is the 21st century, we need to talk about such and similar issues. Where are seminars, peaceful protests, walks, other events to create real-time and real world awareness? What exactly are you DOING to change the situation? Talk is cheap. Sponsoring education. #stop crying, start doing. I never cry. I am a HAPPY person having lots of fun. Oh... I know you didn't ask me sha but... just saying. I appreciate your input nevertheless. 2 Likes |
| Re: Being A Woman In Nigeria Is Hard Says A Nigerian Man On Facebook by Kimoni: 2:11pm On Nov 08, 2015 |
njokusboy: yeye buoy!! |
| Re: Being A Woman In Nigeria Is Hard Says A Nigerian Man On Facebook by Ewuro4: 2:58pm On Nov 08, 2015 |
CRY ME A RIVER!! Being a human is hard in every continent Who's stopping who from what? Society, fûck society. When A LARGE % of an average naija woman's lifelong dream is to find Prince Charming to sweep off her feet and GIVE her the world after her tertiary education?? What do you expect?? Let them change their gimme gimme mentality and let's see if things won't change for better as a whole. I knew my goals and aspirations right from my teenage years , never heard of the F word in my entire life but my firm upbringing shaped my Independent mentality and funnily men (from anywhere) find this very impressive and want to be associated with you as a lady. So them being threatened ? I don't get it. So I'll continue to rant my NL mantra to women wether y'all like it or not, kpatapata you call me names, so here it goes: GO GET YALL HANDS DIRTY AND STOP WAITING FOR A RICH MAN TO CURE YOUR FAMILY'S POVERTY. 1 Like |
| Re: Being A Woman In Nigeria Is Hard Says A Nigerian Man On Facebook by Ewuro4: 3:05pm On Nov 08, 2015 |
Mindfulness @your last post. Common! I expect much from you  , people will always talk, people will never stop, never. And this is not only peculiar to Nigeria alone, its everywhere. Or you want to change ALL the naysayers mentality? Good luck on that. |
| Re: Being A Woman In Nigeria Is Hard Says A Nigerian Man On Facebook by Nobody: 3:07pm On Nov 08, 2015 |
Mindfulness: Please, provide a source to this data. Thanks. |
| Re: Being A Woman In Nigeria Is Hard Says A Nigerian Man On Facebook by Ewuro4: 3:19pm On Nov 08, 2015 |
Timbuktou: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Global_Gender_Gap_Report Refer to the key. Equality being ranked 1.0, the highest overall ranking is 0.7 (North America& Assie) ... Yes it's a problem EVERYWHERE, but I don't see other countries crying about it, THEY TACKLE IT FOR CHANGE.
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| Re: Being A Woman In Nigeria Is Hard Says A Nigerian Man On Facebook by Nobody: 3:19pm On Nov 08, 2015 |
| Re: Being A Woman In Nigeria Is Hard Says A Nigerian Man On Facebook by cococandy(f): 4:04pm On Nov 08, 2015 |
Pls how do people tackle a problem without talking about it? All these posts aimed at shushing the OP doesn't make sense to me in that way. We talk online about child abuse, we talk about jungle justice etc and anything we feel isn't happening the way it should. I don't see that as whining. No problem is ever addressed by shutting up about it. I don't get the logic. 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Being A Woman In Nigeria Is Hard Says A Nigerian Man On Facebook by Nobody: 4:17pm On Nov 08, 2015 |
Timbuktou: http://reports.weforum.org/global-gender-gap-report-2014/rankings/ |
| Re: Being A Woman In Nigeria Is Hard Says A Nigerian Man On Facebook by raumdeuter: 4:24pm On Nov 08, 2015 |
Mindfulness: Do people not say the same thing about DBanj, Don Jazzy, Timaya even S3un the owner of NL Only that men dont whine about it. they just feel its part of living. People would talk regardless |
| Re: Being A Woman In Nigeria Is Hard Says A Nigerian Man On Facebook by Nobody: 4:28pm On Nov 08, 2015 |
Ewuro4: I believe in change. I believe in progress. I believe that we were ALL born to evolve. Animals, people, nations and the globe. It has always been like this and it always will be. The Internet is a beautiful medium to accelerate the process, which we are always the slowest at. Wishing you a beautiful Sunday. |
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